要不要

在澳洲阿德萊德思考中西文化差異的一位港媽

10/09/2024

我們不能改變別人
只有現在開始提醒未來的自己

某位長輩跟自己的孩子形同陌路,很多人都想幫忙他們拉近親子關係,但聽過那個長輩跟自己孩子的對話方式,大家都放棄了。
『過年過節都不回家!你真的很不孝耶!』、『別人家的小孩都會回來,就只有你不回來!』、『如果不是你!我會過得這麼辛苦?』、『你再不回家就等著回來幫我辦喪事!』⋯⋯

我在想,這位長輩其實是希望自己的孩子回來陪他的,但說出來的語言三句不離道德批判、情緒勒索、比較⋯⋯等。

如果可以好好說話,會不會好一點呢?
『這次過節,我希望你可以回家陪陪我。你沒有回家,我覺得很失落,但我也可以理解你在北部生活很不容易,如果你手邊的事情忙完了,可以回家看看我嗎?』

不過,沒有什麼機會好好說了⋯⋯這位長輩漸漸忘記自己曾有位孩子了⋯⋯

25/08/2024

[要不要再認真審視香港的美]
沒想到
澳洲的廣告
香港的場景
差點以為是我看錯了

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