Maintaining a healthy relationship

EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

4. **Nonverbal Communication:** Pay attention to nonverbal cues such as body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice, as these often convey additional meaning beyond words. Being aware of these cues can help you better understand your partner's feelings and intentions.

5. **Setting Boundaries:** Clearly communicating your boundaries and respecting your partner's boundaries is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship. This includes boundaries related to physical intimacy, personal space, and emotional needs.

6. **Conflict Resolution:** Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, but how it's handled can make a significant difference. Healthy communication involves addressing conflicts calmly, listening to each other's perspectives, finding compromises, and seeking solutions together.

7. **Regular Check-ins:** Regularly checking in with each other about your relationship, feelings, and needs can help prevent misunderstandings and build stronger emotional connections. This can be done through informal conversations or scheduled meetings.

By prioritizing effective communication in your relationship, you can create a supportive and fulfilling connection with your partner

*THE A, B, C OF INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE*

A: Always love your spouse.

B: Believe in each other.

C: Celebrate each other often.

D: Don't argue but always reason together.

E: Expect imperfections from your spouse.

F: Fix solutions to problems on time.

G: Go for a walk together once a week.

H: Hold each other's hands often.

I: Ignite the passion in your spouse daily.

J: Just laugh over issues worth criticizing.

K: Kill the spirit of unhealthy competition.

L: Let your spouse know your movements.

M: Make love like newly weds.

N: No separate room for you both.

O: Oppose any intruder or third party.

P: Pray together always.

Q: Quality time should be spent together.

R: Resist every temptation of infidelity.

S: Stay positive to each other's vision.

T: Take no record of past offence.

U: Utilize every opportunity to bond.

V: Visualize a glorious future together.

W: Win each other's admiration daily.

X: X-ray your lives together.

Y: Yell not at each other for any reason.

Z: Zip your mouth when you're angry.

*THE COST OF A HAPPY HOME*

When you see a happy couple, don't envy them or assume they are lucky to find each other. *There is no happy home anywhere* - if you see any be sure they were made. *Being a good person or being religious* doesn't make a happy home *neither does riches and wealth.* Marrying the *most beautiful woman or the most handsome man* doesn't guarantee happiness in marriage either. *Many believers even think marrying another good believer is a sure way to having a happy home but many have been disappointed.*

What then makes up a happy home? *A happy home is a function of mutual fulfilment derived from mutual selfless commitment to the marital union.* Having a happy home can only be achieved by deliberate efforts and determination of both parties. No matter how much a partner desires a happy home, *it can only happen if the other partner wants and agrees to build a happy home.*

To achieve a happy home, *therefore both parties must first offer themselves as a living sacrifice on the altar of their marriage.* They must deny themselves and be willing to accept their cross.

*In a happy home, ego and self are buried in the grave of marital bliss.* Partners in a happy home don't think too much about themselves but the happiness of their spouse.

*The journey to a happy home can be initiated by the man or the woman.* This journey starts with *contentment and diligence.* Then it continues in daily *forgiveness and mutual tolerance.*

*No couple is happy when they continue to look at each other's weaknesses or offences.* They can only be happy if they *choose to accept each other's* shortcomings and offenses and take their pains and hurts to the Almighty God, instead of romancing with them. Happy couples *don't win arguments,* rather, they communicate to achieve a better union.

*Happy couples don't compare their marriage with others,* they are happy and contented with what they have.

Happy homes are not meant for selfish and inconsiderate partners. Happiness is a choice but the price is not cheap. *Only the humble and the broken can buy it.*

The manual for a happy home is not designed by the society or social media. *They are designed by the couple.* The ideal home mustn't follow the acceptable trends in the society rather working and practicing what makes the parties happy.

You can initiate the journey to a happy home today no matter how far you have traveled in the path of bitterness and unforgiveness. *An unhappy home is the junior sibling to hell fire.* A happy home is a reflection of heavenly bliss. The choice is yours today.

*Give Peace a chance in your marriage.*

How old were you when you discovered that Mr means “ Matured & Responsible” and Mrs means “Matured , Responsible & Submissive”???

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In a marriage, each partner is to be an encourager rather than a critic, a forgiver rather than a collector of hurts, an enabler rather than a reformer.

Success in marriage is less about doing the big things and more about doing those little things day after day.

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7 BEST TIMES TO KISS YOUR PARTNER

For those who have people they romantically involved with, you know the best time to kiss your partner. Kissing someone you love is always special and you'll definitely cherish it all the way.

1.When saying goodbye: When you know you won’t see your for a while, leaving them is torturous. Your last few minutes together will involve a lot of hugging and kissing. You never want the moment to end, so you aim to make it as special as possible. It’s one of the best times to be kissed, because it’s what has to hold you over for the next few weeks, and you have to make it memorable.
2.While hidden away: When you and your are stuck in the house with your parents, or out at dinner with your friends, you can’t wait for your two seconds of privacy. Maybe it’ll come when you two volunteer to get drinks out of the fridge, or when your friends are parking their car. Whenever the moment comes, you take advantage of it. Since you’ve been around others for so long, you make your private kiss count.
3.After making up: You had a huge fight, and said some you regret. You’re both finally ready to apologize, and all of that anger is converted into s*xual energy. You’re so glad that the argument is over that you’re going to take full advantage of the situation. You won’t be able to pry your hands off of each other.
4.When crying: You’re bawling your out over something that doesn’t concern him, but he’s there to help you through it. Now, this isn’t the time for a full blown make-out session. It is, of course, a perfect for him to hold you close and kiss your forehead. It’s a comforting gesture that shows that you’re not alone. He’s there for you, and he wants you to know it.
5.In the middle of the night: If you’re lucky enough to fall asleep under the same covers, you know how sweet a midnight kiss can be. You’re half asleep, but you wake up in the middle of the night. Your mind is still foggy, but you’re able to kiss him, and fall back asleep into his . There’s no better feeling.
6.During commercials: What's better than television? When you're watching your favorite show with your by your side, you don't want them to distract you from the story line. However, when the commercials come on, they're free to drag you back to reality. Kisses during commercials are fun, because you have to savor them. You know they'll only last a short while, because you'll be forced to stop once The Walking Dead comes back on.
7.In the car: When you're driving to your favorite date spot, you actually hope that you'll get stopped at lights. It gives you a to sneak a quick kiss in. Cars don't seem all that romantic, but with the right music blasting and the right scenery outside, they're a romantic spot.

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CHECK THE LABEL. IS HE SUBMITTED TO GOD?

If a man is not submitted 2 God, he will not have D capacity 2 love U D way U want 2 be loved.He'll be moving in his own understanding & this leaves U at D mercy of someone who has no accountability 2 anyone other than himself 4 his action.

U want a man whose heart is so tender & turned 2 God that when he decides 2 clown,God will tap him on D shoulder & say" Hey, buddy,U know that wasn't right"

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Wedding nights for several couples hold different special meanings.

For all couples, it’s special because it’s the first night they’ll be spending in matrimony; for others, it’s special because it’s the first they will be spending together ever, and most of all… [Insert Nollywood suspense sounds here]
For some couples, it’ll be the first night they will be having s*x [could be first time ever, or first time as a couple; all na first time.]
So, how do we make the actual act as special as the night?
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Avocados
One way is by ingesting a few magical foods. Yeah, experts say there are certain nutrients that can improve your s*x life.
So, here are five easily accessible foods you should eat to ensure bomb s*x on your wedding night.
Avocados
These are just perfect to get your heart pumping properly, and blood flowing well. [Good blood flow is particularly good for your Groom, if you know what I mean. *wink*]
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Sweet Potatoes
Rich in vitamin E, potassium, vitamin B6, and other vital nutrients, this super-fruit is just ideal for a healthy s*x life.
Sweet potatoes
This food is sweet, and can also help spread sweetness into you. [Haha, I see you smiling, Brides, and Brides-to-be.]
Sweet potatoes are an excellent source of potassium and vitamin A.

Watermelons
More magical stuff about sweet potatoes, they’re said to help in fighting blood pressure.
[NB: Blood pressure leads to erectile dysfunction.]
Watermelons
Low in calories and rich in phytonutrients, watermelons are a secret bedroom weapon. It’s been discovered that watermelons relax blood vessels, which in turn, helps to strengthen your libido.

Maintaining a healthy relationship

SUSTAINING A CHRISTAIN HOME
Things that will help you sustain a Christian home.
1. Lay Your Foundation On The Rock: The foundation of the building determines to a very large extent what happens to it. For your home to be sustained, you must lay your foundation upon the Rock, in the person of Jesus Christ. How do you lay your foundation of your marriage upon the Rock? By making Jesus Christ the central focus in your home and allowing Him take His rightful place.
2. Fulfill your marriage responsibilities: Marriage has responsibilities attached to it. The man and the woman must co-operate in fulfilling their responsibilities, so that the home can be sustained.
3. No Hide-and-Seek Game: For the home to be sustained, both the man and the woman must be open to each other. There should be no occasion to hide something from another.
4. Wisdom-The principle Thing: Wisdom is the principle tool for sustenance. Both the man and the woman must constantly ask God the wisdom in handling the day to day affairs of their home.
5.Constantly give God glory: As you take the step mentioned above, and enjoy the peace an blessings of God in your home, constantly give God back all the glory.

SUSTAINING A CHRISTAIN HOME
Things that will help you sustain a Christian home.
1. Lay Your Foundation On The Rock: The foundation of the building determines to a very large extent what happens to it. For your home to be sustained, you must lay your foundation upon the Rock, in the person of Jesus Christ. How do you lay your foundation of your marriage upon the Rock? By making Jesus Christ the central focus in your home and allowing Him take His rightful place.
2. Fulfill your marriage responsibilities: Marriage has responsibilities attached to it. The man and the woman must co-operate in fulfilling their responsibilities, so that the home can be sustained.
3. No Hide-and-Seek Game: For the home to be sustained, both the man and the woman must be open to each other. There should be no occasion to hide something from another.
4. Wisdom-The principle Thing: Wisdom is the principle tool for sustenance. Both the man and the woman must constantly ask God the wisdom in handling the day to day affairs of their home.
5.Constantly give God glory: As you take the step mentioned above, and enjoy the peace an blessings of God in your home, constantly give God back all the glory.

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5 WAYS TO MOVE ON FROM A BREAK-UP WITHOUT BITTERNESS
We all hope to fall in love and never have to get over the blissful feeling.
Several times, however, love disappears and what is left is sadness, disappointment, hurt and pain.
So, how do you move from this negative emotions, and leave them all behind totally?

Understand why you had to call it quits
You might not be able to let go when you don’t even know why you had to call it quits in the first instance.
Knowing just why you both had to breakup makes it easier for you to accept reality; and one of the ways to do that is by accepting that you tried all you could to no avail.
It might not make sense now, but soon, it will.
Learn from it all
What’s the point of going through all the drama, hurt and disappointment only to go back and repeat the same mistakes?
You need to learn from this experience – not just the good ones, but the bad, too.

Give yourself all the time you need
The pain might go deep and hurt real bad but, of course, time heals it all.
Give yourself all the time you need. You should ensure to heal completely.

Stay away from the person
It won’t help if you break up with someone and you keep on hanging around the person all the time.
You have... no, you need to avoid places where you know you might bump into them.
Change routine, unfollow them on all social media platforms [seriously you’ll be hurting yourself by stalking them. You might even want to consider blocking them altogether.]

Focus on yourself
Some relationships often hinder your personal growth, as most of the things you’re used to doing are with your partner.
This time, you have nothing else to think about but yourself. Take it as a chance to get back on track, and develop yourself.
Breaking up might just be a blessing in disguise.

Let new people in
Letting go is always difficult, but that doesn’t mean you block out yourself for life.
Don’t shy away from making new friends and allowing the friendship develop into something more.
For some, the only way to get over the hurt is by letting a new person in.
That might just be all you need. Embrace it.

Wedding nights for several couples hold different special meanings.

For all couples, it’s special because it’s the first night they’ll be spending in matrimony; for others, it’s special because it’s the first they will be spending together ever, and most of all… [Insert Nollywood suspense sounds here]
For some couples, it’ll be the first night they will be having s*x [could be first time ever, or first time as a couple; all na first time.]
So, how do we make the actual act as special as the night?
play

Avocados
One way is by ingesting a few magical foods. Yeah, experts say there are certain nutrients that can improve your s*x life.
So, here are five easily accessible foods you should eat to ensure bomb s*x on your wedding night.
Avocados
These are just perfect to get your heart pumping properly, and blood flowing well. [Good blood flow is particularly good for your Groom, if you know what I mean. *wink*]
play

Sweet Potatoes
Rich in vitamin E, potassium, vitamin B6, and other vital nutrients, this super-fruit is just ideal for a healthy s*x life.
Sweet potatoes
This food is sweet, and can also help spread sweetness into you. [Haha, I see you smiling, Brides, and Brides-to-be.]
Sweet potatoes are an excellent source of potassium and vitamin A.

Watermelons
More magical stuff about sweet potatoes, they’re said to help in fighting blood pressure.
[NB: Blood pressure leads to erectile dysfunction.]
Watermelons
Low in calories and rich in phytonutrients, watermelons are a secret bedroom weapon. It’s been discovered that watermelons relax blood vessels, which in turn, helps to strengthen your libido.

CHECK THE LABEL. IS HE SUBMITTED TO GOD?

If a man is not submitted 2 God, he will not have D capacity 2 love U D way U want 2 be loved.He'll be moving in his own understanding & this leaves U at D mercy of someone who has no accountability 2 anyone other than himself 4 his action.

U want a man whose heart is so tender & turned 2 God that when he decides 2 clown,God will tap him on D shoulder & say" Hey, buddy,U know that wasn't right"

Until U give Ur marriage 100% to God & stop taking everything personal, it will always be a struggle. Trust Him with Ur struggles & life is grand
Their is a hidden joy in our marriage that can never be revealed until we lay the desires of our flesh on D altar of sacrifice & allow God 2 wash Us of our selfish ways.

When U let D friendship die
When U hurt each other on purpose
When U ignore problem that needs 2 be addressed
When U lose D romance
When U put Ur relationship at D back burner
When U never see things 4rm Ur spouse perceptive
When U take Ur spouse 4 granted
When U make time 4 every thing BUT Ur marriage
When U stop making Ur spouse needs priority
U ARE RUINING UR MARRIAGE.

When I hear a married man says "Thank God I married this woman";),trust me, it has absolutely nothing 2 do with her body.
Guys don't be fooled, consider her heart B4 her body. A good woman's treasure is her heart.
There are beautiful, Sexy, smart, intelligent girls everywhere, but a good wife is from D Lord
Living with another person is not a child's play,U need understanding so get 2 work.

EVERY MARRIAGE RESTS ON FOUR LEGS.

ACCEPTING ...
SUPPORTING ...
CHALLENGING.....
WORD.....

That's really it... isn't it?

U want Ur marriage to be grounded in ACCEPTING ({}) each other as U are.

On SUPPORTING each other through the inevitable ups & downs.

On CHALLENGING each other to become more... to grow... to flourish together

On the WORD of God to light Ur path daily & teach U more about Ur marriage.

When God made Adam & Eve, He told them what 2 do & gave them authority 2 do it -& so it is with U. God created U 4 a purpose, now walk in D authority He has already given U 2 accomplish that purpose.
Walking in purpose causes U 2 be a solution in Ur marriage problems while saying NO causes U 2 be Ur spouse's problem. It's time 2 say YES! so U can be in God's order & not Ur chaos!

A wife is a gift from God. Gifts must be received & opened in order 2 benefit.
Open Ur heart 2 D gifts Ur wife brings 2U.

Helpmeet also means " a helper with a different opinion or perspective." Listen 2 Ur wife's unique perspective. She's trying 2 help.

Woman, and when you're giving Ur opinion, don't act like U know it all. He's still D head & U still have 2 give him D honor 2 decide.

One of the qualities U should look out for in Ur spouse to be is HUMILITY.

Look for a person who can admit his or her mistakes, apologize & make amends for hurtful actions.

If U marry Mr or Miss Right (they always think they are right)

It is difficult to have a satisfying relationship.

Humility is important in a relationship and is also a key factor in spiritual progress for both of U.

39 ANCIENT WISDOM TIPS FOR SINGLES ON MARRIAGE
1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime.
2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.
3. Silence can never be misquoted.
4. If you want what no one has had, do what no one has done.
5. When God wants to bless you, he puts a person in your life; when Satan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life.
6. It is better to be single and alone, than to be married to the wrong person.
7. Avoid a contentious woman.
8. 3 Men to avoid: a. A womanizer b. A hot tempered man c. A drunkard.
9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.
10. Never be yoked to anyone who refuses to be yoked to Christ.
11. 3 words that echo peace in marriage: a. I am sorry b. Thank you c. I love you.
12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness.
13. Co-habitation is a recipe for marital failure.
14. Deal with anti-marriage dreams.
15. Ma********on is destructive.
16. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without sun.
17. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with a person who will bury your destiny.
18. A successful marriage is always a triangle: A man, A woman, God.
19. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.
20. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice.
21. A man needs divine wisdom from God in choosing who to marry.
22. Do not place your priority on good looks: no woman is ugly: she only needs 'rebranding'.
23. 3 Major characteristics to look for in a woman: 1. Fear of God, 2. Wisdom, 3. Discretion (Beauty is vain).
24. The best way to enslave a woman is to show love to her excessively-as a rule, women do not run away from where they are pampered.
25. Love is not blind, infatuation and lust is blind.
26. Love puts God first, Lust puts s*x first.
27. Test every love with your peace of mind, if peace of mind is absent, God is not in it.
28. If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends.
29. Caring hearts never lack caring hands.
30. Desperation leads to frustration.
31. Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin.
32. Keep yourself pure and your bed undefiled.
33. It is spiritual insanity to plan on converting someone so you can marry the person.
34. Wage war against the devil that fought your parents' marriage.
35. Marriage is a covenant, always look before you leap.
36. It is better to be single and believing God to be married than to be married and believing God to be single.
37. A broken courtship is better than a failed marriage.
38. Do not marry money or property, marry a person.
39. Be presentable....

7 BEST TIMES TO KISS YOUR PARTNER

For those who have people they romantically involved with, you know the best time to kiss your partner. Kissing someone you love is always special and you'll definitely cherish it all the way.

1.When saying goodbye: When you know you won’t see your for a while, leaving them is torturous. Your last few minutes together will involve a lot of hugging and kissing. You never want the moment to end, so you aim to make it as special as possible. It’s one of the best times to be kissed, because it’s what has to hold you over for the next few weeks, and you have to make it memorable.
2.While hidden away: When you and your are stuck in the house with your parents, or out at dinner with your friends, you can’t wait for your two seconds of privacy. Maybe it’ll come when you two volunteer to get drinks out of the fridge, or when your friends are parking their car. Whenever the moment comes, you take advantage of it. Since you’ve been around others for so long, you make your private kiss count.
3.After making up: You had a huge fight, and said some you regret. You’re both finally ready to apologize, and all of that anger is converted into s*xual energy. You’re so glad that the argument is over that you’re going to take full advantage of the situation. You won’t be able to pry your hands off of each other.
4.When crying: You’re bawling your out over something that doesn’t concern him, but he’s there to help you through it. Now, this isn’t the time for a full blown make-out session. It is, of course, a perfect for him to hold you close and kiss your forehead. It’s a comforting gesture that shows that you’re not alone. He’s there for you, and he wants you to know it.
5.In the middle of the night: If you’re lucky enough to fall asleep under the same covers, you know how sweet a midnight kiss can be. You’re half asleep, but you wake up in the middle of the night. Your mind is still foggy, but you’re able to kiss him, and fall back asleep into his . There’s no better feeling.
6.During commercials: What's better than television? When you're watching your favorite show with your by your side, you don't want them to distract you from the story line. However, when the commercials come on, they're free to drag you back to reality. Kisses during commercials are fun, because you have to savor them. You know they'll only last a short while, because you'll be forced to stop once The Walking Dead comes back on.
7.In the car: When you're driving to your favorite date spot, you actually hope that you'll get stopped at lights. It gives you a to sneak a quick kiss in. Cars don't seem all that romantic, but with the right music blasting and the right scenery outside, they're a romantic spot.

7 REASONS WHY YOUR FIRST LOVE MADE YOU A BETTER PERSON

Can anyone forget their first love?
No one really forgets who they first fell in love with and how they got their hearts broken. But also dwelling on the past isn't good for your future relationship. You can always look back at your first love with nostalgic feelings, try to understand what made falling in love so special and how it has made you a better person.

1.First love showed us what is like to be in love: No matter the outcome, feeling the most incredible emotion for the first time is a feeling you’ll never forget. It’s OK to preserve those memories, but have in mind, while emotions stay the same – people can change. Accepting the change is the first step towards moving on.
2.First love taught us how to love our new partner: Think of your first love as an experiment. Sometimes things turn out OK and sometimes they don’t. When you learn what to appreciate in a relationship, you’ll have a better relationship with your next partner.
3.First love taught us to make compromises: People need to let go of their ego if they want their relationship to last. Compromise is the root of every relationship.
4.First love showed us what it’s like having someone who to lean on: It’s a great feeling having someone who is there when you’re facing difficult times in your life. First love taught us the importance of having that person in our lives.
5.First love taught us to solve our own problems: First love taught us that love needs time and communication. If we want to succeed in something, we’re going to be faced with failures and mistakes that we need to overcome.
6.First love made us better people: Maybe you haven’t been rejected, maybe the break up was a mutual decision and maybe you were the one who ended things. You can learn a lot from your first love, you can improve your confidence and become a better you!
7.First love allowed us to love again: You’ve opened your heart once, that means you can do it again.

6 WAYS TO HAVE A LOVING MARRIAGE AND WONDERFUL KIDS

Balancing married life with kids could be really tasking for couples and could put a strain on the close relationship you once had with your significant other before the kids came rolling in.

1.Identify and express your needs to one another (kindly): This requires strong communication skills. It does no good to accuse your spouse of prioritizing the children over you, particularly if you are not helping with their daily care. However, most spouses respond well to comments made in love such as, "I miss spending time with you." Or, "I miss the talks we used to have." Expressing one’s feelings using "I" language is much better than accusatory language using "you" as in, "You never put my needs first." Keeping your feelings and needs from your spouse only increases your distance.
2.Find time each day to reconnect and communicate about non-child matters: My husband and I have recently begun taking 15 minutes after dinner to talk together in our sun room. We ask the children to play or read on their own for that short amount of time. (The youngest is still learning to not interrupt us. The oldest finds it helpful to set a timer.) Find a time in your day that works for you. It’s amazing how a short time each day can help you feel reconnected. Light conversation about your day is ideal. Complaining or criticizing during this sacred time will only discourage your spouse from wanting to spend time together. I got this idea from William Doherty’s Take Back Your Marriage, which has other helpful tips about putting your marriage first.
3.Get creative about time you spend together: Many of us have difficulty scheduling traditional date nights due to lack of childcare of time. (I’m in this camp, too.) If you have time for things like TV, reading, shopping, home projects, hobbies or sports, then you have time to invest in your marriage. My husband and I have minimized the amount of TV we watch. When we have a favorite show, we watch together, making an event of it. When we need childcare, we often swap with a close friend or family member who also needs childcare. Sometimes, we send the kids to bed a bit early so we can have a glass of wine, sit by the fire, watch a movie or hang out. When the kids are in school, we try to have lunch dates instead of dinner dates so childcare is not required.
4.Meet each other’s needs outside the marriage: Exercise or time spent individually with friends can also benefit the family. Don’t expect your spouse to meet all your needs. Help cover one another at home so these rejuvenating activities can take place.
5.Treat each other like husband and wife (not mom and dad): This includes touching and showing affection during the day, and making time for intimacy—s*xual, emotional, spiritual and physical intimacy. Remember, you can hire cleaning help, you can send the ironing out, you can order a pizza for dinner, and you can even hire a babysitter. But there is no one else who you want to meet your spouse’s intimate needs.
6.Make decisions together: We allow our kids to choose one sport per season, in addition to piano lessons. We would veto certain sports if they required too much time. During summer, we curtail most of their regular activities. If your lives revolve around sporting events, it's time to scale back. Free time to enjoy being a family is so important to bonding. We often escape to a lake cottage where TV and computers are absent and board and water games are plentiful. This change in routine helps us de-stress and learn how to have fun again. But this time is only possible when we limit our other commitments. Children require a substantial investment of our time, attention and resources, but, in return, fill our lives with joy that can’t be measured. However, parents must not lose their relationship in the midst of the overwhelming nature of parenting.