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Do you think your spouse is addicted to s*x?

In this video, I sit with Dr. Christopher Cheung to discuss s*x addiction and how it affects marriages.

I hope you get some answers from it.

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HELP! I THINK MY SPOUSE IS ADDICTED TO S*X- HOW TO TELL Hello Village!Happy New Year and Welcome BACK!!!In this video, I talk with Dr. Christopher Cheung, PhD about s*x addiction and how it is affecting marriages....

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The only way to not take your spouse’s anger personally, is to shift from defensiveness to compassion.

When our spouses become angry, our first thought is that they are angry because of us, or that we are responsible for their anger.

Our behavior may have triggered their anger, but they are still responsible for giving in to the anger or for maintaining the anger.

Instead of also becoming angry and matching their anger, we need to find a different way to respond so that we can diffuse the anger and not allow it to ruin our marriage, a beautiful moment in our marriage, or to simply take away time that we could use to bond together.

The only way to diffuse the anger is to remind ourselves that we don’t need to defend ourselves for anything right now, we simply need to have compassion for our spouse, because he/she has given in to fear, which is creating anger in him/her.

Your spouse’s brain has tricked him/her into thinking that you are a threat, hence the anger. So, you must not allow your brain to also trick you into similar thoughts. You must take control and challenge your brain to become more compassionate.

Shift from defensiveness to compassion. That is how you defeat anger in your marriage.

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How are you ensuring that your marriage is nurturing, safe, and healthy?
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How much time are you investing in the things that will make your marriage healthy?
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These are good questions to assess your contribution to the betterment of your marriage.
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Invest in your marriage by reading books together, listening to marriage podcasts together, watching documentaries on relationships and marriages together, attending retreats, seminars, and workshops together, attending couples therapy, and of course, praying together.
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