Matt Townsend

As a top 1% coach with over 25 years of coaching experience, I've been fortunate enough to help thousands improve their relationships and lives.

Of the 5000+ I've coached face to face, over 80% said they saw major improvements in their relationships & lives, by applying the tools I teach.

Now, I'm on a mission get these tools to the next generation of coaches, to change the world for the better.

If you are an aspiring coach, passionate about helping others but unsure how to turn that passion into a fulfilling career...

Or a practicing coach, looking to deepen your coaching toolkit, expand your skills, and achieve better results with your clients...

Then my new program Peacemaker Coach Training with Dr. Matt
Townsend could change everything for you.

I'm beyond excited to announce that enrollment is now officially open for this year's Peacemaker Coach Training that starts August 20th!

Registration closes August 16th (or when sold out).

Early Bird Discount Ends July 31st.

Click the link below to learn more, schedule a free Q&A call, &
find our free downloadable info guide that gives a complete overview of the program!

https://www.coachwithmatt.com/peacemaker

Peacemaker Coach Training With Dr. Matt Townsend Interested in learning more? Enter your name and email to download our guide containing an overview of the program, common FAQ's, & more!

❤️Marriage Bundle 2024 is here and available for purchase starting today, Monday, June 17th for a limited time! Find out more by looking through the photos ⬅️ . . . We have collaborated with 18 other marriage sites to bring you 19 valuable resources and products to help you improve your marriage! You don’t want to miss out on this one! I have included my last Valentine’s Date Night show (all new + on video) as my contribution, plus you will receive so many other valuable resources! Look and see what some of these are! It’s a $400 value for only $35 with this special link below! It will say $50 but I promise the price drops to $35 at checkout when you use this link! This offer is for a limited time . . so don’t wait!

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Cruise, 2024 is in the books! 🛳️✈️ We had so much fun and met some of the best people!! 😀This was a Couple’s Retreat Cruise with about 70 of us and it was a blast! We had three stops over a week on the Harmony of the Seas, with 10 hours of learning and laughing on the sea days! Looking forward to more cruises in the near future! Watch for details coming soon! 🇲🇽

One of the first things I advise my clients to do when they encounter issues in their relationships is to focus on what they can control—themselves.

If the way you communicate is ineffective and doesn't yield results, it's time to stop and DISRUPT the pattern. Begin by recognizing your usual approaches and then do the opposite.

For instance, during a recent Becoming One group coaching call, a woman shared her struggle with me. She said, 'I've tried everything to get my husband to open up about his feelings, but no matter how much I press, he remains closed off. What should I do?'

In her situation, she was typically the one pursuing, always probing, while her husband would withdraw. I suggested she try the opposite approach—stop pursuing and see what happens.

After a few weeks, she noticed a change. This disruption in their regular interaction pattern caused her husband take notice. He stopped withdrawing and began pursuing her, which eventually led him to open up more about his feelings.

Comment 'DISRUPT' to receive a DM with a link to try out a free month of these weekly virtual coaching calls, plus free access to my 10-Day Relationship Makeover Video Program that has helped thousands transform their communication.

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We all have our moments of negativity—it’s part of being human. But what’s remarkable is our ability to choose how long we stay in that space...

Just like a brief rain shower can clear up in minutes, so can a negative mindset. It’s about acknowledging it, and making the conscious choice to steer ourselves back to a place of positivity.

I get it. Sometimes it just feels better to vent. But I think we’d all be a little happier if we chose to look on the bright side more often than not.

Doing so sets the stage for happier, healthier, and more uplifting interactions with others.

In relationships, we often see the most emotionally unhealthy, & relationally “challenged” person, seemingly hold all of the the control. This control creates a lopsided dynamic, where the relationship revolves around managing one person’s issues, & keeping them happy, rather than both mutually benefiting.

The key is to start to see them as broken, or “relationally challenged”. Doing so puts you back in the drivers seat, so you stop being continuously hurt by their actions. Seeing them through this lens can even introduce a sense of compassion, seeing how they’re unable to foster health relationships due to their limitations.

Is this pattern familiar to you? Comment ‘BROKEN’ to receive a DM with a link to a free month of weekly virtual coaching calls with me, + free access to my 10-Day Relationship Makeover Video Program.

With these resources, you’ll learn how to take back balanced control and create a supportive environment where both thrive in your relationship.

Do you agree? 👀

If there's one thing I've learned coaching thousands of couples over the last 25 years, it's that diving deeper and deeper into everything that's broken, only leads to more breaks. Instead, transformative change comes from a solutions-oriented mindset. This is because most couples are plagued by unhealthy communication patterns & habits that have developed over years.

The sad truth is, unless you start learning real world, tried and tested, actionable solutions to reverse these patterns, you’re going to remain stuck in this downward spiral of growing apart.

Here’s the good news: Change is possible, and all it takes is one of you to choose to get the ball rolling. Here's what you can do TODAY.

1. Comment the word "Solutions". I'll send you a DM with a custom link to get 1 month of FREE weekly virtual coaching calls with me + FREE access to my 10-Day Relationship Makeover Video Program.

2. Tag a few friends and family that you know that could also benefit from FREE coaching & relationship resources.

I host these group coaching calls for members of the "Becoming One" program each Friday. You can ask me questions, get personalized solutions, and watch as I coach others.

Hope to see you on the weekly calls soon!

🌹Looking to ditch the same old Valentine’s plans? We’ve got just the thing! Join us for a night of laughter, love, and learning at Dr. Matt Townsend’s annual Valentine’s Event! By popular demand, we now have a VIRTUAL OPTION for non-local lovebirds! ❤️ If you live locally near Salt Lake City, Utah, come join us LIVE at Murray High School in Murray City, or if not local, join us virtually from the comfort of your own home! When? Wednesday, February 14th at 7pm Mountain Time . . . come laugh and learn with us! It’s the best edu-tainment out there and a great time! 😍 Register here: https://www.coachwithmatt.com/datenightregistration

Tired of unresolved marital conflict? Only 7 hours left to join Becoming One for 50% off! https://www.coachwithmatt.com/becomingone

Here's what some of our members have to say!

Heather M.

"I just have to say that this program is exactly what we've been looking for. We couldn't afford counseling, but we wanted to find a better way to handle our conflicts. Low and behold, a low-pressure online course where we could learn together! It's literally strengthened our marriage just knowing we are both invested on working on this together!"

Cyndee J.

"Took a while to get my husband to watch, but we've learned more in 10 days about how to relate to each other than we have in 50 years of marriage. Highly recommend to anyone in a relationship."

WHAT'S INSIDE THE PROGRAM?

Weekly Coaching: Join our live group coaching sessions where I provide tailored advice, answer questions, and you can watch and observe as I coach couples facing similar challenges.

Ask a Coach: Submit your queries anytime and receive detailed responses from me and our certified coaches. Access past questions and answers sorted by topic for easy reference.

10-Day Makeover: Diagnose relationship issues using our workbook, assessments, and value-packed videos to find actionable solutions for improvement.

Private Community: Engage daily in our exclusive Facebook group. Share insights, success stories, and support fellow members on their journey to Becoming One.

Bonus Content: Receive fresh bonus content monthly, including event recordings, in-depth workshops, deep dive videos, and enriching podcast episodes spanning various relationship topics.

Exclusive Discounts: Access special discounts on my other online programs, enhancing your learning experience.

Early Event Access: Gain early discounted access to tickets to my sold-out live events throughout the year, securing your spot ahead of time!

A good relationship is one that has passion, attraction and chemistry as well as a certain level of stability, comfort and ease. Ideally we would have both but it begs the question: Is it better to be in a relationship that's comfortable but not passionate or one that's passionate but not always comfortable?

On this day before Halloween, I want to know what your best ideas for a couples costume: It could be one you've done in the past or what you've got planned for this Halloween. Let us know your best, funniest ideas. Pictures are welcome!

Many people have had challenging experiences in relationships but still continue to trust that they can find love and belonging in the future. How do you stay hopeful in relationships despite difficult past experiences?

Have you ever noticed that you and your partner have your own special language? Certain words are said in a funny way or certain phrases have a special meaning? Tell me about your relationship "language": Are there any words or phrases that you or your partner say funny or that have a special meaning only between the two of you?

What role should compromise play in a relationship? When has it gone too far? And if that doesn’t work, can two people really “agree to disagree”?

Tell me about a relationship you admire: is there a friend, family member or even a celebrity that has a relationship that you want to emulate? What do you admire about that relationship?

Idaho Falls and surrounding areas! We are coming your way this weekend! Come join us for a fun Marriage Conference on Friday night and/or a youth and family event on Saturday morning! Please share this post to all your Idaho friends and family! We would love to see you there! Here is the link to register: https://ourturtlehouse.com/events/

Whether all your kids are now in school or all of your kids have moved out of the house or some other transition . . “How to navigate life’s transitions” is the topic today . . on the Season 18 Premiere of Studio 5! Watch here: https://studio5.ksl.com/get-comfortable-life-transitions-navigate-changes/

Do you have a hard time dealing/communicating with certain people in your life? Watch this segment to find 6 solutions to help you communicate better! https://studio5.ksl.com/dealing-with-difficult-person-solutions-communicate/

LAST CHANCE to get $400 worth of marriage products for just $20! After midnight on Monday, July 31st, this Marriage Bundle offer will not be available . . so order NOW! Here is the link:

Marriage Bundle 2023 Your favorite Marriage Bundle is BACK for our SIXTH year! You’ll be able to create the marriage of your dreams one date night, eCourse, eBook, and workshop at a time! We’ve gathered this year’s top marriage resources from 20 different marriage experts and bundled them together for A LIMITED TI...

🎉It’s that time of year again! We have collaborated with 19 other marriage experts to put together this awesome bundle of 20 marriage products for only $20! $400 of value for only $20! You will not want to miss out on this incredible, limited time offer that is now live and ready to go! Such an inexpensive way to improve your marriage! Use coupon code: MATTTOWNSEND2023 at thedatingdivas.com or click on the following link to get this amazing offer . . . https://thedatingdivas.myshopify.com/discount/MATTTOWNSEND2023?redirect=%2Fproducts%2Fmarriage-bundle-2023

How do you resolve disagreements or conflicts with your partner in a healthy and constructive way?

☀️🌴🌊Come join us for a Couple’s Get Away to Puerto Vallarta, Mexico this fall . . October 22-27! You will have the chance to relax by the pool or on the beach, attend great classes to rejuvenate your marriage, eat great food, go on fun excursions etc! It really is a blast and we hope you can join us! Registration is open until the end of a July only! Go to www.matttownsend.com, Live Events and you can find all the info there! The trip is with Fun For Less Tours, the cost is per person and does not include airfare . . but does include $$ for food! Register today!😁

If you live in or near Idaho Falls, or know people who do, please share this with your friends and family! Excited to join forces with these awesome people, John Bytheway and Meg Johnson and come to Idaho Falls in September! Get your tickets now and come join us!