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Good morning to you early risers! Get up, look sharp, show up and mind your business. May the Creator be with you
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A good and edifying relationship is one where you love that person enough to be honest; honest about who you are, honest about what you plan to do and be, and honest about how you feel about him/her and what he/she does and says. Love includes the important ingredient in relationships, which is open and honest communication that is so vital to a healthy marital relationship one day. Literally, say it with love and mean it and edify each other.

It is important that one develops in this area of honest and godly communication (Eph 4:29). We tend to be shallow in our relationships i.e. comfortable talking about hobbies and the weather, but rarely talking about our struggles, dreams, feelings, spiritual and moral values and beliefs, vulnerabilities and insecurities. This is unhelpful. Remember to deepen relationships by purposeful and edifying interactions.

If one is preparing for marriage and not able to communicate with your partner with transparency and vulnerability, then you need to be careful! Communication is a crucial foundation to every marriage. Open and God honouring communication (Jas 1:19) is necessary in order to understand what is truly motivating each other when you have differing points of view (Col 4:2).

There are two key relationships you should establish with the one you are seriously dating with a view to marry; that of a spiritual mentor and an accountability partner to each other. A mentor is someone who guides, leads and shares with you along life’s way with Christian principles. He should be someone you respect and who holds similar views and religious convictions as you in vital areas of your life. An accountability partner is a trustworthy friend you are responsible to and will be answerable to all the time. The closer you get to Christ, the closer you get to each other. Consider this prayerfully. Have a godly companion who will one day influence your children when you are married. (Mal 2;14, Psa 17:1)

These relationships will not only help to prepare you for marriage one day but they will also serve you to keep your marriage well established and growing healthily. God is a witness of your marriage and relationship with your spouse-to-be (Mal 2:14).

In the context of courtship, there are two things that we should note; the heart condition and a clear conscience (Acts 24:16). Keeping his/her best interests at heart would affect areas such as saving your emotional purity for him/her, developing your character and preparing resources for a stable marriage. Having a good and clear conscience before God and man is important for your future as husband and wife.

Unless you are already married, you should treat every friend as though they will be someone else's spouse one day. Treat that person as a brother or sister-in-Christ, not defrauding their emotions or their purity but investing in them without motive for selfish gain. Do wait upon the Lord for His blessings and it will be worth it all (Isa 40:31)....
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Class dismissed 🥂

No matter the matter you will always matter where it matters.
Don't force

If you're a man who works very hard for your money, please marry a hardworking woman who knows the value of it
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There are people out their happier with less than what you have.
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SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦

South Africa is a beautiful place with natural resources 😉, good roads😊 I hope to be there soon 🔜 😍

CLASS TEST
Why do beautiful houses have Big Doors
Understand the question before answering
5 marks

I heard my mom asking our neighbour for some salt. I asked her why she was asking them as we already had salt at home. She replied, “Paul, it's because they are always asking us for things; they don't have this little-much that we have. So, I thought I would ask something small from them so as not to burden them, but at the same time make them feel that we need them too so as to co-exist. That way it will be much easier for them to ask us for anything they need from us. That's Ubuntu.”
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Class dismissed 🥂

If u over use different chargers, u'll damage ur charging port. Just use one charger unless someone else steals it; I Y K Y K
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How you make others feel about themselves, says a lot about you.
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“Your husband will always be your biggest and oldest child that requires the most adult supervision”
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Gentlemen, if you want to change the world, do it when you are not married. After marriage, you can't even change a TV channel
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Someone's future wife is already doing wifely duties for her fake husband in the middle of the day somewhere in the world
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After a break up; men come back because they genuinely miss the woman. Women only come back because they fail to replace the man

So, a man has to be financially stable to date a broke lady
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Ask any lady the kind of man she wants; sit and listen how she explains the characteristics of a non-living thing
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A lady commented on my post, a guy replied, she replied again and they were about to fall in love. So I deleted the post
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Actually, there is no love and romance without finances.
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Choosing a good mother for your kids is more important than choosing a beautiful wife for yourself.
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When a husband has more money, the wife becomes a Queen. When a wife has more money, the husband becomes a what?
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2 rules for gentlemen: Rule number 1 always respect women. Rule number 2 when they disrespect you then forget rule number one
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The person you took for granted today may turn out to be the person you'l need tomorrow. Be careful of the way you treat people!

One day, u'll realize that the same person is not found twice in life. Not everyone is replaceable. So, be careful with who u hurt

Keep struggle.. better days are coming ❤️

Bad relationships have ruined many of us. Now we don't even know when someone is serious with us.
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LADIES' CLASS TEST
Without blaming men, why can't you keep a man?
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Let us stop lying to each other. A relationship without money is not easy to maintain
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That woman you don't appreciate is another man's dream. While you see her as an ïdïôt, another man sees her as a queen
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Marriage has never stopped a person from sleeping around. It’s self discipline and self control that stop us.
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One of the reasons relationships or marriages fail is because they're in a bo***ge of extra marital affairs
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