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31 women have been killed this year. Women are scared. Women don’t feel safe. We demand preventative action from the government on this epidemic.

Rest in Peace to all of the women who have so far lost their lives this year 🕊️

We won’t stop until we see change. Enough is enough. No more.

Stand up and Show up tomorrow at your local National Rally run by 👉 times and locations on the third slide.

In a nuanced and lengthy 324-page judgment, Justice Lee concluded on the balance of probabilities that Bruce Lehrmann r***d Brittany Higgins. Our hearts go out to Brittany Higgins and all survivors who have sought justice and been let down by a system that was not built to protect them. This civil court decision, which was watched by 25,000 viewers, highlights the complexities of proving truth in legal battles concerning s*xual assault. Swipe for some telling quotes from a verdict that delivers a definitive conclusion after a five year trial by media, law and public opinion.

Our hearts are heavy as we mourn the loss of six lives in the tragic Bondi Junction stabbing. Among them, Faraz Tahir, a brave security guard who made the ultimate sacrifice in the line of duty, trying to protect others. This horrifying act of violence predominantly targeted women, adding to a grim tally—24 women fatally attacked this year alone.

We must address this for what it is: an epidemic of men’s violence against women. It’s time for change.

Eighteen women in Australia have already lost their lives to violence in 2024. This Sexual Assault Awareness Month, let us channel our outrage into action, and honour their memory.



Hannah McGuire (23)
Mauwa Kizenga (22)
Chaithanya ‘Swetha’ Madhagani
Joanne Perry (53)
Samantha Murphy (51)
Min Cho (41) and her seven-year-old son
Amarjit Kaur Sardar (41)
Samira Dean (80)
Vyleen White (70)
Antoinette Tozer (76)
Alana Martin (30)
Keira Marshall (29)
Nerol Doble (65)
Alison Robinson (39)
And others yet unnamed��Thank you to Destroy The Joint for tracking these deaths.

We remember them. We fight for them. We will not be silenced.

Attention, She’s A Crowd community! We’re gearing up for some exciting updates and will be performing maintenance shortly. 🌟 While our story-sharing map platform will be taking a brief pause, our commitment to supporting you isn't going anywhere.

💌 If you feel ready, share your story with us today at shesacrowd.com. Your voice is vital, and we're here to listen.

💬 Remember, our chatbot and a wealth of other resources are still available on our website to offer you support and information. Stay connected with us here on Instagram for updates and useful tips for our community of victim-survivors.

Together, we're unstoppable!

"You can’t 'count us in' when you don’t have the data." - Quote by Dr Zoe Condliffe, Founder of She's A Crowd . This International Women's Day, as we delve into the theme "Count Her In: Invest in Women. Accelerate Progress," it's imperative to acknowledge the glaring gaps hindering true inclusivity and advancement.

As a feminist tech startup, we confront the glacial pace of progress firsthand. Last year, a mere 4% of venture capital flowed to female founders in Australia. The recent publication of WGEA pay gap outcomes underscores the persistent disparities. Despite incremental strides, the pace of change remains sluggish.

But what does it truly mean to "count her in"? Amidst the backdrop of uncollected s*xual violence data, this question takes on profound significance. Sexual violence and economic empowerment are inextricably linked; yet, the absence of comprehensive data undermines efforts to address both issues effectively.

How can we accelerate progress when the experiences of the vast majority of survivors go uncounted? How can we foster economic empowerment if we aren't counting her? These questions compel us to reflect, to challenge existing paradigms, and to advocate for a future where every woman's voice is heard and valued. 💪✨ 🌐♀️

Not the date to celebrate.

Have you seen safe spaces popping up at festivals lately? Safety and support at festivals and nightlife venues are essential to safer nights out, and safe spaces are the perfect survivor-led approach to make sure you can get help, feel safe or have a break.

Our community partner What Were You Wearing? Australia () showing up and working hard to make sure every festival goer has access to these services around Australia - their commitment to eliminating s*xual violence and safe nights out is why our partnership with them is vital for creating safer spaces for all. 🧡💜

Everyone should be able to live freely and have fun without harassment. Festivals are known for their laidback, free and playful nature, but when perpetrators and predators take advantage of it, it can make the whole experience turn sour. That's why we're working to make all festivals and nightlife venues safe spaces for everyone.
We're here for you, and we believe you ✨💜



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Foundational to our Safer Spaces Summer project, the Safer Spaces: Gendered Safety in the Night Time Economy Report (2023) leverages the extensive survivor-led data collected by She’s A Crowd and industry partners since 2018 to advocate for safer nightlife spaces across Australia.

In collaboration with Uber Australia and community changemakers, She’s A Crowd presents this comprehensive report as a powerful call to action for recreational spaces in the nighttime economy to engage with its insights and recommendations.

This pioneering report delves into the prevalence of pervasive and detrimental attitudes and behaviours surrounding gender-based violence within the Australian nighttime economy. Directed at venues and festivals, our first-of-its-kind report offers accessible insights and tangible, actionable recommendations for cultivating safer spaces for all.

You can explore the report below, or download the full report at saferspaces.shesacrowd.com

What Were You Wearing? Angela Safety App DanceWize NSW Dance Without Fear

“This experience ignited a fire within her, transforming pain into purpose. Her story is not unique, it mirrors the tales of countless others who have suffered in silence within the supposed sanctuaries of festival grounds. It’s a story that encapsulates why She’s A Crowd is a survivor-led organisation, where personal narratives drive our mission to amplify the voices of those who have endured gender-based violence (GBV).”

Our CEO and Founder Dr Zoe Condliffe, writes on what inspired her journey to She’s A Crowd, the “unsettling truth” about gender-based violence and Australia’s nightlife scene, and the campaign. Read the full article on Women's Agenda below 👇

1448 stories: The reality of s*xual assault at Australia's festivals, gigs and venues The Safer Spaces report exposes gender-based violence in festivals and venues. The numbers are disturbing, but the call to action is clear.

14 of 17 UN Sustainable Development Goals can’t be achieved if we don’t work to reduce and eliminate gender-based violence. Today, and throughout the 16 Days of Activism, we reflect, acknowledge and act to make every place a safer space for all women and girls, because everyone deserves to live without fear and violence.

We need to invest in real change, which is why we’re launching the Safer Spaces campaign - we’re on a mission to inform, inspire and create action across Australia, to make the nightlife economy safer and free of gender-based violence. Find out more or pledge your support at: saferspaces.shesacrowd.com ✊💜



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On Saturday 25th November 2023, SlutWalk Naarm / Melbourne will be returning!

This will the thirteenth annual rally against slut-shaming, victim-blaming and rape-culture, and standing up against violence, hate and patriarchy is still as vital as ever.

So come along to the State Library Victoria at 12PM, in rage and solidarity, to hear speeches from some voices fighting for change, followed by a march down to Parliament House.

For more information, head to the event page: https://facebook.com/events/s/slutwalk-2023/1437381473659140/

It's currently , a crucial time to acknowledge the significance of our mental health, and to make sure we're checking in with ourselves. Let's extend our support to those in our lives who are navigating mental health challenges, a small act of kindness can go a long way.

Do you have a similar experience you'd like to share? Our anonymous platform offers a safe space for you to contribute your story and help reshape the narrative. Join us today at shesacrowd.com to be a part of this positive change. 💜



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You simply can't extinguish my light 💪🔥 We empower victim-survivors, by letting them be the author of their story, the story that changes other stories.

Share your story at www.shesacrowd.com today 💜



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With the ever-growing convenience of technology, the unfortunate reality is that many women now face a higher risk of having their photos taken without their knowledge or consent. This constitutes a grave form of gender-based violence and an alarming breach of privacy. Join us at She's a Crowd and share your story to shed light on this issue. Together, we can rewrite this narrative. 💜


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You have to look attractive, but you can’t be a distraction. You have to be assertive, but you can’t take the lead. You have to stand out, but don’t depart from tradition. Being a woman is often an impossible task.

Landing in cinemas this July, the Barbie movie took the world by storm, with household names Margot Robbie and Ryan Gosling starring as Barbie and Ken.

Whilst its marketing and cast certainly got everyone talking, what we loved the most at She’s A Crowd was the film’s feminist theme. Director Greta Gerwig explores through a female lens, the challenges facing the modern woman, from body image expectations, to the patriarchal structure of the workplace. We laughed, we cried, but most importantly, we left the theatre feeling empowered.

If you haven’t seen it, take this as your sign to book your ticket!💖



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Your Story, Your Voice: Find Closure and Community at She's A Crowd

At She's A Crowd, we value every voice, offering a safe space for sharing stories regardless of gender or background. If you're 16 years or older, your story is welcome – whether it's a recent experience or a memory from the past. Sharing your journey can bring closure, particularly to those hidden memories that still hold pain. Whenever you're ready, visit shesacrowd.com to lend your voice and find healing within our supportive community.💜



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Public transport is unfortunately a common place for s*xual harassment to occur, the busyness and rush of passengers giving perpetrators a sense of disguise and opportunity.

Wherever you were, whatever the circumstance, you should never be made to feel endangered, violated, or vulnerable.

At She’s A Crowd, we believe in the power of storytelling. Through sharing your experience via our anonymous reporting platform, you help us to identify the real problems within our society. We then take this data to policy-makers, who can make evidence-based decisions, and implement significant and meaningful change.

You should feel safe wherever you are. If you have a story you would like to share, you can find us at www.shesacrowd.com 💜



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⚠️ CW: This story discusses r*pe and may be distressing or triggering for some viewers ⚠️

When a survivor discloses an experience of gender-based violence, it is so important as listeners that we create a safe space where their story is validated, heard and most of all, believed.

"4 in 10 Australians mistrust women’s reports of s*xual violence according to the 2017 National Community Attitudes Towards Violence Against Women Survey. This is despite the fact that false allegations of s*xual assault are extremely rare (one to 10 per cent) and nearly nine in ten (87%) women who experience s*xual assault do not report it to the police." (ANROWS, 2021)

We must believe survivors and hold perpetrators accountable, no matter what. Everyone's story deserves to be heard, including yours. Join us in a global movement to end gender-based violence, and community mistrust and minimisation along with it - at 🌐 shesacrowd.com 💜


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Consent can be difficult to put into words, but stories can provide insight into how it should look and feel. We're excited to collaborate with , an organisation devoted to community-based consent education and storytelling! They aim to make consent education more accessible, comfortable and actionable. Both She's A Crowd and Stories of Consent are collecting stories to promote a culture that supports women and gender-diverse people in having safe, consensual s*x, while providing a supportive community for all. You can share your story of good consent or gender-based violence whenever you're ready - we'll be here. 💜🩵

There is nothing more powerful than a woman who knows her worth.

Go after your goals unapologetically, and show the world who you are. Remember what you bring to the table, and know you are always worthy of a seat.

If you would like to share your story, you can find us at www.shesacrowd.com 💜

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💜 We're embracing the beautiful spectrum of gender diversity and s*xuality on Wear It Purple Day...(and every other day)!

Throw on your favourite purple sweater, scarf or earrings to show your support for this special day and stand in solidarity with our LGBTQIA+ community.

Today, we stand proud and united alongside LGBTQIA+ individuals, celebrating their diversity, contributions and achievements, while also making space for the pain and suffering they have had to endure in a world and system that has often failed them.

Join us in amplifying voices at She's A Crowd. Let's spread love, understanding, and solidarity together for a better future 💜

✍️ Write Your Story, Share Your Story, Change The Story
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For far too long, women were silenced. Forced to voice our beliefs under ‘Anonymous’ or male pseudonyms, our thoughts and opinions were belittled and ignored.

Now, in industries all across the world, women prove day in and day out just how intelligent, brave, and powerful they are. We will never return to a world where women were silenced, and we owe it to those who came before us to use our voices for good.

Speak your mind, voice your opinions, and stand up for yourself.
You can do anything you set your mind to 💜

If you would like to share your story, you can find us at www.shesacrowd.com

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Interested in joining the team? We've got an open position! Please head to the link below to view the Position Description and application form:

https://forms.gle/GYoM7EbXmGRD2hDS8

She's A Crowd is a feminist tech startup working to close the gender data gap. We are run by a small, passionate team of 18 wonderful volunteers and staff.

The Technical Lead has a multidisciplinary role and is responsible for product management, data analysis, software development and generalist capabilities. They will demonstrate strong technical leadership by providing guidance, mentorship, and support to the Data Team, promoting a culture of excellence and continuous improvement.

We are placing emphasis on providing opportunities for women and individuals of diverse gender identities, and so will be giving priority to these applicants.

Some things you should know:

- This is a paid position
- Please do not apply if you do not have the capacity to work on Tuesdays.
- We deal with sensitive stories, so be aware that working with us may expose you to triggering content
- We currently work mainly online due to COVID, so you can apply from wherever you are, but please note we are based in Australia and work to AEST

Storytelling is vital to connection and empathy, especially within a survivor community. It has the ability to change minds, inspire action and empower others to share their stories.

Storytelling is sacred at She’s A Crowd - each story shared with us is valued, believed and respected. We rely on the courage of survivors around the world to inform policymakers and organisations on how to make our cities and public spaces safer for everyone. So whenever you’re ready - whether that’s 5 minutes or 5 years from now - you can share your story and change the world. 💜



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Sometimes all to takes is one brave individual, to pave the way for change that will better the lives of many.

We recognise the strength it takes to share your story, and in doing so, you are helping us to tackle gender-based violence in all of its forms.

You are powerful, and your voice is being heard. When you are ready, we are listening.

If you have a story you would like to share, you can find us at www.shesacrowd.com 💜



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It takes courage, bravery, and strength to share stories of s*xual assault and gender-based violence.

But to do so is also empowering, liberating, and can help us to heal.

Founder and CEO of She's A Crowd, Zoë Condliffe, dedicated her PHD dissertation to the act of sharing our stories. She explores why we do it, and how in sharing, we are able to take our power back, and control our own narrative.

If you have a story you feel ready to share, you can do so via our anonymous reporting platform. Find us at www.shesacrowd.com 💜

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Harassment can be an extremely isolating experience. You can feel alone, despite being surrounded by other people, which only adds to the fear and anxiety of the situation.

At She’s A Crowd, we are collecting data to close the gender data gap. So many experiences of assault and s*xual harassment go unreported, meaning much of the data on the matter is unreliable and inaccurate. We aim to provide a clearer picture of gender-based violence, which we take to policy-makers, so that they can implement changes which will truly make a difference.

If you would like to share your story, you can find us at www.shesacrowd.com 💜



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