NewComer Funeral Homes (2636 Ridgeway Ave., Rochester, NY)

We want to send our love to those who have lost their fathers and to fathers who have experienced the loss of a child. Please know that we are here for you during this time. We hope that your day is filled with cherished memories that bring you comfort. You are not alone, and we are sending you all our love and support.

Even in times of grief and sorrow, it's important to let good memories carry us through. These memories provide comfort and strength, allowing us to find light within the darkness of grief. 🐦

FROM OUR BLOG// Common Songs in Funeral Services
In moments of grief and loss, music has a unique ability to comfort and console, offering solace when words fail. Funeral services often harness the power of music to evoke memories, express emotions, and honor the life of the departed. Read more:

Common Songs in Funeral Services

Today, we remember and honor those who made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. Their strength, dignity, and selflessness serve as an inspiration to us all.

Losing a loved one is never easy, but we can honor their memory by continuing their legacy through our actions. We can share their capacity to love with others and keep their spirit alive. By embodying their kindness and compassion, we can make a difference in the lives of those who may have never had the chance to meet them.

We'd like to take a moment to extend our love and support to those who are mourning the loss of a mother, or to mothers who have experienced the loss of a child. We recognize that this day can bring up difficult emotions, and we want you to know that it's perfectly okay to not feel okay. We are here for you, and we hope your day can be filled with joyous memories of your loved one.🌷

Lincoln's perspective on the quality of life over its duration can be comforting when experiencing loss. It can help remind us that the significance of life isn't measured in time, but in the love, experiences, and joy shared.

FROM OUR BLOG// In an era defined by technological innovation, it's no surprise that even the most traditional aspects of life, such as funerals, are undergoing a digital transformation. While the core essence of honoring and remembering loved ones remains unchanged, technology is reshaping the way we approach funeral services, offering new avenues for connection, commemoration, and healing. Read more:

Embracing tradition in a digital age: The role of technology in funerals

Music has a unique ability to stick with us, just like memories of loved ones. Even after the song ends, its melody lingers in our minds, much like the imprint left by someone we've lost. We find ourselves replaying moments with them, remembering their laughter, their smile, and the love they shared. It's like they've become a part of our own melody, woven into the fabric of our lives, never truly fading away.

FROM OUR BLOG//Death, despite being the one certainty in life, remains one of the most taboo topics in many societies. However, a growing movement known as "death positivity" seeks to change this narrative by encouraging open discussions and acceptance of mortality. But what exactly does it mean to be "death positive"? Read more:

Embracing life by embracing death: understanding the death positive movement

You plan for all other aspects of life. Take the step and call us today to speak with an Advance Planning Specialist!

Grief cannot be simply let go, for it is intertwined with love. Even amidst the pain, remember that grief stems from the deep affection you held for the person you miss. It enables us to cherish the memories we once shared.

FROM OUR BLOG//When someone we love passes away, it feels like a piece of them stays behind in the things they used every day. Figuring out what to do with those belongings might seem tough, but it's okay to take it one step at a time. Here's a simple guide to help you navigate this emotional journey. Read more-

What to do with a Loved One's Belongings When They're Gone

As we celebrate Easter, we celebrate life. We encourage you to take a moment today to remember your loved one for the life that was lived and the love that remains. Wishing you a happy Easter! 🌼

When someone we loved has passed away, it's hard to move on into the next chapter of our life without them. We might find it easier to dwell on the past or stay put where we are. But remember, even though they're not physically in the next chapter, they'll always be in our hearts and memories as we go forward. Don't be scared to keep moving forward – they'll still be with us in the things we see, say, and do.

FROM OUR BLOG// Do Pets Grieve?
Pets have an extraordinary ability to form deep emotional connections with their human companions. When a person or pet passes away, everyone in the household is affected. Just like humans, pets too experience grief and mourning, displaying a range of behaviors that reflect their emotional turmoil. Read more:

Do pets grieve?

Comparing something light and colorful like glitter to the heaviness of grief might seem strange, but it actually explains grieving pretty well. Even when you think you've moved on from your grief, there are times when memories of your loved one come flooding back. The people we care about are intertwined with the small details of life – like a favorite book they read, a chair they liked to sit in, or a blanket they used. These everyday things bring back memories of the time we spent with them.

Today is National Funeral Director Recognition Day, a special time to honor the dedicated professionals who help families honor the memories and achievements of their loved ones. We've asked our funeral directors to share their thoughts on their unique role, and here's what they've said! We're grateful to all our directors for their caring and commitment to the families we serve.

We love celebrating important milestones for our associates! Here, Funeral Director Ashley L. (left) accepts a commemorative lapel pin in recognition of her fifth anniversary with our funeral home. Funeral Director in Charge Kate L. presented Ashley with her pin. Congratulations, Ashley!

FROM OUR BLOG// What to do with a Loved One's Facebook Account After They've Passed Away. Managing the Facebook account after someone has passed can be a bit overwhelming. It's like facing a part of their life that's frozen in time. Here's a guide on what you can do with a loved one's Facebook account when they're no longer with us. Read more:

What to do with a loved one's Facebook account after they've passed away

Today marks the celebration of National Floral Design Day, a time to appreciate the artistry and creativity of floral arrangements. Every day, we witness beautiful floral arrangements entering our homes, many of which reflect the passions and individuality of those we honor.

As we allow ourselves the time to grieve, we naturally find our thoughts shifting towards the life that was lived, rather than dwelling solely on the loss. It's through reminiscing about the cherished moments and experiences shared with our loved one that we begin to find solace and peace amid the pain. These memories, filled with laughter, love, and meaningful connections, serve as a beacon of comfort during the darkest of times. In embracing these memories, we not only honor the life that was lived but also find strength to navigate through the grieving process with resilience and hope.

If you have never made funeral arrangements before, even thinking about the process can be emotional and intimidating. You may be worried about how much it will all cost, or not know how you will possibly get through it. Our staff is here for you. They are experienced professionals, experts in helping grieving families navigate through this difficult time. We will handle all the details, allowing you to spend time with family and friends.

FROM OUR BLOG//Talking to Your Child About Death
Children's minds and imaginations are so pure and honest. They see the world for what they can understand and comprehend and tend to not absorb the parts that may seem dark and scary. As parents, it’s our job to protect these pure thoughts and keep our children happy and optimistic about the world. Read more:

Talking to Your Child About Death

Our team enjoyed some sweet treats today to celebrate Valentine's Day! We hope your day is filled with love. 💗

We understand that Valentines Day can be a challenging holiday for those who are without a spouse or significant other. We want to extend our support and remind you that we are here for you, and you are not alone. Take this day to give yourself the space and time to grieve in whichever way you need. There is no "correct" way to navigate through this holiday. 💗

It's important to clarify a common misconception about cremation. Contrary to what some may believe, families have many options when it comes to honoring their loved ones who have chosen cremation. Whether it's holding a viewing or memorial service before cremation or arranging a service afterward, there are multiple avenues for families to express their love and pay tribute. Our cremation services cater to these diverse needs, offering everything from a simple farewell to a ceremony that beautifully celebrates the life of the departed.

It's quotes like this one that remind us of the love and connection we once shared with someone we've lost. Even though it hurts and we miss them dearly, it shows just how much they meant to us. We find ourselves wishing for one more talk, one more hug, one more laugh together. These feelings highlight the special bond we shared. That love is what gives our lives meaning, even when we're apart.

FROM OUR BLOG// Honoring Pets After Loss
Our pets become cherished members of our families, providing unconditional love, companionship, and joy to our lives. When they pass away, the grief we feel is genuine and profound. While our furry friends are only here for a short time, the impact they have on our lives is monumental. Read more:

Honoring Pets After Loss

Did you know that the term 'funeral' was first recorded by Geoffrey Chaucer, known as the pioneer of the English language? In his literary masterpiece, The Knight's Tale, he mentions a 'funeral servyse' upon the passing of a character. This was back in 1386, making it the earliest documented use of the word funeral.

On your grieving journey, you may feel and experience many things that are unexpected and new to you.

As you write your personal journal entry, think about the ways grief has given you a different perspective of yourself.

Grief triggers are things that remind you of your loss, often suddenly. Being able to anticipate when and how you experience these triggers can allow the people around you to offer extra support when you need it, and help you to cope with your grief.

For today's personal journal entry, think about how you navigate events or activities that remind you of your loss.

As you move through your grieving process, thinking about the time you spent with your loved one before the loss can be a helpful part of processing your grief.

Consider a new perspective as you take some time to write about today's personal journal prompt.

The perspective you can gain by thinking about the future can be a powerful tool for processing your grief.

Today's personal journal prompt invites you to picture yourself enjoying your future as you heal.

Everyone experiences grief differently, and it's not uncommon to feel that your grieving process is not fully understood by others.

To prepare for today's personal journal entry, think of the aspects of your grief that have felt more difficult to express to others.

A common misconception is that grief has a timeline and that one must experience each stage of grief to feel complete. However, this is not the case. It is important to note that everyone experiences grief differently and at their own pace. The following article contains a short video discussing how grieving is not a race, and that there is no finish line.

Speaking Grief | Understanding Grief: Grief has no timeline When we grieve, we can’t control the process. We can’t control how long it takes or how many times it starts over.

Many people find comfort in grieving in community. It's common to look to others for support, care, and understanding as you process loss.

For today's personal journal entry, consider those who have surrounded you throughout your grieving journey and write about those relationships.

We’re grateful to live in the land of the free, because of the brave.
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The grieving process can bring a multitude of unexpected emotions and experiences. Some of these can be positive in nature and leave a lasting impact on you.

As you prepare to write your personal journal entry today, take some time to reflect on ways that grief has positively affected you.

"I am sad within happiness or happy within sadness." Read about one woman's journey three years after her loss.

How Grief Doesn’t Go Away but Changes Over Time A Personal Perspective: This is grief three years in.