Activate Your Say - About Restoring Lives

3 Signs You Might Be 'Rescuing' Your Child

Could you be rescuing your child? Here are three signs:
1️⃣ Constantly solving their problems
2️⃣ Doing things for them they can do themselves
3️⃣ Taking responsibility for their mistakes

Let’s work on raising self-reliant kids.

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Don't be a "Latch-Onner"
Being part of someone's journey whilst the details are being refined is more blessed than to wait for them to succeed.

The Trap of Child Rescue Parenting

Rescuing your child might feel like love, but over time, it can create dependency and limit their growth. Are you ready to foster independence and confidence in your child’s abilities?

Reach out as we help you explore strategies to empower your child and the next generation!

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Breaking Free from Over-Parenting

Are you constantly stepping in to help your grown children, even when they are capable of doing things on their own? It’s time to break free from 'child rescue' parenting and empower them to be independent!
Let’s teach resilience and responsibility.
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If you're still doubting whether you are the best person for the job or you feel like you don't know enough, God is saying, "What do you have in your hand, I can use it!

God has need of you!!

Class has been in session for a while, but now it's time to release what God has deposited on the inside of you. Let Him take care of the rest.

Booking Page:
https://calendly.com/coachactivateyoursay/coaching-consultation

Discovery sessions are FREE. All other sessions (individual or packaged sessions) are priced according to the agreed upon coaching plan or needs analysis and at the discretion of Coach Alison.

Change takes time, but often during our discovery sessions, clients gain the clarity and direction they seek after, so don't let pricing hold you back from reaching out.

For more information email us on [email protected] or call us on
074 914 5295

Transformation in life is not a once off exercise, it's an attitude towards life. Daily we need to make up our minds who we choose to be.

Educational resources can be insightful, and even I as a coach can inspire you towards change, but change ultimately begins and ends with you.

These days we work more on our reputation than our character. Some people's reputation are flawless and their presence in society is placed on a pedastil, but they lack in character and society condones this. You dare not say anything, even in a loving manner, if you wish to keep your head!

I've attended extraordinary self-development programs during my time at work, but "Programs" don't change us, they inform us as to how far or long we are in relation to the change we desire. Change, changes us! A change in thinking, attitude and behavior. Many don't put into practice what they've learnt on these programs, and what you don't use, you lose. Onto the next program, we say, because that one didn't take! No it's you.

A building can collapse over time if the foundation is poor. Soon the cracks will show. The crack is not the issue though, it's when you see it and choose to do nothing about it, because you have an attitude of "you get what you get", take me or leave me! This is what society is sometimes built on, and sadly what our children are exposed to.

I am so grateful that I have people in my life who both praise and prune me!!

us each play our part in growing all the way up #

"Character vs Reputation"

As parents, how do you know that your kids will survive this life without you?
What are you teaching them now to prepare them?

If you have nothing good to say, or if what you have to say won't come from a place of love, pause and think about how you can reframe your words to be edifying and not destructive. Words spoken lives long, so choose your words well.

Latest trend, "I'm busy". Let that not be our famous last words to each other.

Other than work, what is taking up our time? How much after that, is left for family life? Family does not just happen, it must be done intentionally.

Let's re-assess and make the change, because we CAN!

Do not allow the thoughts, words and actions of others define your life and who you are in Christ!

All the best to the matriculants. This is the last stretch of THIS season before your NEXT begins.

Reach out when you need to and always remember that God loves you! Do your best and be kind to yourself. You've got this.

Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." JOSHUA 1:9

Be your own best friend. Loving others starts with loving yourself. Imagine what our lives would be like if we spent half the time loving ourselves like we love or pretend to love others.

Ladies 21 and over, whether you live on your own, have or don't have a family, I invite you to join the newly created Cape Town "Family Support Group" on Meetup.

This is a non-denominational group of people whose heart is to restore and rebuild in the area of family life.

On the topic of Family Life, we collaborate, do online video calls, send each other messages on meetup or email and talk about real-life issues hampering and making family life great! At a later stage we will also meet in person to social for those who live in the surrounding areas of Cape Town.

So, let's explore and build together. We all know family life is demanding and comes with its own set of challenges so "yes please" for a community of like-minded people to learn and draw strength from.

Be willing to step out for the sake of your family.

For more info, contact Alison on 084941 1992 or [email protected]

Check out Cape Town Family Support Group (Ladies) https://meetu.ps/c/54my8/TdDNV/d on Meetup

For more information email Coach Alison at [email protected] or via cellphone on 084 941 1992

Faith without actions is like someone revving a car but has no intention of going anywhere. All you hear is noise and all you see is smoke but you are going nowhere.
Put your car in gear and accelerate!