How To Grad School
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University of Victoria
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We help grad students succeed!
✌️Re-Introduction Post!
I'm Sarah Davis (she/they) and I founded How To Grad School in 2020 to help grad students improve their learning and well-being by using effective self-regulated learning strategies.
I live with my family, including my dog Tiller, on Vancouver Island, BC, on the traditional territory of the Lekwungen Peoples and the WSANEC and Esquimalt nations.
I'm more comfortable behind the camera and love incorporating the views from hikes around Vancouver Island on the How To Grad School social media accounts.
In my free time, I love playing hockey, paddleboarding, hiking, snorkelling, spending time with family and friends, laughing, reading, and going for walks with my dog around our neighbourhood.
In the last year, I've been playing A LOT of Zelda (both Breath of the Wild and Tears of the Kingdom).
During my PhD, I co-founded an improv group with an incredible group of improvisers that performed for two years.
This year, I have a goal to read 20 books by Indigenous authors.
My favourite ongoing podcast is Ask Ronna, and my two favourite podcast series are Finding Cleo and The Outlaw Ocean.
Thanks for reading -- mlet me know about yourself and why you follow this account in the comments!
I'm going to be taking a break for the rest of December and into January.
When I finished my PhD in 2020, I promised myself I would never again skip regular breaks to "just write one more page" or "finish that manuscript I didn't get to all semester" or so on and so on.
In the last three years, I've kept that promise to myself and by taking regular, scheduled breaks throughout the year, I remember that PhD student who was working her way toward burnout.
I hope you will also be enjoying some very well-deserved time off over the next couple of weeks.
There will be a few changes coming to How To Grad School starting in January 2024, and I look forward to sharing these changes with you soon.
Check out how embracing your emotions, rather than just pushing them away and ignoring them, can actually increase your motivation!
Without a doubt, the main reason why I finished my PhD is due to the unconditional support of my peers, colleagues, friends, family, and community.
By surrounding myself with people who supported me through the thick and thin of my PhD, I found strength and support.
Who are the people who are always there for you as a grad student?
What is a grad school meme if you don't include at least one reference to Titanic?
Who are these people for you as a grad student?
Sometimes they are fellow grad students or colleagues, other times they are your family and community.
Whoever they are, make sure you surround yourself with people who care about you.
You deserve it.
Q: Why do grad students need help? Aren't they all really good students?
Answer: This question is part of the reason why we love doing what we do! What we've found (through our own work and experiences as grad students), is that grad students are deserving of help, support, and assistance just like anyone else!
Unfortunately, there can be a huge stigma to seeking help for grad students. This is often because there is a value placed on overwork in grad school plus the large amount of autonomy grad students have, which can lead to a lack of structure and accountability.
Add to that mixed experiences with supervisors -- some grad students have fantastic mentors who support them no matter what, but many others have supervisors that are not supportive or considerate of the human side of being a grad student.
Grad students often need help but don't know how or where to seek this help.
Plus it can be hard to seek help at your own institution if you're worried that your supervisor, peers, or other colleagues find out.
How To Grad School is independently owned and you can join us using your own name or a pseudonym to provide you with privacy.
Reach out today to find out more ways that we can help you: [email protected]
Do you believe that you can be successful in grad school? Spending some time examining exactly how you feel about yourself can determine if your beliefs are negatively impacting your motivation as a grad student.
Sometimes telling the difference between when something is working and when something isn't working is too challenging so we keep plodding ahead.
However, taking the time to reflect and monitor your progress can prevent a lot of stress and overwhelm, especially when you are writing your thesis or dissertation.
Getting help from a peer or colleague can give you that valuable perspective. This is what we work on building in The Club, our online monthly program that you can join anytime.
Curious about how The Club can help? Reach out for more information any time: [email protected]
Is it okay for grad students to ask this of other grad students?
Is it every okay to ask a grad student this question? 🧐
We've worked with grad students who didn't think they deserved to be treated well or take the time to make sure they were valued.
Here's your reminder that no matter where you are in your grad program, you deserve to be treated with kindness, respect, and care.
Question: What is The Club?
Answer: The How To Grad School Club, or The Club, is our newest offering that we started in September 2023.
We created The Club after speaking to grad students who said they would like an affordable option for support in grad school.
Each week, you get access to a mini-video and a practical strategy that you can use right away in grad school.
Plus, you will be a valued member of our online community where you can share your successes and failures with other grad students just like you.
And, you'll also be able to ask Lizz and Sarah questions along the way to get that extra bit of support.
Interested in The Club? Sign up today on our website to try it out. Prices start at $15 per month.
If you're having trouble staying motivated at this point in the semester in grad school, check out our blog post that talks about attribution control. Knowing who you think is responsible for your successes and/or failures can help you stay motivated when things get challenging.
Where are your favourite places to study or work as a grad student?
I often switched up the places I worked when I felt like I needed a change of scenery.
I worked in coffee shops, the public library, the university library, my research lab, my kitchen table, an out-of-the-way computer lab, and many other places during grad school.
Environmental restructuring can be a great way to mix it up if you find you're in a slump. Read more about this on our blog: www.howtogradschool.com/blog
Surely they don't want to ask me a question, right? 🫥
Do you think that being in grad school is helping you lead an interesting life?
Often we focus on the outcome of grad school as the interesting part, but I bet there are things you're doing now that a younger version of yourself would have been in awe of.
How To Grad School was created in 2020 by Lizz Alexander, PhD, and Sarah Davis, PhD, on the traditional territory of the Lekwungen Peoples, also known today as Victoria, BC.
We met during grad school where we were both working on our PhDs in Educational Psychology at the University of Victoria.
We created How To Grad School to provide supports and services to grad students that we wish we had been able to access when we were grad students. We aim to provide a variety of supports for all budget levels.
Interested in learning more or working with us? Contact us on our website or through our link in bio to chat more!
In one of our blog posts, we talk about self-limiting as a motivational strategy. Want to learn more? Check out our link in bio to access the blog and our other blog posts.
Self-talk can be tricky in grad school, especially because things can move quickly and you often don't have the time to celebrate the small wins because the next task appears almost immediately.
Taking time to reflect on how you talk to yourself, especially in those tough moments, can help you be more motivated and confident.
If you're interested in learning more, check out our blog where we discuss several motivation strategies relating to self-talk.
Well, at least I stopped procrastinating and sent the email. That must count for something, right? 🥸
When I was in the dredges of writing (and rewriting and editing and writing and rewriting) my dissertation, it was really hard to see the process as a reward.
Flash forward a few years later, and now it's easy to see that the process of writing my dissertation was a reward. I learned so many invaluable skills that I use everyday in my post-PhD life.
Keeping a notebook that I wrote in for 10 minutes every day before writing my dissertation helped me see that this was a process that would have an end at some point.
What are you doing to help see the day-to-day aspect of grad school as part of the journey?
We'll be answering our most common questions on Instagram and Facebook.
Today's question: How does How To Grad School help grad students?
Answer: We help grad students in a variety of ways, including free, affordable, and individual options.
Free options include our blog and podcast, which are designed to get helpful information about learning out to grad students.
Affordable options include The Club, an affordable monthly program where you get access to evidence-based content and a supportive online community. You can join anytime throughout your graduate program.
Individual options include student success coaching or thesis/dissertation coaching with Lizz Alexander or registered clinical counselling (BC residents only) with Sarah Davis.
We think we offer a range of supports and services for all grad students. Questions? Contact us today to find out more!
Now that you're a month or so into the semester, check out our blog post on environmental restructuring to learn about how to tailor your work environment so you can get your work done, and stay focused and on task.
Our interest in grad school can vary based on the topic, the professor, our classmates, the environment, and so many other factors.
However, increasing your interest is one way you can regulate your motivation in grad school. Head to www.howtogradschool.com/blog to read all about it or check out the link in our bio.
One of the biggest misconceptions (and perhaps most harmful) in grad school is that if you mess up, it means you aren't cut out for grad school.
I vehemently disagree. Making mistakes means you learning AND progressing. The culture in academia just doesn't recognize this most of the time.
Join The Club so you can get help and support bouncing back from your mistakes and leverage these mistakes to excel.
You can join anytime but if you sign up by September 30th you'll save 50% off our monthly fee and pay only $10 a month!
Click here to claim your Sponsored Listing.
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