Mid-life Mojo

Advice my husband completely agrees with!!

It is a beautiful thing to want your spouse to be happy - but their happiness is not your responsibility. The sooner you embrace this - the sooner you can take that pressure off yourself! It’s an unhealthy and unsustainable place to live from.

What you ARE responsible for and have control over - is you. Choosing every day how YOU want to show up.

Food for thought for the day!

"In the end, we will only be transformed when we can recognise and accept the fact that there is a will within each of us, quite outside the range of conscious control, a will which knows what is right for us, which is repeatedly reporting to us via our bodies, emotions, and dreams, and is incessantly encouraging our healing and wholeness."

- Dr James Hollis.

They are still there waiting! Still unsure what they are? Then find out. Not sure how? Then ask.

I have noticed that people often ask if what they are experiencing is a midlife crisis and think they have failed in life somehow. No. Your soul pulling you toward something bigger. It's just hard to recognise it at the time.

Great wisdom here!

She nailed the facial expression!

Well who could have predicted that??! Follow my absolutely hilarious friend Sandra @thehiddensnacksmama for endless humor

.....and roadtrip day! So tempted to dress up like Lucy too just for the hell of it!

If you have ever considered starting a blog but felt overwhelmed at the mere thought of navigating the tech (I know that was me when I got started) - I've got you. I felt that pain, sucked it up and pressed on anyway - all thanks to this man - Miles Beckler. I followed his instructions in his post step by step and built my blog from the ground up. Miles is the legist most helpful subject-matter-expert in the online realm. He has integrity and he shares tons of content on YouTube too. A great resource. Never mind the '2022' year in the heading. The CONTENT of the instructions is what's key.

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People who are grateful for what they have, get more to be grateful for. Once you start, it becomes easier to see more and more how much you have around you and in you ❤

Here's a thought! What if your Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday could all be 'blink' days too - when you are finally doing what you love and loving what you do! Perhaps that's already real for you! That's a bucket load of gratitude for you right there!! 😀 And if not - get dreaming, planning, and taking massive action!

What might putting your financial house in order look like for you? It doesn't have to be overwhelming. Start small like I am. Getting organsied!! I am making sure all our financial records are filed digitally. I am putting all our policy details into a spreadsheet. I am reviewing our Will for any updates that might be needed.

Its an expression of placing value on your money. What's one step you can take today towards this? It's worth the attention and effort.

This is so TRUE especially when it comes to building something online...a website. A digital product. I learned the hard way at the start. Didnt track the steps I was up to so lost my place so many times. Massively slowed momentum. Even in our mindset...we make it harder with the negative self-talk.

I am done with making things harder than they need to be! So am always asking myself:

- Is there a simpler way to do this?
- Is that thought serving my bigger goal?
- If its technology - break the steps down and bits size pieces
- Ask for help EARLY instead of when at wits end!! 😄

Who can relate??

Been a long, long time since I have used one of these!!

Completely agree! That's half the fun of a road trip, right?? What's your go-to snack?

We couldn't choose just one puppy! Say hello to Rose and Ivy - from the same litter. They are Border Collie breed cross with Kelpie. They for sure are a handful, but nothing a ton of training videos on YouTube, patience, and consistency can't take care of 😀 (and lots of affection of course...which they soak up). Do you have a fur baby at home? Share their name and a pic! We instantly share something in common!

Do you sometimes struggle with choosing wardrobe items or making a choice that you love when shopping and trying different styles?? I found this idea in Pinterest so helpful to beat that.

✅️ Find a look you love.
⬇️ Download the image so you have it handy to refer to (or create a board in Pinterest)
👜 Shop with a plan! 🫡.and try a store you dont usually shop from and I highly recommend the 2nd hand stores too! Absolute treasures in there sometimes!

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We spend so much effort looking for solutions that's external to us when its already in us. The challenge is recognising that inner voice...

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Hi! 👋 Welcome to my page. My name is Julie.

As a woman only a couple of years away from 60, I have been on the search and learning so much about things that are new and different for me in this chapter of my life. The changes are physical, mental, and emotional.

I dont want to just "accept" limitations as "the way it is". I want to thrive and explore and lean in to designing this chapter of my life to be the best version of me I have EVER been. So I created this page to share and inspire others who find themselves at a similar point in life 🤛