Hayley : Inspiring. Healing. Uplifting

What an amazing day thank you Mandy Testa for your love and support. I am so grateful for the full turnout at my talk at KZN Spirit Fest, and meeting all the sparkly people today. My heart is full 💗💖

Last animal communication workshop in the Ballito north coast area for the year, there are a few spaces left. Come and enjoy re-igniting your intuition and communicate with animals.

Let me guide you to trust your intuition to communicate with animals! Limited spaces available.

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Come and join us for a fun filled day learning inter-species communication! Bookings limited.

Let me guide you and open your intuition and trust in communicating with animals!

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Come and join us for a fun filled day learning inter-species communication! Bookings limited.

Come and join in my animal communication course on the 24t July! I have been busy with my onlinie courses, and have not taught in- person in ages, I am so looking forward to it!

Eating disorders

My eating disorder has recently come to the surface in a way I could not ignore it anymore. Ending up in hospital is what it took.

Did you know that most women and young girls have eating disorders? Hating how one feels about ones body and being, is a disease, not just bad thoughts or attitudes.
I just learnt that mine began in utero, (in a powerfully healing N.O.T. kinesiology session) as my mother hated her body (no doubt from the constant emotional, mental and physical abuse from my father), as well as from the physical sexual abuse I got from my father.

Trauma, anxiety, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder and other mental health issues can increase the likelihood of an eating disorder. Dieting and starvation. Frequent dieting is a risk factor for an eating disorder, especially with weight that is constantly going up and down when getting on and off new diets.

It is hard for people to understand that eating disorders are not a choice, they are not a lifestyle. Someone with an eating disorder is not trying to garner attention; they are not choosing to battle a life-altering mental health condition.

Eating disorders are an illness that takes control over someone as they struggle with disordered beliefs about their weight and shape, lack of self-esteem, and the constant societal emphasis placed on body image. Anorexia, bulimia, and binge eating disorder are only some of the eating disorders affecting someone’s physical and mental health and lead to severe consequences.

Eating disorders are complex and unique. Understanding yours and sharing with others is the start to healing.

My aim here is to bring awareness around eating disorders. I have made mine public now, thereby committing to working on my healing and learning to love my body, not punish it. I wish the same for others, so please reach out, share and understand our physical, mental and emotional health is calling for support and love.

Burnout so early in the year!

I have found in the last month, so many of my clients are heading for burnout, and it is only February!! Being pulled in every direction for work, family, home, pets, responsibilities, also contributes to health issues and inreased physical pain.

Pressure is high for so many, and finances have been a challenge for many this month. February tends to be a slow month in many industries, and then picks up again in March. The wheels keep on turning and we can overcome and thrive again! Have faith!

If you feel like you are heading for burnout, pushing yourself too hard, and not managing your stress levels, please reach out for help. Life can be so much more pleasant, and fun even when we allow support from a friend or professional. Lets choose ease and joy rather than stress and overwhelm! It is a choice, we get to choose how we resond to life, but often, we forget while sliding down the slippery slope of overwhelm.

I would love to help and support you in whatever area you are struggling, physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually. It is not weakenss to receive help, it is huge courage!

Choose YOUR health and happiness today! :)

As we approach the end of January, let's embrace the mantra, "Don't count the days; make the days count." This philosophy goes far beyond merely tracking the passage of time; it's about actively infusing each day with purpose and intention.

It’s a call to action, urging us not to let our days slip by in a blur of routine and obligation, but to actively shape them with meaningful actions and choices - things we’ve done on purpose!

In the ebb and flow of daily life, it's easy to get caught up in the minutiae – the endless to-do lists, the urgent but not necessarily important tasks that demand our attention. Yet, when we pause and realign with our deeper intentions, each day becomes an opportunity for purposeful living.

It's about making conscious choices that reflect our values, goals, and aspirations.

This approach to life transforms the mundane into the significant. Whether spending quality time with loved ones, pursuing a passion project, or making deliberate financial decisions that align with our long-term visions, each action becomes a building block in the architecture of a life well-lived.

So, as we wave goodbye to January and look ahead, let's challenge ourselves to live each day with purpose. Let's set intentions that matter, engage in activities that bring joy and fulfilment, and make choices that resonate with our deepest selves.

In doing so, we ensure that we're not just counting our days but truly making each day count towards a richer, more purpose-filled life journey.

Here’s to a February (and 2024!) filled with purpose!

What a wonderful testimonial from my client! I love working with young children, they are so receptive to healing and telepathy.

Please see below a write up that you could perhaps use to help other parents and children:

We were gifted Hayley’s contact details by a friend of ours that use her services for her animals when they have disappeared or when they are in pain or just out of sorts.
Our son was just over a year at the time and were joking that small animals and small children are very similar!
We decided to contact Hayley to check in with our son and communicate with him/his higher mind on a spiritual level. We were listening to the recording/feedback Hayley gives after each session and our son pointed to the phone and said the name: “Hayley”.

We were shocked since we didn’t tell him that Hayley will be communicating with him. Since then, he happily tells us when he gets in the car that he has been chatting to Hayley or as he now calls her: “ Hays” This is her new nickname it seems😊
Over the past 18 months Hayley has assisted our son with transitioning to pre-school, sleeping soundly at night (less astral travelling and finding his way back to his body), travelling on an airplane, tantrums, and especially potty training. She is able clear any blocked energy centers and has been giving him guidance on how to learn how his body works with regards to toilet training.

We are incredibly fortunate to have such an amazing light worker assisting our family😊
Thank you, Hayley, for your help and guidance!
In love and light
Ian, Chantel and Lorcan

Internalising and externalising!

As a coach, healer and animal communiator, I help many people with troubles of anxiety, stress, overwhlem, trauma, r**e, and children too, in specials ways. And of course animals, my passion!

This post is about me wanting to share the importance of externalising, sharing, talking about what you feel and think, and how you process it all. We all experience so much stress and anixiety, my passion is to help people to process this in a safe and meaningful way. This is my way to help you internally.

I am not going to go into how I support and help in this post, but please feel free to see my website for more information. Here I want to share of a healthy way to externalise physically your frustrations, fears and pain.

It is extremly important to do this, and I had a fantastic outlet yesterday at Smash it https://web.facebook.com/smash*tballito

Tammy and her team help us all FEEL our feeling while expressing it, with smashing, bashing and screaming it out!

Beleive me, 10 min felt like an hour of this, and I felt FANTASTIC afterwards! I highly recommend this amazing venue dedicated to help us cope in todays crazy world!

go for it, Smash it!

How our animals absorb our energy

It has been a long while since I wrote a post here, oops! Admin not my strong suit! 🙂
I have found the last two months hectic with helping our domestic and wild animals with clearing energy/emotions/stress, that they have abosrbed from us humans. it is what they do as unconditional loving beings. We do the same to a lesser extent.

This message is to encourage you all to be mindful of your thoughts and feelings, and their imact on our pets. Every thought and emtion, is energy. December and January, in my experience, are very tough months on us humans. We work hard all year to collapse, party and enjoy a short holiday, or not, we spend time with friends and family, wqith often many family stress fallouts,

We then eneter a new year with pressure of expectations and goals to achieve. So much self judgement and fear and anxiety to start a year. Globally all these emotions create a heavy collective consciousness, which we all absorb, but our animals abosrb more.

How does this affect them, and us? Ilness, stress, anxiety and behaviour issues.
So in this short post, I encourage you all to be present with your pets, know they may be behaving otherwise for more reasons than you know or understand. Please feel free to reach out to me to help you understaind your pets bahaviour and. or illness, as well as your own. I work with animals and people, the whole family's happiness is my goal.

In health, joy and blessings
Hayley

Recovering from a relationship with a narcissist is a very tricky and difficult process, and takes time to un-hook onself from the toxicity. I share below a perfect message to help you see and notice the signs of trauma bonding. Trauma bonding occurs when a person experiencing abuse develops an unhealthy attachment to their abuser.

It is real and in so many peoples lives. Take good care of yourselves!

Please see my website for my online courses, learn the skill to communicate with animals with my animal communication course, or learn the skills of healing for yourself and others and pets with my Orable technique course. Secure your application by the end of the month and you will get a 10% discount!!

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It can be a positive time of growth. Stay grounded. ✨💫

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Date r**e

I have recently been helping a few ladies with date r**e, and wanted to bring awareness once again on this horrific topic.

It has been 8 years since I was drugged and gang r***d, and it has taken years to heal. I was one of those survivors that remembered everything after the brutal assault. Many do not remember. Either way, it is a very real and traumatic experience for all who survive this.

My encouragement today is to bring more awareness to this topic, and to encourage all you ladies of all ages, to be vigilant of your drinks being spiked. Any drink can be spiked, not just alcohol. Do not leave your drinks unattended, ever. And please ladies, go out with a friend or two, don't venture out alone, we have to have each others back.
Date r**e

I have recently been helping a few ladies with date r**e, and wanted to bring awareness once again on this horrific topic.

It has been 8 years since I was drugged and gang r***d, and it has taken years to heal. I was one of those survivors that remembered everything after the brutal assualt. Many do not remember. Either way, it is a very real and traumatic experience for all who survive this.

My encouragement today is to bring more awareness to this topic, and to encourage all you ladies of all ages, to be vigilant of your drinks being spiked. Any drink can be spiked, not just alcahol. Do not leave your drinks unattended, ever. And please ladies, go out with a friend or two, don't venture out alone, we have to have each others back.

Please speak out and reach out if you fear you have been date r***d, with or without being drugged. Do NOT stay silent. Please reach out to me if you need help.
Date r**e

I have recently been helping a few ladies with date r**e, and wanted to bring awareness once again on this horrific topic.

It has been 8 years since I was drugged and gang r***d, and it has taken years to heal. I was one of those survivors that remembered everything after the brutal assualt. Many do not remember. Either way, it is a very real and traumatic experience for all who survive this.

My encouragement today is to bring more awareness to this topic, and to encourage all you ladies of all ages, to be vigilant of your drinks being spiked. Any drink can be spiked, not just alcahol. Do not leave your drinks unattended, ever. And please ladies, go out with a friend or two, don't venture out alone, we have to have each others back.

Please speak out and reach out if you fear you have been date r***d, with or without being drugged. Do NOT stay silent. Please reach out to me if you need help.
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Please speak out and reach out if you fear you have been date r***d, with or without being drugged. Do NOT stay silent. Please reach out to me if you need help.

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Physical pain and its messages

I have noticed in the last few months, in my own life as well as with so many of my clients and friends, physical pain is one of the highest complaints. We’re moving into higher levels of consciousness, this is contributing to us being pushed to resolve, feel and to process anything and everything that has not been processed or resolved. Trauma and stress is held in the physical body.

Neuropeptides form an intercellular language that communicates with every system in your body constantly transmitting information. More importantly it is the neuropeptides that link the limbic system with the rest of your body that transmits your emotions and translated into chemical messages. Emotions like fear panic shame anger and hate all of these can undermine the normal functioning of the nervous system leading to deliberating nervous conditions in the same way joy happiness loving kindness and forgiveness can increase your well-being leading to a balanced calm and healthy nervous system. Pain shows up when there are unresolved emotions, traumas, and experiences.

Pain in any part of the body is a signal that something is off kilter that either you are stretching too far going in the wrong direction trying to do too much on your own or repressing too many psycho emotional issues, so that the flow of communication has damaged.
I've never felt comfortable or safe in my body as I have had many sexual violations and surgeries since a child. This applies to so many other people too. As a coach and healer for 20 years I have come to realize that most of us are not comfortable in our bodies most of the time. We disconnect from our bodies. And so many of us women have bad self-body images. We've never liked how we looked, and are so critical of our hair/ our eyes/ our wrinkles /the legs, you name it. Which is why the beauty industry is so massive and anorexia as well as many other eating disorders diseases are just continuing to grow.

I have had an eating disorder throughout my life and still addressing and healing it. Anorexia is a form of starving yourself, it’s the one thing you can control, you can control what you put in your body or what you don't put in your body. Addiction too,stem from unresolved trauma, the more we dislike our bodies or how we feel in it, we can tend to become addicted to various things whether it is shopping, gambling, alcohol whatever. We distract ourselves and we disassociate from ourselves, and this is a big trigger for physical pain.

Pain is an indication that something is wrong, that you need to pay attention to hear what it has to say. Invariably the area of physical pain is representing a psycho emotional pain, and when you start to listen to your body, you can insights to why it is in pain.

I've started to listen now to my body and come home into my vessel that holds my soul and tune into, and ask my body what's really going on here. I'm being kinder to my body, I'm learning to not criticize her or judgeher for what she looks like or what she's not accomplishing. I'm honoring that this body has carried and is carrying so much trauma stored, so just by being with my bodyand listening to what she has to say and apologizing to her, she is healing.

So, I encourage everybody to do the same, be kinder to yourself, treat yourself like you would treat a puppy or a little child. See how it heals!

Would you like to learn a powerful and effective healing technique that you can use in-person and remotely? I have created this Oracle tecnique from decades of studying and facilitating healing in my sucessful practice.

It is a very comprehensive online course which includes:
1. A PDF manual with images and information on how to use the Oracle Technique
2. A video teaching of me guiding the student through the Oracle Technique
3. Two recorded one on one live personalised video teachings with the student on Skype/Zoom
4. Three personalised case studies grading the student so that they can receive a Certificate of Graduation

Please message me for more details on Messenger or What's App 072-9718450. And please see my website for more details http://hayleyhealing.co.za/

Would you like to learn a phenomenal healing technique that you can use in-person and remotely? Whether you want to learn this to help your loved ones (both people and animals), or to up skill your healing practice.
I offer in this online course, a comprehensive and informative manual, TWO one-on-one video personalised video classes guiding you through the technique, and THREE personalised case studies!

The greatest gift we can offer is healing, please send me a message for more information.
072 971 8450, [email protected]

I sometimes forget
that I was created for Joy.
My mind is too busy.

My Heart is too heavy
for me to remember
that I have been
called to dance
the Sacred dance of life.

I was created to smile
To Love
To be lifted up
And to lift others up.

O’ Sacred One
Untangle my feet
from all that ensnares.

Free my soul.
That we might
Dance
and that our dancing
might be contagious.

Hafiz 🧡

Art by Mahmoud Farshchian

“I am the woman who is done saying she is sorry for thriving outside of the boxes and coloring away from the lines. Let them call me wicked; let them paint me as vulgar in my defiant disobedience. I welcome their shock and disbelief.

Let me answer to no master and let me be chained no more to old beliefs and ideals. I have no desire to be a proper woman, whatever submission that demands or entails." Ara

To The Wild Woman Who Risks It All | The Goddess Circle I am a flight risk. I am a wrench in the machine of conformity and I will not linger where my soul is starved or where the air sucks breath and life from these bones. I will run rampant and unrestrained into the great unknown fueled by the unbridled passions that flow in these veins.

📸 💜

With so much stress and overwhelm around the world, and particularly in our country, with crime, job/financial/ health/political stresses, load shedding, to name a few, relationships take a lot of strain. I have seen so many break-ups, divorces and separations in relationships in the last two to three years. I myself have just gotten divorced after two very challenging and traumatic years.

We are all suseptible to stress and the the pressures that we have to overcome, deal with, cope with, heal, are massive. My heart grieves for our country and all the pain and grief that has filled the collective consiousness from our suffering.

Working through and understanding what is going wrong in your relationship is critical, and acknowledging our part to contributing to the breakdown of the relationship.

Communication is critital, open and honest, sharing your doubts and fears and needs, Asking for space when needed, changing or setting healthier boundaries, apologising and taking accountability, accepting each others imperfections and not wanting to change the other, being honest about expectations and needs and being REAL and asking for and receiving help, are all necessary.

I have come to understand and know, that not everything is forever, and to make peace with that, and not beat ourselves up or judge ourselves. If we do our best, and work together in a relationship, and it still does not work, we can consciously uncouple, we can move on.

We never really know what others are going through, so lets all just be kind, and offer support and an ear to help each other.

I am back! 🙂 I could not access my Hayley Healing or my Animal Communication and Healing pages! I have created a new personal page to access these now! Thank you for your patience, I will be sharing and supporting once again!

Wishing you all a happy and peaceful day and week ahead!