Advocate Khoza

It is better to be wise and walk in the counsel of the Lord. The words you speak and the advice you give will give life and restoration to those who are in need of it. When your words are based on the Word of God, you will be able to refresh the souls of many. But if you let foolishness lead your life, you will find yourself in many terrible situations. Folly leads to destruction; it never builds.

Youth is breaking down. Parents sit down with your children and ask them about life , this kids are going through a lot and they can't open up to their parents cause they got no comfort from their parents. Support Your Children. Be with your Children. Show them the Way. Stop judging your kids. Stop comparing them with other kids. It kills them. Mothers are the form of the almighty. Show your kids love and care.

Lisa Wadi ❤️🖤👣to Notice me with this candle 🕯️

The energy you surround yourself with and the people you allow access to you will determine the way you experience life.

Sometimes you have to evaluate whether your surroundings are inspiring you or requiring you to dim your light. 💫✨

i apologize to anyone who doesn’t understand that i am an introvert.. i don’t text everyday. i don’t answer my phone. i don’t hold long conversations. i don’t like large groups of ppl.. but any of my real friends know my vibe and are in full understanding.. it’s nothing intentional to anyone. i just prefer loneliness and isolation.. but any time you need me i’m there with NO hesitation 💯…

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Pain is when you always care n support those in need 🙁❤️buh when you need 'em they all turn back ❤️🤞pain is when the person you love keeps on breaking your heart lyk slowly 😑❤️n when you wanna talk abt it n realize that " Nah he/she is juss ouk without you🙁❤️ I mean the pain of always having faith that he/she still loves you coz you're scared of losing him/her🥺❤️🤞

Before hurting someone juss remember we all feel the same pain🥺❤️🤲

Last year, I used to pray to God to give me someone I loved dearly. I didn’t have that person But I still pray.
Now I no longer pray for someone I want, instead I pray for my heart.
I pray for my heart never to get attached again to people who aren’t meant for me.
I pray for my heart to find love and companion that suits it and doesn’t cause it ache or pain.
I pray for my heart to be gentle and pure, capable of compassion and tolerance.
I pray for my heart not to fall back into things that caused it so much pain one day.
I pray that my heart will find solace and peace in its fate. Even if it’s meant to be alone.
I pray that my heart can live and love without losing its way and to always belong to me.
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Sometimes, I want to scream and tell the world how not okay I am. I want to say that I'm slowly losing my mind and losing all my hope to live. But instead of doing it, I stayed silent and act as if there is nothing wrong with me.

The truth is, sometimes I just want to cry in front of everyone. I want to tell them that I am slowly giving up and I couldn't help myself from my own thoughts. The voices in my head are getting louder and they are telling me how worthless I am. I need someone to understand what I feel, but how can somebody understand me when I can't even speak about what is happening to me? I can't even speak about my pain.

I'm tired. I used to tell myself that I'm going to be okay soon. But now it feels like I'm losing my sanity. I'm tired of this feeling. I wish I could just forget that I'm hurting.

Lisa 🖤 Notice me 😊🖤

People expect you to stay around forever while they put you last... that s**t dead.

I'm real heavy on affection and
reassurance. I have to feel and know
I'm loved.

Ain’t gone lie, my toxic days are over. All the arguing, fighting, acting crazy etc. is over with we gone talk like adults and get an understanding or you gone get away from me simple. I’m not wasting no more energy & time. Last two years been stressful. I just want some paper, peace and real love‼️💯🎯

Best advice I can give anybody right now is to make sure you got your own and always do what's best for you. This a cold world we living in. Families ain't family no more and friends ain't friends. Everybody scream real until it's actually time to show it. So get your own and pray you never get in the position to where you have to depend on nobody. People will fail you over and over but your faith will get you there everytime!

Don't underrate anyone you might be limiting the favor you're likely to obtain from such people in future when things turn right for them.

🌈 thinking differently gets different results , challenge your thinking for a more positive outlook on life. You can’t live a positive life with a negative mindset 🌈

Positive affirmation: I am doing my best and everything in working out for me

Your enemies are watching every move you make and they can't believe how can you still do things they don't want you to reach in life

“Don’t use your liberty for a cloak,” said Paul, “but sanctify yourself!” Behave yourself in the neighborhood, like a real Christian ought to. Let your communications be, if you meet your enemy, sanctify yourself for his sake, not knowing what you might do.

FORGIVE YOURSELF

Forgive yourself for the choices you made that didn’t end up giving you the result you expected.

Forgive yourself for all the boundaries you didn't set because you thought it was the best way to create peace.

Forgive yourself for the things you tolerated because you didn’t know better.

Forgive yourself for the wrong decisions you made out of intense emotions.

Forgive yourself for the things you did that left you feeling regretful.

Remind yourself that wishing it had never happened will only keep you in the past.

So forgive yourself everyday until you’re no longer haunted by the memories of what happened. You deserve peace.

"Appreciate people, they will give their very best."

Everyone likes to be appreciated because it makes people feel that their efforts are valued. Once a person feels valued, they tend to put more effort into everything they do.

Most relationships suffer due to a lack of appreciation. It is because most people don't acknowledge the efforts of their loved ones. Lack of appreciation not only discourages a person but is also very hurtful. When we do something for our loved ones, we do it from our hearts. It involves our deep emotions. When our efforts get neglected, it creates an emotional wound. We may still keep doing it, but a lack of appreciation diminishes our enthusiasm.

Try to make people feel valued. It only takes a few words or a little gesture to show them they are appreciated. Whether someone has put a little or big effort, whether it was a little or big help to you, it is the effort that matters and every effort must always be appreciated.

A relationship is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend. It's not about looking for a perfect person because their is no perfect person on Earth. it's not about looking for a well off or a rich person because money can't buy love.
But a relationship is finding someone who respect you, who cares about you,who understand you, who is proud of having you, who loves you the way you are, who is faithful to you and who knows how to comfort you.

Not everyone is meant to be in your future some people are just passing through to teach you a lesson in life. 💚

Never be a prisoner of your past. It was just a lesson , not a life sentence.😊

success"Not how long, but how well you have lived is the main thing.”

“If life were predictable it would cease to be life, and be without flavor.”

“The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what is one’s destiny to do, and then do it.”

Success comes with focus , determination & hard work

Never give up!!!

Feel free ❣️😻to hit my inbox I Might have 1 or 2 words that can help you 🤲O V E R T H I N K E R

Why should we never ignore any opportunity in life?

Every opportunity in life can lead to something big. When we let go of opportunities because we don't want to start small, we let go of our chance of success.

Everyone wants to make big in life, but not everyone is willing to start low. Most people want to make quick wealth and progress. They think a low start won't lead to progress or feel others will look down upon them.

To succeed in life, embrace every opportunity. Instead of seeing any opportunity as big or small, see them as a possibility that can lead to progress. You won't miss even the slightest chance in life.

Your family doesn't know how much difficulties and pressure you go through in your daily life or in your business.

And your job doesn’t know the circumstances of your life and your home.

Your friends and loved ones will not understand the size of the new and old responsibilities that are above you.

And your partner is always waiting for love and support from you, and she/he will not understand the amount of pressure you go through no matter how much you talk and explain to her/him.

In conclusion, no one feels about you but yourself. No one will understand what you're going through.

Keep going ❤️

"you cannot"
"i repeat"
"you cannot love two people at the same time" 🥺

I Asked For Strength, But God Gave Me Difficulties To Make Me Strong.