Behaviour Consultant Dal Fish

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It's coming 🥳 Live Q&A feed focussing around bedtime struggles . Keep your eye on our page for further details.

Siblings fight because they're hungry, tired, bored, or they want Mum and Dad's attention? Sometimes they squabble because they're simply sick of spending so much time together. Does this ring any bells ? 🙃 If this sounds familiar please drop me a text and let's see how we can bring some calm back into your family home 🏡

You have taken that first step by reaching out. Let's start our journey together 🙂

Does this resonate how your left feeling after children's bedtime routine ? Don't despair. Keep an eye on my page. I am announcing a Q and A live video in the next few weeks 👀

Does this sound familiar?
You are not alone. Please email or phone me to talk through any behavioural challenges you are experiencing with your teenagers🙂

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Behaviour Consultant | Supporting families in rebuilding positive relationships Empowering you with the skills and strategies to deal with challenging children and young people. From Tots 2 Teens, supporting you to rebuild positive relationships.

Positive Pie
To change behaviour, research shows that the vast majority of parent communication with their child or teenager needs to be positive. It can help to visualise this communication as a pie chart or a pie with a small slice cut from it. The large uncut part is nice, pleasant interaction and the smaller slice is the correction. So the aim is to stay engaged and connected, and provide lots of attention whilst ‘the going is good’ and limit negativity.
It can be a challenge to find positivity amidst ongoing tricky behaviour but it pays to deliberately watch out for and ‘catch’ any examples of just normal, appropriate interaction and behaviour, and to ‘pay in’ attention at these points.
When there is uncooperative, challenging or disruptive behaviour the aim would be to deal with it quickly and calmly and move on afterwards with a fresh, positive start as soon as possible, with no grudges held. Any consequences are kept within reasonable bounds and over and done with quickly.
This ‘measured’ approach leads to better relationships and ensures that negative behaviour isn’t reinforced with loads of attention, and is a key factor in gaining a calmer household.

Does this post resonate with you?
Contact me today, I have a proven track record of gaining success in changing behaviour. I have a wealth of experience, and my advice is based on positive and respectful management of children with appropriate boundary setting.

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Challenges & Support
It’s an age-old story. Your child is a little angel at school; kind, polite, helpful and caring towards their teacher and other children, but at home it’s a different story - tantrums, not doing what they’re asked, fights with siblings and answering back.

How to deal with difficult or aggressive behaviour from your child?
All children have moments when they lash out in anger by swearing, shouting, throwing or kicking objects. There are times when the aggression they show can seem particularly frightening and out of control, whether it’s to parents, other family members or outside the home.

Got a question?

How does it make the parent feel?
Parents often feel helpless and in despair about their children’s behaviour and unsure on the best approach to tackle this. It is not uncommon for parents to feel responsible for their child’s behaviour. We often hear the term “I love my child but don’t like them at the moment”. When parents are in this situation, it is the behaviour they dislike, not their child.

How can I help?
Some parents feel ashamed to admit that they can’t control their children’s aggression and are reluctant to talk about it. Especially if the aggression is directed at the parents. If you are facing a similar issue in your home, it may feel like you constantly have to walk on eggshells, not knowing what could trigger another outburst. You may be feeling isolated and unable to share this with anyone. You may fear being judged for your child's behaviour.

It is important to seek support and advice when you feel it is the right time for your family. Together, we can explore concerning behaviours being displayed. We can agree a whole family support plan, offering opportunities of change.

My passion is to support children and young people to achieve their full potential and grow into confident adults

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