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Goodness is the fruit of the Spirit inside of us.

It’s not a result of our ability to do better or be better.

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Join us, your Christian Healing Coaches, as we guide you through emotional and relational healing with a faith-based AND evidence-based approach. We’ve helped over 60 Christians overcome past and relational pain and have certified 30+ counselors and pastors. ❤️

We’ve personally navigated challenges like sexual addiction, GAD, postpartum anxiety, church hurt and codependency. Our experiences fuel our passion to help others find peace and healing in their hearts and family.

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Healing happens in the presence of an empathetic witness.

This is KEY to healing—Jesus displayed this, evidence shows that we are wired for this—and yet, it’s scandalous in the church and just not widely taught in churches or Christian ministries dedicated to inner healing.

If it is, the how is almost always left out.

So, people are often left feeling like the exception to God’s grace.

Or they have this unspoken line or standard they or others can’t cross in order to receive the full measure of compassion.

So they live in a sense of conditional love and relate with God in the same way.

But God wired you for love…

And my question to you is what would it feel like if compassion even extended past that line or standard you have?

You’re wired to heal in that environment.

We have a free guide on 5 Steps to Heart Healing for Christians. These steps are just not commonly taught in depth in the Christian world. And in the secular world, they leave out the most important key of all (God).

Comment HEALING below to get access 💕

A transformed mindset is a natural byproduct of a healed heart.

Too often I see Christians focusing so much on mindset work, but that never actually deals with the real problem and can even lead to more dissonance as a result of spiritual bypassing.

They try to judge and shame themselves into freedom using the Word of God.

Freedom doesn’t happen that way.

This is why so many people are unnecessarily completely deconstructing their faith—they’ve been taught to appropriate truth with the enemy’s tactics.

So they reap the fruit that shame and judgment bring and stop trusting God or the church because…the part of the church they know doesn’t know how to actually facilitate healing and yes even healthy relationship 🥸

My husband and I put a free training together on what it takes to actually experience greater levels of healing as a Christian. Comment HEALING below to get access and we will send it your way

This Thursday, May 9 at Noon CST, we are going to be doing a LIVE training on

Exactly What you Need to Master Emotional Health

In it, you will learn:

🔥 How I reset daily with simple HIC rhythms that transformed my prayer life, marriage, parenting and business (even if my time feels limited)
🔥 The step-by-step method our clients use to stop living in their mind while experiencing real emotional, mental and physical transformation even if they’ve done counseling, coaching, affirmations and what not.
🔥 The #1 reason that driven Christians are not seeing or feeling the results they want from really great coaches and counselors—and why licensed counselors are wanting us to certify them (even though they have degrees in psychology)
🔥 How our clients are learning how to master emotional health through Heart-Informed Connection and experience even deeper levels of freedom, more potent impact and healthier relationships.

(There will be a few gifts and giveaways for those who join and hang out with us till the end!)

Who wants access? 🔑👇🏻

So excited!! We are going live Thursday May 9th with a free training about the key 🔑 skills that you need so that you can master emotional health.
Who wants access?

We are doing brand new 🔥 live training on Emotional Health Mastery next Thursday May 9. Who wants access?

How I went from being hospitalized with GAD & postpartum anxiety to teaching licensed counselors, pastors and mental health authors how to hone in their emotional health skills even more.

What I didn’t do to begin to master the art of heart connection and emotional health:
Get my degree in psychology
Focus on my mindset
Go to an inner healing ministry
Rely solely on the Bible
Go solo on my own journey
Spend zero money

What I did instead:
Spent thousands hiring my own coaches who taught me EXACTLY how to hone in my emotional and relational health
Worked 1:1 with a counselor who specialized in what I was experiencing to weekly work through my own pain
Owned my own healing process and allowed it to seep into my marriage and parenting
Became a student of how God designed our body and began studying our nervous system
Took advantage of free resources I had previously knocked like Celebrate Recovery
Found people I knew ahead of me in this area and learned from them like (for me, it was my mother-in-law)

Here’s the thing…

My husband and I committed to do whatever it took for me to heal when I had postpartum anxiety.

And I not only healed, WE began to master emotional health.

We saw the difference immediately.

It leaked into our marriage, our vision, our mindset, our parenting, our businesses, our finances.

And it drew us closer and closer to God.

Now, we help Christians who are leaders in their sphere of influence how they can hone in and master emotional and relational health so they can watch it leak into and transform the various areas of and responsibilities in their lives.

Next Thursday, May 9, my husband and I are hosting a free, private live training on Mastering Emotional Health.

If you are ready to take your skills to the next level and watch it turn and bless your life, join us.

Comment MASTERY below for access.

Looking forward to seeing you there!

We are doing free training for Christian’s called “Emotional Health Mastery”
Who wants access?

Our students in Heart Informed Healing Mentorship learn to master emotional health. How amazing would it be if Christians were the most emotionally healthy people on the planet? 🌎

We made a free 5 step guide that will help you pain that may be causing relational dsconnect

Who wants it?

On our YouTube we are constantly posting new videos on emotional health. Go check it out 👇🏻

What’s your love language?❤️

We are going live with free trainings on how to heal your relationships without ignoring your needs. Who wants access?

POV:
your clients are Dr’s, Counselors, Pastors, Authors and they are eating up your trainings that are helping them hone in emotional health expertise 🔥🙌🏻🥳

Marinating in the goodness of yesterday's session where we are certifying about 30+ counselors and pastors!!! It was SO GOOD!

Triggers (and trauma) are not equal. What is triggering (or traumatic) to one person may not be for another.

I had no idea that spiritual abuse was even a thing…

until I was confronted with my own trauma while experiencing postpartum anxiety with my first kiddo.

This is a part of my story that I haven’t talked much about.

And believe it or not, it caused more damage than anything else ever has in my 32 years of life.

I was told that I needed to take responsibility and blame for things that I never should have because I had ungodly motives and that if I didn’t follow suit, support would be withheld from me.

I was told I needed to conform to a certain image, beliefs or mindset otherwise I was in disobedience.

I was told I didn’t hear God and that my dreams (to be a missionary) were selfish and bad.

By believers who had authority in a church that I was a part of years ago.

And because I was in a tender place and longing to live in righteousness, I believed it.

And honestly, I see so many believers caught in the same fear and shame spiral…

Afraid of being disobedient, overly repenting and re-repenting, weaponizing truth against themselves and others to get things right, seeing a demon around every corner, feeling pressure to perform or minister to others, withdrawing love from themselves and others or having love withheld from them in their process, manipulating prophecy OR villainizing the prophetic and the supernatural, cloaking everything with a verse or false humility, shaming God-given dreams, wealth and beauty, overusing rules to self-protect…

Here’s the thing…

There are Christians (not everyone of course) who have been taught to normalize spiritually abusive tendencies…

Even toward themselves.

And they have no idea.

Here are some super basic examples that may surprise you:

👀 Employing guilt-inducing tactics or shaming people for perceived spiritual shortcomings or disobedience.

👀 Using fear tactics, threats of punishment, or apocalyptic warnings to instill fear.

👀 Conditional Love: Offering love, acceptance, or belonging only to those who conform to specific beliefs or behaviors, while rejecting or ostracizing those who do not comply.

These things feel bad because they are bad.

They are not the heart or intention of God.

…and can have profound and lasting effects on a person’s mental, emotional and spiritual well-being.

If you’ve experienced any of these things and have felt like you’re the problem, you’re not.

There is freedom and healing without forsaking your first love (Jesus).

I know because I’ve experienced it.

Now that I’ve opened up this can of worms…I’m curious your thoughts on this topic? Have you experienced this?

Legalism and over spiritualizing are ugly self-protectors that seem godly, but aren’t

Three tendencies that create emotionally unhealthy Christians...

(And it's just not talked about but really needs to be--especially #3...)

1. Codependency/Taking over-responsibility for others.

2. Overspiritualization/Disconnecting from reality or hiding behind seemingly "spiritual" self-protectors (Rules/Legalism/Self-Righteousness/Spiritual Disiciplines).

3. Invalidation/weaponizing truth and breaking all safety and trust in a relationship which are foundational to healing.

Pain is not bad.

It's neutral and informative.

It can be used to facilitate healing or perpetuate more pain and dysfunction.

What matters is how you engage it.

If you’ve forgotten how to enjoy yourself you won’t get rid of that habit. It will continue until you start getting to know what you love and stop distracting yourself

We did an amazing training on how to experience greater levels of healing by not judging your emotions! Who wants it?

God wants to heal your nervous system.

I'm so excited! Almost done bulking out our certification that we'll be walking 18+ counselors through in April!