Steven Ing
Steven Ing is reframing an important conversation in society — one about the intelligent management of human s*xuality.
Steven Ing is a sought-after trainer, speaker and therapist, bringing almost three decades of experience to his audiences and clients. His critically acclaimed book, “We're All Like This" (2015, Giant Publishing), is used as a text in Human S*xuality classes in many university classrooms across the country.
I believe we’ve outgrown religion, like two people who get married sometimes outgrow each other.
Today's episode was inspired by The New York Times Guest Essay by Hillary Kelly titled “Welcome to Stucktopia.” The essay opens by discussing some popular TV shows, such as Fallout, Severance, and Silo, and how these shows capture the way life feels right now, which is that we are stuck. We read through the essay and apply this idea of being "stuck" to relationships. If you've ever felt stuck in a relationship, this episode is for you.
Full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/15423745-episode-41-stuck-in-relationship-inertia
New blog at Psychology Today "The Sacred Bubble and Relationship Conflict."
The Sacred Bubble affirms to the couple that they are a team who can solve all of life’s problems that lie outside of that sacred entity known as “us.”
The Sacred Bubble and Relationship Conflict The Sacred Bubble affirms to the couple that they are a team who can solve all of life’s problems that lie outside of that sacred entity known as "us."
It's a fundamental thinking error to think that verbal abuse in relationships is normal. We all deserve to be treated with respect, courtesy, and dignity. Listen to today's podcast episode to learn more!
Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/15381215-episode-40-how-verbal-abuse-destroys-relationships
Learn how setting, defending, and acting on your boundaries empowers your life.
Listen to the full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/15317922-episode-39-boundaries-are-your-friend
When it comes to having a successful relationship, the question is “How can I make the relationship safe enough for my mate to be as honest as humanly possible.”
Listen to learn more: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/15290800-episode-38-how-withholding-stifles-intimacy
If we want to live in healthy communities with healthy people, we need to start talking about this.
If you find yourself in the same relationship over and over and over again, take some time to examine what wasn't working and figure out what you really want and need in a relationship.
Understanding the Sacred Bubble allows you and your partner to form a sacred connection or bubble, where all of life's problems are outside of the bubble. This allows couples to resolve any conflicts in a safe, effective, and abuse-free manner, so they can get back to producing the only thing worth producing in a relationship: happiness.
Full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/15264504-episode-37-the-sacred-bubble
Consider taking ample time before committing to marriage with someone. It's essential to thoroughly understand your partner before taking this significant step.
We don't need a girlfriend or boyfriend; we need the RIGHT girlfriend or boyfriend. If someone rejects us, they are not the RIGHT girlfriend or boyfriend. None of us crave to be with someone who doesn't love us. Listen to learn more! 🎙️
Full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/15233031-episode-36-learning-to-embrace-rejection
Why settle for anything less?
Standing up for yourself may seem challenging at first, but with practice, it gets easier.
Audio clip from my chat with Cat Meyer at Head South Radio. Listen to the full conversation on Apple Podcasts Spotify and YouTube via the link: https://youtu.be/3APj2-Wms3Q?si=TWyd6Z_Iiu8UeOJc
It’s not about finding a partner; it’s about finding the RIGHT partner. Share with your friends 🙂
Some people have s*xuality in one compartment of their brain and spirituality in another compartment. Therefore, the two compartments never talk to each other. Integrating spirituality and s*xuality, gets these two compartments talking to each other. Listen to today's episode to learn more.
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Full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/15186655-episode-35-integrating-spirituality-and-s*xuality
The three rules for Fair Fighting include the following:
1. No Abuse
2. Any One Subject
3. By Mutual Consent
Audio clip from my chat with Cat Meyer at Head South Radio. Listen to the full conversation on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube via the link: https://youtu.be/3APj2-Wms3Q?si=TWyd6Z_Iiu8UeOJc
Today's episode of Managing Love Intelligently discusses gender roles in relationships. It was inspired by the NBC News article "Some dating coaches online are pushing women to seek more traditional gender roles" by Angela Yang.
Full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/15125490-episode-34-gender-roles-in-relationships
The choice is yours! 🙂
Discussing s*xual frequency can improve intimacy and strengthen relationships. Communication and prioritizing time for each other are key factors.
Thanks Cat Meyer at Head South Radio for having me on your podcast. Join us as we explore the intricacies of love languages, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the privilege that comes with truly knowing someone. Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube.
https://youtu.be/3APj2-Wms3Q?si=RjYvHm8y6ygIr2VL
In today's episode, I respond to a message from a person calling themselves "Alone." Note: the message was in response to my Psychology Today article "How to Keep an Incel from Becoming a S*x Offender."
Full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/15109932-episode-33-a-message-from-alone
If someone doesn't like you (like that 😉), accept it, thank them being up front with you, and move on.
The belief that "love conquers all" is an unfortunate and harmful fallacy. We cannot love our partners into wellness; we cannot love our partners into sobriety; we cannot love our partners into no longer being emotionally, physically, or spiritually abusive.
Listen to the full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/15040207-episode-32-the-fallacy-of-love-conquers-all
Getting clear on your thinking about s*xuality allows you to make intelligent decisions to create the s*x life you know you deserve.
Relationships are an intentional strategic alliance between two individuals.
Your magic s*x number is the ideal number of s*xual encounters you require on a weekly basis to feel your best. Listen to learn more and how knowing your magic s*x number can help you manage love intelligently.
Full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/14993138-episode-31-what-s-your-magic-s*x-number
Episode 30 of Managing Love Intelligently is live! Join us for an open discussion on whether men and women can be friends. Have thoughts on this? Feel free to voice them in the comments! 👇
Full episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2261032/14985226-episode-30-can-men-and-women-be-friends
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Steven Ing is a sought-after trainer, speaker and therapist, bringing almost three decades of experience to his audiences and clients. His critically acclaimed book, “We're All Like This" (2015, Giant Publishing), is used as a text in Human S*xuality classes in many university classrooms across the country.
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