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It's time to break your family's cycle of emotional trauma and response, protect your children and grandchildren, and leave the world better.
This kind of “humour” is counter-productive.
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Happy New Year! 🎉
𝘐𝘵'𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘮𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘴 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘴. 𝘚𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘪𝘵 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘴𝘶𝘣𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘧𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦, 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥, 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘱𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘵, 𝘰𝘳 𝘢 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘰𝘱𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴.
- Kristin Armstrong
Perspective shapes how we move through the world. It’s the magic wand that can turn everyday moments into learning opportunities or extraordinary experiences. Challenge your perspective by reminding yourself that things are not always what they seem. A different perspective might provide the insight you didn’t know you needed.
Happy Monday! Let’s spend a little less time beating ourselves up, OK?
Cockroach Theory
The cockroach theory for self-development
At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.
She started screaming out of fear.
With a panic-stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.
Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.
The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another lady in the group.
Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.
The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.
In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.
The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behaviour of the cockroach on his shirt.
When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.
Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behaviour?
If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?
He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.
It is not the cockroach, but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies.
I realized that it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.
It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.
More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.
Lessons learnt from the story:
I understood I should not react in life.
I should always respond.
The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.
Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.
A beautiful way to understand
LIFE.
The HAPPY person is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life.
He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right!
credits to: Divya Bhrambhatt
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So… what else is there to try? Oh, right! Self-compassion. You deserve it.
🌞 ᴡᴏᴜʟᴅ ʏᴏᴜ ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ʙᴀᴄᴋ ᴏɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴜᴘꜱᴡɪɴɢ Qᴜɪᴄᴋᴇʀ? ɪᴛ ᴄᴀɴ ꜱᴇᴇᴍ ʟɪᴋᴇ 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 ᴡʜᴇɴ ʏᴏᴜ'ʀᴇ ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴛʜɪᴄᴋ ᴏꜰ ɪᴛ, ʀɪɢʜᴛ? ᴛʜᴇ ᴍᴘ3 ᴍᴀꜱᴛᴇʀᴄʟᴀꜱꜱ ꜱᴛᴀʀᴛꜱ ᴊᴀɴᴜᴀʀʏ 16 ᴀɴᴅ ᴡɪʟʟ ʜᴇʟᴘ ʏᴏᴜ ʙʀɪɴɢ 𝙈𝙊𝙍𝙀 𝙅𝙊𝙔, 𝙈𝙊𝙍𝙀 𝙈𝙀𝘼𝙉𝙄𝙉𝙂, 𝘼𝙉𝘿 𝙈𝙊𝙍𝙀 𝙃𝙊𝙋𝙀 ɪɴᴛᴏ ʏᴏᴜʀ ʟɪꜰᴇ. ʟᴇᴛ'ꜱ ꜱᴛᴀʀᴛ 2023 ᴏᴜᴛ ʀɪɢʜᴛ. 🌞
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What can you Not afford to take with you into 2023 and beyond?
Beautiful.
Why do we start a new year, with promises to improve?
Who began this tradition of never-ending pressure?
I say, the end of a year, should be filled with congratulation, for all we survived.
And I say a new year should start with promises to be kinder to ourselves, to understand better just how much we bear, as humans on this exhausting treadmill of life.
And if we are to promise more, let’s pledge to rest, before our bodies force us.
Let’s pledge to stop, and drink in life as it happens.
Let’s pledge to strip away a layer of perfection to reveal the flawed and wondrous humanity we truly are inside.
Why start another year, gifted to us on this earth, with demands on our already over-strained humanity.
When we could be learning to accept, that we were always supposed to be imperfect.
And that is where the beauty lives, actually.
And if we can only find that beauty, we would also find peace.
I wish you peace in 2023.
Everything else is all just a part of it.
Let it be so.
Donna Ashworth
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ART BY Demelsa Haughton Illustration
#2023
OK, I’ll start: Chaos
💥💥 𝙈𝙋3: 𝙈𝙞𝙙𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙋𝙖𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣, 𝙋𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚, 𝙋𝙤𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙗𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 💥💥 Taking these components a step further to empower you to create infinite possibility not just for 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 future but as your 𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘢𝘤𝘺 for generations to come.
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😄😄😄 The struggle is real!
Forget Santa, who here believes in the Midlife Rut?
Ms. Midlife wasn't always the happy-go-lucky woman you see here. Not long ago, she was stuck in the rut of midlife.
🎁 She felt like sacrificed her best years raising her family
🎁 She started feeling uninspired and underwhelmed
🎁 She was struggling to find joy and purpose
🎁 She didn't know how to put her needs first.
She found a gift that fit easily under her tree, the prototypical gift that keeps on giving. For years. For generations.
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We could all use a little more love!
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