Self Offense

Self Offense? Don't you mean Self-Defense? The Best Defense is a Good Offense! Self Offense Service Most attacks begin with a conversation.

Not all conversations lead to attacks. How do you know when a conversation is going to go bad? Discover the answer by participating in a Self-Offense Workshop! With the tools you gain when engaging with this work, you will be able to walk powerfully through the world to ensure you are safe and sound wherever you are.

06/23/2024

Join our friend, Jocelyn Cruz, this Wednesday June 26th from 10-11am at 34 West 15th Street, Ground Floor, for The Rage Room!

Jocelyn is a Yoga Instructor, Tantrika, Chakra Expert, Ayurvedic Wellness Coach, Thai Yoga Bodyworker, and spiritual warrior who began her self development journey in her early twenties, after having been diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety and Panic Disorder. Raised in the projects in the Bronx, she found her solace in music and laughter. She identifies as indigenous Taino, from the island of Puerto Rico. She is committed to revolutionizing women’s health, and is out to transform the current conversation around what it means to be “well”. She has led and facilitated several online Yoga Teacher Trainings with The Flow & Restore Collective. She is also a trained energy and sound healer, and has been trained in many Shamanic traditions and practices.

Register for her class through the links in our bio!

Photos from Self Offense's post 06/10/2024

We had so much fun leading Kids on the Offense: Power Over Bullying yesterday at our dojo! Thank you to all our awesome families who took the time to be a part of this important discussion.

Kids on the Offense is a nuanced approach to bullying prevention. It teaches kids ages 7-12 skills in self advocacy, respecting boundaries, awareness, and self defense while empowering parents to support their kids!

In yesterday’s workshop, families had the opportunity to reflect on previous bullying experiences, practice setting boundaries, learn some fun self defense techniques and break boards!

If you are interested in bringing our Power Over Bullying Workshop to your School or community email us at [email protected]!

Links in bio.

Photos from Self Offense's post 03/27/2024

We are so excited to release our book today! Be sure to grab your copy in stores and online!!

“Beyond Self defense: How to say no, set boundaries, and reclaim your agency: An empowering guide to safety, risk assessment, and personal protection,” published by North Atlantic Books.

Links in bio.

08/13/2023

Loved leading to this amazing group of ladies and thank you so much to our amazing host! Looking to host Self Offense for a group of your friends/ do a private Self Offense for your community? Reach out to us!

Photos from Self Offense's post 06/04/2023

We loved leading our Awareness & Self Defense Workshop to the folks at New York Athletic Club! What an amazing group of people in such a beautiful facility!

04/29/2023

If you haven’t already watched this video from Gavin De Becker, check it out. “The Gift Of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence” was one of the three primary source materials that we drew upon when we created Self Offense. There are solid actions you can practice everyday to stay safe. Fear driven actions are emergency based - highly effective and not an everyday way to live your life. Be on the offense in your life. Spot the red flags before danger happens.

Come to our upcoming in person courses in LA in May 6th & in NYC in June 15th! You can also check out our online Kajabi course! Link in bio.

Photos from Self Offense's post 01/04/2023

Happy New Year from Self Offense! - Check out what we're up to in 2023!! https://mailchi.mp/36fd7fad1d68/happy-new-year-from-self-offense

Learning Space | WorkspaceCT | Bethel 09/29/2022

Leading Self Offense in CT!!! Come participate! SHare!!

Learning Space | WorkspaceCT | Bethel WorkspaceCT is a collaborative learning space owned and operated by Trumbull-based Cooperative Educational Services (CES) and Litchfield-based EdAdvance. Our facility is located in Bethel, CT.

06/09/2022

What an amazing group of families at our Self Offense workshop today!!!

06/07/2022

Join us for a last minute Self Offense class! What can we say, when folks want to put together a group to do the workshop- we make it happen!! Link in bio!

Photos from Self Offense's post 05/08/2022

Happy Mother’s Day to the mother of Self Offense !! We would be lost without your leadership, strength, compassion and panache. Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers in all forms, for they are all treasures. We honor and love you.

Ending Sexual Assault - The Best Defense is A Good Offense 04/21/2022

Thrilled to finally share our TEDxcherrycreek talk with you all. Written and presented by our Founder, Michelle Gay. Ending Sexual Assault- the Best Defense is a Good Offense

https://www.ted.com/talks/michelle_gay_ending_sexual_assault_the_best_defense_is_a_good_offense

Ending Sexual Assault - The Best Defense is A Good Offense NOTE FROM TED: This talk represents the speaker's personal views and understanding of sexual assault prevention. TEDx events are independently organized by volunteers. The guidelines we give TEDx organizers are described in more detail here: http://storage.ted.com/tedx/manuals/tedx_content_guideline...

04/21/2022

Thrilled to share our TedX Talk on ending sexual assault!!! Written and presented by our Founder,
Check it out using the link in our bio!!!!

Photos from Self Offense's post 04/02/2022

Come discover your unique personal protection superpower and awaken your inner superhero at one of our workshops!

Register for our April 16th workshop in NYC, or our May 15th workshop in Newtown CT via the link in our bio! Date or location doesn’t work? Stay tuned for our online Kajabi workshop!

Photos from Self Offense's post 03/26/2022

Register for our April 16th workshop in NYC, or our May 15th workshop in Newtown CT via the link in our bio! Date or location doesn’t work? Stay tuned for our online course!

Photos from Self Offense's post 03/19/2022

Thank you to Emily Montague and for creating and sharing this amazing piece!

The ability that humanity has for radical compassion is huge, and has the potential to impact every aspect of our society.

Register for our April 16th workshop in NYC, or our May 15th workshop in Newtown, CT via the link in our bio! Date or location doesn’t work? Stay tuned for our online Kajabi workshop!

Photos from Self Offense's post 03/12/2022

Thank you to all these amazing women and SO MANY MORE! Thank you to all the incredible women who are in our lives and make this world an extraordinary place to be🥰🤩💪🏻

Register for our March 19th workshop in NYC via the link in our bio! Date or location doesn’t work? Stay tuned for our online Kajabi workshop!

03/05/2022

Check out this scene from Friends! It's a great example of saying “no,” testing out their reaction, and then taking an action based on how they respond!

If you say “no” to someone and they accept your “no,” this communicates that they are listening and willing to accept your boundaries (at least in that moment!). This is a good sign that they are trustworthy and will continue to listen to you moving forward and in more vulnerable situations.

Did you notice how easy it was for her to change her mind after testing out saying “no?” Many of us think that saying “no” will completely shut down the conversation, but YOU get to say how the interaction goes and changing your mind is completely valid!

Register for our March 19th workshop in NYC via the link in our bio! Date or location doesn’t work? Stay tuned for our online Kajabi workshop!

02/26/2022

Check out our Self Offense affirmations based on the tools of our work!

Use these practices to take care of yourself and others♥️ Lots of love!

02/19/2022

Inspired by !

Someone having these red flags does NOT necessarily mean they are a danger to you, or even that they are a bad person - we’re all human, are sometimes jerks, we learn, and we grow.

And once you take this program you’ll be able to listen from here, and be able to notice and assess whether or not the person you’re in communication with is worth you taking the risk, DESPITE these red flags.

02/12/2022

Screenshot to find out YOUR Self Offense superhero twin! 🤩💪🏻

Each of these Marvel superheroes has powers that we've translated into real life skills you get from taking our workshops!

02/05/2022

Take a look at this ✨exclusive✨ behind the scenes bloopers footage of while on set filming for our new series!

This online modular series will make it possible for you to get all the goods of our personal protection workshops from wherever you are in the world and on YOUR time table! So get excited🤩💪🏻

Photos from Self Offense's post 01/29/2022

We are so excited to give you this sneak peek of ‘s book, “Self Offense. How to Protect Yourself (and others) Without Really Trying,” launching in February!

Thank you so much for these stunning illustrations and helping us bring the book to life!

Stay tuned via for the launch!🤩💪🏻

Photos from Self Offense's post 01/22/2022

Thank you for having us in again to lead Self Offense Preventative Personal Protection Program to the amazing dancers in the Professional Semester Program!

It is profoundly joyful for us to get to lead this work to a group that brings such passion, curiosity, and rich intellectual inquiry to the work!

Photos from Self Offense's post 01/15/2022

Who else is excited for our TedX debut!? 🤩💪🏻

01/09/2022

WARNING! SWEARING IN THIS VIDEO POST!

Thank you so much to for having us! We had so much fun and we look forward to any other future collaborations!

We are available for speaking engagements, lectures and informational performances for universities, organizations, and companies! DM us!

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Videos (show all)

Freeze! How many of you have been in conversations like this? It’s easy to want to DEFEND or explain your point of view ...
People will often say “learn self defense” as if it’s a simple answer to the simple problem of your safety. Don’t get us...
”Be Like Water” PART TWO- Trinidad/Tobago January 3-10, 2025.Surfers Paradise Villa -  5 minutes from one of the best su...
We are so grateful for the people who took the time to review our book! You have everything you need to keep yourself sa...
Here’s an example of using your “no” proactively in action! We are not practiced at stopping people outside of grabbing ...
What a great example of neutralizing triggers! When someone says something to you that is hateful, one of the ways to co...
This is one of the ways it can look to use “no” as a tool to keep yourself safe and to escalate that “no” when appropria...
Saying “no” does not have to be negative! This actor portraying Cruella finds a way to refuse this child’s toy without s...
Touch does not always communicate what you want it to! And while we love how this video is looking to empower women with...
John Cleese! This brilliant satire speaks pointedly to the “victim/perpetrator” binary.  In the face of harm, we want to...
Consent is super important! And as this hilarious video points out, having a direct and explicit conversation about cons...
Public escalating situations that are violent or have the potential for violence are scary and hard to predict. Often we...

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