Bulo Institute Of Development & Healing

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We are all pathfinders. The human quest for meaning is an existential universal. All individuals, at some point in his or her life, may wonder: What do I want to do with my life? Do I really want parents and society decide which path I should follow.?
This is the dilemma of being a human being. On the one hand, we want to be conformers, so that we can feel accepted and less lonely. On the other hand, we secretly want to rebel against the social pressures to conform so that we can follow our own paths and pursue our own dreams.
Viktor Frankl is able to resolve this dilemma by reminds us that deep down, we all want to discover some meaning and purpose for our existence in this world, and we all want to pursue something greater than ourselves, but we are all singular in what matters most to us. Therefore, we ae all pathfinders in search for our calling or the reason for our existence.

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8 THINGS THAT CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN ONE YEAR :

1. Stop complaining and appreciate how lucky you are every day.

2. Embrace loneliness and reinvent yourself in the process

3. Say goodbye to the people that don't bring positive energy into your life.

4. Throw off the TV and set internet controls.

5. Pick one skill you want to cultivate and put all your effort into developing it.

6. Commit to the goals you set and never look back.

7. Sweat everyday to boost your mood.

8. Fail forward. Learn from every mistake you make.

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My name is Modester Nyirenda. I am 27 years old and I live in Lusaka's Chalala Area.

I was born and raised in Lundazi district of Eastern Province.

My father and mother died when I was in grade 10.

When my parents died, I left home to live with my grandmother and other children who lived with her in Lusaka's Kuomboka Township.

Although my grandmother was loving and kind,there were too many of us for her to feed and take to school. She couldn't cope. As a result, I had to quit school in grade 11 term two.

In order to survive I started working at a home shop and salon in Snow White area of Chawama Township.

My job was to look for customers and at the end of the day I would be given a commission depending on the number of customers I brought.

I met Elijah Banda when I started working in a salon. He used to run a makeshift barbershop near the salon where I worked.

We became good friends because we had a lot in common. We both came from Eastern province, we were both orphans and we were going through the same problems in life.

Our friendship quickly grew such that we started spending our free time together.

During lunch hour, we would contribute and buy Nshima which we would eat together.

One day when I went to see him at his barbershop, I found him in a heated argument with three drunk pupils from Kamulanga High School.

Apparently the trio had had their hair cut but wanted to pay less than the amount due.

During their argument, one of the pupils told Elijah to stop wasting his time working in barbershop and instead to go back to school.

Later that evening when I went home I sat down and started thinking about what that pupil had said about going back to school.

I realised that I was also wasting my time working in salon were I was getting masese ( being underpaid).

The next morning when I went to see Elijah, I told him of my intention to go back to school.

He supported my idea and pledged to assist me with school requirements.

Later that same day, I went to Libala Secondary School to look for a place in the afternoon section.

Luckily, I was accepted but had to repeat and start grade 10 afresh.

The biggest obstacle I had was money to buy a uniform and school requirements. When I explained my problem to Elijah, he sold his Samsung phone at K800 and got K500 from his barbershop business. He gave me a total of K1,300 to buy the uniform and sort out other school requirements.

Elijah started working extra hard when I went back to school. During the day he would work as a barberman and at night he would work as a Taxi call boy at Clans and East point night club in Kabwata.

Elijah continued to help me with school requirements until I completed my grade 12 and passed with flying colours.

I then applied for a place at University Of Zambia. I also applied for a busary. Luckily I was accepted to study at the University of Zambia in the School of Humanities and was given a hundred percent busary.

I managed to complete my studies and graduated.

Today I have a well paying job and I have managed to overcome poverty.

Elijah and I are now dating and cohabiting. We will officially get married this December though a lot of people are against the idea of me getting married to him. Friends and relatives have been telling me to dump him and instead find someone who is educated.

They have been encouraging me to leave him, saying he is of low class and a call boy without an education. But what they don't know is that I am who I am today because of Elijah.

There are times when I go with him into town and in eating places. People will stare at us wondering what I am doing with him.

I am not ashamed of him. I kiss him in front of people because I love him so much and nothing will ever separate us.

I will make him who I want him to be and already I have started empowering him.

I am slowly changing him in all areas of his life.
Source: Mwebantu Trendsetters 2

Your Money Problems Must not Arrive on Someone’s Pay Day . That is day light witchcraft. Heal and plan your life

we always complain about prejudice of the system we have in the country and in the world, but neglect to acknowledge our own personal prejudice. what is your predijuce towards others?

“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.”

Love is not a game of how much can you change for her. Sadly, as men, we were taught we weren’t good enough as is, so if we find a beautiful woman we should change everything to make her happy. But here’s the thing, that approach never works!

Real truth is, if you put in the time to develop yourself on the path of your purpose— you ain’t gotta change anything about who you are to make her happy! She will admire you for who you are and what you represent. You won’t have to do much but be you and share your love with her. Women are used to lost boys who they feel they need to mold into men— but a woman can’t mold a man who lives according to his highest calling.

For some men, becoming this man of purpose is hard to imagine, but that’s only bc you haven’t experienced how majestic of a man you become once you’re aligned with your purpose in life. Trust me bro, there’s no greater feeling than knowing yourself snd your calling! Know this— the woman for you won’t need you to change a damn thing... she’ll recognize the brightness of your Star and seek only to be loved you. She won’t ask you to stop being who you are to make her feel comfortable.

Be curious, not judgmental.

" It’s important to understand how our mind and emotions work. A cause and condition of anger is fear. Once it has erupted anger can lead to hatred, so we have to tackle it early. Anger tends to arise spontaneously, but we can develop compassion through training. Anger might bring energy, but the problem is that it’s blind. We observe physical hygiene to maintain our health, what we also need is emotional hygiene. "

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