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Heather MacFadyen joins us to explore Enneagram 4 Subtypes where she unpacks her customized way of being unique. What type of 4 are you? Tune in to find out! https://relatebetter.com/enneacast/

One of our favorite guests, Dr. Alison Cook, returns to help us explore Enneagram 3 Subtypes. Not all Achievers are built the same or pursue the same instinctual goals in their life. What type of 3 are you? Tune in and find out! https://relatebetter.com/enneacast/

Not all Helpers are made the same! Which type of Type 2 Helper are you? Make sure to check out our episode with Dr. Krisit Gaultiere to discover more of the way you relate! https://relatebetter.com/enneacast/

Did you catch our episode about Enneagram 1 Subtypes? Listen now wherever you get your podcasts! https://relatebetter.com/enneacast/

Have you been following our subtype series on The EnneaCast? Curious about why others with the same Enneagram type can seem so different? Make sure to check out our introduction and catch up to learn more about your subtype! https://relatebetter.com/enneacast/

Curious about why others with the same Enneagram type can seem so different?

Join Jesse and Lindsey as they kick off a new series exploring Enneagram subtypes. Discover how the three subtypes—Self-Preservation, Social, and Seeking—uniquely influence your behaviors and relationships. Learn about countertypes and stacking to gain a deeper understanding of your inner motivations. Tune in to gain clarity on your unique personality and enhance your self-awareness and relationships.

#122: An Introduction to the Subtypes Curious about why others with the same Enneagram type can seem so different? Join Jesse and Lindsey as they kick off a new series exploring Enneagram subtypes. Discover how the three subtypes—Self-Preservation, Social, and Seeking—uniquely influence your behaviors and relationships. Learn about ...

How do we overcome unwanted sexual behavior? Jesse has a conversation with Nick Stumbo. Nick is the executive director of Pure Desire Ministries, a ministry and therapy practice dedicated to guiding clients through the process of overcoming sexual addiction and healing from betrayal trauma. They talk about Nick’s journey overcoming po*******hy, father wounds, and how to overcome unwanted sexual behavior.

#120: Say More: A Conversation w/ Nick Stumbo Today, Jesse and Lindsey discuss the last of seven elements of having good conversations: how to end conversations gracefully. Jesse has a conversation with Nick Stumbo. Nick is the executive director of Pure Desire Ministries, a ministry and therapy practice dedicated to guiding clients through the...

What happens when parents pass their anxieties down to their children? In this episode, Jesse has a conversation with Sissy Goff. Sissy is a therapist, speaker, and executive director of Daystar Counseling Ministries. They talk about how Sissy’s early years, how she learned to be a healthy counselor, and what happens when parents don't confront their own anxieties.

#119: Say More: A Conversation w/ Sissy Goff Today, Jesse and Lindsey discuss the sixth of seven elements of having good conversations: how to be other's focused. Jesse has a conversation with Sissy Goff. Sissy is a therapist, speaker, and executive director of Daystar Counseling Ministries. They talk about how Sissy's early years, how she lea...

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey discuss the fifth of seven elements of having good conversations: asking good questions. Lindsey has a conversation with writer, speaker, social worker, and activist Faitth Brooks. They talk about how Breonna Taylor’s story impacted her and they discuss the question, "What would it look like to remember black women today in our present day and age?"

#118: Say More: A Conversation w/ Faitth Brooks Today, Jesse and Lindsey discuss the fifth of seven elements of having good conversations: asking good questions. Lindsey has a conversation with writer, speaker, social worker, and activist Faitth Brooks. They talk about how Breonna Taylor's story impacted her and they discuss the question, what wo...

Curious about attachment styles in relationships? In this recent episode, Jesse has a conversation with author, scholar, and counselor Dr. Anita Knight Kuhnley. They talk in detail about the four attachment styles, how they change over time, and the factors for predicting the longevity of a relationship.

#117: Say More: A Conversation w/ Dr. Anita Knight Kuhnley Today, Jesse and Lindsey discuss the fourth of seven elements of having good conversations: listening skills. Jesse has a conversation with author, scholar, and counselor Dr. Anita Knight Kuhnley. They talk in detail about the four attachment styles, how they change over time, and the factors for pr...

🌟 New Episode Alert! 🌟

Join us today with Jenn Nickel of JLN Consultants as we dive into the powerful connection between coaching and conversation.

This episode wraps up our series on the art of good conversation. If you’re feeling disconnected and longing to reconnect with others, this series is a must-listen.

Conversation is how we share our lives, build relationships, and foster community. The best part? Becoming a great conversationalist is a skill you can learn!

Tune in now and discover how to bridge the gap and bring meaningful conversations back into your life.

#121: Say More: A Conversation w/ Jenn Nickel Today, Jesse and Lindsey give their final thoughts about the art of good conversations. They review the seven elements that help build good conversation and they share about some of their most memorable moments in the series. Then, Jenn Nickel, executive coach and consultant, joins the show. Jenn sh...

As we continue our Say More series about the art of conversation, Jesse and Lindsey explore how we can adapt our body language to improve our conversations. Then, Lindsey has a conversation with South African spiritual director and author Trevor Hudson where they explore what it means to be a spiritual pilgrim and the hardship of feeling discontent in life. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.

Today, Jesse and Lindsey discuss the second of seven elements to having good conversations: setting the stage, how we can think ahead to anticipate approaching future conversations. Jesse talks with former police chief and founder of the LION Institute, Mike Alexander. They talk about trauma within the law enforcement community and how Mike’s journey of self-awareness has impacted his approach to developing structures within police organizations.
https://relatebetter.com/115-say-more-a-conversation-w-mike-alexander/

Today, Jesse and Lindsey discuss the first of seven elements of having good conversations: practicing self-awareness. Lindsey talks with clinical psychologist Dr. Steve Call and Lisa Call, the founder and director of Farmhouse Montessori. They talk about the importance of sharing and remembering stories. Steve and Lisa also share their insights on how childhood wounds relate to marriage dynamics.
https://relatebetter.com/114-say-more-a-conversation-w-steve-lisa-call/

Today, Jesse and Lindsey discuss how sharing awe and wonder leads to deeper connection. Lindsey talks with author, speaker, and Christianity Today’s Director of Leadership Resources John Onwuchekwa. They discuss the impact of loss and grief and the importance of coffee in West Atlanta.
https://relatebetter.com/113-say-more-a-conversation-w-john-onwucheckwa/

Today, Jesse and Lindsey share how aiding personal growth is a key goal in having a good conversation. Lindsey has a conversation with speaker and author of ‘The Ballot and the Bible,’ Kaitlyn Schiess. They discuss how Kaitlyn ended up studying theology, practicing grief, and engaging with people who we disagree with.
https://relatebetter.com/112-say-more-a-conversation-w-kaitlyn-schiess/

Today, Jesse and Lindsey share how encouragement is a key goal in having a good conversation. Jesse has a conversation with rapper, CEO, New York Times best-selling author, investor, and activist, Lecrae. They discuss childhood, the effects of fame, and how personality shapes our approach to relationships.

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Jesse and Lindsey discuss the widespread loneliness and polarization evident around the world and how connection and conversation could work as the antidote. They discuss four tips for having good conversations and then practice good conversation using the Say More cards.
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In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk with I Like To Make Stuff’s Bob Clagett. Bob doesn’t know his Enneagram type and agrees to participate in an Enneagram typing interview. In the end, Jesse and Lindsey each give their thoughts on Bob’s Enneagram Core Type.
https://relatebetter.com/109-a-typing-mystery-w-bob-clagett-from-i-like-to-make-stuff/

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In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk with author and Enneagram teacher, Beatrice Chestnut about the fixation of each type and how their fixation causes problems in the way they perceive, process and present. Beatrice also gives great practices to help people identify the fixations in real time and begin the work of growth.

https://relatebetter.com/108-enneagram-fixations-w-beatrice-chestnut/

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey wrap up the series on Moving Beyond Your Type’s Patterns. Spiritual director and author, Clare Loughrige, joins the show to discuss ways the enneagram has helped her move beyond her type as well as share some direction for those seeking to grow in their understanding of themselves and their relationship with God.
https://relatebetter.com/107-reflections-on-moving-beyond-your-types-patterns-w-clare-loughrige/

Do you find group conversations as a family tricky? Do you wish you could connect more deeply with your both your immediate and extended family this Christmas?

Here are our conversation starters to help you out!

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We are excited to announce our first ever online cohort! Join Lindsey Lewis for our first ever Nine Types Cohort – a transformative 6-week online series starting the evening of February 22nd, 2024. Spots are limited to the first 10 people. Learn more and register now!

Enneagram & Life Mapping Cohort Join Lindsey Lewis of The EnneaCast for our first ever Nine Types Cohort – a transformative 6-week online small group starting the evening of February 22nd, 2024.

In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk about how Type 9s can move beyond their core type patterns by incorporating tools from Type 6 and Type 3. Anne Bogel, creator of The Modern Mrs. Darcy, joins the show and shares how she came to realize she was a Type 9 and the ways she uses tools from other types in her life. Everyone plays Trial by Trolley, where Jesse and Lindsey will make Anne make a choice between two impossible situations!
https://relatebetter.com/106-moving-beyond-type-9s-patterns-w-anne-bogel/

As you head into the weekend, grab some of our Say More conversation starters! We have both the original print deck of 100 questions as well as 21 brand new digital decks with instant access.

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