Anti-Corona Counselling

She has two faces.
One face that she shows the world, loved ones, and in public.
The smiling one.
The happy, friendly, and talkative one.
The confident one full of laughter and positivity.
The face that everyone is used to.

The second face is the real face.
The one she tries not to show anyone.
The face behind closed doors, when she's alone away from the world, in the security of her own emotions that she doesn't want to show anyone else or have to explain them.
It's exhausting trying to look happy and like nothing is bothering you.
The face that stares off at nothing or patterns on the floor or drapes.

The face that cries in the shower, in bed, car rides alone, cries sitting on the couch, or doing things around for house.
The sad face that stares back at her in the mirror and looks nothing like she used to be.
Well to her anyway. Others say she looks the same. The face that looks strong to the people she knows, but is really just shards of broken glass inside.
Yes, the girl that was there for everyone, and strong for others..is now split into two.

Two faces, one broken spirit.
She can't bear the losses.
It feels like a chapter of a wonderful book closed never to be open again.

All she has are memories and visions in her head that she plays over and over.
Nothing is the same to her.
Everything is different. She can't cope with daily life, her Doctor said. So she writes to help herself, and she has her two faces.

What's funny is, the sad face is the face worth a thousand words underneath in the depths of complexity.
While the happy face full of laughter, love, positiveness, and fun..is a straight shooter."

✍️ Michele McKenna
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Affective relationships

What is love? Since a was a little girl I used to collect all kinds of quotes about love and I was dreaming to find a great love, the kind of Tristan and Isolda one, or Romeo and Juliet.

I always believe this: what our soul really want is to love and be loved unconditionally, fully and truly. And we chase this all our life because only then we feel in deed happy. “Love is everything “ can sound like an old cliseque but is actually the true meaning of life. Without love we are just slowly dying inside and remain with a whole nothing can fill it.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8 say: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” This is my absolute favorite verse, because love applies to absolutely everything in this world.

Emotional relationships

We people cannot live isolated, we cannot mature or evolve without the presence of others, we cannot live without emotional relationships.

Affectivity is the primordial ingredient of our soul life, witch model us like harmonious and mature personalities.

Becoming Within Being cannot be accomplished without others, every person has got their fundamental emotional needs. At the foundation of our existence is the desire of affection, the desire to be loved and to have profound dominant relationships.

The specialists in the socio humanistic and fillosophers demonstrate, long time ago, the fact that a lot of essential needs for human beings they only satisfied in context of interaction with others. Respect, friendship, love they only can be offered by another person. Our spectrum of interaction is very vast: we discuss, we work together, we cooperate, compete, fight even.

People enter into relations with one another. Being in a relation with another being, it always got an affective connotation also (positive or negative), so we can talk about affective relationships.

The concept of “emotional relationship “ is lees studied in by specialists and that ‘s why I will try to define them by extrapolations of interpersonal relationship, those being in essence “ emotional informal relationships” (N. Mitrofan, 1984, p.59)

Pantelimon Golu defines interpersonal relationship being a “ psychic union, conscious, direct, based on a inverse complex union” (P. Golu, 1974, p.127) and this union is

between a minimum of two people.

N. Mitrofan, talking about interpersonal relationship is saying that its represents the most stabille and deep component of interpersonal interaction in a shape of a “strong saturate emotional binder”, which are maintain on along period of time. (1984, p.29). Mitrofan talks about emotional relationships but only in rapport with the feeling of love, considered the piece of resistance, the most deep component of an emotional relationship.

It doesn’t exist any social relationship or influential communication without being passes through the emotional filter. This filter will influence all the others levels of interaction : cognitive, attitudinal, actional.

Emotionality is a circular process, it’s a transaction between our self and the self of others.

Any influence, to become internal or stabil personality trait, need to be perceive and filter by affectivity. Relationship with another are like an ambivalent fabric, toggling between identification and opposition.

Without emotionality is impossible to understand the complexity of social raports, the multiple and contradictory cultural scenarios we found ourselves in.

Emotional relationships are like an assembly, a complex of conditions which establishes norms, values, behavioral standards.

We learn through interaction with others, the collective emotions institute the foundation of sociability.

Our self- consciousness and the self-awareness of others is building up thoughout the identification with others, on the internal dubllication game, the ambivalence of attitudes and feelings.

Knowing of emotionality

I just sit and watch...

We do not meet by chance...

Nu ne întâlnim întâmplător. Întâlnim doar acele persoane pe care deja le cunoaştem în subconştientul nostru.

Freud
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Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and being alone won't either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love!
You have to feel!
It is the reason you are here on earth. You have to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes too near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself that you tasted as many as you could. ~Louise Erdrich

(Book: The Painted Drum https://amzn.to/48ebMxW)

Thought of the day!

We can always start again 💕