Igwe Boss

𝐄𝐕𝐀𝐍𝐆𝐄𝐋𝐈𝐒𝐌 𝐒𝐀𝐆𝐀

So many years ago, two years after being born again, the church I attended wanted to host a programme for the youths, and so flyers and other means of invitation was administered. On that faithful day, we were sent out in various groups to invite people for the programme, and It happened I saw a young lady standing all by herself... So I approached her to give her a flyer and then share a few words of encouragement to motivate her to come for the programme, when suddenly a guy from nowhere rushed towards us and then started ranting and almost getting physical with me... It was then the lady said: "Steven please stop", that was when I realized the guy was her boyfriend... Though me being a church boy, born again and tongue talking, 😜My flesh rose to the occasion, and suddenly I felt I needed to do something... That was how I charged at the guy, lifted him off the ground, and slammed him on the ground, threw the flyers on him and I said... "you are coming for this programme whether you like it or not" and then walked up to the lady and told her "bring him with you" 😳😯😲 Everyone at the scene where shocked........ Just the way you are right now 😁.

Do you want to know what happened?

Well, the day of the programme came, and I happened to be the one Ministering in songs, and just after the programme, I noticed a young guy and lady who walked up to me with smiles beaming through their faces..... To my amazement, it was the lady I gave a flyer and invited for the programme.... And the guy 😁😁😁😁😁 I Believe You already know him by now. They told how they were so blessed, and how they both gave their lives to Christ during the Altar Call. I was so overwhelmed... Though the guy was about to apologise for his actions during our first encounter, when I immediately also cut in with an apology for my reactions too! In all we gave Glory to God 🙌
Today that Guy is a Pastor, and now married to the said lady, both waxing strong in the Lord.

Seriously, I still wonder till date how God worked it all out, despite how differently things would have turned out with all the vawulence 😁😁😁.
Abeg!!!!! This is not a license to go on Evangelism and start giving people a T.K.O. For being aggressive towards you. 😁😁😁.

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𝐄𝐱𝐳𝐞𝐥 𝐈𝐠𝐰𝐞

𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖 𝐈𝐅 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐍𝐄𝐖 𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐍𝐄𝐑 𝐈𝐒 𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐇𝐘

Your New Relationship Is Off To A Positive Start, And Your Hopes Are Getting Higher This One May Last A Long Time. But These Days, It's Hard To Know If You Can Really Trust Someone. How Can You Know For Sure?

It's True That A Person's Trustworthiness Can Only Be Measured Overtime, Since Words And Actions Are Revealed (And Assessed) Month After Month. Still, In The Early Stages Of A Relationship, There Are Helpful Signs To Watch For:

1. OBSERVE THE OTHER PEOPLE IN YOUR PARTNER'S LIFE:

Does He/She Have Long-standing Friendships And Professional Relationships Built On Trust? Do People Comment On Your Partner's Dependability? You Can Tell A Lot About A Person's Character By The Calibre Of His Other Relationships.

2. TAKE YOUR TIME GETTING TO KNOW THE PERSON:

The Longer You Know Someone, The Harder It Is For That Person To Keep From Showing His Or Her True Colours.

3. BELIEVE THAT "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS:"

People Who Are Trustworthy Don't Spend A Lot Of Time Telling You How Trustworthy They Are. They Just Live It.

4. NOTICE HOW EVERYDAY COMMITMENTS ARE HANDLED:

Does He/She Show Up On Time? Does He/She Follow Through On His/Her Promises? Being Reliable With Little Things Should Give You Confidence About The Big Issues.

5. LISTEN FOR GOSSIP:

Spreading Rumours Is A Form Of Backstabbing- Breaking Someone's Trust Without Their Ever Knowing It.

6. BE ATTENTIVE TO EXAGGERATION:

Does He/She Say Things That Seem Too Good To Be True? If So, They Might Be.

7. BEWARE OF BLAME SHIFTING:

Trustworthy People Take Responsibility For Their Mistakes Rather Than Blaming Others.

8. BE ALERT TO EVASIVENESS:

If Your Partner Is Defensive Or Sensitive When You Ask Simple Questions About Where He/She Has Been, The Person May Be Hiding Something And Is Afraid You'll Put Two And Two Together.

9. DON'T BE FOOLED BY FLATTERY:

Does Your New Partner Promise You The Stars And Moon? Are His/Her Compliments Over The Top? Behind The Flattering Words, Does He Seem Driven By His Own Agenda And Needs, Rather Than A Sincere Interest In Getting To Know You And Your Needs?

10. DON'T DISMISS FLIRTING:

If You Notice Your Date Flirting With Someone Other Than You, Neon Lights Should Illuminate In Your Brain. Flirting Or Checking Out Other People In Your Presence Is A First Cousin Of Untrustworthiness.

11. SNIFF OUT SECRETIVENESS:

Do You Feel Closed Out To Certain Aspects Of Your Partner's Life? If So, You Have To Wonder What Lies Behind Those Cordoned-Off Areas. Secrets Arouse Suspicion- And Often For Good Reason.

12. BE WARY OF "Little White Lies."

Someone Who Bends The Truth "A Little" In The Early Stages Of A Romance Is Likely To Shred It To Pieces Later On. If You've Caught Your New Partner In A Seemingly Innocent Lie, Watch Out!

13. WATCH FOR INCONSISTENCY:

Deceptive People Must Work Hard To Keep Track Of What They Have Said, And To Whom. When The Details Of A Story Don't Add Up Or Keep Changing Over Time, It May Be A Sign That You're Not Getting The Straight Scoop.

14) TRUST UNTIL YOU ARE CONVINCED YOU SHOULDN'T:

If You've Been Burned In The Past, You May Feel Your Partner Isn't Entitled To Your Trust Until He/She "Earns" It. But An Untrusting Attitude Can Sabotage A Growing Relationship. Believe The Best About Your Partner- And He Might Be Motivated To Live Up To Your High Expectations.

15. ASK DIRECT QUESTIONS:

If You Suspect The Other Person Is Not Being Completely Honest And Forthcoming, Remember That You Are Entitled To The Truth. Don't Let Smokescreens Deter You From Getting A Straight Answer.

This Piece Of Art Got Me.... 😂😂😂😂😂😂

𝐒𝐄𝐄 𝐀 𝐏𝐑𝐎𝐅𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐀𝐋

It's Good To Seek Counsel When One Seem To Be In Situations That Seem Beyond One's Control, Because You'd Be Doing So To Your Own Advantage. And Because It Would Be People Who Are Professionals, And Have No Bias Or Are Judgemental, With Strict Confidential Clause, It Would Really Help You Straighten Things Out Easily, Fairly, Professionally.

Unfortunately, Counseling In This Part Of The World (Africa) Nigeria To Be Precise, Is Been Taken With Levity. A Lot Of People Are Religiously Driven That Rather Than Seeking Professional Counsel, They'd Rather Go To Their Spiritual Leader For Advice. AND Most Often, Because Majority Don't Have Any Professional Training Or Skill To Help Give Proper Counseling, They Just Speak From Experience, They Oftentimes Lump Up One Or Two Scriptures They Obviously Don't Understand It's Context As Back Up For Their Shallow Counsel.

Truth, Am Not Trying To Rule Out Or Undermine Counsels From Spiritual Leaders, Friends, And Families, Because They Can Be Of Help To An Extent. But The Common Challenge With Counsel From The Above Mentioned, Is That They Can Be Bias, Judgemental, And Overbearing, But A Professional Counselor Wouldn't.That's Why It's Best To Go See A Professional.

𝐄𝐱𝐳𝐞𝐥 𝐈𝐠𝐰𝐞

Never Allow Anyone Belittle What You Do To Put Food On Your Table, Clothes On Your Back And Roof Over Your Head As Long As It Is Legit. If For Any Reason They Think What You Are Doing Doesn't Befit You As Person, Then They Should Give You Or Provide You With What They Think Is More Befitting For You. But If They Can't, Abeg, Ignore Them, And Do What You Do Diligently And Excellently With Prayers.... I Believe With Time, Your Labour Would Pay Off And Your Life Would Turn Around For The Best.
Keep Faith And Hope Alive.

𝐁𝐄 𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐘 𝐓𝐎 𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐄

Many Of Us Have Lost Opportunities By Refusing To SHINE When We Ought To. We Think It's Pride When We Show The Stuff We Are Made, We Are Afraid Of What Other People Would Say When We Exert Dominance In Our Area Of Gift And Talent.

When You Find Yourself In A Place Or Gathering That Your Talent Is Required, Rise Up And Show The Stuff You Are Made Of, Don't Be Intimidated Or Shy About Other People That You Think Maybe Better Than You! Cause The Truth Is They Maybe Better, But You Also May Be The Best By Being BOLD. So Stop Feeling Shy Or Intimidated When The Occasion Demands That You Show Your Worth, And Cease That Opportunity To SHINE.

In All, Be Prepared For That Moment, Because It Would Come... And You Better Be Ready To SHINE.

When You Don't Have Money, Even Your Advice During A Family Meeting Sounds Like You Are Creating More Problem. 😁😁😁
𝐌𝐎𝐍𝐄𝐘 𝐒𝐓𝐎𝐏𝐒 𝐍𝐎𝐍𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐒𝐄!!!

Your Best Days Are Right Before You And Ahead Of You. Enter The New Week And New Month Knowing God Isn't Through With You. Think Positively, Talk Positively, Walk And Work Positively, And Your Life Would Continually Be The Testimony Of From Glory To Glory.
𝐍𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐆𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐔𝐩.... Be Focused... God Has Created You Unique, And Your Uniqueness Is Yet To Be Revealed.

𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐈𝐒 𝐅𝐈𝐍𝐃𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐄 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐒𝐎 𝐃𝐈𝐅𝐅𝐈𝐂𝐔𝐋𝐓?

We All Have A Desire To Love And Be Loved. We Experience Different Levels Of Love From Parents, Siblings, Friends, And Others. But Most Of Us Also Want To Find That Special Someone We Can Share A Deeper Level Of Love With. Finding True Love Can Seem Incredibly Difficult, And It's Often Hard To Understand Why. A Big Question To Consider First Is, "What Is My Definition Of True Love?" Understanding What We Mean By "True Love" Can Help Us See What We're Really Seeking And Why Or Why Not It's Working.

The World Tosses Around The Word LOVE Very Loosely. LOVE Is Often Associated With Intense Feelings That, In Truth, Are Self-Centered And Non-Committal. In So Many TV Shows, We See Characters Who Follow Their Hormones And Have S*x Before Marriage. When "LOVE" Is Shallowly Rooted In Pleasant Emotions Or Physical Feelings, It Turns Off As Easily As It Was Turned On. NOW, There's Nothing Wrong With Wanting To Experience Good Emotions Toward The Person We Love; However, If That Is The Foundation Of The Relationship, The Relationship Is In Trouble. If The Kind Of "LOVE" We See Demonstrated In Today's S*x-Saturated Culture Is What We're Looking For, No Wonder It Seems Difficult To Find; It's Not True Love We're After But An Experience That, By Nature, Can't Last For Long.

The Bible Gives A Much Different Picture Of Love. TRUE LOVE Is Of GOD- In Fact, HE Is LOVE (1 John 4:8) And HE's The One Who Put The Need To Love And Be Loved In Us.

Therefore, Understanding HIS Design For Love Is Crucial. True Love, According To The Bible, Is Rooted In Sacrifice, Commitment, And An Impulse To Benefit The Loved One (See John 15:3). GOD's Love For Us Took HIS Only Begotten Son JESUS CHRIST To The Cross. WE Know For Certain That Jesus Was Not Experiencing "HAPPY" Emotions On His Way To The Cross (Luke 22:42-44).

The Bible Describes Our Relationship To Jesus As That Of A Bride And Bridegroom (Matthew 9:15; Ephesians 5:32). True Romantic Love Is Designed To Lead To And Grow Within A Marriage Commitment (Genesis 2:24) And Should Be Rooted In Sacrifice.

Any Number Of Things Could Make Finding True Love, According To GOD's Design, Difficult. Here We Will Focus On A Few Big Obstacles That We Face:

1) 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈𝐬 𝐎𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐎𝐧𝐞 "𝐑𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭" 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐔𝐬:

This Is A Lie That Can Keep Us Fearful That We're Settling For Less Than The Best. Waiting For One's Perfect "Soul Mate" To Show Up Can Be A Long Wait. Whomever We Choose To Marry Becomes The "Right" One For Us, Because We've Made A Lifetime Commitment To That Person. The Bible Has Narrowed The Field: Our True Love Must Be A Believer Who Is Living For The Lord (2 Corinthians 6:14-15); Beyond That, GOD Will Provide Wisdom And Discernment (James 1:5). Except Of Course You Are A Non Believer Yourself!

2) 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐀 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐎𝐫 𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐅𝐮𝐥𝐟𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐔𝐬:

Only God Can Truly Fulfill Us, So We Don't Have To Find Romantic Love To Have A Sense Of Fulfillment! None Of Us Are Perfect, And To Expect Another Imperfect Human Being To Meet Every Need Is Unrealistic, Unhealthy, And Can Only Lead To Disappointment.

3). 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐓𝐨 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐎𝐫 𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐰:

It's Easy To Imagine The Kind Of Person We Would Love To Be In Love With, But How Much Effort Do We Expend In Becoming That Kind Of Person Ourselves? We All Have Our Own Issues That We Must Address With God's Help In Order To Be The Kind Of Person HE Desires Us To Be. It Can Be Tempting To Think That Finding True Love Will Magically Solve Those Issues. But Being In A Close Relationship With Someone Will Not Fix Our Problems; It Is More Likely To Expose Them More. This Can Be A Rewarding Part Of The Relationship, As Iron Sharpens Iron (Proverbs 27:17), If We Are Willing To Change And Grow. If We're Unwilling To Change, The Relationship Will Be Strained And Could Eventually Be Destroyed. This Does Not Mean That Every Personal Issue Must Be Dealt With Before We Get Married.

Rather, We Should Get Into The Practice Of Asking God To Show Us What Things Need To Be Cleaned Out Of Our Lives (Psalm 139:23). As We Become The People God Wants Us To Be, We Will Be Better Suited For Whatever Relationships Are In Store.

4). 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐈𝐭 𝐈𝐬 𝐓𝐨𝐨 𝐋𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐓𝐨 𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞:

Finding True Love And Getting Married Is An Important Step And Not To Be Taken Lightly. A Cautious Step Is Better Than A Quick And Reckless One. Three Times, The Song Of Solomon Warns, "Do Not Arouse Or Awaken Love Until It So Desires" (Song Of Solomon 2:7; 3:5; 8:4). GOD's Timing Is Always Best.

We Know That GOD Cares About Our Desire To Find True Love. When We Fully Surrender That Desire To Him, We Release The Burden Of Trying To Make True Love Happen Ourselves (Matthew 11:29-30).

Love Is An Essential Quality Of God, And HE Shows Us In The Bible How Real, True Love Works. Redefining Love Or Trying To Find It Outside Of God's Design Is Asking For Frustration And Disillusionment.

𝐋𝐈𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐍 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐌𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓 𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐍 𝐒𝐎𝐌𝐄𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐍𝐄𝐖

"When You Talk You Are Only Repeating What You Already Know. But If You Listen, You May Learn Something New."

The Only Way To Truly Listen Is With Your Mouth Closed. Those Who Seek A Life Full Of Wisdom Know That The Powers From Wisdom Are Provided By The Willingness To Listen, And Not To Disrupt The Learning Process With A Reply Or Rebuttal To Everything That Is Presented Before Them.

When You Speak You Are Not Going To Learn More Than You Already Knew Before You Spoke. When You Speak You Share A Piece Of Who You Already Are To The World, And This Is Definitely Useful At Times, But Speaking Should Never Be A Bigger Part Of Your Life Than Listening And Seeking To Gain Understanding.

Set Your Heart On Wisdom. Dedicate Your Life To Understanding And From This, The Words You Speak Will Effect The Change That This World Really Needs From You. Remember If You Find Yourself Close To Disaster, It Is Time To Be Still And Listen. Let The Rhythms Of Peace And Wisdom Guide You Into Greater Situations.

Pastor: Do you take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband, to love and cherish, for better for worse, in sickness and in health ??

Wife: Yes pastor I do

*Pastor turns to the husband*

Pastor: Do you take this woman to be your lawfully wedded wife, to love and cherish, for better for worse, in sickness and in health ??

Husband: Yes pastor I do

Pastor: By the power vested on me as a minister of the most high God in this church, I here by pronounce Sister Bridget and Brother Utaki husband and wife

Congregation: Hallelujahhhhhhhh

*3 months later*

Sister Bridget and Brother Utaki 👇👇

𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘𝐎𝐍𝐄 𝐈𝐒 𝐌𝐄𝐀𝐍𝐓 𝐓𝐎 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐘

"Cutting People Out Of Your Life Doesn't Mean You Hate Them, It Simply Means You Respect Yourself. Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay."

Not Every Relationship Will End In The Manner You Expected It To. Relationships In Our Society Aren't Seen Like They Used To Be. Due To A Variety Of Circumstances, People Are Becoming Less And Less Apt To Sticking With Each Other In Friendly And Romantic Relationships For Long Lengths Of Time. IN No Way Should We Feel That Our Relationships With Others Will All Be Short Lived But Unless We Desire To Waste Time, We Have To Fully Invest In The People Who Are Truly For Us The Same Way That We Are For Them.

Are The People That You Are Dedicating Your Time To, Doing The Same For You? Are Their Attempts To Help Your Life Genuine And Solely Out Of Love?

Questions Like These Are Questions That We Must Ask Ourselves When Coming To Crossroads With Certain People In Our Lives. And Questions Like These Are Sometimes What Separates Us From The People Who Are Truly Only Dragging Us Down.

𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐂𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐅𝐄𝐄𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐒𝐎𝐌𝐄𝐎𝐍𝐄

Sometimes It Just Happens: There Is Someone You Think Is A Great Person, But That "It" Factor Just Isn't There For You. They Are Nice, They're Funny; They're Smart, They're Not Needy 0r Bossy. Maybe Your Friends And Family Even Like Them And Are Repeatedly Warning You Not To "Let This One Get Away." But Still, You Just Don't Feel It For Them.

Here Are Some Suggestion If You Find Yourself Feeling Like You Should Want To Be With This Person More Than You Actually Want To Be With Them.

☆. 𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐁𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐔𝐩 𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐈𝐭:

If You're Not Feeling Something You Think You Should Feel (Or Even Want To Feel), Don't Be Hard On Yourself. We Feel The Way We Do, And No One Should Ever Be Criticised For The Desires They Do Or Do Not Experience. So Our First Recommendation Is That You Give Yourself A Break. Look At Your Feelings And Accept Them For What They Are. Then You Can Begin To Approach The Situation From A Much More Clearheaded Position.

☆. 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐂𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐎𝐧 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐀𝐫𝐞𝐧'𝐭 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠:

One Of The Best Ways To Gain More Awareness As To What's Going On Here Is To Do A Bit Of Soul-Searching. When You're Being Completely Honest With Yourself, Are There Reasons You Can Pinpoint As To Why You're Not Experiencing Stronger Emotions In This Relationship? Maybe You've Been Hurt And Are Still Reticent About Moving On. Or Maybe There Are Some Sort Of Other Unresolved Issues From Past Relationships, Even Non-Romantic Ones. And, Of Course, It Could Be That There's Simply Not The Physical Chemistry That You Want In A Relationship. That Happens. The Point Is That The More Honest You Can Be With Yourself On This Question, The Better You'll Be Able To Get Clear On How Best To Respond.

☆. 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐒𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐅𝐨𝐫𝐜𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬:

Like The Previous Suggestion, This Is One Demands Honesty On Your Part. Why Is It That You Feel That You Should Force Your Feelings For This Person? Is It Because You Are Afraid To Be Alone? Or That You're Afraid Of Hurting The Other Person? Are You Feeling Pressure From Others, Or Working Out Of A Fear That You Won't Find Someone Better? Or Maybe There's Something That This Person Offers- A Better Lifestyle Or Some Sort Of Security- That You Really Like Having In Your Life. Do Your Best To Figure Out What It Is That Makes You Feel That You Simply Ought To Make Things Work Out. That Will Help You Respond To The Situation In A Way That You Feel Good About.

☆. 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧:

Clear And Honest Dialogue About How You Are Feeling Is Absolutely Crucial, Especially When You Already Respect And Care For The Other Person. There's Nothing At All Wrong With Saying Something Like, "Its Not Fair To Either One Of Us For Me To Try To Make Something Happen That Just Isn't There." Be Delicate And Be Kind If You Really Know, And You're Certain That There's No Way That It'll Ever Happen Between You, Then Be Honest And Communicate That To Them. Yes, It Will Probably Be A Painful Message For Them To Hear. But They'll Respect You For Your Honesty, And You'll Avoid Hurting Them Even More Down The Road.

☆. 𝐁𝐞 𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐓𝐨 𝐑𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐏𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞:

You Might Be At A Point Where You're Still Open To A Relationship, But Maybe You're Not Moving As Quickly As The Other Person. If This Is The Case, Then Speak Up. Let Them Know How You Feel, That You Care About Them And Possibly See Potential For You Two Together, But That You Need Time To Allow A Relationship To Develop. Even If You're Getting Pressure From Numerous People, Keep In Mind That You Have Every Right And Even A Responsibility To Figure This Out For Yourself And To Do So In A Way That Let's You Make A Good And Healthy Decision.

☆. 𝐁𝐞 𝐎𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐓𝐨 𝐒𝐮𝐫𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐏𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬:

Consider The Possibility That The Other Person May Grow On You. And You Might Feel Differently In Time. Many A Relationship Began With One Person Wanting To Simply Be Friends And The Other Person Desiring More Than That. We're Not Saying That You Should Ignore Or Deny Reality Or Simply Keep At It And Expect That The Chemistry Will Eventually Appear. It Often Doesn't. And As We Said, If You Know For Sure That You'll Never Feel Anything Stronger Or More Serious For The Person, Then You Owe It To Them To Let Them Know. But If You're Not 100 Percent Sure, Then Is There Any Reason You Can't Give Yourself A Bit More Time, Just To See What Might Happen?

☆. 𝐈𝐟 𝐏𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞, 𝐌𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐅𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩:

If You Two Are Really Compatible, And The Other Person's Feelings Aren't Too Advanced, Then Explore Together The Idea Of Simply Enjoying A Friendship For The Time Being. It May Be That The Relationship Has Progressed Too Far For This To Happen. If The Other Person Wants More Than Friendship, They May Not Be Willing To Settle For Less. Likewise, You May Decide That You're Unwilling To Live With Whatever Pressure Comes With Being The Person Who Is Being Waited For. But If You Can, Then Maintain Your Friendship And Enjoy All The Things You Can Offer Each Other. Then, Once A Strong Friendship Has Developed, Who Knows What Might Happen?

𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐄𝐍 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐘 𝐈𝐍 𝐀𝐁𝐔𝐒𝐈𝐕𝐄 𝐑𝐄𝐋𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐏𝐒

Why Would A Woman Stay In A Relationship With A Guy Who Puts Her Down, Hems Her In, And Perhaps Even Physically Abuses Her? Why Would A Woman Hold Down Jobs To Keep The Rent Paid And Food On The Table While Her Boyfriend Sits Around Smoking W**d All Day? WHY Oh Why Would A Woman Allow Herself To Be Emotionally Blackmailed By Her Boyfriend's Threats That He Will Kill Himself Or Her Or Both If She Even Talks About Leaving A Relationship That's Going Nowhere?

There's No Easy Answer. Often It's A Complicated Mix Of A Number Of Answers. If You Wonder Why On Earth You Stay With The Guy Who Keeps Hurting You In Spite Of Promises To Do Better, In Spite Of Protestations That He Loves You, In Spite Of Your Obvious Distress About How Things Are Going, See If You Recognise Yourself In Any Of These Common Reasons.

But Please Be Careful Not To Jump To Conclusions Based On A List. It's Not At All Uncommon For Relationships To Have Some Challenging Times. Reasons For Staying Become Problems When They Become Excuses Or Ways We Fool Ourselves Into Believing That Things Aren't That Bad When In Fact They Are. If You Keep Getting Hurt; If You Know In Your Heart That The Relationship Is Diminishing You But You Still Keep Going Back For More, It May Be Time For You To Get Into Therapy Or To Find The Resources In Your Community That Help Women Extricate Themselves From A Controlling Or Abusive Relationship.

☆ 𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞'𝐬 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐈𝐬 𝐈𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐱𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐭𝐮𝐟𝐟-𝐀𝐭 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐀𝐭 𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭.

When You Met, He Only Had Eyes For You. HE Called To Say Good Morning. HE Called To Say "I Love You" At Lunch. He Wanted To Be The Last Voice You Heard Before You Went To Sleep. When You Left Work Or Your Last Class For The Day, There He Was- Waiting For You. If Another Guy Even Looked At You, He Put His Arm Protectively Around You. If A Guy Friend Called You Up, He Pout

Team Work Makes The Dream Work.

A man was communicating with his wife using coded language in the presence of their 10yrs old boy. It's as follows:👇

: Will the election take place tonight? 🙆...

: No! The opposition Agent in red has arrived at the entrance of the polling unit.🙊 We need to wait first 🤷...

: How? Then I have to go to another polling unit to cast my vote...🙈

The child understood the conversation and said,
"Papa, that is electoral malpractice, stay in ur polling unit and wait till the opposition Agent leaves so you can vote..._🙈🤔 Besides, it's been 10yrs since I was elected president, in this house 🙈I need a vice president".😄😃😀

LESSON; DON'T ASSUME YOUR CHILD IS IGNORANT OF YOUR CODED TALKS O...

When doing business or any other hustling, you have to consider your location

There is a location you do business or any other hustling and you will suffer without result. It will look as if village People are after you

There is a location you will do business or any other hustling and you will get positive result easily

Check your location and choose your location wisely.

Someone that sells provision in students environment will make massive sales than someone that sells provision in a low populated area.

Someone that has a photo studio in town will likely make more money than someone that has a photo studio in an interior village. Your location can decrease or increase you.

You can also pray for God
to show you the right location for your hustle.

I need advice. Something is happening in my home and I cannot continue to die in silence.

Two years ago, my Neighbour bought a 65 inches Television and my Wife said I should also buy a 65 inches Television. I bought it.

A few months later, my Neighbour bought a Lexus Jeep for his Wife and my Wife insisted that I must buy her a Lexus Jeep too. I bought it.

As if that was not enough, my Neighbour changed his living room furniture lasts a year and my wife said she liked their new Furniture and that I should also change our own. I changed them.

Two weeks ago, my Neighbour married a new Wife. Very beautiful young girl. But my wife has been acting as if she has not seen my Neighbour's new Wife.

One side of me is telling me to inform my wife that our Neighbour has married a new Wife.

It's been Two weeks and I have been waiting for my wife to tell me to get a second wife but she just quiet like say she no know say my Neighbour don marry another Wife.

Should I remind her?

🙄🙄🤓😎

Nobody is as humble as a customer coming to buy something on credit.
He'll be like “Answer your customer first, I’m not in a hurry😂😂😂😂

𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐓𝐇....
1😊.. In a Marriage, one can blame all manner of factors to justify unfaithfulness. But eventually it comes down to one thing, CHOICE.........
2☺... 🤷🏽‍♀ Most Men think of a Relationship when they are h***y.
Most Women think of a relationship when they're Broke .
That's why true love can hardly be found in this age .....
3✈ ....Distance never kill a relationship. Closeness never build a relationship. It is the Care of someone's feelings that build and maintain a relationship......
4😉... Dear Ladies , not every Men want S*x . Some needs your Brains to support their Dreams. So, Polish your Brain more than your Face......
5.💔. A player can't play you if you're not in a Game! Your Heart is too valuable to be violated ❤❤

1. Can you cry under water?☔
2. Do fishes🐟 ever get thirsty?
3. Why don’t birds🐦 fall of trees🌳 when they sleep?
4. Why is it called building🏠 when it is already built🏡?
5. When they say dog🐕 food🍚 is new and improved, who tastes
it?
6. “I Love❤ You💑” is not a question then why does it need an
answer?
7. Why does round pizza🍕 come in a square box?
8. Why doesn’t glue stick to its bottle?
9. If money💸 doesn’t grow on trees🌳 then why do banks🏦 have
branches?
Are you also confused??
Nothing in nature lives for itself. Rivers don't drink their own
water. Trees🌴🌵 don't eat their own fruit🍇🍒. The Sun☀ doesn't
produce heat for itself and the moon🌙 never goes on a
honeymoon. Living for 👬Others👭 is the Rule of Nature. Be each
👬others👭 keeper and God will reward you abundantly.
💯💕🙏God bless you all🙏💕💯

𝐑𝐄𝐋𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐏 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐂𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐓𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐏

You don't have to be in relationship because of marriage. Relationship is the formal way we relate with people around us. The way we interact with our family, friends, co-workers, etc. Many people don't relate with others well because to them, it's not going to lead to marriage, so what's the point of being nice?

This is actually what has kept many people single. They talk to people anyhow they want, treat them like trash etc, just because they are not in a supposed relationship with them, unknown to them that those people they look down on could be the people having genuine marriage intentions towards them.You can't even get married by being desperate for marriage. If you don't relax and take things easy, you will fall into the hands of relationship scammers who will tell you exactly what you want to hear and use you for their own benefit.

Courtship is a type of relationship that marriage intentions have been declared, parents or Pastor informed and both going through the process of marriage preparation.

Except it is courtship, don't get too entangled that you will find it difficult to untangle...

This one will shock you....👉 You can be in relationship with as many people as possible so long as there is no intentions declared.

This also means that you don't have to start doing what you know you will regret like s*xualizing the relationship....

In relationship, whatever you give is out of pure friendly and brotherly intentions and not because you expect anything in return.

Don't do or give what you will regret you did or gave. Don't put too much of your attention on a normal relationship because it's just a process of getting to know someone better.

I'm praying that someone will understand this post and not come to say that I'm encouraging people to double date.

The right way for Christians to relate with the opposite s*x is as brothers and sisters. No string should be attached, no s*xual feelings or attachment should be allowed to grow.

Be kind and nice, be respectful and considerate towards everyone, that's relationship....

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