Relationship & marriage guides

I stood in front of Mr. Segun awaiting his response of my submitted CV. He asked me to sit and I did.

"You are beautiful.

"Thank you sir". I answered politely.

"But do you think this assign post is suitable to your kind of person.

"Yes sir. It is.

"Are you married? Oh sorry, I forgot you aren't.

He asked me to take my file and would like me to meet him in a giving hotel the next day. I was marvel not understanding is point.

"Sorry sir....with due respect sir. What am I coming to see you for in the hotel?

"So you don't know what holds in hotel. As big as you are.

"Am sorry, I don't get it.

"You are beautiful you know " He said glaring at my chest which makes me feel insecure instantly.

He leap towards me and whispered to me.

"Let me have a nice time with you and this job is all yours. A freedom of your choice hehehehe

His stupidest laughs triggers the annoyance in me with a sparkle of bouncing on him which I had to refrain.

"Are you in for it? The choice is yours beautiful lady.

I quietly stands up, my hands on his table with a bluntly stares at him.

"Read my lips Old man. Your type are the cause of some girls regretting their unwise decision. You can never exchange my body in terms of job giving. Who the hell are you? If God didn't give you the opportunity to be here do you think you could ever imagine to be here.

"And....

I interrupted him immediately.

"What you think is right that you're doing right now. I pray that someone does that to your daughter.

Paw! He slapped me.

"Are you mæd! How dare you....

I returned the slap in force leaving him dumbfounding.

"Have a good day Mr holer."

"Come back here! I said come back here!

Looking back will only result to more altercations but I believe I did the right thing to put him in his right place.

Or am I wrong?

💧 LADIES,BITTER TRUTH YOU MUST SWALLOW 💧

1.S*x doesn't keep a man,if you like turn 360% on bed,he will still dump you. If he doesn't notice the qualities of a good wife in you,he will surely leave you..
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2.A man who win your love with cash, may not stay with you forever.. Real men don't settled with fake women who loves money.
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3.The beauty of a woman can take her to the palace but her characters will determine how long she stay in the palace. Beauty attract men but character keeps them.
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4.Being s*xy without a good character will not get you a good husband. You will only get a boyfriend
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5.S*x bring pleasure but it can never bring true love,s*x is a product of love,, but love is not a product of s*x.
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6.S*x can make a man to stay with you overnight but true love will make him to stay a lifetime..
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7.How you dress will determine how men will address you.
BE WISE ENOUGH!

MESSAGE TO NEW COUPLES(OUR YOUTHS)

You must be above your wife with THREE things

1. KNOWLEDGE
2. CASH &
3.AGE

Your wife too must be above you with FIVE things.

1. PATIENCE
2.NEATNESS
3.LOVE
4.PLANNING &
5.PRAYER

And you should be equal on three things:

1.UNDERSTANDING
2.TOLERANCE &
3. RESPECT...

MAY GOD GRANT YOU TRUE LOVE AND A PEACEFUL HOME👍

STAY BLESSED🙏❤️
🙏👏
Class dismissed 🥂

♥ 6 MISTAKES LADIES MUST AVOID IN CHOICE MAKING ♥

1. I will marry him because he is my tribe mate. The fact that he is your tribe mate does not make him good for you.
2. I will marry him because He is Rich. The fact that he is rich now does not mean he will be rich forever.
3. I will marry him because he is good in bed. A man doesn't just become good in bed in a day. Sometimes this is an indication that he has being rehearsing with others , and you may end up not being his bus stop. S*x before marriage is a sin. If he can't wait, let him go.
4. I will marry Him because he was the one who took my virginity. The fact that he's the one who took your virginity doesn't make him good for you in marriage. May be he just took advantage of your ignorance and weakness. Don't be deceived.
5. I will marry him because he is good looking. looks are not stable. Looks do change with age. What if he had an accident, and lost some of his body parts will he still be your very best?
6. I will marry him because he is tall. The fact that he is tall does not make him good and best for you.
All these are negative reasons for marriage.

BUT MARRY THIS TYPE..

Marry a man that can lead you.
Marry a man that is fearing God and believe in him.
Marry a man that has a dream and purpose.
Marry a man with good character and conduct.
Marry a man with great skills and potential.
Marry a man that can play with you and pray for you.
Marry a man who you have a future with.
It is foolishness on the part of ladies to date an unbeliever because of money.
Be Wise And Be Smart.

🎯10 BEST FINANCIAL ADVISE‼️

1. Don't buy an expensive phone. A new version will come out even before you've finished paying for it.

2. Don't buy an expensive bag. Replicas are scattered everywhere. Only a trained eye will see that it's genuine.

3. Don't buy expensive shoes. You can't walk like a duck trying to keep it from deforming with every use.

4. Don't buy expensive clothing. You can't walk around showing the small tag behind your nape.

5. Don't buy an expensive watch. A 100-peso vintage watch online looks good too, and all kinds will tell the same time.

6. Don't buy expensive undergarments.
It's not allowed to walk in public wearing only a Victoria's Secret bra and panties.

7. Don't buy expensive cars. It depreciates with every kilometer it runs. Your 1.2 Million-Peso SUV will sell for only 500K.

8. Don't buy a huge house. Too much space creates distance between family members. They'll grow old and leave anyway.

9. Always settle for the justified price. You can do more with two for the price of one.

10. Remember that it's not the brand that carries you. It's how you carry the brand.

Grow old and be wise.
♥♥❤❤

6 MISTAKES LADIES MUST AVOID IN CHOICE MAKING

1. I will marry him because he is my tribe mate. The fact that he is your tribe mate does not make him good for you.
2. I will marry him because He is Rich. The fact that he is rich now does not mean he will be rich forever.
3. I will marry him because he is good in bed. A man doesn't just become good in bed in a day. Sometimes this is an indication that he has being rehearsing with others , and you may end up not being his bus stop. S*x before marriage is a sin. If he can't wait, let him go.
4. I will marry Him because he was the one who took my virginity. The fact that he's the one who took your virginity doesn't make him good for you in marriage. May be he just took advantage of your ignorance and weakness. Don't be deceived.
5. I will marry him because he is good looking. looks are not stable. Looks do change with age. What if he had an accident, and lost some of his body parts will he still be your very best?
6. I will marry him because he is tall. The fact that he is tall does not make him good and best for you.
All these are negative reasons for marriage.

BUT MARRY THIS TYPE..

Marry a man that can lead you.
Marry a man that is fearing God and believe in him.
Marry a man that has a dream and purpose.
Marry a man with good character and conduct.
Marry a man with great skills and potential.
Marry a man that can play with you and pray for you.
Marry a man who you have a future with.
It is foolishness on the part of ladies to date an unbeliever because of money.
Be Wise And Be Smart.

"S*x Should Be Enjoyed, and Not 'End-Joyed' - A Guide for Married Couples and Serious Relationships"

In the realm of romantic partnerships, physical intimacy holds a pivotal role. It's the unique thread that weaves deeper connections, emotional bonds, and the euphoria of shared pleasure. To ensure that s*x is a source of delight and unity rather than discord, it's vital to understand how it can be genuinely enjoyed and recognize the pitfalls of misuse.

Enjoying the Euphoria:
S*x should be a celebration of love and trust. It's an avenue for exploring desires and satisfying each other's needs. Couples can savor the experience by communicating openly about preferences, experimenting with new techniques, and prioritizing mutual satisfaction. A sense of emotional intimacy and connection can enhance the physical enjoyment, making it a gratifying experience for both partners.

Abuse of Intimacy:
Regrettably, some individuals misuse the powerful tool that is s*x. They may resort to manipulation, coercion, or infidelity, damaging the foundations of trust within their relationships. Additionally, using s*x as a means of control or withholding it as a form of punishment can lead to resentment and conflict. In these cases, s*x becomes a weapon of destruction rather than a source of joy.

The Power of Choice:
In the end, the decision lies with us. S*x is a potent force that can either strengthen the bond between partners or lead to its demise. It can be a bridge that connects two hearts or a weapon that tears them apart. The choice is yours to make. Embrace the power of s*xual intimacy with respect, love, and communication to fortify your relationship. But remember, abuse it, and you risk endangering the very connection you hold dear.

In conclusion, s*x in a committed relationship is a treasure to be cherished. When treated with respect, communication, and love, it can be a source of profound joy and a strong pillar of any lasting partnership. However, when misused or abused

HOW TO SHOW LOVE TO YOUR FIANCÉ WITHOUT S3X

Dear ladies,

Let me teach you how to show love to your Fiance.

Some of you ladies do not know how to show love to person you're in a relationship with .

some ladies think that the only way to show a man love is by having s3x with him; that is why some ladies do not have anything to offer a man except s3x.

I remembered many years ago when I was dating a girl, I bought gifts for her, then she said, "I will pay you back this night by giving you a hot s3x." I just laughed.It is very funny.

A real man that has you in heart for future will not ask you for s3x, my father in the LORD said, "YOU DON'T EAT WHAT IS MEANT FOR THE FUTURE NOW". S3x is not a prove of love.

Don't use s3x to prove that you love a man.

As a lady, you can prove that you love a guy in the following ways:

1. Buy gifts for him. You can give him gifts of T-shirts, shoes, un**es, singlets or even a phone if you have the money.

2. Take him out for lunch and pay his bills at least once in 2 months. It is not bad at all.

3. Send him some love text messages occasionally.

4. Give him phone calls daily at least once daily, ask him how he is doing and tell him that you love him.

5. Occasionally you can cook a delicious meal for him, maybe once in a month or once in two months s, but not everyday/time like a housewife.

6. You can also help him financially when he is broke.

7. Take him out for shopping at least once in a year, you will not die.

8. Pray for him

9. Advise him to know God

10. Help him to build a bright future.

11. Don't give him s3x instead encourage him to know God and come and pay your bride price first.

I know some ladies will crucify me because of this post, but this is the ideal thing to do for a man, not s3x at all.

A real man will appreciate this and do more for you in return.

Thank you.....

TIPS FOR A HEALTHY MARRIAGE...!❤️

1) Communicate daily.

Don’t just communicate when there are misunderstandings, but communicate daily. You don’t have to wait for things to be tough before you share your thoughts and feelings.

2) Listen, before you argue.

So many arguments can be avoided if we learn to listen first. Listen first, so you can process things with sound minds and calm hearts. Remember to be slow to speak and quick to listen.

3) Build healthy habits together.

Have great conversations during breakfast, lunch, or dinner. Appreciate even the tiniest acts of love. Avoid blaming and shaming your spouse. Pray for each other always.

4) Give one another his/her alone time.

Wanting for some alone time doesn’t mean you’re no longer interested with each other, but having a time on your own recharges you in a special way only you could understand. It gives you peace, intimate joy, and strength to love even more.

5) Cultivate each other’s strengths

It’s important that you support your spouse’s personal goals and dreams. Know how you can support him/her privately and publicly. Praises can mean a lot for someone who needs encouragement.

6) The way you speak matters

Watch your tone always. Even if you’re right, it doesn’t give you the right to shout at your spouse. Check your heart always. Make sure to communicate your thoughts and words with respect and love.

7) Date your wife regularly.

Dear husbands, courting never stops in marriage. It won’t hurt when you make surprises here and there for your wife. Make an effort to take her out for a nice lovely dinner out. Plan for things. Make her feel that she is still beautiful in your eyes...!❤️

POWERFUL WISDOM TIPS FOR SINGLES AND MARRIED...!

1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime.

2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.

3. Silence can never be misquoted.

4. If you want what no one ever had, you must do what no one ever did.

5. When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy someone, he puts a person in his life.

6. It's better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.

7. Avoid a contentious woman.

8. Three kinds of men to avoid:
a. A hot tempered man.
b. A womanizer.
c. A drunkard.

9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.

10. Marry someone of similar religious beliefs.

11. Three words that echo peace in a marriage:
a. I love you .
b. I am sorry.
c. Thank you.

12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness. It won't last forever. Be happy and get busy with your life.

13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure.

14. Ma********on is can affect your marriage negatively.

15. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.

16. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny.

17. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.

18. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice.

19. A man and women need wisdom in choosing who to marry.

20. Do not place your priority on good looks; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.
May you not fail in Marriage.

Thank you for reading 📚 ❤️ 🙏

THERE ARE FOUR TYPES OF CONFUSED MEN IN THIS WORLD.

1. A man who doesn't want to raise another man's child but goes ahead and marries a woman who has a child and tells her to leave the child at her parent's home, instead of simply marrying a woman without a child at all.

2. A man who marries a graduate with a degree or a diploma only to tell her to quit job and take care of children. If you wanted a housewife, why not marry a grade 2 dropout instead of killing dreams of someone who has worked so hard to reach that far?.

3. A man who is a drunkard but goes ahead to marry a church girl and make her life a living hell. If you are a drunkard, marry your fellow drunkard and drink yourselves to madness without stressing anyone.

4. A man who after impregnating a lady, he denies being the owner of the pregnancy. Later after the lady has struggled alone and now the child is a bit older, he now wants to be involved with the child. If the child was not yours while still in the womb, why is it suddenly yours now??

Four Things To Look For In A Potential Spouse

1) Physical attraction

2) Religious compatibility

3) Emotional intelligence

4) Financial prospects

It does not matter how spiritual you are, NEVER marry a person you are not PHYSICALLY attracted to because you are spiritually compatible.

It is not God that wants you to marry a person you are not attracted to. It is Satan.

The devil loves marriages where there is no physical attraction, because that is how he can tempt you to commit adultery.

Frustrate him by marrying a person that makes you hungry to go home and turn off the lights!

7 RELATIONSHIP FACTS

1. Most women get annoyed and upset with guys who compare them to other girls.

2. Never get too attached to anyone unless they also feel the same towards you, because one sided expectations can mentally destroy you.

3. If you aren't happy single, you won't be happy taken. Happiness comes from within, not from a relationship.

4. Being nice to someone you dislike doesn't mean you're being fake. It means you're mature enough to tolerate that individual.

5. If you don't do stupid things while you're young, you'll never have anything to smile about when you're old.

6. No matter how strong of a person you are, there’s always someone who can make you weak.

7. Missing someone and not being able to do anything about it generally makes people moody, easily annoyed and/or emotionally frustrated.

to educate others.Cheers 🥂

FACTS ABOUT BEING HORNY...✍️

1. Being h***y is not evil or a sin.

2. Blessed are you when you are married to a spouse who is often h***y for you.

3. One of the things that reduces horniness in marriage is frequent and prolonged arguments.

4. It is not men alone who are h***y creatures. Women too get h***y, some women get extra h***y during ovulation; their body just wants to be touched, they are very wet.

5. A lot of men wake up h***y ready for love making. Dear wife, attend to his er****on.

6. Sometimes horniness can get so much till someone can't function well. This is why marriage offers a release.

7. One of the major challenges of long-distance marriages is that when you get h***y, your spouse is far away. Address this by calling each other and flirting together over the phone in moments of horniness and when you finally are together, explode and explore your horniness on each other.

8. It hurts when you are h***y but your spouse turns you down. It is one of the worst forms of rejection.

9. Some women get super h***y during the years before menopause. During this age, a woman can be more assertive s*xually. Enjoy while the horniness lasts

10. Horniness is a reminder that s*x was created for more than just conceiving babies but as an activity of love.

11. One can be a strong Christian and also a very h***y, s*xual and sensual person. Don't be ashamed of your horniness.

12. The answer to horniness in marriage is not to ignore it, but to address it and give it a release.

13. Couples who are h***y but with little love making tend to be edgy and easily irritable.

14. Some contraception can affect the level of a woman's horniness.

15. Horniness is tied to your view of your spouse, if you have a negative view, horniness will decrease.

16. Just because you are h***y doesn't mean you pick up your phone and start entertaining, chatting and calling other people who are not your spouse.

17. As you age, you might be tempted to look for younger people to experiment on your horniness in affairs. Stop it. This is not a game.

18. Control your horniness or your horniness will control you leading to lust.

What Is The Best Way To Choose Life Partner?

1.find someone who fears and loves God. 😇🙏👼

2. Find someone who can laugh at your silly jokes.😇🥰😍🤗🥳

3. Find someone who can bear your pain😪😓🥱😢.

4. Find someone who feels the same way as you do.

5. Find someone who has a few basics in common, loves you back, differs with you some, waits on you when you’re low and truly loves and feels for you.

6. Find someone who is compatible with you and who shares common interests and views about s*x.

7. Find someone who wants to be with you for the rest of your life; choose someone who chooses you.👸🤴

8. Find someone who will still love you when you’re broke.💔💔

9. Find someone who knows at least how to take care of money. You can tell by how much she/he spends during the few times you’re together dating.

10. Find someone who will remain faithful to you when you’re away.

11. Find someone who disagrees with you sometimes, but cares about you all the time.

12. Find someone who doesn't smoke, is not an alcoholic and is not on drugs.

13. Find someone you can talk to and become real friends👨‍✈️👩‍✈️🧍‍♂️🧍‍♀️ with.

14. Find someone who can give you a shoulder to lean on; someone who can support you financially😘😍👉💸💵💶💰💳💎 and emotionally.😍🥰🥰

15. Find someone you can enjoy to love;🥰🥰🤗 someone loveable and someone who can appreciate love.

16. Find someone who is already happy; not someone you have to work overtime to make happy.

17. Choose the person who makes you better.

18. Find someone who can support your vision.

19. Find someone who is pulling in your direction.

20. Find someone who loves family and loves kids.

21. Find someone who is stable financially and emotionally.

22. Find someone who does not complain.

23. Find someone who appreciates and respects you for who you are; not for what other people think or say about you.

24. Find someone who can be an iceberg; dive low with you and come to the surface with you.

Love you all 💜💜

NEVER TELL HER TO DO WHAT YOU WILL NEVER DO...✍🏾

A husband is a leader and a leader leads by example not by screaming! You have no right to correct your wife if you are doing same. Some men complain their wives are dirty but they are worse! They harbour dirt and grime, wear dirty, smelly boxers for a week, smelling, stained and sand accumulated socks for 5 days and would eat without brushing their teeth! They do not shave neither do they bath regularly. They come to bed all smelly and bushy and wonder why their wives don't listen to simple instruction!

If you are guilty of same offence, please, don't correct that woman, go correct yourself first then you have mouth to talk. A husband is a leader and a leader leads by example! You earn her respect forever! If you want her to stop hanging out with gossips on the street, lead by example! If you want her to be committed in church, show her by example! If you do not want her to flirt around, be her role model! You want her to be a prayer warrior and a wordsmith, show her by example!

Enough of beating and battering women in the name of correcting them! If you beat your wife, you are sick and needs serious medical check up! You don't beat a grown up adult for God's sake! Enough of African nonsense that makes men irresponsible and turn women to animals!

Lead by example! Teach her by your actions, if she is rude, you be humble and submissive to authority figures above you and she will learn. I'm not saying you should not correct your wife, do so but do it with an example to back it up!

Fellow men are quick to quote Ephesians 5 verse 22 but would not quote verse 25! Christ died for the church. He leads us by example. The Bible says we should follow Christ's example in everything we do. He does it first then asks us to do same. He became flesh so He can understand our pains and struggles! Only satan will ask you to do things he himself will never do! Whose example are you following, God's or satan?

UNDERSTANDING THE DYNAMICS OF DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP....

Love can happen anywhere and anyhow. Not everyone who got married had a short distance relationship experience. Many had a long distance relationship.

Whether we like it or not, distance relationship is a life mainstay because of the many uncontrollable and unforeseen factors of life. While some are succeeding at it, others are not. Distance relationship is as same as the short distance relationship except that the two lovers don't see often in person.

At this juncture, I would also like to say that distance relationship is not for everybody because it requires an EXTRA EFFORT. People who can't and won't be willing and ready to give it that extra effort shouldn't enter it in the first place. Therefore, today I write to educate you on the dynamics of a distance relationship.

1. You won't see often: One characteristics of a distance relationship is the "non physical presence" factor. This can span from a week to a year or even years. Therefore don't expect to see them often. However, make yourselves available as often as the opportunity presents itself.

2. Greater understanding is required: Sometimes some issues may arise. For instance a scheduled visit or date may be rescheduled or even cancelled. And this could hit you hard like a sledge hammer. But you must understand with the other partner.

3. Greater patience is required:
Long distance relationship requires a great deal of patience from both lovers. And those who lack it shouldn't enter it in the first place.

4. Communicate often:
You can't enter into a distance relationship and would not be willing to communicate often or at all with your lover. You must communicate not just often but for a long period of time. You can't be away from your lover for like a week or a month and when you eventually call them through the phone you will just ask how they are doing in one minute and drop the phone. Please chat, chat and chat. You could talk for minutes why

DO NOT DO THIS DURING SEX...✍🏾

1. Looking at time when you are having s*x gives the other an impression that you are wasting their time!
2. Acting annoyed when the other partner takes long to get an or**sm. Instead help them to reach there if you already have.
3. Having an or**sm first, then not bothering if your partner should have an or**sm or not. That is pure selfishness do something to make them reach there too!
4. Sneezing or coughing on partners face. If you must, look aside no need to splash someone with your saliva!
5. Making reference to a technique an ex used to do great to you, that is unhealthy comparison and will ruin that moment. IF you feel someone is not giving you well as you wish, address them not making references.
6. Faking that you are enjoying s*x, making all dramatic movements, dramatic moans etc. until someone can just tell you are faking.
7. Being too silent until someone feels like he is a mortician. At least make some sound when it feels good.
8. Being a passive participant and expecting your partner to do everything to you. Makes someone feel like a doctor operating a half dead patient!
9. Making disapproval faces when not satisfied. You better say it since your partner is not a psychic.
10. Not telling your partner you wish to try something new, then going on to try something so strange in bed. Nothing irritates someone than feeling like an experiment. Seek approval beforehand.
11. Calling out the wrong name when the pleasure is at the peak. That is a total deal breaker.
12. Not kissing. Kissing is so intimate to be ignored.
13. Pushing someone’s head towards your s*xual organs in order to request for oral s*x. Oral s*x is a sensitive matter and if someone is not feeling like it, do not force them.
14. Rushing through foreplay, this is totally wrong. Heat up the moment to enjoy more.
15. Farting during s*x and appearing like all is normal and usual. It is not!
16. Feeling offended when your partner communicates during s*x.

HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE BE SUBMISSIVE

1. Submit to God as a husband. This will diminish your pride

2. Have a vision of love that you communicate to her that she can submit to

3. Give her clarity and security. Make her know that she is your priority and focus. When a woman knows that her position is not treatened, she feels safe and pours herself to the relationship

4. Be admirable. She will proudly follow your lead when you bear admirable qualities and character

5. Love her up and water her emotions. Women respond to love by giving love

6. Do not dictate or Lord over her. Show her gentleness and consistency. Let her walk by your side not suppressed under you

7. Protect her as she gives you her all. Don't be her enemy or make her feel exposed to attacks and she will build with you and help you

8. Do not silence her voice. She should feel at home enough to contribute her thoughts and ideas. Submission is not slavery

9. Avoid advice from men who are intimidating or taking their wives for granted. She is your responsibility, don't be misled

HOW TO SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND

1. Submit to God as a wife. This will teach you humility

2. Be hundred percent commited, not displaying double mindedness. Participate in the marriage, don't leave everything to him. Use your voice and your greatness as a helper

3. Do not demean him or belittle the man that he is based on his achievements or compare him with others

4. Communicate that you are proud of him and you believe in him. Don't show him you might be more excited with or prefer another man

5. Inspire him and encourage him. Shouting at him or constantly complaining will not bring out the best in him but only discourages him

6. Be gentle with him. Speak with a tone of peace and love. Respect him in private and in public

7. Protect him and cover him. Don't gossip about him with others. Don't mock him or give ammunition to others to bring him down

10 THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T TELL TO ANYONE.
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In a relationship, whether married or still in courtship, there are things you should not tell another person. You never know who will be the Judas over your relationship.
There are high secrets you have to keep only to yourself.
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1. Don't tell anybody how weak your partner is. Someone may use it against them.

2. Don't tell people how much you quarrel with your partner, make them see it as perfect from outside while you settle issues
from inside.

3. Don't tell even a best friend how much you get as pocket allowance from your husband, if they ask tell them that he's
giving more than you expected.

4. Men don't tell your friends how good your wife is in bed, that's a secret between you and your wife.

5. Don't ever tell your mother the way he or she is acting in the marriage, you won't like the outcome if she's a jealous Mother inlaw.

6. Ladies, a friend may be eyeing your hubby and that's why you shouldn't tell them what moves him most.

7. Even your Pastor/Alfa is not worthy to know how many times you quarrel with your husband, most of them will use it as sermon.
Just talk to God alone.

8. Don't tell the children that their father is a bad man. It can make them hate him.

9. Don't tell anybody your partner's past Mistakes, it is too risky for your marriage.

10. Don't tell anyone to try seducing your partner to prove their loyalty. They may end up winning their love.