NLP Be Your Purpose

Happy Fathers' Day 🩵🩷💛
+ Happy first day of spring 🌸🌼🌸🌼

I hope you had a fun filled day full of lots of cherished memories 💖

"Life is not a problem to solved, but a fun reality to be experienced"
It's your choice what you make of it.
   

Protecting your energy is essential for maintaining overall well-being to ensure you avoid empath burnout or compassion fatigue.
I have drawn nine powerful ways you can protect your energy, ensure spiritual boundaries & trust you are in alignment.
It is a friendly reminder that you can raise your frequency like a professional healer.

Another fun play day with like minded souls.
   

When I was in my thirties, I paid off my home, car, and husband’s car. That was my definition of financial security and freedom.
My personalised coaching business was booming with a wait list over a nine-month wait list that kept me very, very busy to keep up.
The evidence was clear that my style of healing & manifesting worked for me and even better ... it worked incredibly fast for my clients to get results.
They were paying off their homes, manifesting large amounts of money, travelling overseas, creating booming holistic businesses, hosting sold-out retreats, and everything else you can imagine.
At the time, my wise NLP trainer noticed and said, “You better start teaching what you do – the world needs this!”
He was right. 
I was in awe witnessing the ripple effect of people illuminating and being their purpose, rather than being stuck in the 9-5 grind, feeling stuck and stagnant.
It was fun to see them create their version of financial security. 
I have been on my journey with NLP in my 30s. In my 40s, I am making plans to pivot and create my own modality. (A combination of NLP, past lives, enhanced intuition, and all the other spiritual techniques - at a premium price point)
But before I do,  … I want to let you know this is your LAST CHANCE to join my NLPAA-accredited training.
If you have felt the intuitive pull to gain the skills to assist others confidently, now is your time to join the next NLP & Life Coaching training.
You will receive:

• Life-changing scripts,

• session structure,

• Resources to attract clients,

• Group coaching to identify your offer,

• Plus tools to attract clients 

Everything I have used to create a thriving and rewarding business is here in your hands.
You can create your version of financial freedom with NLP, like other thought leaders in the industry. It all starts with one decision. 
✨️ Spaces are limited. At $2750, this is an investment in your future that you can not afford to miss.
Link in bio, or feel free to send me a DM for more details. 

   

No matter who I am working with I use Neurolinguistic programming (NLP) with one question at the forefront of my mind always:

👉 How can I facilitate this person to make the change they want?
Recently my NLP Practitioner students asked me how I would approach a client with overeating..
When it comes to coaching, you must remember that the issue is never the issue. ...what does that mean?
Well, overeating is the symptom, it is not the problem. So clearing the limiting decision to overeat sounds like the right path, but it will be a band-aid fix.
People eat to survive. We can't undo the decision to eat. As coaches, we can think about our own experience and what would trigger us to ignore the "full" signals from our brain.
For me, I ignore those "full signals" when I feel:
a. Empty
b. Craving comfort.
c. Neeeeeding connection.
Eating stimulates your brain to respond by releasing neurotransmitters like dopamine, serotonin, GABA, and more of the feel-good feelings.
Eating is like that immediate gratification of coffee.... or wine. Solves the in the in-the-moment problem. ...but what are the long-term consequences?!
How do I work with overeating?
I use the meta-model and strategy elicitation to listen to what the real problem is. Then, I use NLP timeline on THAT limiting emotion. I will use other NLP processes (masters and prac) to undo any other threads attached to the problem.
The client comes away feeling lighter, calmer and confident.
This approach works for quitting smoking, addictions, ADHD, anxiety and stress.

This is just my approach. I know other wellness professionals would approach it in their unique way too.
Only a Few Spots Left to become an accredited Life Coach & NLP practitioner to effectively coach your clients.
Check out the link in the bio for details about the next training. 😃
   

Why become an NLP Life Coach? Good question!
👉Learn to deal more effectively with struggles in all areas of your life.
👉Discover what is holding you back from your dreams and how to release it.
👉Develop tools that are helping others improve their business and personal life.
👉Uncover techniques used by Tony Robbins to make an impact in peoples lives.
✅️ Become an NLP Practitioner, Life Coach & Hypnotherapist:
✅️ From 16th July to 10th December
✅️ Live on zoom ... take me with you when your on holidays!
😊 Link in bio or feel free to DM me.

Who's excited about receiving money?! 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️
Emily & Claire are excited to come together to give you a potent combination of breathwork and NLP to activate the codes of wealth and abudance from within.
Manifesting happens from the inside out, so let’s go on a deep inner journey to release old money patterns. 
Breath out financial stress that pressures and restricts your nervous system. "Good bye". 👋
Breath in financial security, so you resonate at a magnetic frequency, so the rich opportunities find you! "Hello".
💎💛💰
Together we’ll write a new rich money story in the subconscious mind for you to attract in the wealth you deserve 💚
👉Join us Friday 14 June

👉 6.45pm 

👉 SoulPod Health Richmond

👉 $111 "yes to manifesting"

Places are limited to ensure you get the time and space you deserve.
Check out the link in the bio to secure your place. 
We can't wait to see you there 😃😁
 

Being an entrepreneur can be a thrilling journey, but it can also be lonely at times. Connecting with like minded business owners is such a golden opportunity, not just for business growth, but for our wellbeing.


On Tuesday, I followed my intuition to join in on a “We Rise Network” meeting. It was so nice to be in a room full of talented and impressive women who are passionate about shining their gifts into this world.


I’ve got to say, I was thrown in the deep end, completely surprised at how real things got very quickly.

The presenter asked each one of us to stand up and talk to the group about “How do you chase your worth?”. A quick way to highlight where are you sabotaging your business growth.


It is an interesting question. And even more interesting to observe how successful entrepreneurs embrace their vulnerabilities. Some people said:

· “Yeah, I have imposter syndrome.”

· “Yeah, I people please and over give”.

· “Yeah, I chase the achievement and forget to celebrate the wins”.


Gosh it was refreshing to hear others openly talk about it and openly talk about ways they have resolved other challenges. It was not just about winning and success.


For me, my “How do you chase your worth?” ….”I focus on building up the success of people around me, and avoid putting the spot light on me”. Gulp – as I write that on Instagram!


The number one message I got out of this event is how important friendship is. Yeah, we can actively pursue our goals, but it is so much more fun doing it with supportive people by your side. 🩷
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As I always say, "Open your eyes to whole new you." ✨️
Eeeeekkk!!! So exciting 😁

I am so extremely proud of my daughter, Emma. Her art features in Yarra Ranges art gallery "The Memo", located in Healsville.

It's a thought-provoking piece with an important message about how important it is to shine the light on mental health.

Very inspiring message 💜

Eclipses are an opportunity for introspection and the shedding of old energies. 🌜🌔🌚🌖🌛

Perfect for tonights NLP masters training. Tonight, we explore a potent process to get into the ultimate flow state and connect to their soul's truth.

I can only imagine what new energies are being integrated after tonight's training.
✨️⭐️

Magical and life changing. 🩷

So exciting... COMING SOON 😁

It's time to embark on a soul tingling evening to discover what is possible.

The graceful combination of breathwork and past life regression promises to expand your energy so you can discover something truly special about YOU.

Emily and I look forward to connecting with you at SoulPod Richmond...

The last event sold out in 2 days.

Give me a "🩷" or "👍" if you are interested in joining us and I will keep you in the loop.

Details are coming soon 🩷

So exciting 🙌 😍

Who else LOVES to work in the company of their special companion? 🐾

Oooh, my first instagram live in two years!

It is so exciting to talk to Jesse about utilising NLP tools to manifest your dream life.

5pm today 😁

Have you ever wondered if spiritual gifts are passed down through the family?

It was something I questioned a lot after I discovered Mum was adopted.

· Is mediumship and other spiritual gifts something you are born with?

· Is it a skill that can be taught?

· Is it nature or nurture?

I remember feeling like the odd one in the family, as I could see spirit and was curious about all things metaphysical, yet Mum's adopted family were so practical in their thinking and the way they lived their life.

It wasn’t that I was shamed for talking about spirit as I grew up, but I know it made them uncomfortable. “Nanna, look, there is your mum standing in the corner!” …resulting in Nanna awkwardly walking out of the room with a puzzled look on her face.

Fast forward 30 years, and to my delight, we contacted my biological relatives.

In the last few months, it has been heartwarming to create a genuine connection with Mum’s biological sisters. Interesting timing, as cancer took mum's life in December, we had a reason and opportunity to come together in a more intimate and vulnerable way.

How fascinating it is to discover more about myself and my spiritual gifts through the lens of biology and nature.

My biological aunts are two strong women,

· Both were in a similar field of work.

· Both value truth and integrity,

· Both have strong intuition and are open-minded about our soul’s journey. (One has a stronger link to mediumship than the other)

· Both of them weaving through life unknowingly crossing paths with one another.

>> It is mind-bending to learn that sisters separated by a divine plan of adoption still ended up living a street apart!!!!! How magnetic are our soul family?!

While Nanna taught me how to be practical in this world, who knows what difference it would have made to be amongst like-minded souls who could support the gifts right from the beginning?

How do you know when you have been heard and understood?

I know the answer might be obvious, but when you think about it, we all take communication for granted.

When it works well, it is easy. Right?

💛 It creates great friendships,
💜 fun in business, and
🩷 thriving partnerships.

When things get tense, communication is the number one thing that will get things back on track.

Don’t wait till things are tense.

Know who you are, work out how you feel heard, and check in with your loved ones about what is important to them about how they feel heard.
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👉 It is another fun topic we are exploring tonight in NLP. So exciting 😎

It was a fabulous time in NLP Practitioner training last night. I am so fortunate to be amongst wonderful spiritual healers and empaths with a similar goal to explore ways to live a fulfilling life.

Last night we started with a bang. 💥

We explored six human needs and how everyone operates to get their needs met. Now, that may sound obvious “Yep, I know why my needs are” – but what happens when your NEEDS conflict with what you WANT to manifest?

Within the 6 human needs, one of those is the need to be significant. “I matter”.

It is a common need amongst spiritual healers.

Growing up, most spiritual healers were taught to focus on putting other people’s needs ahead of their own.

They spent years dialling up their intuition to anticipate what they could do for others and praised for it, (or avoided problems by ensuring those around them were at ease.)

Early in their childhood, they established a need to be significant by how much they could give to others.

In truth, this foundation makes them PHENOMENAL healers and their intuition is spectacularly accurate.

But where it gets messy is when they go into business for themselves.

Think about it… if they have a core need operating that says “give to others first to be significant”, you can only imagine the internal conflict to charge their value. I know I’ve been on that rough journey worrying that people won't be pleased with me if my prices are not generously affordable.

How do they get ahead in their own business with this need in the driver's seat?

First, you have to recognise that this is a need that was established when you were little.

Secondly, you have to redefine the “I matter” from your internal validation, not the disempowering ways of measuring up to other people's expectations.

Thank fully there are NLP processes to effectively ensure that swift transition. So raising prices and being your purpose go hand in hand.
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When we got to the end of the first training night, a learner said “This training has just paid for itself”

“YEP! It is exciting to put yourself in the driver's seat of life”. 😀

Trust. It is a powerful force and a big part of our intuition

You know that feeling of trust – when your energy expands and there is comfort in your body “Yeah, I like this person”.

Vs. Trusting the lack of trust – when your energy restricts, you hear what the other person is saying, but your body is telling you to question their motives.

With the recent death of my mum (Christmas Eve), I got a new perspective of trust.

Leading up to Mum's death, I had put myself into a bubble and did everything I could to bring comfort to my mum's final days. I am so appreciative that friends who I trusted waited outside of the bubble. When I came out of the bubble, they were there for all the raw and vulnerable moments. …you know the ugly crying, can’t breathe, heartbreaking moments. It was in my vulnerability that I could feel that deeper sense of trust in them that I had never felt before.

Yet, family… family is a different story! My intuition has been signalling red flags and questioning their motives with power-hungry games to be significant as they demonstrate unhealed trauma. (The younger Claire would have bent over backwards to help and ‘fix’ them because they are ‘family’ – regardless of how burnt out I became).

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It has been a tough chapter to learn about TRUST.

Trust: It is the other person's responsibility to ask for help. Like my trusted friends waiting outside the bubble.

Trust: Regardless of whether they are family or friends… does my intuition trust I can be my true self in their company?

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My mum died days after turning 61.

Time is precious, and I only want to spend it with those I trust.

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🩷 Thank you to those who sent supportive messages during that challenging time.

👉 Anything is possible when you have the right people there to support you.

.combe .you__ .kinesiology with.ness

I've recently been told that Mum will pass over before Christmas.

Yesterday,she asked "How will I contact you when I'm in the spirit world?"

This is my unedited reply to her friend who was asking the same question.

According to 1000s of my readings and 10000s of past life regressions, I strongly believe...

As she starts to sleep more, the veil between the physical world and the spiritual realm will get thin & she will start to see & talk loved ones who have crossed over. They will greet her with love.

When mum is ready to go, her higher self will call in a cylinder of white light, like an elevator to take her to the spirit world.

As her spirit moves up that white light, she becomes young, fit and healthy again. (Free from the pain)

The white light will take her to a beautiful city, that looks something like a Disney movie, but better. There will be celebrations "Yayyy Kay is back".

Her guides will take her to the great hall, like a library. From there a life review will be in place. And the lessons she is waiting to learn will be put in a new chapter for the next life with her soul family.

There are no negative feelings or judgments in the spirit world. So you find yourself laughing at how ridiculous you were to take things so seriously in life. There will be an opportunity to recharge the souls energy to pure state.

From there, guides and beings will show Mum the way to be at her funeral etc.

This is when her spirit will be eager to talk to her people to let them know "I'm fine, please don't worry about me".

Someone who does not practice mediumship will likely get that message in their sleep. Their heart remembers. 🩷

Someone who goes into mediation, or trance regularly will be more receptive to a conversation with her soul.

Setting the intention to connect is so important as you "feel" them thinking of you.

She will feel at home in the spirit world in her garden, with her cats and coffee visitors. Whatever she wants.

She still gets to be part of the family and, like a guide, bring in so much love to her people.

It's a special new chapter for Mum 🌹

It is incredibly powerful to understand your own identity.

The benefits are simple. When you know who you are you can:
• build your self-worth,
• self-confidence, and
• self-belief.

Boundaries are easier, goals are easier, and feeling fulfilled is easier.

You can achieve that all from one modality. NLP. My love.

This is some of the content I'm putting together for my next NLP group. 🩵

👉What are you best at -
• starting something?,
• doing something, or
• finishing something?

👉And what are you worst at -
• starting something,
• doing something, or
• finishing something?

Thought-provoking.

See slides for more explanation on this topic. 😊👌✨️

I was bursting at the seams to talk about money at group coaching on Thursday night. I knew it was time to shine some light on: THE FEAR OF RAISING YOUR PRICE.

If you are in business, you will be familiar with this internal dialogue:

· “Will my clients be disappointed at me?”

· “Will my clients be able to afford me?”

· “Will I lose business, especially due to the cost of living?”

THIS conversation is so powerful to me. Not because it's money, but because it's about valuing who you are and giving yourself permission to receive the abundance your soul is craving.

Within the group coaching, there is freedom to be yourself in a supportive space. We shared deep conversations, tears, and plenty of laughter.

When you hear that some wellness practitioners have not raised their prices in 10+ years you know it is time to have that direct conversation. ...what’s holding you back?! Not only is it time to raise your price, but it is also necessary to.

I think we can all agree that the wellness practitioners we trust, need to have a high value in looking after their own wellbeing.

Raising your price means new doors open to positively influence many people’s lives.

👉 If you are thinking about raising your price for 2024, not only do you need a strategy to create the change, but it is also worthwhile exploring where the fear is coming from. You will find that it is more likely to be a fear of rejection or fear of loss than actually the fear of raising your price.

….I’ve got to say, that by the time we were finished with group coaching, everyone was ready and willing to release their fears. And in fact, a conversation was held about it being time to double their price! 😄

Talk about a P-O-W-E-R-F-U-L night. ⚡️🩷✨️✅️

Empaths are very generous people. It is one of their superpowers to see the best in people.

However, if you identify as an Empath, you may find it difficult to have stillness and peace in your body as you are so aware of the energy around you.

Let’s be honest, the energy out there can be difficult to navigate.

Empaths rarely turn off their spiritual abilities. It is like your psychic antenna is scanning the energy around you constantly, causing your energy centres to be overworked and depleted.

While people tell Empaths “You need to have boundaries”, boundaries can be ineffective as you have already given away so much of yourself for the betterment of others.

You don’t always have the strength to implement healthy boundaries.

👉 What can an empath do to protect your energy? And even more importantly, what can you do to embrace your superpower?

This is something I will be talking about in detail at tomorrow night's Empath evening with Ash💚 It is so exciting to be amongst like-minded souls.

❌️ When it comes to boundaries, it’s not enough to just visualize a bubble of light.

✅️ Here on Instagram, I can tell you:

• The first thing an empath needs to do is to work out when they are giving their energy away and when they are not.

• Secondly, you need to identify what are the underlying fears about being liked or understood.

Many times, Empaths give their energy away to prove their value. (As some time in the past, they felt low self-worth, and they worked out that one way to build their self-worth was external validation)

• Thirdly, work out what your energy and what it feels like to take on other people’s energy.

Strange thing to work out, but there will be some lessons waiting to be learned from taking on other people’s energy, then you can release other people’s energy with purity and clarity of mind.
 
Then is it time to put a breathable bubble of light around you. 🫧 🩷....

If you have your ticket booked for Empowering Empath Evening, I am excited to see you and to continue this conversation at a deeper level 😊 .kinesiology

Are you looking to attract your “Yes” clients?

Last night I facilitated group coaching in the company of some INCREDIBLE businesswomen.

Imagine the magnetic ideas flowing in as everyone felt supported to enhance their business. ✨️

If you are a coach or healer, there are some key themes to consider when attracting clients, YOU want to say “YES” to. Especially when it comes to the content you create.

1.       Your story matters.

Your clients share similar values and life experiences. There is strength in sharing your story. That includes your vulnerability and what inspired you to do what you do.

It is likely that your “yes” clients are those who are struggling with similar things you struggled with 3-5 years ago. You are now the expert with evidence things can change.  Let them know your story.

2.       Your message matters.

Most people are driven to pay for a service when they have a problem they can not solve. While they can’t describe what the solution looks like, they will tell you what the problem feels like.

It is important to identify what problem you solve and include that in your messaging.

3.       Sales is part of your service.

Many coaches and healers went into their industry because they have a strong drive to serve and help others. Often, they have a negative association with ‘sales’ as their natural instinct is to give.

Your confidence in offering your service is part of your client’s solution.

Don’t let your limitations get in the way of providing the service you are passionate about. It is worth getting some coaching on that. It will be easy to shift.  

4.       Get playful.

It is easy to get stressed about attracting clients. If you find yourself ruminating and worrying about clients, it is time to breathe, relax, and do what you can to take the pressure off. Join a coaching group to realize you are not alone and find the fun in what you are doing. The most attractive part of working with you is your energy.

Enjoying the growth of your business is exciting. 😎💛😀

Money is an interesting energy.
We all rely on having it, yet some people push hard to have it, and others trust their magnetic ability to receive it. 💰

The question is, what is the difference?

When I work with Empaths in business, I always make sure we take the time to look at their unconscious money beliefs.

Empaths are natural givers. 🩷 They have a strong focus on providing for others. Yet putting themselves in the position to receive can bring up a lot of resistance.

It is this resistance to receive that makes it difficult to manifest money. 👎

They seem to get caught in the idea that they have to be more masculine push and hustle to get ahead with their manifesting.

When I work with Empath business owners, we work on clearing away the resistance at an unconscious & spiritual level.

I get them to manifest money from that heart-centred kind of energy where receiving money flows in, rather than the empath always flowing out. 🫶 💫✨️💓

You can do this too.

If you notice that you have resistance to receiving, start your manifesting by intentionally receiving small tokens of appreciation. 😊

As an example, if someone pays you a compliment, receive it into your heart centre (without minimising the energy).

Build up the muscle to receive good energy to flow in, and you will find that you build up your magnetic ability to manifest money. 🙌 💚🌟
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If you are an empath and would like to be amongst like-minded friends, come join me & Ash ( .kinesiology )for an Empowering Empath Evening 2nd November, Armadale.

Together, we will clear away some of the resistance so that manifesting becomes a lot easier. Link in bio. Only 4 places left. 🌼🌼🌼🌼

We would love to see you there.