Lentsoe laka online counseling services

Faith is the courage to live in the presence of fear

The figure below highlights what counseling is and how it is different from advice giving.when you come for /to counseling you are equipping yourself with available resources within you to overcome your challenges. You become decisive ,empowered and independent . However when you go seeking for advice (1)you take on other people's solutions for your problem as your own which may or may not work out for you. (2)you rely on A to always solve your problems which can have a negative impact if you and A are no longer on good terms.3) There is no confidentiality because A has a friend who has got a friend and before you know it your secrets are all over the community.
We need to be in safe places with trusted individuals who will not offer us solutions but facilitate us in finding long term solutions. Essentially ,when we come for counseling we come to identify and understand the challenge , solve it or find ways to cope with the challenge without that challenge becoming an impediment.
IN Sesotho
Tlhabollong ha o fuoe boeletsi o thusoa fela ka matla akahare ho oena h**e o hlole liqholotso tsa hao.
Haoka fuoa boeletsi kamehla na o bona eka hona le mohlang otla khona ho inkela liqeto ?Teng ha motho ea o eletsang a khathala hotla etsahalang ka oena ?Ha aka hloleha ? Athe ha aka sekama oka wela buu!.
Tlhabollong ke moo otlang h**e o be le leseli la liqholotso tsa hao na li qala kae,hobaneng leh**ena o phela hantle semoyeng joang hara qholotso tseno. Ha otla tlhabollong otla moo o fumanang mme o elelang matla a hao a ho itlholela liqholotso leha mohlabolli a le siyo.

The foundation of any healthy relationship be it marital, friendly or family is clear and honest communication.

"There is a fountain of youth ; it is your mind, your talents, the creativity you bring to your life and the lives of the people you love.
When you learn to tap this source , you will truly have defeated age."
Sophia Loren.