The Relationship Alchemist

Strategy & authority is where you really come back into your own, it’s how you reach the life that is destined for you.

You start taking control of your life and how you navigate it, you stop outsourcing your decisions, you step away from the conditioning of how you’ve learnt to make decisions.

It’s how you start trusting yourself to navigate your life, guiding you to your signature energy.

Feedback from a recent client after a reading:

“It has been replaying in my head all week and has certainly changed my own narrative of myself. Whereas before I would say I cannot make a decision, now that does not even occur to me and I KNOW I absolutely can make a decision. Which is very new to me.”

Strategy & authority are your navigation tools to make the rest of your life flow, knowing them, understanding them and implementing them, can have a fundamental effect on your life.

With love
James

It all changes when you make the commitment to yourself, and you’re consistent with that commitment to yourself.

Want to be interested by Human Design, intrigued by it?

Or do you want to live it and truly change your life, creating more ease, more peace, more satisfaction, more success?

It’s often said Human Design comes to you at the right time.

But. Like any practice or philosophy, if you truly want to feel its benefits, you need to commit, and you need to be consistent.

Live your design.
Love yourself deeply.
Decondition your mind.
Be consistent.

With love
James

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Your strategy and authority are the gifts to navigate you to the aligned things in your life.

8 months with you ❤️

studio! 😍

A little more info for you on the key terms in Human Design!

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Human design called to me at the start of 2023. I’d been aware of it for a few years with intrigue but no real desire to explore further.

Then, when I was looking for inspiration for how to align my Relationship coaching biz, it just called to me. I knew I had to book a reading.

It was so good! And so validating as well.

See the thing is, we’ve been conditioned to constantly fight against our nature, but your body knows its own energy, it always has.

I knew when I had that reading that I had found something truly powerful.

It made such an impact that, fast forward 6 months and I had received my accreditation as a level 2 Human Design reader.

I did some readings for friends and clients I had at the time, but it wasn’t really the right time for me to start reading properly. I needed to embody, the role model in me needed that.

And now here we are. I’ve been embodying my design for over a year now, and now I’m here and ready to share this wonderful gift with you to help you to return to your true nature. Your true essence.

Is Human Design calling you? Maybe it could be just the thing you need to change and realign your life for the better.

1 more day left to enter the giveaway for a free reading! Ends 3rd of June.

With love
James

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Do everything to seek that truth.

With love
James

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The highest truth is the journey into who you are truly here to be. Do everything to possible to find that truth.

With love
James

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Welcome to The not self.

The energy in motion that is showing you are out of alignment.

Your body’s way of saying there is a need for change.

These emotions are guiding you, the energy of your body is always guiding you.

Generator & Mani Gen not self = frustration.

Manifestor not self = anger.

Projector not self = bitterness.

Which is your not self? Check by using the link in my bio to load your body graph.

With love
James

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🔮 GIVEAWAY🔮

In true honour to my design and my unconscious sun in Gate 5 meaning I don’t like to rush (and it being a major source of frustration to do so which is unaligned for me), *I’m now open for readings!*

And to celebrate this, I’m giving away *two* 90 minute Human Design readings!

This will also include:

* An audio & video recording of our session.
* And a 200+ PDF of your COMPLETE design!

To ENTER:

* Like this post
* Share it to your story
* Tag your friends who you’d like to also be in with a chance to win!

*Each tag will give you multiple entries into the draw to win.

*Winners will be drawn on Monday 3rd of June.*

I’m excited to finally be ready to read for you all, Human Design is a wonderful gift to guide yourself back to who you are, and it really is an honour for me to do each individual reading as it’s such a personal experience! I can’t wait!

With love
James

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I want to share something with you.

Yesterday marked a very special achievement for me.

For the past 100 days, I have been showing up for myself consistently twice a day, loving myself deeply through the practice of mirror work.

Every day, meditating, using the mirror, and journaling.

It’s been a journey, there have been emotional breakdowns, there has been great resistance to changing my subconscious patterns, there has been a whole lot of pain faced with little James, and there has been huge transformation, a surge in my inner confidence, really transforming my daily experience with myself, and just a whole lot of joy and happiness at being so dedicated to loving myself.

And I owe a huge amount of gratitude to Beck. She’s been a beautiful example from her own journey into mirror work (500+ days deep!) and she has supported and celebrated me through my 100 days!

I just love how mirror work is so healthily addictive, how it has made me so consistent with my meditation & journaling and how it has provided such growth.

Who in your life shows up for you consistently day after day? It is the most beautiful act of honour and love to do so for yourself.

And see, the thing is with Human Design is that it’s such a wonderful gift to guide you back to who you are. BUT. There is a whole lot of deconditioning that comes with that and you need consistent practices and supports to help facilitate that, to return to who you truly are.

I’m usually pretty low key on these things (the hermit in me 🤣), but this is something to be celebrated!

With love
James

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When you’re a generator and life feels so satisfying!

When you’re a manifestor and life feels peaceful.

When you’re a projector and life feels successful.

When you’re a reflector and life is pleasantly surprising.

What’s your energy type and signature?

(Link in bio to load your design)

With love
James

I always remember my human design teaching saying she wished everyone could see their body graph because then they would see how unique we are all meant to be.

You are not meant to be the same as everyone else.

One thing I always find so frustrating with so many online accounts and in the everyday, is that they are always sharing from the ‘I’, and whilst their experience may resonate with many others, their ‘I’ is uniquely their ‘I’ and not your ‘I’. There will always be a level of disempowerment in following an ‘I’ that is not your own.

It’s so commonly said to be yourself, but who is that self? Who is your ‘I’?

Human Design gives you the power and confidence to truly return to who you are here to be and the life you are here to live.

Living your ‘I’ is truly one of the most freeing and liberating things you can do for yourself. Personally, I have never looked back.

With love
James

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You are the key to everything you desire.

Learn your design of who you’re here to be.

Become the key.

Open for readings soon.

With love
James

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There’s a mantra in Human Design.

“Get out of your head, and into your body”

The energy of your design knows. The gifts of energy you were born with know.

The mind is conditioned.

Energy is quantum. It is a higher intelligence.

Human Design is returning you to your highest intelligence.

With love.
James

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There’s a mantra in Human Design.

“Get out of your head, and into your body”

The energy of your design knows. The gifts of energy you were born with know.

Energy is quantum. It is a higher intelligence.

Human Design is returning you to your highest intelligence.

I’m open for readings soon.

With love
James

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Human Design is a tool that shows you how to move through life as you. How to make aligned decisions. How to trust in yourself and become your own authority.

It shows you your unique gifts and skills. The role you are here to play out. It shows you how to harness these gifts and how to work through your blocks.

It leads you to awareness in how you are here to thrive. It leads to awareness in how you are here to correctly operate and move through life as you. And, it leads to awareness in how you are conditioned to do the opposite.

It tells you the story of your life that you could live, the incredible potential & beauty that could manifest within you, if you stop fighting your nature.

Introductory offer for readings coming soon ✨

James

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Hello lovely followers! I've decided that I'm not going to be active from this page from here on in, I'm much more active on Instagram or you can subscribe to my emails to receive updates from me that way!

IG - https://www.instagram.com/the_relationship_alchemist/

Emails - https://therelationshipalchemist.aweb.page/p/c672804c-3225-4e2a-b9e4-caf3be46fdbe

Thanks so much for following me, I hope you continue the journey with me!

Big love
James 💚

https://calendly.com/therelationshipalchemist/return-to-her-group-talk

*** ONLY 1 SPACE REMAINING ***

I invite you to attend this in person session, where we're going to talk about rediscovering your feminine empowerment, and not only why it's so important for you to do so, but how it will lead you to finding the true depths of love, intimacy & connection in your romantic relationships.

This will be a women's only event, as I want it to be a safe environment for you to participate in. It will be a beautiful, intimate, sensual vibe for you to experience for you to come into!

We'll talk about my journey of how I, as a man, came to serve & honour women & feminine energy in this way (I get asked this a lot, naturally!), they'll be some meditation, poetry, but most importantly conversation about your experiences in relationships as a woman, and how we can make relationships a much more fulfilling experience for you, where you can be & feel much more seen & heard for the woman you truly want to show up as!

Then we'll end with a short Q & A, followed by a powerful meditation to end.

I will have some time to stay in the space afterwards if people want to speak with me or ask further questions.

I can't wait to share & empower you to go on this journey!

With love

James 💚

Do you struggle to experience intimacy?

As I go about my days, the things I'm typically upto... walking, dipping, meeting friends or picking up ingredients for a lush dinner, I see it all around me, expressions on faces, felt in body language & energy, overheard in conversation.

It's the biggest reason women come to work with me.

What is it I see?

Why have these women come to me for support?

Because they have lost themselves.

They've lost that sense of who they are.

Who they want to be.

They've disconnected.

From themselves & from their relationships.

They're deeply unfulfilled.

They're not seen.

They're not understood.

Their needs are not met. Mentally, physically & emotionally.

They love their partners, but they're not 'in love' with them anymore.

They're exhausted.

They're tired.

They're frustrated.

They want more.

They know there's so much more to life.

They crave to feel wanted.

To feel met, seen, heard & loved.

To feel connected.

To feel that true feminine essence, embracing all the parts of herself.

To experience deep intimacy, in fact any level of intimacy deeper than they are currently experiencing.

And to feel confident within themselves again.

This is the power of the journey.

Your current level of love, intimacy & connection being experienced doesn't have to stay the way it currently is.

Change & true fulfilment is always possible.

Big love
James 💚

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I am the mirror for you.

The mirror to reflect back to you, your truest beauty.

I'll pass you the cloth to clean the dust away.

The dust that's obscuring that beauty from you.

Holding you back from rediscovering your magic.

That never left you, it just became lost.

I'll ask the questions.

To help you go deeper.

Because I see you.

I see all of your potential.

I see you showing up in the way you truly want to.

I see you honouring yourself in the most beautiful way.

I see you in your full power.

And I see you being met, being seen, being heard, and being loved in the way that will fulfill you in a way you've never experienced before.

Because this is the bare minimum that you deserve.

You deserve it all.

ALL OF IT.

With love.

James 💚

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37 times around the sun!

And, honestly, I can truly say that life has never been & felt better!

I am so in love with life now, seeing and feeling it's beauty, and just so so grateful & honoured to be living life in the way that I am!

Because the truth is that life is beautiful. This human experience is beautiful! I know it may not feel that way for us a lot of time, but it really is!

I am blessed with moments that fill my heart with love every day, in so many ways, and I receive such beautiful reflections of the life I have created and continue to create by the incredible, beautiful & amazing people that surround me, and interact with me.

You may be someone close to me, or you may be someone where our interactions are a bit more infrequent, you may be someone that I know from my inbox or IG, or you may be someone who I see regularly but we don't necessarily know each other deeply.

Know that ALL of you fill my days with so much LOVE, so much gratitude, and I hold so much honour and LOVE for all of these interactions in all the beautifully unique ways they come to me!

And the truth is, that it's possible for all of us to live life in this way, to get to such a place of love for ourselves that is reflected in our world in this way. For most of my life I would look at people I perceived were living life in this way (truth is most weren't), and was stuck in my own beliefs of not being worthy, not deserving, that it would be too hard, that it wasn't really possible for people to live in this way.

But this is a way of life that we can all live! And we are all deserving & worthy of living a life full of love! It takes work, serious work, but the rewards & fruits of that journey are incredible!

Anyway, BIG LOVE from me.

I love you all!

James

Regardless of the container you wish to create in your relationships, there will always be one constant. The dynamic of masculine & feminine energy. This is regardless of gender match & whether it's a container of monogamy, polyamory (in all forms), ENM (ethical non-monogamy) or an open relationship.

I’m here to share my knowledge & embodied wisdom with you. To guide and show you how to build healthy relationships that experience deep love & intimacy, consistently & in a sustainable way through the understanding of this masculine/feminine dynamic, more specifically rebalancing & rediscovering the true power of feminine energy, which I believe is fundamental to us evolving the relationships we experience.

If you'd like to, I invite you to follow this journey more closely, click the 3 dots to the top right & you can add me as a favourite to your feed 🌱

With love, I see you.

James

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This is a page where everyone is welcome. People of all ages, status, gender, sexual orientation, relationship type, I welcome you all.

The beauty of relationships is that there is no right or wrong way for us to relate to another.

Love is love in all its forms.

We can ultimately create whatever containers that we wish, as long as it works in a way for all parties involved, is a container of love, safety, growth, joy, compassion, contentment and fulfilment then this is all that matters! Don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise.

With love, I see you.

James

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