Lives Touched Videos

Loved and Valued
Each of our kids has different needs and some may require more time than others, but the gift of your presence is vital in helping each child feel valued and loved. If you are struggling to find margin in your life due to a difficult season of parenting, please consider scheduling a brainstorming session with me to see how I can help you specifically. https://livestouchedcoaching.podia.com/brainstorming-session?utm_source=podia&utm_medium=broadcast&utm_campaign=1989371 Another option would be to check out my book, which is written for when you are in a prolonged difficult season of parenting. https://www.parentingmarathon.com/store/p4/ParentingMarathon.html#/ #QualityTimeMatters #TimeWithKids #YouAskIAnswer #EauClaireWI #ParentingMarathon

Travel Sports
Today's Question: "My 11 year old wants to play travel basketball, but it’s a really big time commitment for our family and his siblings, and it’s something we really can’t afford. How do we say “no” knowing it’s going to be difficult for him relationally with his friends and just in general because he really wants to?" Being a parent is HARD! Whether you’re working through behavior struggles or trying to hold boundaries with love, I’m here if you need additional support. #LivesTouchedCoaching #EauClaireWI #ChippewaValley #YouAskIAnswer #TravelSports

Mental Health and Kids
Today's Question: "What signs should I look for if I suspect my child is struggling with mental health issues?" If you believe your child is struggling with their mental health, have an open conversation with them, and begin normalizing talk therapy and seeking help from a professional. #YouthMentalHealth #ParentingAwareness #LivesTouchedCoaching #MentalWellness

Talking to Your Teen About Tough Topics
Today's Question: "I struggle to talk about hard or uncomfortable topics with my teen. How can I create open communication with my teenager?" Many parents struggle to talk about uncomfortable topics (sex, menstruation, or puberty, etc.), so you’re not alone. Here are a couple of ideas of how to bring them up to make them less intimidating for our teens and us! #YouAskIAnswer #EauClaireWI #ParentingTips #LivesTouchedCoaching

Today's Question: "I work from home - how do I manage work and family life effectively, especially in the summer or holiday breaks, when my kids are home?" A lot depends on the age of your children, but here is my system for helping my upper elementary through high school kids to focus while I’m working. If you have questions, send them my way - I’d love to answer them! #YouAskIAnswer #EauClaireWI #LivesTouchedCoaching #WorkFromHome

Differing Screen Time Views
Today's Question: "My partner and I don’t agree on how much screen time the kids should have. The kids know which parent will say yes to screens and which one won’t. How do we get on the same page?" This is extremely common, because we all come from different life experiences and upbringings that shape how we parent. Today I’m giving you a couple of ideas of how to navigate this challenge specifically around the topic of screens. If you find yourself wanting to talk more about your specific situation, schedule a brainstorming session and we can discuss a couple of situations in your family that are challenging and try to find some practical ideas to implement. https://livestouchedcoaching.podia.com/brainstorming-session?utm_source=podia&utm_medium=broadcast&utm_campaign=1989371 #EauClaireWI #LivesTouchedCoaching #YouAskIAnswer #ChippewaValley #KidsAndScreens

Brainspotting
Brainspotting is a focused treatment that helps the brain process strong emotions, fears and anxieties, or traumas. If you or a loved one are being held hostage by anxiety, brainspotting can help. Brainspotting is a proven to decrease anxiety. For those of you in the Eau Claire area, please join me for in-person brainspotting sessions starting in November 2024! Schedule your session using the link below. https://calendly.com/livestouchedcoaching/brainspotting-session-in-person?month=2024-09

Today's Question: "My kid says, 'What will I get if I’m good at the store?' or other things that involve rewards. I’m tired of having material things tied to everything he does. What are some non-material ways to reward good behavior?" It is easy to monetize expected behaviors and can be difficult to backtrack, but here are a couple of ideas to help give kids choices within your parameters. Send me a message if you’d like to talk for an hour about your specific situation! #EauClaireWI #LivesTouchedCoaching #YouAskIAnswer #RewardsForExpectedBehaviors

Fear of Bees
Today's Question: “My 8 year old is very worried and anxious when it comes to bees. We went raspberry picking this summer, and he seemed paralyzed by the fact that there were bees flying around. Whenever we are outside, he will freeze if there's a bee that is anywhere remotely close to him. Ultimately, he would prefer to go inside the minute he is aware there's a bee around. How do I help him work through this fear? He’s never been stung before, so I’m not sure where the fear is coming from.” If you are interested in learning more about how brainspotting could help with fears, check out my website. https://www.livestouchedcoaching.com/brainspotting.html#/ #YouAskIAnswer #LivesTouchedCoaching #EauClaireWI #ChippewaValley #FearsInKids #Brainspotting

Today's Question: "How can I help my child develop better social skills with friends or when talking to adults?" Social skills are extremely important at each stage of life and are worth taking time to work on- today I talk about going over a pre-game strategy with your child. #LivesTouchedCoaching #EauClaireWI #YouAskIAnswer #BuildingSocialSkills

Today's Question: "How do I deal with my own frustration or stress as a parent?" Awareness is key, which can be difficult in the moment. Once you do recognize your stress or frustration, here are a couple of things to try! #EauClaireWI #LivesTouchedCoaching #YouAskIAnswer #ChippewaValley

Today's Question: "My daughter is very anxious in social situations. What can I do to reassure her when we are in a safe place and I’m with her?" Here are two tangible tips to help kids in anxious social situations; if you’d like to talk more about specific situations in your family, please let me know! #EauClaireWI #LivesTouchedCoaching #YouAskIAnswer #SocialAnxiety

Part 2: Is there a way to make sure my child is safe online? How do I set up boundaries? Being proactive in setting limits on our kids’ devices is worth it! #EauClaireWI #LivesTouchedCoaching #YouAskIAnswer #KidsandTechnology

Is there a way to make sure my child is safe online? How do I set up boundaries? This is a tough question with how much technology is integrated in our kids’ lives on a daily basis. Reach out if you'd like to talk more about it! #EauClaireWI #LivesTouchedCoaching #YouAskIAnswer #KidsandTechnology

1st Day of School Jitters
First day of school jitters are REAL! Some kids are able to head off to a new school year with a new teacher, classmates, classrooms, schedule, and expectations and not think twice. And then there are the kiddos who are nervous days or weeks before the start of the year. Find out different ways to help ease the anxiety over the upcoming start to the year. #LivesTouchedCoaching #EauClaireWI #ChippewaValley #SchoolAnxiety