Two Find

🎉Breaking News 🎉

I’m absolutely ecstatic to share a momentous occasion with you all!

Just 18 months after launching Two Find in Singapore, I’ve the honour of celebrating my Client’s marriage proposal and engagement !

Matchmaking isn’t just a job; it’s a passion for helping my clients not to lose hope in finding their life partner.

What makes this engagement truly extraordinary is the journey it encapsulates. Working closely with my client, we embarked on a transformative adventure, reignited her enthusiasm for dating, delved deep into her values, and unravelled the traits she sought in a partner. Beyond just a quest for love; it was a journey of self-discovery and finding a love that once seemed elusive.

The love story of S & D is nothing short of inspiring. It’s a testament to the power of tailored and thoughtful matchmaking in today’s world.

To S & D, I wish you the most wonderful journey together, and to all of you dreaming of finding that special someone - remember that it’s possible at any stage of your life, even if it doesn’t seem like it.

Here’s to many more love stories and celebrations to come! 🥂💖

🎉Breaking News 🎉

I’m absolutely ecstatic to share a momentous occasion with you all!

Just 18 months after launching Two Find in Singapore, I have the honour of celebrating my first engagement as a Matchmaker!

Matchmaking isn’t just a job; it’s a passion for helping my clients not to lose hope and find deep, meaningful connections.

What makes this engagement truly extraordinary is the journey it encapsulates. Working closely with my client, we embarked on a transformative adventure, reignited her enthusiasm for dating, delved deep into her values, and unravelled the traits she sought in a partner. Beyond just a quest for love; it was a journey of self-discovery and finding a love that once seemed elusive.

The love story of S & D is nothing short of inspiring. It’s a testament to the power of tailored and thoughtful matchmaking in today’s world.

To S & D, I wish you the most wonderful journey together, and to all of you dreaming of finding that special someone - remember that it’s possible at any stage of your life, even if it doesn’t seem like it.

Here’s to many more love stories and celebrations to come! 🥂💖

Finalist International Coach 2023 !

Thank you to those that nominated me for my work as a Dating & Relationship Coach and casted your votes.

I made it into the finals for the second year running. Out of 159 Coaches internationally and judged by an esteemed panel of judges.

For someone that has being only doing this for a few years it is a privilege to be recognised against my peers who have been practicing for decades and are making a real difference in the lives of their clients.

As a Dating and Relationship Coach, I run a “Dating with Intention” Coaching Program that is affordable, gets you excited about dating again and increases the number and quality of men / women you can meet .

Please contact me on +65 8200 8074 if:

You are single and find dating a challenge in meeting a like-minded partner that is serious as you in finding a loving relationship

Your dates tend to be unremarkable or fizzle out after one date or a few months

Are tired of swiping

Have given up on dating all together

Through this you will build greater confidence to navigate dating , gain clarity on boundaries and core values that will help you attract high quality matches that align with your preferences.

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Please cast your vote , last day today 🤗

I’m delighted to share that I have been nominated for International Wellness Coach , for the 2nd year running.

I would really appreciate your time to vote using this link. It will take 10 seconds and you only need to add your email to vote.

https://www.coachawards.com/wellnesscoach/anju-lagah

Thank you so much for your support , it helps so much with my work and it means a lot 🥰

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No Holds Barred- S*x, Love and Relationships follow up

It really was a no holds barred conversation , with a lot of perspectives, insights and authenticity shared by all.

The two hour event went on for four hours as the conversation, food and wine flowed 😉

The topic of s*x excites interest but also there’s still a reticence for people to talk about it honestly and openly. Despite being central to most peoples relationships and for the survival of our species 🙊

Because the lack of education, allowing myths, unrealistic images and expectations of s*x still prevail.

Sharing some insights here :

💡S*xual wellness is achieving a state of body and mind that enables you to explore s*x on your own terms and in your own time

⛓S*x has been freed from the realms of marriage and procreation, to allow an individual to freely express and explore s*x for their individual fulfilment

🚦However society and culture still apply pressure and expectations around when a person should have s*x and what the act of s*x should look and feel like

😋 A good s*x life does not indicate a healthy relationship or vice versa. Modern couples have to navigate the need for stability, safety and control, which ebbs away over time at the erotic energy and passion that fuels s*xual urges, exploration and variety

👵🏼Humans are living longer . Life expectancy has nearly doubled in the last 100 years, meaning that the life of a marriage and therefore monogamy has also doubled from 20-30 years to 40-60 years

At the end of the day it’s a vast subject . Everyone’s experience and views are unique

By shining a light on this topic it can continue to help break taboos and highlight areas to be addressed on a physical, emotional and psychological level to promote your well being.

Than you to Dr Jess , who specialises in S*xual Medicine and to .sg for hosting us.

I love facilitating and curating events that create meaningful content and connections, dispel myths and are informed by specialists in the area to help an individual achieve their personal and relationship goals 🥰

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Two Find Event !

No Holds Barred: Love, S*x & Relationships

Hello, I hope you have had a good Summer and are feeling refreshed and ready for the rest of the year.

I’m kicking off with an intimate event at the Tasting Room at Mandala Club, 31 Bukit Pasoh Road.

The event is tomorrow Tuesday 29th August 2023 from 7pm - 9pm

Our special guest Dr.Jess (S*xologist) who with myself (Matchmaker & Relationship Coach) will be sharing from our unique perspectives the questions and concerns that are common in our work around the topic of S*xual health and wellness.

It’s sure to be a lively discussion where our dinner guests can enjoy a safe and confidential space to join in, ask questions and walk away with some tangible ways to increase their s*xual awareness and fulfilment.

There are only limited tickets available.

Please DM me in response if you can make it and I can forward payment details.

I hope to see some of you there.

Join us for a workshop revealing the Truth About Love on the 20th June 2023 with , where you'll have the opportunity to break down three common misconceptions about love and learn practical strategies to find fulfilling relationships.

In this workshop, we'll discuss how the belief that love is purely instinctual, the idea that it requires instant chemistry, and that the paradox of choice can impact our expectations, behaviours, and perceptions of love. We'll explore alternative perspectives and approaches to love and dating, and practice exercises to implement these perspectives.

By the end of the workshop, you'll be able to recognise and deconstruct common myths around love and dating, understand how these myths can impact your dating experiences and choices, and have the tools and strategies to approach the search for love differently and achieve your desired outcome.

Register at https://primetime.glueup.com/event/74560/register/. Use LOVE10 to qualify for your 10% discount. Limited spots available.

Why did I become a matchmaker ?

From the age of 10 years old I’ve binge watched most dating shows.

From the 1980s to now my favourites have been Blind Date, First Dates, Married at First Sight and most recently Indian Matchmaking and Jewish Matchmaking.

I look forward to that first instance when a couple set eyes on each other, and you know if it’s going to work or not. That undefinable sparkly look that warms my heart when you see it in others. A moment that all Matchmakers want to help create.

As I was watching a dating show today it prompted this post. Why did I always want to become a Matchmaker?

My grandmother and mother have both been matchmakers through their lives, so I saw how well it worked firsthand. Growing up as British Indian also gave me a distinct perspective, as the two cultures defined and approached dating, love and marriage so differently. And not one had a monopoly on what leads to a loving relationship but both had elements that do, that I could bring to my work 💘

My upbringing , my curiosity and always wanting myself and other people to see the best in others, led me to find my passion . To help work out- what love is , why we crave it, why it’s so hard to find and keep and share this knowledge with others so they can find and nurture it when it seems so hard 🤗

Because at the heart of how fulfilled we are in this life , is the quality of relationships we have. And love is at the heart of them all … ♥️

Happy 1st Birthday Two Find! 🎉

I have been a bit quiet on the social media front, all for good reasons as Two Find goes from strength to strength, and I look at how better to continue to serve my wonderful Clients.

For those that have been following, in May 2021 during Covid lockdown I set off to see what challenges single professionals in Singapore faced when it comes to dating and if there was a need for a Relationship Coaching & Matchmaking service.

The overwhelming response was yes and Two Find was born on Valentine’s day, officially launching a year ago!

From our humble beginnings, we've grown into the go-to relationship coaching and matchmaking service for busy professionals in Singapore.

Here's to the love we've created:

👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻 Formed 15 couples to date, with more to come!

✅ Achieved a 100% satisfaction rate in our "Dating with Intention" coaching program

🌟 Facilitated “one of a kind” singles events and workshops

🤝 Collaborated with top industry partners: .sg, ,

📸 Featured in Vogue May/June 2023 edition

It has been hard work because I am working with my Clients to help them prioritise and reach their personal relationship goals.

However the impact of what can and has been achieved continues to drive me to keep learning, evolving my services and guiding my Clients through the modern dating process, nurturing loving and healthy relationships.

If you or someone you know could use our human touch , don't hesitate to reach out! We're here to make your dating journey a fun and fulfilling experience.

DM here or on +6582008074 to create more love stories together in Singapore. ❤️🦁

DM us at Two Find or email [email protected] to reserve your tickets!

Get ready to turn up the heat on Valentine’s day with Two Find, .sg and 🔥. Join us for a sizzling quiz night filled with steamy questions and discover the connection between love and pleasure while our founder Anju does her magic, and gets you mingling with other singles.

Leave with a goodie bag worth $260 and team prizes to be won like a $500 F&B voucher at Mandala Club, a bottle of champagne (worth $200) and 5 “S*x Bombs” (worth $395).

There will also be a DJ and mixer session after the event to keep the fun going. You don’t want to miss this! 💋

Don't just take our word for it, hear it straight from the satisfied clients who have benefitted from our "Dating with Intention" coaching program!

Swipe to see what they have to say about their experience with us.

Book a consultation or DM us if you are ready to take the next step in your journey. Let us help you find love in 2023! 😍

Wrapping up Two Find’s first year-end since our launch, and feeling grateful for all of our amazing clients who have trusted us with their matchmaking and relationship coaching needs.

We are thrilled to have achieved a 100% success rate for clients who completed our coaching program. In 2022, we also made several compelling matches for our premium matchmaking clients and look forward to hearing good news from them in the new year!

As the world continues to open up, we are seeing a renewed focus on finding love as a priority and are excited to continue providing exclusive support to international professionals aged 35 and above, seeking confidential and bespoke matchmaking and coaching.

Don't forget to take advantage of our ongoing promotion for a complimentary consultation and stay tuned for a special discount on our "Dating with Intention" coaching program in the new year.

If you or any single friends are interested in changing up your dating approach, don't hesitate to book a meeting at www.two-find.com or send them our way.

Happy holidays and a love-filled 2023 to all 💕

From the founder’s desk: “I am so humbled to have been shortlisted for the finals of the Coaching Awards, let alone to have been nominated. Thank you to all my clients and friends that gave me your vote and continued support.

Getting this far came to me as a surprise and is an incredible reminder of how far I’ve come and how far the impact of my passion towards my vision (of bringing people together and creating lasting relationships) extends.” -

Anju was selected as one of 127 outstanding coaches from 30 different countries who collectively received 20,000 votes. Additionally, amongst the jury were expert professionals from SAP, Societe Generale, Google and Plot Wolf.

Announcing Two Find’s first SINGLES ONLY event (of many to come!) in collaboration with .sg on the 19th November 2022.

Facilitated by , the evening will kick off with various ice breaker activities as well as a cheeky round of human bingo, where guests aged 30+ will learn interesting facts about each other as they mingle their way across the room.

This is just one of many future curated events designed with the intention of bringing like-minded singles together and making it easy for them to connect through conversation.

Follow our page for updates or call/DM us if you are interested in learning more about what Two Find’s approach can do for you.

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Last week, our Founder met up with from to have an exciting thought-provoking conversation around their shared principles and approach to fulfil client expectations.

Violet holds the esteemed title of being the first matchmaker in Singapore and is part of the oldest matchmaking institute. She has 14 years of experience and is a veteran in the field.

“Thank you Violet, for being so open and honest in our discussion around dating insights and challenges that singles face in Singapore and most importantly how our services give hope and practical solutions to our Clients. It gives me great joy that we are so aligned in terms of our intentions and outcomes!” - Anju

Watch this space for future collaborations! 🙌

Commitment is the new s*xy. 👀🔥

We are a sum of our thoughts. Our thoughts lead to actions that shape our reality. They are made up of our beliefs, values and feelings.

We can learn to change our thoughts, which change our behaviour, which changes our outcomes, which change our reality.

This has been proven again and again and again.

From the Founder’s desk: “I am so honoured to have met , the world’s most influential matchmaker according to the oldest professional matchmaking organisation. A leading expert in the relationship and dating industry, he has worked alongside Oprah Winfrey and other big names in the UK. He is also my business mentor.

Paul is someone I’ve looked up to for a long time for the way that he approaches his own relationships as well as the time and his research that goes into his matchmaking process. He’s relatable, bold, honest, dedicated and really cares about the people around him. His work comes from the heart and he takes as much time as is needed to help his clients and mentees.

He motivates and inspires me as we both work with a growth mindset and want to share what we’ve learned in order to help people feel fulfilled and guided in an informed manner to reach their personal relationship goals.

I’m so grateful for all our conversations so far Paul. Thank you! 🙏”

It’s about time that we break the stereotype that men are afraid of commitment. Scroll for some interesting facts about men and women looking for a committed relationship.

If you would like to move towards achieving your personal relationship goal, DM us or email us at [email protected] to start a conversation and develop an actionable, individualised program that will help get you there.

During our search for a meaningful relationship, most of us have an inner narrative that sometimes takes over and floods our minds with thoughts such as “I’m not good enough”, “I’m not ready”, or “There’s no one out there for me.”

As humans, we have a natural fear of hurt and rejection and retraining our minds can hugely improve our chances at successfully finding a life partner. That’s where coaching comes in.

Relationship coaching targets assumptions, biases, preconceived notions and negative thoughts that help you to build resilience and identify any blind spots which may get in the way of finding the right partner.

DM or email us at [email protected] to book a coaching session or to learn more about our coaching service.

Two Find helps make dating fun again by offering an end-to-end Coaching and Matchmaking service that allows us to take on most of the legwork that comes with finding a compatible partner, equipping you with the ability to approach dating with confidence.

We have found that in order to truly understand your story and how to help you move forward in achieving your relationship goals, it is important for us to facilitate face-to-face sessions. Through these, we empower you to recognise the values that truly matter in a potential partner and that will lead to a committed and enduring relationship.

If you are a single, divorced or a widowed Senior Professional, Entrepreneur or HNWI who is serious about wanting to find love and who believes that finding the right life partner deserves investment, attention, and focus, please do get in touch at [email protected] for a complimentary first consultation.

Myth: Dating apps are the only/best way to find relationships in 2022.

Do you feel like dating apps just aren’t for you?

It’s probably because they lack a human enough approach. Two Find’s matchmaking service operates offline to avoid repetitive algorithms and surface-level scanning of user profiles. We make it possible to find authentic dates based on your personal preferences and save you time by curating your dates.

Visit our website or DM us to book a free consultation and move one step closer to finding your ideal relationship.