Meshyee

“Paano mo edidescribe yung life nong bata ka?”-Toni

“It was very dysfunctional parang growing up hindi ako masyado naka feel ng love sa parents ko. Parang yeah they’re there they provide for us pero laging may away laging may kulang eh lagi silang wala.”-Bea

“Your mother was diagnosed?”-Toni

“Meron po siyang Bipolar depression grabe siya mag lashed out as in 2 different person. Si mommy kase at si daddy mabigat yung kamay so si mommy she would lashed out na nananakit po talaga siya physically like i would go to school na meron akong pasa. Kasi si kuya din po bipolar din siya so ang hirap di ba Miss Toni kuya ko bipolar, mommy ko bipolar.” -Bea

“Pero nong bata ka babalikan mo yung marriage ng parents mo happy marriage ba?”-Toni

“Hindi po happy marriage sobrang lagi po silang nag-away as in sa harap talaga gusto niya na wiwitness yung galit niya (mommy) eh bata palang kami”-Bea

“Kaya parang kulang ako sa love kasi yung way ni daddy or ni mommy pag treat samin pinagsoshopping kami like in material things”-Bea

“So hindi na cure or na process yung hurt talaga na pinagdadaanan because the marriage was broken”-Toni

“Alam niyo lesson din to sa mga parents and listenings to stories of Genzs, if you do not heal your pain and traumas you will pass it to your children. Pag hurt ka hurt din yung mga people around you" -Toni

“Hurt people, hurt people”-Bea

“Wala kang maalala na happy memories?”

“Wala po, actually if people would ask me wheb I was young kung anong wish ko kahit wala kaming pera basta masaya yung family ko”-Bea

“She was operating from a place of hurt, yun ang nangyari sa mommy mo. Imagine if she was loved properly and so much love given by the husband then she can operate from a place of love” - Toni

“Nagki-crave po talaga ako ng pagmamahal. Yung love kasi ni Mommy sobra pero yung hurt din sobra din eh so parang ang hirap eprocess nun lahat. Sobrang sakit talaga growing up” - Bea

“Kapag di mo naexperience kung ano yung totoong klase ng pagmamahal you will settle for less when it comes to relationships.”-Toni

“So may mga relationship ka na your not treated well?”-Toni

“Ay lahat po miss Toni, like niloko po ako pero paulit-ulit parin akong bumalik. Tapos ako nagbabayad ng mga dates, bayad ng bahay ng renta. Bakla po ako magmahal miss Toni”-Bea

“Pero Growing up, hindi naging okay yung relationship ko with my Kuya kasi he… vinideohan niya ako while taking a bath..
Nake*d and I think I was 13 or 14 that time he took a video of me and then he sent it to his friends ” -Bea

“Si Kuya din po bipolar din siya, ang hirap po miss Toni kuya ko bipolar, mama ko bipolar so ang hirap talaga growing up. Tapos natutulog ako hinahawakan niya ako kaya nagagalit ako at nagigising, pero palaban po talaga ako at sumisigaw ako to the point na may makakarinig talaga samin. ” -Bea

“Paano mo na handle ang pag passed away ng daddy at mommy mo na magkasunod na year?”-Toni

“Actually hindi nga one year eh 5 months lang po yung pagitan, hindi ko po siya hinandle ng well miss Toni. Nahospitalized si Daddy tapos the next day si Tita ko tinawagan ako at sabi niya Be Patay na si Daddy and ang sakit non kasi I wasn’t there and it was COVID kasi,. Sobrang similar sa nangyari kay Mommy kasi non time na yun nasa taping ako tapos sabi nila Patay na daw po si Mommy.” - Bea

“Sabi ko Ayoko na, hindi ko na kaya”-Bea

“Right in front of me gumuho po yung mundo ko, may tampo po ako kay God. Until now kiniquestion ko parin si God na “Bakit ganun kailangan pa nilang mawala para mag grow ako mag bloom ako.” ‘Why did God allows this? Bakit pati naman si Mommy? Bakit? Bakit? Diba ang selfish na ang saya saya ko ngayon pero wala sila’” - Bea

“So dati hinahanap mo love in your life right now ano ang hinahanap mo?”-Toni

“Hinahanap ko ngayon is acceptance talaga sa nangyari po talaga sa parents ko. Kasi kahit nangyari na siya two years ago di ko parin siya matanggap pero I’m slowly getting there.”-Bea

“Di mo makakalimutan yung pain you’ll just learn how to live with it. Ganun ako ngayon I’m learning to live with the pain pero this time in a way na makakagrow ako.”-Bea

“Behind her happy smile and upbeat personality, there's a lot of hidden pain and sadness. That's why I admire her so much now, she's so strong. Sharing such deeply personal and painful stories is never easy, especially for someone na so young pa talaga. Yung mga experiences niya, no matter how difficult they are to hear, she deserve our compassion and understanding.”

May mga Misis na di masaya kapag nasa bahay ang Mister nila.

bakit kaya?

ITALIAN RELATIONSHIP:
1st day= S*x
2nd day= S*x again.

FRENCH RELATIONSHIP:
1st day = movie & kiss
2nd day = S*x
3rd day = S*x again

BRITISH RELATIONSHIP:
1 day= hangout & kiss
2nd day = kiss & hug
3rd day= kissing, hug and smooching
4th day = s*x and more s*x

AMERICAN RELATIONSHIP:
1st day= Date
2nd day= Hug
3rd day= Hug again (warmly)
4th day= Kiss
5th day= Long kiss
6th day= S*x

FILIPINO RELATIONSHIP Sa AFam😊:
1st day= Jollibee
2nd day= KFC
3rd day= Mang Inasal
4th day= Agree
5th day= Date
6th day= Date again
7th day= Date again with three of her hungry friends or cousins.
8th day= Date & Hug
9th day= Tried to peck but failed.
10th day = Peck
11th day= Tried to kiss but failed.
12th day= kiss
13th day= Long kiss
14th day= Tried to have s*x but failed.
15th day= Tried to have s*x but quarrelled
16th day= Didn't talk to each other
17th day= Malice till the next day
18th day= The man called but the woman didn't pick
19th day= The man called, the woman picked and asked: "what is it?"
The man apologize and the woman replied: "Leave me alone, am not that type of girl"
The man continued to beg till the next day.
20th day= The woman accepted the unwarranted apology
21st day= Hug
22nd day= Long hug
23rd day= Kiss
24th day= Long kiss
25th day= Tried to have s*x but the woman complains that her phone is bad. Guy promises to buy her a new one.
26th day= Tried to have s*x but the woman said until he buys the phone
27th day= Tried to have s*x but the woman asked: "where is the phone? U are not serious, call me when you are serious"
28th day= give phone . S*x
29th day= quarrel
30th day = TULFO 🫢😂🤣🤣

I'll just leave it here. Hindi ka nagkulang, naubos ka lang. 🥺❤️‍🩹

"Alam mo kung bakit ka anjan ngayon? Kasi minahal mo siya kesa sa sarili mo."
and that hit me hard!

PANALANGIN KO NA SANA LAHAT MAPUNTA SA DESERVE NILANG RELASYON ♡

Every relationship will get “Boring” after you've been together for years.

Love isn't just a feelings. It's a commitment to love every day, physically and emotionally.

It's difficult, it's not always laughs, smiles and fun.

People tend to quit when it's stop being fun, and they go look for someone else, because “the spark is gone”. No, that's not how it works.

You want somebody to never give up on you and love unconditionally then do the same.

Be the change.
Love someone when you don't want to. When they aren't the easiest to deal with. When they are hard to love.♡

kahit si sadness matutuwa kapag kinàrma yung pabida mong katrabaho! 🤣

A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing and a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything. 💯

Paano mo sasabihing "Goodbye" without saying goodbye?

Don’t rush anything..
“Good people end up with good people”

SANA LAHAT MAKATAGPO NG TAONG MAMAHALIN NG TOTOO HANGGANG DULO ♡

2 kids pala requirements sa tamang tao (1) ❤️🤣

Hindi palagi masaya, hindi palagi maayos, hindi palagi pabor sa inyo ang panahon. Ang importante hindi kayo nag iiwanan sa mga panahong mas kailangan niyo ang isa't isa.

TYPES OF DATES
EVERY COUPLE SHOULD TRY

1. PICNIC DATE:
There is something special and free about the outdoors. Pack up some food and drinks and, find a spot and have fun.

2. WALK DATE:
Make time to just take a walk as you bond. Walk for long as you hold hands, laugh, bump shoulder to shoulder. You need no money for this.

3. ELEGANT DATE:
Go all out. Gentleman, ask her out to an expensive, classy venue. Give her a chance to dress up. She will feel special, smiling as you romance her; she wearing her fashionable dress.

4. DANCE DATE:
Find a place where good music is played or dance is taught and go there as a couple. Salsa, lingala, afro, twist, benga; go to a place where you will sweat, groove and get down.

5. IMPROMPTU DATE:
Dates don't have to be pre-planned. Be spontaneous sometimes, drop everything and go somewhere as a couple for some quality time.

6. MOVIE DATE:
Go to the cinema. Movies bring out emotions.

7. DOUBLE DATE:
Go out on a date with another couple close to you. This will give you a chance to celebrate love and talk couple to couple. Your love will grow stronger.

8. COMPASSION DATE:
There are many people in society to bless. You and your partner, find a children's home, an elderly home, a hospital or someone in need and together go spend time with them. God will bless your love.

9. CANDLE-LIGHT DINNER DATE:
There is something romantic about looking into each other's eyes in dim candle light. Make it special. Romance is sweet.

10. SPECIAL MOMENT DATE:
This is when you celebrate big as a couple a special moment like Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation or Promotion. Never forget these moments.

11. MAKE-UP DATE:
If things between you two haven't been going well. Make effort to save your love by planning a good date. A date provides a good setting to allow you two to talk and get back to deep love.

12. LUNCH DATE:
Since you work at different jobs, sometimes meet up and have a couple's lunch for an hour or so.

13. OLD LOVE DATE:
Dates are not for young love only. Sadly, as lovers stay in a relationship/marriage, the dates become fewer as they go through the motions. No matter how long you've been together, step outside your everyday responsibilities and go for a date to rekindle and sustain the excitement.

14. SPORTS DATE:
Is your favorite football club, rugby team, basketball team, golfer playing? Is it the safari rally, athletics? Go out for dates as a couple where you can scream, cheer and go wild. You two will connect more.

15. FRIENDS DATE:
Have a barbeque, hook up with friends, throw a party. Organize something as a couple where your love will be celebrated in the presence of close friends.

16. TRAVEL DATE:
Pack your bags and travel. Break the monotony and as a couple drive, fly, sail to a place you've never been. Experience new attractions together. Your love will never be boring this way.

16. STAY AT HOME DATE:
Or lock yourself in the house. Not to work or do chores. But to switch off everything and concentrate on each other. Cook together, eat together, make memories for two.

" 𝑭𝑨𝑳𝑳 𝑶𝑼𝑻 𝑶𝑭 𝑳𝑶𝑽𝑬 "

Ngyayari ang "𝑭𝑨𝑳𝑳 𝑶𝑼𝑻 𝑶𝑭 𝑳𝑶𝑽𝑬" pag naging"normal days" ung mga extra-ordinary days nyo dati. Pag wala na ung mga elements of surprise, pag nagiging bored na kasi parang walang bago, away-bati, wala na ung dating bonding at kilig mangyari yan sa mga matatagal na magkasama/magkarelasyon.

Ang ending, pag my namemeet na new person ung excitement or kilig na nararamdaman naten
napupunta doon sa new person kasi ganun naman talaga sa umpisa eh 🤷‍♀️ kaya nagkakaroon ng third party 😅

Kaya for me, dapat laging meron open communication. Dapat meron parin sweetness at effort sa isat-isa kahit maliit na bagay, Consistent kumbaga..

Dapat andoon tayo sa part na lagi nyo nilolook
forward makita ung partner nyo kahit na sukäng
s**a na kau sa pagmumuka, sa kanya mo hahanapin ang pahinga.

Dapat mag effort ang both side🥰
laging my element of surprise..
Laging my appreciation sa partners. Babae ka man o lalaki pagdating sa effort dapat laging pantay.

crdts.

Masaya talaga at nakakakilig pag minsanan lang kayo magkita. Pero maniwala kayo sakin, pag nakasama nyo na yan sa bahay, dun nyo talaga malalaman totoong ugali ng isang tao. And it’s up to you nalang if magtitiis ka or ilalaban mo pa.

Indeed! ♡

lahat ng relasyon humahantong sa tinatawag na “boring stage” siguro nangyayari 'yun after 5 months or more than 1 year, ito yung sinasabi nila na wala na 'yung spark o kilig, yung wala ka nang nararamdaman na excitement kapag kausap mo s'ya. dito narin papasok yung tanong na, “kapag ba wala na 'yung kilig, wala narin ba yung love? ” bakit? nagmahal kaba para kiligin lang? being inlove and being in a relationship isn't all about the feelings, it's a responsibility to love your partner everday kahit na nagkakalabuan pa ka'yo.
meron pa, “kapag ba puro sakitan nalang or nagkakasawaan na ka'yo sa isa't isa, dapat n'yo na bang i-give up yung relasyon nyo? ” love isn't always laughs, smiles and fun, kapag hindi ka nasasaktan ibig sabihin hindi ka nagmamahal, wag ka pumasok sa isang relasyon kung puro saya at kilig lang ang habol mo. huwag kang pumasok sa isang relasyon if you want someone to love you endlessly, if you want someone to never give up on you pero you can't do the same. love is war, so get ready to be a soldier.