Brainwashing Children

HIGH LEVEL BRAINWASHERS

There are degradations of parental alienation. The most severe type is perpetrated by High Level Brainwashers (HLBs).

These parents are ruthless in their efforts to eliminate their ex from the child’s life.

They spend decades spinning tales of woe of what the ex did, labeling the ex every derogatory name imaginable, and doing everything possible to deny an ex physical access to “their” child.

Below is a list of the dominant characteristics and behaviors of HLBs:

-They dwell on the sins of the past. They simply cannot forgive any past grievances and ‘move on.’
-They are revenge-minded
-They will commonly say things like, “I don’t get mad, I get even,” or “You’ll pay for this.”
-They have anger and aggression issues
-They are deeply unhappy people. Overall happy and positive people don’t dwell on negatives or allow past wrongs to weigh them down
-They have one or more psychological disorders
-They are frequently on medications like antidepressants to stabilize their negative moods
-They were abused or neglected as as children

HLBs bulldozing ways goes back to a dysfunctional childhood. They are extremely selfish people. They are bad listeners, first and foremost. They are capable of completely disregarding the welfare of the child if it suits their own needs.

They view child as a possession.

Ownership of and control of the child.

They will micromanage the child’s life in the extreme.

They abuse the child on other levels. HLBs frequently physically and/or sexually abuse children as well. In short, they have no boundaries.

There is one final trait of the truly worst HLBs, and that’s the narcissistic parent. I didn’t include it in the list because only a sliver of the high level brainwashers are narcissistic. And these parents are the absolute worst abusers, and are true evil-doers at their core. They all lack a conscience.

HLBs are professionals at wrecking parent-child relationships. They are masters at turning their perceived victimhood into manipulative lies intent on destroying their own child’s love for the other parent. This mental child abuse that causes lasting scars, even when the child does one day realize the fraud and lies perpetrated onto them.

So never, ever give up-

The UN describes parental alienation as a “pseudoconcept” and recommends countries ban its use in the family courts. Yet another bureaucracy unable to protect abused children -

A reminder about these so-called "loving" parents alienating our children:

The best quotes on PA come from: Amanda Sillars

Best quote of 2023:

Well said-

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100%. Also, if the children wanted no time with their narcissistic alienating parent and instead wanted it with you, imagine their reaction...

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Parental Alienation 101

What is up with the Alberta family court? Clearly corrupt AF-

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Grandparents should be equal to parents in all areas of family law! This gap is because LAWYERS determine the law absent pushback from the people. They have no clue/ time for us to educate them-

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Children in alienation situations get coerced by their selfish and controlling alienating parent through repetitive suggestive and leading questions and then get trapped into telling falsehoods about their targeted parent. The alienating parent spreads these falsehoods/lies about the targeted parent far and wide in the child's community. The child gets stuck, withdraws and struggles to face their targeted parent again.

🧒🏻👧🏼 An Alienated Child Perspective... "I have lied. I see the trouble it has caused. I don't have the know-how to reverse or fix this situation. If I speak the truth, I will now be a liar in my alienating parent's eyes. What if they reject me or don't believe me? It's too late. I withdraw and go where there is the least pressure, away from my targeted parent. I suffer in silence and drown in guilt. It is easier to go along with these stories because my alienating parent keeps adding fuel to the raging fire. I see my targeted parent suffering, which adds to my pain." ~ Amanda Sillars

The alienating parents do their utmost to get everyone else in the community to support them, friends, family, the school, police, doctors... you name it, they have been told. It is all about the sides and splitting (all good and all bad). They are the perfect parent, and the other is the villain.

It is not the child's fault. This is a child protection issue, not an adult conflict issue.

Written by
Amanda Sillars
"Vilification of the targeted parent

✴️ This parent makes allegations about the dangerousness of the other parent without adequate supporting evidence.
✴️ This parent makes claims about the abuse of the child by the other parent without substantiation.
✴️ This parent makes reference to the possibility of abuse of the child by the targeted parent without actually making the allegation.
✴️ The timing of any claim of abuse of the child by the targeted parent is linked to legal events or parenting changes (e.g., upcoming court appearance, progression of more time for the targeted parent with the child).
✴️ This parent makes sinister interpretations of normal events (e.g., the child sitting on the father’s lap, the child getting into bed with the father in the morning).
✴️ The child’s reluctance to see the targeted parent is used as ‘evidence’ of wrongdoing by the other parent.

Interrogation of the alienated child

✴️ When the child returns from spending time with the other parent, this parent wants to know what occurred in detail from the child.
✴️ This parent questions the child about the other parent’s potential wrongdoing after the child spends time with the targeted parent.
✴️ This parent questions the child about the time they spend with the other parent despite being told not to do this.
✴️ It is your view that the child is feeling pressured to provide information to the questioning parent.
✴️ The child tends to change their story about their other parent to a more negative one if this parent questions them enough about the targeted parent.
✴️ This child avoids or would avoid spending time with the targeted parents to avoid having to be questioned by this parent."

Citation for Vilification of the targeted parent & Interrogation of the alienated child:
Understanding and Managing Parental Alienation. A guide to Assessment and Intervention. Janet Haines, Mandy Matthewson and Marcus Turnball (2020)
https://www.routledge.com/Understanding-and-Managing-Parental-Alienation-A-Guide-to-Assessment-and/Haines-Matthewson-Turnbull/p/book/9780367312947

Quote: “A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes.” ― Mark Twain

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DEAR EX:

Hard to see how you “love” our children when you’re committing a blatant act of evil-

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