Jason + Tori Videos

New podcast drop
In our most recent, podcast episode, we're joined by Jason's twin brother, David, and his wife Lori to talk about all things marriage and family. They've been married for 25 years, have five kids together, and own multiple businesses. We dive deep into the best advice they have for married couples and the parenting best-practices they've used to raise five children who all love Jesus. ��A few highlights: * Learn their #1 marriage habit that keeps their relationship strong. * Discover the "cone method" for parenting that ensures the greatest outcome for kids. * How to balance work/life issues. * The key to unlocking intimacy. * How to handle conflict "shoulder-to-shoulder" to ensure deeper connection. * and a lot more... Tune in and enjoy the wisdom and humor that David and Lori bring to the table! https://beautyinbattlepodcast.buzzsprout.com/1913512/13737096

Who doesn't want a great sex life in marriage? Research shows the healthiest marriages are those who report having healthy, fulfilling, and frequent sexual engagement. In this episode, we dive into an online study of 70,000 people in 24 countries that revealed 13 keys to great sex. The researchers were curious about what might be different about couples who said that they had a great sex life, compared to couples who said that they had a bad sex life. Here's their findings - Couples who have a great sex life everywhere on the planet are doing the same set of things. Couples who do not have a great sex life everywhere on the planet are not doing these things. So let's figure out what those things are! https://beautyinbattlepodcast.buzzsprout.com/1913512/12197270

Before oneness in marriage, there's "two-ness." You have to be individually healthy before you can be relationally healthy. The second greatest commandment echoes this when we're told to love others (our spouse) "as we love ourselves." A healthy life is the foundation for a healthy marriage. In today's episode, we brought in an expert to show us how we can be the best version of ourselves by thriving in our body, mind, and spirit. A former middle school teammate with Jason, Dr. John Skelton has worked more than 20 years as an Emergency Room doctor. After seeing thousands of patients struggling with perpetual problems, he started his own Lifestyle Medical practice that focuses on holistic health - mind, body, spirit. Tune in and find out what causes anxiety and what you can do about it, how to reverse diabetes, how hormonal levels play a role in everything, and a surprising three-step plan to deal with the stress in your life. God wants you to be the healthiest version of yourself. Every part of you is linked - if one part is sick then it affects every other part, including your closest relationships. Listen to Dr. John as he dives deep to help you get healthy. https://beautyinbattlepodcast.buzzsprout.com/1913512/11649160

Here’s the recipe guys💕Meant to create reel here but apparently was in my personal instagram 🤭

Did you know that Google spent millions of dollars on a research project that revealed the #1 characteristic of the best teams in their business? The good news for us is that their findings can help you immensely in your marriage. Dive into our latest pod to find out what in the world we're talking about! https://beautyinbattlepodcast.buzzsprout.com/1913512/11516836

Did you know that buried emotions never die? They show up in the strangest places and at the most random times often wreaking havoc on our closest relationships. Insecurities from the past, doubts about the future, fear of failure, overwhelming self-consciousness - all of these and more can creep their way into your marriage and hold you back from becoming the vibrant couple God made you to be. In today's episode, we'll dive into the two keys to properly dealing with emotions from the past so they won't hold you back in your present and how they can actually become springboards for your future. We'll look at a prophet in the Old Testament, how he helped one of his buddies get to the source of his problem and how he aligned himself with the supernatural. Our culture rewards people for "holding things together" when they go through tough situations. But doing so can damage you emotionally if you don't properly deal with the stuff you felt while you went through it. Even worse, if you hold onto it for too long, the weight will be too much to bear. But it doesn't have to be this way. You can thrive emotionally and flourish relationally if you know how to get to the root. Dive in and let's do this together! Oh, and Tori is finally going to share her world-famous "ranger cookie" recipe. You won't want to miss that. p.s. We think you'll like our song choice for this week. Epic love song! https://beautyinbattlepodcast.buzzsprout.com/1913512/11435192

Did you know that married couples who pray together are 90% more likely to report higher satisfaction in their sex life than couples who don't pray together? Call us crazy, but we've discovered that incorporating prayer in our marriage does way more than simply increase physical satisfaction - it draws us together unlike anything else can. Why? Because all truly healthy marriages involve three people - husband, wife, and God. When you bring God into your relationship great things happen. God is your Father, so He knows what you need more than you do. But He's also your Father-in-Law - He knows what your spouse needs. Better yet, He will give you the keys to their heart if you'll simply take time to listen to Him. That's what this episode is all about - how to incorporate prayer into our marriage and how to leverage it's power in our relationship. We'll wrap up with three aspects of prayer that all couples need to do every single day. Enjoy. This one is a fun one. https://beautyinbattlepodcast.buzzsprout.com/1913512/11304163

We've all heard that familiarity breeds contempt. But is that true? In today's episode, we'll show you a different side of familiarity and how it can help you and hurt you at the same time, and how you can leverage it to your advantage. Based on a small verse tucked away in Psalms 71, we'll look at the one thing you need to do in order to keep your relational pursuit vibrant. And, if you hang around, you'll discover how the Roman Colleseum can teach us a thing or two about marriage! Hope you enjoy listening to this episode as much as we liked making it! Oh, and wait for Tori's epic dig on my teeth!!! https://beautyinbattlepodcast.buzzsprout.com/1913512/11214057-fighting-familiarity

The most important thing you can do in your marriage is learn how to communicate properly to your spouse. Why? Because communication is all about CONNECTION! When you dated your spouse you had no problem communicating. But then you got married and all of a sudden communicating became hard. But it doesn't have to stay that way! In this episode we'll dive into two familiar stories in the Bible that shows the power of communication, and draw out three key elements that are important for us to understand if we're going to connect with our spouse. Good communication starts with a clear understanding of three things: 1) You need to understand that God brought you together. 2) You need to understand you and your spouse are wired differently. 3) You need to understand that communication is often difficult. Oh, and one more thing - if you listen all the way to the end Tori will let you in on a little food recipe she discovered was a gamechanger for our family! Just for fun! Check it - https://beautyinbattlepodcast.buzzsprout.com/1913512/11130404

Would you like a very simple three-step plan to magnetize your spouse to you? In today's episode, that's exactly what we'll tackle. We share three keys that will unlock gridlock in your relationship and put you on a path the thrive. But it's not just for hurting couples - healthy couples can (and should) use these same keys to move their relationship forward and make it even better. Here's a sneak peek - If you want to magnetize your spouse to you it will involve these three things: 1) Think 2) Talk 3) Touch Listen in as we dive into the specific ways you can do these things strategically to draw your spouse close to you.

Never before have we lived busier lives and needed to put safeguards in place to protect ourselves from the stressors that crush our bodies and ruin our relationships. In this episode, we're going to talk about the dangers of "busyness" and distraction on our bodies and our marriages. We've learned that the real issue isn’t the increased stress, it's the prolonged release of adrenaline that seeks to alleviate that stress. We're going to dive into how our body functions to alleviate stress, and how that very function is the thing that can hurt us if we aren't careful to regulate it. Stress is normal and good, but it’s supposed to be TEMPORARY! Elevated stress is like pressing the gas and never letting up! But it doesn't have to be that way. We're going to share with you three simple keys that will help you alleviate stress in your own life, help your spouse deal with stress in their life, and how to thrive in your marriage in the midst of a crazy busy world.

While in college, our old strength trainer used to say, "You’re only as fast as your slowest leg!" In marriage, this means you're only as strong as the weakest partner! All of us go through times of pain and heartache, struggle and strain. This is one of the reasons God gave us the gift of marriage - we have a built-in helper in our time of need! The question is, how can we help our spouse when he/she is hurting. In today's episode we're going to share four keys that will help you unlock your spouse and get them moving onto the path of health. Enjoy 👊

Part two on dealing with emotions in marriage out now. Check it out!

😂😂😂

Part two of our podcast series on how to affair-proof your marriage dives into five more principles that will keep your relationship strong in the midst of a culture where people are falling like flies. Enjoy 👊👊🕺🕺👩‍❤️‍👨👩‍❤️‍👨

Thank you Marybeth for capturing your hub’s joke for all of us to enjoy😂! Devin- your bawking ability is a true gift👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 May this inspire you all to send in your favorite jokes. Someone try and top this🤗Bring it!!!!!!!!

We live in a time when threats to our relationship are at an all time high. Marriages are being ripped apart at breakneck speed, and one of the most pressing issues is the threat of an affair. Even the most spiritual leaders among us are falling prey. In this episode and our next we are taking a deep dive into 10 principles that we believe can affair-proof our marriages. Let’s do this 🕺🔥

@tori.benham rocks out some deep thoughts on how your Enneagram type affects your marriage and how understanding your sub-type can make you a better spouse. @jasonbbenham plays a much smaller role in this episode, so you will like it much better! Enjoy 🕺👩‍❤️‍👨🔥

We all have five core needs: Security - Who can I trust? Identity - Who am I? Belonging - who wants me? Purpose - why am I alive? Competence - what am I good at? In today's episode we're going to dive into each of these and show you how God meets those needs in you through your spouse. We'll also discuss the core relational need of a husband and the core relational need of a wife and how you can make sure you're meeting those needs on a regular basis. And, as always, Tori‘s jokes are off the hook!

These two🥰

Believe it or not, you can stay in love while parenting kids. At least, that’s what we’ve been told! In this episode we share the four stages of parenting and a practical way to draw close to each other in each stage. Enjoy 👊🕺👩‍❤️‍👨

Don’t stop dating and marriage! In this episode we will share three Key benefits to dating and a three-part system to make sure you keep it alive! Enjoy Oh, Tori’s jokes are especially on point 🕺🕺🔥🔥

BFF goals