Hoipoloi

clever enough attempt but still obvious. leave me alone kindly dear friend

That peacock tho

how lovely❤️

To know the reality of pain...
and share in the pain of others...
is to be both alive and human...
I wouldn't have it any other way...

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What many of us know as the Mandela Effect is an illustration of the surface variations we are creating in the 4th dimension. These differences seem to be the result of the experiences of the ancestors and the unique coping mechanisms we have inherited; that have been evolving throughout humanity's lifetime.

This writer has been presented with lots of possible explanations for this mysterious phenomenon ranging from a conspiracy to realities intersecting and separating ...what is going on? Did curious George have a tail? What was the fate of apartheid activist Nelson Mandela?

Some of us may dismiss these ideas as insignificant. Most of them really do not impact one personally until we buy into the fear encouraged by fatalistic doomsday propaganda. It is difficult from that place of helpless anxiety not to wonder "where is all this going, what does it mean for me?"

Meaning is for each one of us to determine. When we choose what emotions to entertain we are choosing the tone and quality of what we experience. When we dont accept uncertainty we choose fear, we choose darkness. Most of the time choosing to be afraid of things we cant control we are forfeiting the power we do have. Choices made in fear are rarely rational, if they are choices at all. Human beings tend to react when afraid, sometimes by freezing completely; indicating that fear; which is exclusive to the 4th , is powerful enough to override our higher selves at times.

Fear, and to a lesser extent unacknowledged anger or guilt, is capable of creating on its own. When we are moved by emotions we refuse to deal with ; or in fear which is manufactured by the human mind the energy expelled is rogue and without a direction ;it creates all the things that cause suffering, and often at random.

If we do not acknowledge negative emotions in our lifetime ; as Frued and Jung observed,we dont take them with us. They join unacknowledged feelings of all our ancestors and ensure our descendants will be haunted by the same demons now fortified by our own suppressed or denied emotion...

So many of us put off our negative emotions and focus only on what we consider positive ; perhaps telling ourselves that these feelings dont exist within us or that we banished them somehow, or even at times willfully ignoring them. Essentially what this does is trap them and occlude the flow of emotions that ebb and flow in response to the things around us. On the surface we seem upbeat and cheerful but within us churns a deep self loathing that we see reflected in everyone we meet; not realizing that silently judging one another is really judging ourselves...but the human mind is clever and judges the actions and words we observe; which may not match our own and allows us to continue telling ourselves it couldn't be a reflection.....because to acknowledge the emotion driving behavior we judge in others would mean acknowledging it in ourselves.

This is due in a large part to thought patterns that we have inherited accompanying the unacknowledged emotions of our ancestors. They have evolved to protect fear ; to keep it alive and subconsciously creating things no one intends...{.unless one is so overrun by these aspects of the subconscious that they willfully cause suffering which is rare but has happened.}

Developing empathy is the best way to see ourselves as we are, to be brave enough to be able to say that yes; that is me in there behind that persons ego and actions we wouldn't take. The actions are the result of each persons ancestral trauma and the responses and defenses that have been shaped by experience and passed down since the beginning of time. The way human beings are dealing with these feelings is as varied as our genes are, not to mention embedded in them; but what unites our energy are the emotions we all share.

To be aware of ourselves in a collective sense means to be aware of emotion. All emotion because that is what we share. To know it as yours when you see it in others is a skill that requires courage and determination; detachment is helpful here. Regular meditation can help us clear the mind , when there are no thoughts there is no fear. We can begin to examine our thoughts and choose the ones that bring emotions we prefer; and we can observe the thoughts that bring what we dont want to feel so that we can direct our conscious attention away from these kinds of thoughts rather than watching them snowball into trying to deny or even explain or destroy the emotion that is trapped and unacknowledged and only growing unchecked all the while manifesting outside of us creating a dark reality or at the very list things that cause suffering

We are collective, but we are also observing and perceiving; even....creating....through the lense of an ego that's inherited its emotions and different ways of coping in the world. The Mandela Effect is what happened when humans had the capability of instant communication from all corners of the globe- they started comparing their experiences, not very many world events were altered but surface details were inconsistent at best . We are capable of experiencing all of this at once collectively and as 8 billion people creating our own versions of everything ....all at once. We'd never had the luxury to even ask each other these kinds of things much less ponder them. From within this observers reality ,at the very least the Mandela is nothing new, it's merely being observed and communicated like never befofe

be brave. there is nothing you can control besides how you respond to the emotions you feel and that you observe in others. if you choose to ignore them you are choosing to give your power over to the subconscious and ensuring you children or other descendants will suffer more than you are.

Choose love, choose empathy. Choose to embrace all emotions and to let them go.

☀️

My sweet boy you are worth everything it took to get here, the love I have for you is enough to create an entire universe ....watching you craft yours is an honor and a boon

Is it selfish to love oneself before we give our love to others? At first glance the avoidant human mind tells us yes. Yes. On the surface it may seem noble or romantic to lavish love on people who are broken and self loathing.

Some of us begin to think that our love can save them somehow. A twisted fairy tale we tell ourselves where the object of our affection one day realizes the depth of our love and finally starts reciprocating.

We lie to ourselves and others stating grandly that as long as our beloved is happy we are too. We find ourselves compromising boundaries to meet the demands of our beloveds thin and damaged ego. We pretend for ourselves and all who know that this is selfless, purely out of love when really it is our attempt to control someone and force them to see how much we love them in the hope that we will be loved by them at last.

Blind to the reality that we are not moved by love when we seek to be loved by someone but rather a darker aspect of the subconscious. A feeling we are so terrified of experiencing that we go on pretending we are loving without expectations and wonder why we are most hurt by the ones we are giving the most of our love to.

We are all mirrors. When your love is given to to others and you are not giving any to yourself ...you will continue to see that self loathing looking back at you from the eyes of the ones you are sacrificing for. No matter how much love you give them you will never ever get it back until you love yourself and heal yourself and begin to move from a place of love and not doing everything you can to prove your worth so they will love you....wasted energy when all you need to do is serve yourself your own love first and the people around you will look s lot different as they reflect your glowing love

Exactly.

Yea