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I look at my phone as your name pops up and I sigh deeply.
It’s a hard place to be when you know what you must do but your heart isn’t totally ready to let go.
My mind has been screaming at me to move on for some time, a little bit louder with each fight or sleepless night.
I know what’s best for me, and I have for some time, but love is a hard thing to ignore and just walk away from..that’s where I’m stuck.
I gave us my all, being there through all the hard times and standing strong through the bad days, but sometimes, I felt like I was standing alone.
I tried to talk to you, share with you how I felt so that we could work through our problems and get back to loving each other the way we could..
But you never really wanted to talk, you’d always say you were too busy or made me feel it didn’t matter.
Well, it mattered to me.
We mattered to me.
I guess I was the only one who felt that way.
You’ve broken my heart a little more every day with your apathy and hurtful words.
It’s sad, but I’ve just hit that wall where my heart can’t take any more.
I’ve got to take my happiness out of your hands because you’ve not really cared about that for a while..and that hurts worst of all.
I just needed something- anything- from you to keep fighting for us..but I guess that was asked for too much.
Shame on you for making me believe that you wanted a future with me when we were fresh and new, and shame on me for holding on when you weren’t even willing to put in the work.
It takes two people working together for a successful relationship to make it and that’s something that I don’t know that you’ll ever understand..or maybe just don’t even care.
It really doesn’t matter anymore.
My self respect and self love are all I have left and I’m done fighting for us..
I’m fighting for me now instead.
Maybe I’ll look back one day with regret, but it will only be with the wish that things had gone differently and that you had met me halfway and tried to make us work.
I did what I could do, and I’ll move on knowing that I gave us our all.
Some people were meant to stay in our hearts, not in our lives.
I wish you the best, I’ll never forget the time we had and the love we shared, but I’ve grown from this and learned more about myself..
It won’t be easy and I’ll still think about you from time to time,
But as I decide not to answer your call, I’m making the choice to move on and focus on me now.
I’ve told you how I feel and what I wanted and it never really mattered to you,
So I’m working now on loving myself more now.
What’s meant to be will always find a way, so I know I’ll end up where I’m supposed to be.
Wherever that is, at least I’ll be happy again.
That, for now, will have to be enough.
Happy, free and at peace..finally.
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When we met, you knew what kind of person I was..I was clear about my intentions.
I don’t play games nor tolerate players..I leave that amusement for those chasing shallow feelings and lackluster dreams.
No, I told you that I needed more, I craved the truth and I deserved the best.
If you’re not willing to step up and have a mature relationship, then now is the time to set the record straight.
I’m not settling for being an option, and I’m never going to be your “maybe.”
If you don’t know what you want or if you have to stop and think, then I’m not the one for you.
I play for keeps and I wear my heart on my sleeve- anything less than soul stirring, heart sparking passion doesn’t interest me..
I’ve kissed enough frogs to know that I’m holding out for the one who can make me feel like nothing I’ve ever known.
Maybe I’m a dreamer, but I want the kisses that bring forth butterflies, the touch that gives me chills, the look that singes my soul.
I don’t know if you’re up to the task and can handle my heat, but if you’re not willing to face the fire of my passion, then let’s just part ways now.
I’m never going to chase you, beg for your attention or be anything less than a priority.
I realize that you may think I’m a handful, too much or demanding, but I know my worth..that’s never changing.
I’m showing you who I am and you’ll always know where you stand with me..
So, I’m fiery, I’m strong willed and I’m one of a kind, and if you didn’t know that by now, start paying attention.
I’m not waiting around for you to figure it out, think about things or play the field, love isn’t a competition and I’m not a prize for your possession.
I’m real, I’m authentic and you’ll never meet another person like me.
Maybe you’re not ready, maybe you’re working things out or just don’t know what you want..and I’m good with that, everyone has their own path..
Just don’t expect me to be waiting for you at the end of the road, hoping you’ll let me love you.
I know I built high walls around my heart and I don’t just let anyone in..
But this is who I am and how I feel, take it or leave it.
Are you stepping up to try to win my heart or walking away?
I don’t need to be fixed or saved, I just want to be loved..just as I am.
I deserve that,
Now and always.
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I know it hurts.

It’s a very strange feeling how someone can be in your life for months or even years and then one day ... all of a sudden not be there anymore.

Maybe the relationship ended on good terms.... or maybe it was completely catastrophic.

Either way .... it’s so bizarre how relationships can change so vast and rapidly.

And you know what .... you may not be at peace with what happened between the two of you ... and thats perfectly fine.

Sometimes the end of a relationship can literally be one of the hardest things we go through in life.

I want you to know it’s okay that your heart still hurts because of what happened.

You have made alot of memories with this person.

And these memories that you have made is something you can’t erase no matter how hard you try.

Whether you like it or not, they are a part of your story.

I know looking on these memories can be hard, and you may wish you could forget them.

But instead of forgetting, maybe we should try to focus on what came from the relationship.

You two joined paths for a particular reason.

Maybe you walked through some of the hardest times together.

Maybe you understood each other in a way no one else ever did.

Maybe you encouraged one another to be strong or to embrace who you genuinely were as a person.

Or maybe your relationship with them opened your eyes to what you truly needed in your life.

Regardless of what the reasoning was, it’s okay to acknowledge that .... that person meant a lot to you.

And it's okay if they still do.

It’s also okay that they aren’t in your life anymore.

What alot of people dont understand is, not every relationship we encounter will last a lifetime.

You shouldn't be lingering in the past questioning why everything happened the way it did.

What you need to do .... is to take what you've learned from that relationship and move forward in your life.

Knowing there are other relationships that will give you exactly what you've always dreamed of and more.

I need you to know that you're not going to feel this way forever.

You will continue to move forward and you will continue to grow with everyday that passes.

Take my advice and remember ....

Sometimes the people you wanted as part of your story, are only meant to be a chapter.

~ Cody Bret

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