The Mens Centre

We are looking for a new Executive Director - please share the word with any excellent candidates you may be aware of.

The Executive Director position at The Men's Centre offers an exciting opportunity for a passionate and driven leader to head a vital community organization. The role demands a unique blend of strategic leadership, fundraising acumen, and operational management skills. The successful candidate will be a compelling communicator and relationship builder, capable of engaging diverse stakeholders and securing the resources needed to ensure the organization's continued growth and impact. This position is ideal for someone with a deep commitment to men's well-being and a desire to make a tangible difference in the community.

We are goign to be reviewing the postings over the weekend, so make sure to apply by Saturday night.

Job Posting:
https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/Q1e

Beyond Blame is an eight-week program for men who are working towards changing abusive behavior and are committed to working towards healthy relationships.

This is offered by Nanaimo Family Life, and is a different take on items we cover in our workshop, Dealing with the Dragon.

Their next intake is November 7th - December 19th running Thursdays 6:00PM - 8:00PM

Beyond Blame - Nanaimo Family Life Association Beyond Blame is a life-changing group that supports men to move beyond abusive behaviours and to build healthy relationships. This is an 16 hour program for men who want to […]

Boots wanted!

Due to popular demans for our boots, in our Boots to Suits Program, we are running low on boots. Especially sizes 9 and 10. Any donations greatly appreciated.

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/l3U

The Gap in Life Expectancy Between Genders Is Getting Bigger. So, What’s Killing Men?

At every age between birth and 75, British boys and men have a greater chance of dying than women – and life expectancies are dropping faster, too. Why are we more at risk? And how can we all avoid an early checkout?

Something’s not right. In 2003, Adam Alderson, a 24-year-old tree surgeon based in the small North Yorkshire village of Preston-under-Scar, noticed a dull discomfort in his bowels. ‘It wasn’t really painful at first, but there was a problem there,’ he says. ‘It would come in bouts, so I’d be alright most of the time. Then it started happening more frequently,’ he says. After weeks of brushing it off as a mild inconvenience, Adam went to see his GP, who told him that he probably had irritable bowel syndrome (IBS). He was prescribed a fibre supplement and sent on his way. The discomfort persisted, but what could he do? One in three Brits experience IBS symptoms – hardly an extraordinary complaint – and Adam wasn’t one to make a fuss. He was fit, young and active. There werebigger things to worry about than an occasional bout of diarrhoea.

By the time he was diagnosed with an aggressive form of cancer called pseudomyxoma peritonei (PMP) 10 years later, Adam knew that he urgently needed help. ‘As men, we’re conditioned not to really talk about our health too much, especially if it’s something that’s worrying us,’ he says. ‘We tend to bury our heads in the sand and hope that our illnesses will just go away. We’ll search for every other thing possible for them to be, other than what they actually could be.’

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/dVT

This article stimulates discussion and not all opinions of the author are ours.

We are pleased to announce our inaugrial "Men Leaving Violence Safety Planning Toolkit"

Our current knowledge of Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) and domestic abuse in men is thin. We hope that this toolkit will serve both as a helpful resource for men navigating abusive relationships and also provides valuable information for service providers encountering men who experience these challenges.

This toolkit illustrates how the experiences of IPV in men can be both similar and different from those of women. It adds some clarity to what IPV and domestic abuse are and highlights how it may present in various populations of men. The guide offers a section on practical safety planning and concludes with helpful resources that individuals can connect with for additional support.

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/ZJb

We are looking for a new Executive Director - please share the word with any excellent candidates you may be aware of.

The Executive Director position at The Men's Centre offers an exciting opportunity for a passionate and driven leader to head a vital community organization. The role demands a unique blend of strategic leadership, fundraising acumen, and operational management skills. The successful candidate will be a compelling communicator and relationship builder, capable of engaging diverse stakeholders and securing the resources needed to ensure the organization's continued growth and impact. This position is ideal for someone with a deep commitment to men's well-being and a desire to make a tangible difference in the community.

Careers Learn about career opportunities at the Men's Centre

Boys vs Girls

There’s an emerging gender divide everywhere but in Japan. Why?

This post, postulates that Japan diverges from other countries in that there does not seem to be a growing difference in liberal vs. conservative attitudes by gender in Japan. Have you noticed a change in political ideology between women and men that you know?

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/fmD

Financial Times published an article about a new global gender divide emerging in advanced nations around the globe. Using data from surveys in South Korea, the US, Germany, and the UK, it argued that the political ideology of young (18-29) men and women was sharply diverging. Young women are increasingly identifying as liberal, while young men are increasingly identifying as conservative. The chart makes the gap clear:

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/2lc

This article stimulates discussion and not all opinions of the author are ours.

“To succeed as a man, I must both be stoic and disconnected, yet must also be open and available to my partner.”

Vancouver Therapist Carson Kivari breaks Men’s Issues down in by making these distinctions:

What Are Not Men’s Issues (But Are ‘Everybody’ Issues)
OK, Then These Are Men’s Issues (Mostly, But Not Always)

Check out his views on Men’s issues in THIS PAGE and see if you agree with how he lays it out. Does it fit how you see men? What are the pros and Cons of his arguments?

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/Mry

This article stimulates discussion and not all opinions of the author are ours.

ICSP 10th Anniversary Conference Video online now!

The world’s leading organization devoted to the study of shared parenting and the best interests of children after parental separation, the International Council on Shared Parenting (ICSP) celebrated its 10th anniversary after its foundation on 21-23 Febuary, 2014 in Bonn, Germany.

On the occasion of the 10th anniversary, the ICSP organized a Live-Online Half-Day Conference via Zoom on May 3, 2024, offering an overview of the history and scientific achievements of the ICSP, followed by live interviews with key founding members and a cross-country checkup on the development and state of shared parenting around the world.

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/F1y

We arguably live in a patriarchal and hierarchical society. As a result, some people think that men cannot be victims. After all a society which operates this way should be favourable to men. But this is often not the case.

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/mc1

What Do Men Want?

The evidence is in. American men are facing a crisis — in health, in education and in the labour force. But under all of that runs deeper trends — isconnection, loneliness and a lack of role models. Columnists Theodore Johnson and Shadi Hamid talk with Richard Reeves, founder of the American Institute for Boys and Men, about the duelling
visions of masculinity on the political stage and a hopeful way forward for the modern man.

This short Washington Post podcast looks at the issue from a unique perspective. I especially like the part about role models for boys.

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/yZ0

Thank you to our generous boot donors 🙏 for over 60 pairs of boots.

Read the Nanaimo Bulleting article for history.

Work boots needed after Nanaimo men's non-profit victimized by theft Non-profit, benefiting men, saw 100 pairs stolen, says administrator

Thank you to our generous boot donors 🙏 for over 60 pairs of boots.

Read the Nanaimo Bulleting article for history.
https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/Mpo

12 Lessons Men Learn Too Late In Life

As a man fast approaching 50, this article really hit me. I felt I had many of his wisdoms, and many are common sense. However, there are regrets that I have and lessons that I have learned too late in life.

Well worth the read!

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/LQx

Big thanks to the Provincial Employees Community Services Fund (PECSF)! 🙏

We're so grateful to have received a generous donation from PECSF today. This contribution, made possible by the dedication of BC Public Service employees, will help us continue our important work supporting men and making spaces for dialog.

We encourage BC Public Servants to keep supporting amazing organizations like ours through the PECSF. Your donations make a real difference! 💙

HOW WOULD YOU COPE?

Men deal with injury, loss and recovery in different ways. We would like to hear your stories as well as what you think of this man’s path.

"Under the Surface" is a documentary film that explores acceptance after injury, men’s mental health, and what it means to be vulnerable as a man in the outdoor endurance swimming world.

We go back to the time before Jim found swimming, where he broke his back in a work-related accident. We are taken through Jim’s experiences with addiction to pain medication, the loss of his long-term relationship, and through the reality of recovering from an injury.

Jim finds solace and rehabilitation in endurance swimming, learning to walk again through his swimming, and starting to build a new career as a swim coach in the process.

A Waymakers Collective film
Directed by Rachel Sarah

https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/R20

Exciting News for Dads in Nanaimo!

We're thrilled to share that local life coach Ted is launching "Day Camp for Dads" – a fantastic initiative focused on giving dads the time and space they need for personal growth, health, and some well-deserved fun!

At The Men's Center, we know that strong, healthy men are essential for thriving families and communities. That's why we're 100% behind Ted's efforts to create a dedicated space for dads to connect, recharge, and invest in themselves.

We encourage all dads to check out this incredible opportunity! Remember, taking care of yourself isn't selfish—it's essential.

When was the last time your Dad took a day off?



https://www.themenscentre.ca/r/ZQf

📢 Exciting News! The Men's Centre has just launched a brand-new website! 💥 Explore our updated look, discover valuable resources in our dedicated section, and easily book appointments online. We're making it easier than ever to connect you with the support you need.

Thanks to the Regional District of Nanaimo for the support with their grant to help support use to upgrades our computers and furniture so that our counselling and coaching sessions can be more welcoming for our clients.

Huge thanks to for their $1000 donation supporting our programs & Father's Day Event!

A huge thank you to for their generous $15,000 donation! 🙌

These funds will directly support men in our community through counseling, support groups, and our Boots to Suits program, providing work clothing and empowering them to achieve employment goals. We're so grateful for your partnership in making a real difference!

First West Foundation is proud to provide grants through the Island Savings Community Endowment.

Thank you to everyone who came out to attend Father's Day in the Park at Maffeo Sutton Park on Sunday!

Thank you in particular to Nanaimo Art Gallery Harris Mazda and Nanaimo Neighbourhood Welcome for having a booth and entertaining and informing the crowds!

Thank you to Quality Foodss and Thrifty Foods for donating the food.

Thank you to everyone who volunteered as well and from assistance from Volunteer Nanaimo in helping us get volunteers!

A BIG "Thank you" to The Rotary Club of Nanaimo for their donation of $3000! This donation will be used toward our Crisis Support and Boots To Suits Programs.

Club of Nanaimo

The Arka Brotherhood which we support is creating a 3rd group on Mondays, see details below.

We are supporting the launch of a 3rd Arka Brotherhood group in Nanaimo. Attend their open house or call for information.