Glam by Jessie Hamby

OUT OF OFFICE

Hey everyone, I will be working on a big film project from June 20th-July 6th and will not be taking appointments during that time. My free time will also, not be much of free time during that time frame so just putting this message out there just in case it takes me a while to respond to messages, requests, and trying to set up appointments once I'm back in the salon.

As I've already announced, my salon days are VERY limited each month (1st and 3rd Fridays) so I will do what I can to accommodate everyone and may open up another Friday in July as the time gets closer.

Thank you all for your love & support! 💕

✨Zoey ✨

Finishing out this series of some of my work with the kiddos, I’m including an action shot from the wedding this past weekend.

Zoey’s parents are some of our dearest friends and absolute best humans on the planet. I had the opportunity to get their hair and makeup ready for their mom’s wedding and couldn’t help but marvel at the beautiful teen they have become.

Life is so short and when you’re watching kids grow you see first hand just how fast it goes!

✨Jaeda ✨

I have been doing this sweet girl’s hair since she was 3 (up until I took a major step back last year)! The first time she came to see me I was still in beauty school and she was young and nervous about being around people so she wore sunglasses the whole time.

It is bittersweet seeing all the young kids I’ve worked with over the years grow up into teens and young adults. The lives that I have encountered have enriched my experience and fill my heart with gratitude.

This was my first time having the pleasure of doing her makeup and she is stunning with or without it!

✨HONEST✨

The freshest baby you’ll meet! I’ve been doing his hair every weekend since he was just months old. We started with ponytails while the back started to grow in and eventually had enough hair to start braids. Because we’ve been doing it regularly from an early age we don’t have a problem with him sitting to let me do it. I think this is key when working with the kids! Consistency and starting early!

Our routine goes as follows: shampoo, condition, treat the night before. Do a quick twist to stretch the curls, no actual partings. At night we have a cap he wears. The next day, roughly an hour before nap time I sit him in his high chair, turn on a movie, and give him some snacks. By the time we are finished, he is ready for a nap!

Maggie ✨

These beautiful young souls I have the pleasure of working with reignite my hope for the future.

External beauty really is only skin deep, but a beautiful soul radiates throughout the universe sprinkling goodness in everything it touches. It has the power to transform the world in ways unimaginable.

Contrary to social media posting ya girl has been busy!

Although my time in the salon is incredibly limited, I’ve had Photoshoots, proms, formals, and of course my bridal beauties! 👀 Peep last weekends beautiful bride Jessica ✨

Did you know I’m also back in school full time!? Last August I enrolled to seek my Psychology degree. You know, 10yrs of basically being an untrained therapist to all my wonderful clients I’m going back to gain some foundational technical knowledge to bring to the chair! 4.0gpa and Presidents List for both semesters I’ve been putting in work!

Joida ✨

The best part of my job is the people I meet along the way. This is the second year in a row that I’ve had the pleasure of getting this beauty ready for formal.

I never posted the last in this set, so here ya go 😬

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🎶 Hard to love
It's hard to love (it's hard to love)
It's hard to trust you
Hard to change
It's hard to change
I can't expect you to fix all my issues 🎶

Whew this song gets in my feels speaking on the complexities of baggage that we bring into relationships. Intentional or not our lived experiences shape how we show up in the relationships in our life, often tainted even if only subconsciously. These manifest in many ways and we have to make conscious efforts to heal ourselves without projecting them onto our partners or expecting them to heal us.

All of us have parts that are hard to love, what are the parts of you that are hard to love?

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“When you change you, you change how I see you and because how I see you fits together with how I see me, then that changes how I see me. If I don't know who you are anymore, I don't know who I am.” -Byrad Yyelland

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Put a smile on your face 🙃

I had intentions on making this a nice long philosophical post, but the truth is my brain has been functioning at high levels of thinking lately and I just don’t have the words. I have lots of feels, lots of thoughts, but I’m lacking the brain capacity to effectively communicate them.

So for now I leave you with this, Happy Monday. Put a smile on your face 💕

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Adjust your crown 👑

Courtesy of and sharing because Georgia & I are both Aquarius….

Aquarius in October: October is a transformative month and even though it won’t be comfortable, it’s much needed. The things you’ve been wanting knowingly and unknowingly are manifesting now because the Divine always knows what’s best for you. You’ll be learning a lot this month…moving from one state of being to another, learning through growing pains, and making a conscious effort to change.

For me, the fall months symbolize a time for reflection, introspection, and reclusive behavior.

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It’s October 1st which is basically Halloween right!? 🤣

Even though this shoot was done in January as a “Death to my 20s” ode it’s perfect to share now since I’ve been slack on posting.

Meet Georgia… a former client turned friend. She’s smart, spunky, and cares for people with passion both professionally and personally. You can probably find her traveling, listening to K-pop and attending concerts. She’s a beautiful, kind soul that I adore 💕

The only hard part about stepping back from behind the chair is not being able to see my beautiful people on a regular basis. 💕

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Lastly in my headshot posting is another creative shot for this beautiful lady!

She has a mobile vet service that you should check out!

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To be gone so long from timeline posting I appreciate your engagement on my last post💕

Now let’s talk creative headshots. This dynamic duo husband and wife pair wanted more than just your everyday professional headshots. We did a half day shoot and completed in studio and on location looks, subtly switching up the vibe each time.

Hair and makeup should compliment you, your style, and the overall mood of what you’re trying to convey.

Which look is your favorite?

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Hi friends 👋🏼

Did you realize it’s been almost 6 months since I’ve actually posted any work here 🥴

Life has changed a lot. April was my last month officially doing full time business behind the chair. I’m currently only working twice a month in the salon doing haircuts and basic styling only, no chemical services. I do still offer wedding services, editorial, and photoshoot work on site.

I’m focusing more on family stuff these days and I actually started back to school (I’ll announce more about that later).

Featured here is some of my work with headshot photographer .photography

This June I have reflected on the beautiful space that I created and what that space truly represented as a symbol of PRIDE.

I’ve been in business for 10yrs now, but the past 2yrs I was in a physical space that I truly got to create from scratch. My vision was simple, my clientele is incredibly diverse and I wanted my space to reflect that. I wanted all of my guests to come in and SEE themselves represented and FEEL welcome and at home. It was the first time that I cultivated the culture for each of my guests in a space designed specifically for them. I wanted rainbows to reflect pride and safety as well as the art of my craft.

For years it was always suggested to keep business and personal separate and although I never watered down my own sexuality for the comfort of my clients I was subtle in the way I expressed myself for a long time. I eventually leaned into my intuition of mixing business and personal because I realized my business is an extension of ME and I am a le***an woman. If people have an issue with that, they are simply not my clients. Being a part of the q***r community myself I’ve always been a safe space personally, but being able to ensure privacy was what I was lacking in all my previous spaces.

I closed up shop at the end of this April after 2yrs to pursue my ventures in freelance work (and for reasons to be revealed later) and while I was incredibly sad to do so because of what my space represented for so many people I’m now reflecting on that space with so much gratitude. In that space, I held space for people to be authentically themselves without judgement. In that space, I heard stories, shared laughs and tears. In that space, I helped people align their outer beauty and inner beauty. In that space, I watched literal transformations of becoming their most authentic selves. I never tried to change someone based on my beliefs or who I thought they should be, I just encouraged them to find themselves without the filter of the world. I’ve received messages of thanks and gratitude for being someone who truly sees them for the first time. In that space, I fostered love and genuine compassion. In that space, I truly feel like I made a difference.

Pride month always fills me with a mix of emotions. First, PRIDE. Obviously! Second, anger & frustration because this month always seems to exacerbate the hate towards our community. Third, sadness because the thought of hate is why so many people do not come out or take their own 1!ves, out of fear of judgement and being ostracized from their friends and family. Fourth, fear for safety for the community. And so many more.

Why is PRIDE important? Because it humanizes our existence. We are here. And all we want is to not have to fight for our inalienable and basic human rights. Our relationships, our sexuality, our gender, our expression aren’t legitimized based off of your religion, opinion, or belief and we will always exist regardless, we’re just asking, stop making it harder. Lead with love because if you’re paying attention, that’s at the core of most of your beliefs.

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The message of today’s meditation was “Flow like Water”. This couldn’t have been anymore perfect as this final week in the salon brings on a myriad of emotions.

One of the most powerful forces on earth, water doesn’t have a definite shape but has the ability to take on shapes in many different forms. It flows, has the ability to be contained as well as to destroy, or forge new paths. It has the ability to nourish, to replenish. In so many ways we are like water as we trudge along our life’s path. Often we flow until we find ourselves contained. Contained by titles, by expectations, by people, by things, by our own minds. Contained until we can longer be contained. My container sprung a leak a while ago and I’m finding my flow again as I forge new paths. Today I’m choosing the flow. Today I’m allowing the container to fully break as the rush of water begins to find its way unhinged. Thank you to everyone who has supported me in some way along this amazing journey.

I’ve already spoken with my clients who have been in over the past few months, but I’ve decided to publicly announce that once a month I will be doing HAIRCUTS ONLY for existing clients. For now, I’ve decided on the 3rd Friday of every month. I will no longer be in my own private room though, I’ll be using the salon owner Jennifer’s chair on that day each month. For my color clients, I’m referring you to professionals that I best feel suits your personal and haircare needs and releasing the formula for both you and the stylist.

**As a reminder, I’m still available for hair and makeup bookings for weddings, photoshoots, commercial and film.**

So much love to you all. It’s never goodbye, always see you later! 💕

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She is the sweetest soul and always brings an unexpected fierceness anytime she steps in front of the camera.

Creating with this group was absolute magic and we always elevate in more ways than one…. Every. Single Time. ✨

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I wanna go the party that these baddies are headed to, what about you!?

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:| Collab |: the action of working with someone to produce or create something

:| Art |: the expression or application of human creative skill and imagination, typically in a visual form such as painting or sculpture, producing works to be appreciated primarily for their beauty or emotional power

A true collaboration is a meeting of the minds, a gathering of artistic expertise, expertly executed in a visual explosion invoking feeling.

In these spaces our artistic hearts and souls are left filled with love, gratitude, meaning, a renewed sense of self, and pride. In these spaces we are vulnerable to our art and it’s self expression, trusting that each individual involved will do us all justice. In these spaces, we are one, we are all or nothing.

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Loved loved loved working with this amazing couple and the talented Escobar Photography, LLC

SURPRISE!…. I QUIT!

No literally, I quit. You read that right.

This decision has been one of the hardest and probably longest decisions I’ve ever had to make. Over the past couple of years I’ve debated multiple times on taking a step back from being behind the chair (services in the salon) and still working the beauty industry in a different capacity. Debated is probably a light term for the mental anguish I put myself through in several different phases weighing the pros and cons. Ultimately, each time I convinced myself to stay, make certain changes that I thought would help me rekindle the spark. It worked periodically and for different amounts of time but each time I would find myself on that mental teeter totter about what I was doing and why and have the unshakable feeling that I needed to step back. The reality that if I were truly aligned with my purpose the happiness would flow and I wouldn’t even be in the position of comparing the pros and cons weighed heavy on me in the latter of part of 2022.

My clients, the connection that I have with each of my guests, to be able to love on my people, the feeling of being able to help problem solve, to be a pillar in the community, to provide a safe private space for everyone, to offer advice, to take care of and service each person that has sat in my chair is the reason why I’ve always found my way on the side of the “pros”. Albeit the toughest year to date on so many accounts, it helped me realize and focus on what’s important to me and what feels right in my soul. It provided clarity in a sense and I realize that all the things that are near and dear to me can still be relevant in my life, it’s just the vehicle (beauty industry) in which I use is about to change.

If I’m being honest, I’m terrified. Not having a concrete plan is both liberating and terrifying. I’m following the gut feeling that I need to be closer to home, that I need to learn to trust myself and the inner workings of madness within. I’m realizing that the path that I have been journeying has lead me to so many revelations about self, family, career, purpose, and the big picture. I realize now that some people literally envision their future, they can see it all in their minds eye and take the steps towards it. For me, it’s a feeling. I can feel when something doesn’t align or contrarily if something feels right, but just the same my head and heart will battle about it. My head (brain or logic) will try to control the situation/outcome, and for me this has usually been the victor. I haven’t trusted my heart (feelings) because those aren’t logical and sometimes I can’t make sense of them. I’m no stranger to change but I generally like to have a plan, currently I do not and oddly, I’m at peace with that. There’s quite a few things I want to do and LOTS of changes for this year. I’m just grateful for a partner that supports my wild imagination.

The chaos in my life that was 2022 helped guide me to this shift of simplicity. Ultimately, I’ve landed with the decision to give up being behind the chair. I’ll still be available for film, photoshoots, special events, and bridal I will just no longer be providing in salon services. Trust me when I say, this was no easy decision. Mentally I had to reach the logical conclusion as well as name the emotional attachment that I have had to this part of my career. I would always find myself frustrated that I “just missed” an opportunity to advance in certain spaces but I’m starting to realize that had things moved in the direction that I thought I wanted then other parts of my life would’ve inevitably suffered. Running a business is challenging and rewarding. I had to reach a point of gratitude for the magnitude that my career has held for me. I had to learn not to equate this decision with failure. I had to detach from certain titles and the identities that those hold for me. I had to disassociate with the idea of an obligation to others and their expectations of and for me. I had to realize that the only obligation I have is to me and my family. I had to realize that while clients are extended family in so many ways, their access to me is not guaranteed. I’m quieting the noise, I’m choosing to listen to the nagging feeling that my gut has been trying to nudge me with. For once, I’m relinquishing control and attachment to a specific outcome and going with what feels right within.

I’m learning more and more that life is about the journey and that you’re never really going to arrive to a destination, once you get to one and get settled in you realize it’s time to keep trucking. It’s about growth and reinvention and the beautiful part is that you can truly make it your own.

In the meantime, I want to place my current clients with people that will fit each of their specific personal and haircare needs, personalities, and locations. With that said, I have a few providers and/or salons in mind in the Greenville and closely surrounding areas but I need some in the Pickens County and Clemson area as well. Specifically looking for different qualities…q***r friendly, hair texture diversity, private space, kid friendly stylist, wide range of ability, just to name a few.

I want to extend so much love to my current salon home at this time and the beautiful, loving team that we have. They have been incredibly supportive and understanding of this decision as have all of my clients I’ve been able to talk to so far. My goal is for April to be my last month behind the chair so if you’re looking to book an appointment, now is the time!

This year has been filled with so much LOVE! 💍🫶🏼

I’ve had the pleasure of taking part in the union of quite a few people that hold very special places in my heart this year! To celebrate with them in some of the happiest moments of their lives has been an honor.

I’m so happy that you found your forever as you are so deserving! I love you! Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your special day and share such precious moments with you!

Thank you for helping me with this bridal party and being my wedding date! I love you too my dear 💕

P.S I have so many lovely brides from this year I can’t wait to share!

It’s one thing to be sought out as a beauty pro through a quick Google search or stumbling across the socials BUT there’s something special about a referral… especially when it comes from another beauty pro.

This beauty was the faithful client of another stylist and friend that just recently moved so she needed a new local stylist and someone to do her wedding. thank you for your friendship and your trust in me as a stylist to take care of one of your besties. I 🫶🏼 you!

Bri thank you for allowing me to be a part of your dream day and for now being a dear client and friend! Our conversations are so refreshing and you are a gem! May your marriage provide you with a lifetime of happiness powered by love!

Congrats Mr & Mrs Stein 💕

‘Tis the season 💍

This time of year is full of weddings and holiday festivities but there are A TON of proposals that happen during this magical season.

I have a theory, although holidays can be super stressful, full of planning and preparation it’s also a time when families are all together, where love is present, and it just feels magical. I believe that’s why we see so many engagements happen during this season. It’s also cooler weather and we need something to warm the heart 🥰

I love playing a part in these big life events because it’s such a beautiful time! It’s even more special when I’ve known the families for quite some time. This wedding was super special to me and I’m forever grateful for this beautiful family. May their love never fade, may life’s ups and downs provide an even stronger foundation, and may they always know they have one another!

Congrats Mr & Mrs Gooch

𝘓𝘦𝘵’𝘴 𝘛𝘢𝘭𝘬… 𝘒𝘪𝘥𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘯 𝘗𝘢𝘳𝘵 3

Now, let’s talk etiquette.

A salon space inhabits lots of dangerous things for children; sharp objects, chemicals, cords, glass, etc. As the parent, I’m counting on you to keep an eye on your children while respecting the space that I’ve created. I will never expect kids to just sit in silence but things like running can cause harm to your child in the space and screaming makes the experience for guests in the other part of the salon unpleasant as well as distracts me from being able to give the best service possible.

The ultimate goal is to create a salon experience that your kids love, free of trauma and bad experiences and truly this is a joint effort! Help me help you and I hope to see you and the littles soon! 💕

𝘓𝘦𝘵’𝘴 𝘛𝘢𝘭𝘬… 𝘒𝘪𝘥𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘯 𝘗𝘢𝘳𝘵 2

Here’s a few things to think about!

👉🏼How long will the service you’re requesting take? A good rule of thumb is that children under the age of 10 have about a 1hr threshold, after that they get antsy. You know your child best but tablets and other tools help serve as distractions during the hair process. I use my Amazon Echo to stream movies at times too to help pass the time for longer services like braids. I generally have drinks and snacks but if you or your child has dietary/allergy issues it may be best to bring a few of your own just in case. Anything over an hour normally requires a snack for the littles 😉 If it’s outside of a Saturday, chances are the appointment may be centered around a mealtime, bring food, have it delivered, I’m totally fine with it! Actually encourage it… after all, HANGRY is a thing even in children!

👉🏼Most of my littles know exactly what they want! Make sure that you both are in agreement on what that is prior to the appointment, because I hate to be in the middle. Parent has to like me but also for the best experience, the kids need to like me too. I don’t wanna be the bad guy to either one of you!

👉🏼Potty breaks are gonna happen with anything over an hour and there’s just something about bathrooms that kids are intrigued by 🙃 Be patient parents! If kids are still potty training, hair appointments might be a good time for a pull up!

👉🏼With my space being private I can accommodate things like sensory issues and triggers in both children and adults. Just share them with me at time of booking and I’ll be sure to prepare my space best for you and build in extra time for the appointment if needed.

More in next post…