Chloe Patison - Holistic Support & Healing Arts

On this day 8 years ago it was our little babes funeral ~ we honoured her tiny life that was full of love. We said goodbye to her and hello to 10 months of Police Questions and Coroners.

Please keep me tucked in the back of your mind and if ever you need someone to support you or someone you know though the same reach out to me. I'm your lady 🥰 Community needs this.

Winter Daisy Jean

This has to be said again as we get closer to Christmas….

We honour all babies 💞

IBCLCS funded by Medicare
Petition to sign 👇 ❤️

We need your help!!!
If you have been around for awhile you will know a few years ago we did a massive drive to try and get IBCLCs (International Board certified Lactation consultant ) funded by Medicare but unfortunately we weren’t successful but there is a new petition and this time we think it could be successful with your help.
Below is a petition and we need your signatures and for you to help share.
This is super important for all mums out there who deserves to be able to access their services no matter their financial situation.

There is only 28 days to get as many signatures as possible

https://www.aph.gov.au/e-petitions/petition/EN5169

PLEASE DONT FORGET TO VERIFY YOUR EMAIL/SIGNATURE

MY CHILDREN
Some have come through me, some have come to me and one is always around me ✨

Some on earth and one beyond✨

Hayley, Ariarna, Remi, Olivia, Winter and Sunny
I love them beyond words!

Are you looking for a Pregnancy Circle?
Starting this Thursday ❤️

✨ Today we have lived 7 years of life against the natural order of how things are supposed to be! ✨

When a child dies, parents are still connected to their child. Our souls are connected to each other throughout all realms, time and places. It doesn't matter how long it has been, it's still the same, for eternity.

I will live out each of my earthly days honouring her sweet little life and her larger than life existence

Guiding others on how to do death like a boss because oh my gosh the world so needs that!

✨ Winter Daisy Jean ✨
14.04.2016 ~ 16.04.2016

Bereavement suite or room in every hospital in Australia ✍️

e-petitions e-petitions

Never want the ☀️ to end!

THIS IS A DRAWING OF ME
Pregnant with Our Rainbow Baby 🌈

* By Sunny - our rainbow baby. He is now 5 years old!

He said I was so happy to have him in my tummy, and he is so right!

Baby's born after loss are so special. They are a different baby and a different journey with a different outcome, but that doesn't mean it comes with out fear, worry, and anxiety. They bring so much joy too!

Making sure you feel safe and supported in your Journey is so important!

NOTHING IN NATURE BLOOMS ALL YEAR AND NEITHER DO I! 😂

I haven't posted this year yet, I've been quietly taking some time to myself, something Im not actually great at at times! It was one year since my dad passed away, so I've spent some time reflecting, resting, planning our homeschool year ahead and hanging out with our little and not so little ones.

2023 feels like a new beginning for me, a fresh start, with new things unfolding and coming this way 💓

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KEEPING A JOURNAL 😍

I was the child who always had one of those diaries with a little pad lock and key and still today I still find myself just checking what notebooks and journals where ever there is stationary.

My journal (one of them!) and my fave inky pen is one of the best things I do for myself to clear my mind or get some clarity of my thoughts and feelings 🥰

You are Home Base, Your are your child's Safe Haven
“Attachment is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another across time and space."
John Bowlby
Attachment?
"It is not a parenting philosophy.
It is not about how you feed.
It is not about how you sleep.

It is about contact.
it is about responsiveness.
It is about love."
Dr. Rosie Knowles

In a world full of roses - be a wild flower 🥰

PREGNANCY & INFANT LOSS AWARENESS MONTH......words by Emily Alexandra

"My midwife Jan asked me what I did to cope with the shock, grief and loss of our son Patrick who has stillborn at 42 weeks.

I posted about Patrick and what I was going through on my social media and did a call out in my local Facebook groups. To my surprise I had countless messages from people either sharing their own losses, or putting me in contact with other bereaved parents.

The conversations I had with other parents were invaluable because there is an assumed knowledge and shared lived experience so we could connect and swap notes without censoring, over-explaining or translating, which was a huge relief and help.

They helped me in navigating the admin that comes with the death of a child, ways to commemorate and celebrate him and how to cope with the onslaught of comments, judgements as well as managing your own grief, shock, shame, anger, sadness and failure.

The grief and impact of your baby dying effects all parts of your life and who you are, it's not contained to one area of your life. For example I found returning to work and explaining the gap on my resume extremely traumatic and on my first day at my new job I was asked in front of the whole team if I had kids, it wasn't even 9am yet!

Socialising was difficult for many years, and still can be. When other mums talked about their kids and laughed about their labour, I was not included or allowed to participate in the conversation. I was 'accidently' left off baby shower invites and other events as my presence reminded people of the unthinkable.

Grief comes and goes in waves, sometimes it's a ripple, other times it is a tsunami and all I can do is ride it out, breathe and let my feelings 'up and out' as they arrive knowing it will pass.

I found these books to be of huge help because they are practical, easy to absorb and made a profound difference in my ability to cope:

1. Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby, by Deborah L. Davis

2. It's OK That You're Not OK
Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand, by Megan Devine

Also see stillstandingmag.com."

😍 Your Pelvis Is Your Sacred Temple 😍

🌈 TODAY IS NATIONAL RAINBOW BABY DAY

What is a Rainbow Baby?
A Rainbow Baby is a baby that is born following loss.

Today we honour the babies we have lost as we celebrate our rainbow babies. Rainbow babies bring so much joy and are just so special! They are a different baby, with a different story, that has a different ending.

To create life or bring a baby into the world after a loss is a completely different journey, The journey with a rainbow baby can bring bring both anxiety, happiness and everything in between.

This is our Rainbow Baby Sunny.
He brings so much love, joy and healing and lights up our life each and every day!

SPEAK YOUR TRUTH

Speak your truth, “In the past, millions of women healers and wise women, and the men who have supported them, have been killed for telling the truth. It is little wonder, given the collective history, especially of women, that we are afraid. I believe when we deny this fear or discount its presence in others, we only give it more power." Dr. Christine Northrup

So speak your truth - even if your voice shakes 🥰

HELLO

I'm Chloe. I’m a mother, dancer, birth and earth lover. Speaker of truth, lover of deep conversations – with my eyes and heart open.

I live in Sunny Geelong, Victoria, Australia with my husband (who also happens to be a Holistic Counsellor) and our beautiful blended family of 6 children, 5 that are here on earth and one above.

I am passionate about working with women and their families, guiding them to bring out what's within themselves and supporting them to be in their power. I truly believe that there is so much knowledge that should be available to us. Our knowledge and wisdom needs to be passed down to our daughters so they can pass is onto their daughters, likewise with our sons.

I’m a Ta**us- they say that Taurean's are drawn to either sprit or science, and for me I am definitely drawn to both. I’m thirsty for knowledge, love information, love nerding out with books and studies, yet through my life experiences I'm a big believer there is more to life than what meets the eye. Seek and you shall find.

I am available for appointments in Geelong and Surrounds

Holistic Counselling
- Relationships
- Bereavement
- Birth Debrief
- Sexuality
- Birth and Parenting After Loss

Energy Healing
- Reiki
- Grief Reiki Healings

Circle Of Life Doula
- Postpartum Doula Services
- End Of Life Doula Services

Fertility Mentoring & Natural Family Planning
- To Conceive
- To Avoid Pregnancy
- To Monitor and Safeguard Your Reproductive Health

Women's Empowerment & Embodiment
- 1:1 Sessions Erotic Embodiment

Appointments available in the comfort in your own home (Geelong & Surrounds) and anywhere in the World online!

Please share if you feel called too

Chloe 🥰

Trust in the Magic of New Beginnings ☺️