Center for Divorce Resolution - Chicago

Our advice: keep children out of divorce discussions. Focus on healthy communication, smooth exchanges, and supporting their relationship with both parents. Let them be kids!

When tensions are high, it's easy to fall back on blame, hostility, or past grievances—but effective communication is critical for successful mediation. Focus on being honest and transparent, actively listening, and working together to find solutions, especially when children are involved.

Communication may look different for every couple, but that's the beauty of mediation -- we are able to customize your experience based on the current situation to ensure you and your spouse achieve an amicable resolution.

YES!! We wish this would happen more often. Switching from litigation to mediation can save time, reduce costs, and provide a less stressful environment to resolve disputes. It allows for more creative and personalized solutions that both parties can agree on, which can lead to better long-term outcomes, especially when children are involved. And, it can be started at any time!

Thinking about making the switch? DM us to learn more and get started.

Therapy and mediation together create a path to healthier, more amicable divorce outcomes. Therapy provides emotional support, improves communication, and builds conflict resolution skills — all essential during mediation. It also fosters healthy co-parenting and personal growth, helping you navigate your needs with clarity and confidence!

Mediated divorce has the same legally binding effect as a litigated divorce, but is quicker, less costly, and easier on both parties mentally and emotionally.

Yes! Divorce really can be that simple.

The up-front cost of getting a divorce is a huge deterrent to people seeking a divorce, which is why we are glad to avoid it. By using an hourly pay model, we've created a process where you are confident in the service you are receiving and only paying for the time you use.

It's true! Having children does make your divorce more complicated. However, it doesn't need to be like the horror stories you've heard.

Mediation offers an approach to divorce that takes every party, and their emotions, into consideration -- even kids!

Mediation welcomes children to be a part of the process so they feel heard. Our compassionate approach also creates a calm environment for resolution, rather than hostility to take place, making it much easier on children.

Just because your situation is complicated, doesn't mean mediators can't handle the task. We'd argue that our compassionate approach will guide you towards a better outcome for both parties!

If you would like to talk through your situation prior to beginning the process, DM or email us and we'd be happy to chat with you.

Divorce can be made simple, and we are here to help make it happen.

We are happy to offer our clients the benefit of two mediators on their case. Not only do clients benefit from the perspective of both a male and female, but we're also able to help each side advocate for themselves to find resolution.

Interested in learning if mediation would be an option for you? DM, email, or call today and we can set up a time to chat.

Divorce does not have to be the costly, aggressive process it is made out to be. For couple looking for a simple, amicable, quick approach, mediation is the way to go.

Here's a quick overview of what a mediation session may look like! While we may have different topics and goals each time, this is our general blueprint.

Our goal is to make the process supportive and effective for everyone involved.

While mediation is a much more compassionate approach to the divorce process, it still isn't easy. Ending a marriage, no matter how ready you are, will take an emotional toll which is why we recommend engaging with these resources prior to entering the process.

One of the ways mediation allows for a quicker divorce timeline is that we have you actively work on finding solutions between sessions. At the end of each mediation session, we will send you on your way with a to-do list so that the next time we meet, we can make progress, finalize details, and move on to the next issue.

Divorce isn't easy, but being able to make it easier on you is our #1 priority. If you're looking for a compassionate approach to a difficult process, we are here to help ❤️

Creating a relaxed environment is essential for open and effective conversations, which is why we hold mediation sessions in our office instead of a courtroom. This approach is especially beneficial for families who want to include their children in the divorce process while avoiding the stress of a court room.

All discussions in mediation are confidential, allowing you to speak freely and work towards an amicable resolution.

Curious if mediation is the right path for you? Take this quiz to find out! This quiz just covers the basics, so if you're considering mediation, we encourage you to partake in an introductory call so we can see if mediation is the right choice for you.

We encourage our mediation clients to consult with attorneys, accountants, real estate professionals, and financial advisors. While not required, having an attorney can help you understand your rights and the legal implications of your settlement.

For a balanced approach, consider hiring an attorney on a limited scope basis to provide advice without steering you into litigation. This way, you get the best of both worlds: expert legal guidance and a collaborative, amicable resolution.

During the mediation process, clients are encouraged to practice these 3 communication strategies. By using these strategies, both parties feel heard, acknowledged, and calm; all three of which are crucial for effective decision making.

Next time you find yourself in a difficult discussion, remember these three strategies and watch how your conversation resolves.

Is this a surprise to you?

A common misconception about mediation is that it will "take too long" but that is not the case. Because mediation guides clients through the divorce process by finding common ground, clients spend less time fighting each other and more time finding resolution.

Will choosing mediation require you to give up confidentiality? Not at all.

While mediation does encourage an environment where open and honest conversation can occur, that doesn't mean you have to surrender your privacy. During the mediation process, you can always request that the conversation remain confidential, and your mediators will respect your request.

Getting divorced does not have to place such a heavy burden on your children. Rather than exclude your children from the conversation, we invite them to be a part of it-- these decisions have a big effect on them, too!

Have any questions about the mediation process and whether or not it could work for you? DM us, and we will be happy to help.

Seeing a resolution when you're within the conflict can often feel impossible, but don't let that deter you from using mediation for your divorce proceedings. Mediation is all about creating an environment where you and your spouse CAN communicate effectively and find common ground.

Our goal isn't just agreement, it's resolution! We believe our compassionate and amicable approach to divorce is what has helped us achieve such great success with our cases.

Learn more about our approach to divorce mediation using the link below.

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Although mediation has been around for a long time, many do not consider it an option due to the lack of education on what real mediation looks like. If you are approaching divorce litigation and are rethinking the process, here are some reasons why mediation can be a better option than traditional litigation.

🌟 Happy Father's Day! 🌟
Today, we celebrate the incredible fathers who play a vital role in their children's lives. Being a dad comes with its own unique set of challenges and joys, especially for those navigating the path of co-parenting.

At the Center for Divorce Resolution, we understand the importance of fostering strong, positive relationships between fathers and their children, even amidst the complexities of divorce. Our mediation services are here to support and guide you in creating a harmonious co-parenting dynamic that prioritizes the well-being of your family.

This Father’s Day let's honor the dedication, love, and strength of all the amazing dads out there. Your efforts do not go unnoticed, and your impact is immeasurable.

Happy Father's Day from all of us at The Center for Divorce Resolution!