Surviving and Overcoming Butterflies Facility

On today God blessed us with a strong and beautiful mother, grandmother, great grandmother. So today mom we celebrate you not just on today but everyday. Thank you for all you do. Help me wish my mom a Happy 66th birthday! May God bless you with many many many more!
Love you
Your beautiful Daughter 😘

Help me wish my dad a Happy 71st birthday! Happy birthday to the BEST FATHER A child can have! May God bless you with many many many more! Love you daddy😘 🎉🎂🎂🎊

Happy Father’s Day To my Husband! We love and Appreciate you 💜😘

Happy 5 Year Anniversary!!! As I reflect on the day we said I DO… We stood before God and vowed to Love each other For Better or Worse… Thick and Thin… Richer or Poorer… In Sickness and in Health… And we have done just that. Thank you for being an Amazing Husband, protector, my confidant, my peace, my bestfriend 5 years done and a LIFETIME TO GO 💪🏽💜‼️.

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Let’s continue to support and empower one another 💜💜💜

The future is female and we aren’t stopping for anything or anyone!!!

Your story isn’t just for you! It’s created to inspire others. Don’t be afraid to share💜💜💜

We are not survivors, we are thrivers who have managed to SOAR above the situations that tried to hold us down.

God thank You for allowing me to see 47 🥹💜🙏🏾

We’re rooting for you!!!

You’re an overcomer! Your past does not define you and your current situation can’t hold you!
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Don’t be afraid to get up and begin again🦋🦋🦋

Did you know that your support of a local shelter could save a life? Shelters help those who find themselves in DV situations by providing resources and information.
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You can support by donating time, money, or items to go in care packages. Find a local shelter and donate today.

October is Domestic Violence Month, and at Overcoming Butterflies we want both victims and survivors to know that we are here for YOU!
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You are not alone💜💜💜

1. Educate yourself: Understand what psychological abuse entails and its various forms. Learn to recognize the signs and understand the harmful effects it can have on individuals.

2. Establish healthy boundaries: Set clear boundaries with others and communicate them effectively. This includes stating what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior towards you.

3. Surround yourself with supportive people: Cultivate a strong support network of family, friends, or mental health professionals who can help you identify and address any potential psychological abuse.

4. Practice assertiveness: Develop and maintain assertive communication skills. This allows you to express your thoughts, feelings, and needs in a respectful manner, making it harder for others to manipulate or abuse you psychologically.

5. Trust your instincts: If something feels off or makes you uncomfortable in a relationship or situation, trust your gut instincts. Your intuition can often alert you to potential psychological abuse.

6. Seek professional help: If you are experiencing or have experienced psychological abuse, consider reaching out to a therapist or counselor who can provide guidance and support.

7. Be aware of your own behavior: Make sure you are not engaging in manipulative or abusive behaviors yourself. Treat others with respect and kindness.

8. Promote healthy relationships: Encourage open and respectful communication in your relationships. Promote empathy, understanding, and emotional support.

9. Raise awareness: Spread awareness about psychological abuse and its effects. Support organizations and initiatives that work towards preventing and addressing abuse.

10. Report abuse: If you witness or suspect that someone is being psychologically abused, take action by reporting it to the appropriate authorities or seeking help from professionals who can intervene.

1. Low self-esteem: Psychological abuse often involves constant criticism, belittlement, and humiliation, which can lead to feelings of worthlessness and diminish one's self-worth.

2. Anxiety and depression: Continuous psychological abuse can lead to the development of anxiety disorders, such as generalized anxiety disorder or social anxiety disorder, as well as depression. The constant fear, stress, and negative emotions can take a toll on a person's mental health.

3. Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD): In severe cases of psychological abuse, victims may develop symptoms of PTSD, such as flashbacks, nightmares, and hyperarousal.

4. Social withdrawal and isolation: Victims of psychological abuse often feel ashamed, embarrassed, or afraid to seek help or support, leading to a tendency to isolate themselves from friends, family, and social activities.

5. Development of unhealthy coping mechanisms: Some victims of psychological abuse may develop maladaptive coping mechanisms, such as substance abuse, self-harm, or disordered eating, as a way to numb emotions or regain control over their lives.

6. Emotional instability: The constant gaslighting, manipulation, and unpredictable behavior from the abuser can lead to emotional instability and difficulty managing one's emotions.

7. Physical health problems: Prolonged psychological abuse can also impact physical health. The chronic stress experienced from abuse can weaken the immune system, increase the risk of cardiovascular problems, and contribute to other stress-related conditions like chronic pain or digestive disorders.

8. Self-blame and guilt: Victims of psychological abuse often internalize the negative messages and blame themselves for the abuse. This self-blame and guilt can further damage their self-esteem and make it difficult for them to break free from the abusive relationship.

1. Constant and : The abuser consistently puts down the victim, undermines their self-esteem, and ridicules their thoughts, feelings, and abilities.

2. behavior: The abuser tries to control every aspect of the victim's life, monitoring their activities, friendships, and even their appearance. They may limit their access to money, transportation, or technology.

3. : The abuser %manipulates the victim into questioning their own reality, they may deny or downplay abusive behavior and make the victim believe they are overreacting or imagining things.

4. : The abuser isolates the victim from , , or other support systems.

5. and : The abuser uses threats, intimidation, or to gain control. They may threaten physical harm to the victim, their loved ones, or their pets, or make intimidating gestures or expressions.

6. Unpredictable : The abuser's behavior can fluctuate dramatically, from intense anger and aggression to extreme kindness and affection.

7. Withholding and support: The abuser withholds love, affection, and emotional support as a means to control the victim. This can lead to the victim feeling unlove & unwanted

8. and : The abuser frequently demeans and humiliates the victim, often in public or in front of others.

9. -tripping: The abuser manipulates the victim into feeling guilty or responsible for the abusive behavior. They may blame the victim for their anger, outbursts, or for provoking the abuse, making the victim believe they are at fault.

10. Threats of ***de or self-harm: The abuser may threaten or manipulate the victim by self-harming or threatening su***de if the victim leaves or seeks help, instilling guilt and fear in the victim.

Psychological abuse refers to patterns of behavior and tactics that are designed to manipulate, control, demean, or intimidate another person emotionally and mentally. It typically involves consistent and deliberate actions that undermine an individual's sense of self-worth, independence, and autonomy.

Psychological abuse can take various forms, including:

1. Verbal abuse: Using harsh language, insults, threats, or constant criticism to demean or belittle the person.
2. Emotional manipulation: Manipulating someone's emotions or exploiting their vulnerabilities to control their thoughts, beliefs, or actions.
3. Gaslighting: Distorting another person's perception of reality, making them doubt their own memory, perception, or sanity.
4. Isolation: Controlling or limiting someone's social interactions, cutting them off from friends, family, or support networks.
5. Intimidation: Using fear, threats, or intimidation tactics to control and dominate the person.
6. Humiliation: Ridiculing or humiliating someone in public or private, eroding their sense of self-esteem and self-confidence.
7. Withholding affection or love: Using the threat or withdrawal of love, support, or affection as a means of control.
8. Stonewalling: Ignoring, avoiding, or refusing to engage in meaningful communication, leading to feelings of frustration and isolation for the person on the receiving end.

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Please if you know someone who’s suffering any kind of abuse. REPORT IT.

Take legal actions! SAVE THEM 💜

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⚠️ W A R N I N G S I G N S ⚠️

1. Unexplained injuries or bruises
2. Sudden changes in behavior or personality
3. Withdrawal from social activities or cessation of contact with friends and family
4. Unusual financial transactions or changes in financial situations
5. Neglected physical appearance or lack of hygiene
6. Increased or unexplained fear or anxiety
7. Caregiver's refusal to allow the elderly person to speak for themselves
8. Malnutrition or dehydration
9. Unsanitary living conditions or lack of necessary medical supplies
10. Isolation or confinement against their will

It is important to note that these signs may not always indicate elder abuse, but they should be taken seriously and further investigation may be necessary.

Elder abuse includes physical, emotional, or s*xual harm inflicted upon an older adult, their financial exploitation, or neglect of their welfare by people who are directly responsible for their care.

Physical elder abuse
- The non-accidental use of force against an elderly person that results in physical pain, injury, or impairment. Such abuse includes not only physical assaults such as hitting or shoving but the inappropriate use of drugs, restraints, or confinement.

Emotional elder abuse
- The treatment of an older adult in ways that cause emotional or psychological pain or distress.

Sexual elder abuse
- Contact with an elderly person without their consent. Such contact can involve physical s*x acts, but activities such as showing an elderly person pornographic material, forcing the person to watch s*x acts, or forcing the elder to undress are also considered s*xual elder abuse.

Financial exploitation
- The unauthorized use of an elderly person's funds or property, either by a caregiver or an outside scam artist.

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There are several laws and policies in place in many countries to protect victims and hold abusers accountable. Some of these include:

📌 Domestic Violence Laws: These laws define domestic violence and provide legal remedies for victims. They may include provisions for obtaining restraining orders, emergency protection orders, and mandatory arrest of offenders.
📌 Sexual Assault Laws: Sexual assault laws criminalize non-consensual s*xual acts and provide victims with legal recourse. They may include provisions for r**e shield laws, statutes of limitations, and mandatory reporting of s*xual assault.
📌 Child Abuse Laws: These laws protect children from abuse and neglect. They provide for mandatory reporting, investigations, and the removal of children from abusive households. Child abuse laws also outline criminal penalties for offenders.
📌 Stalking Laws: Stalking laws make it illegal to harass, intimidate, or threaten someone repeatedly. They provide protection for victims and may include provisions for restraining orders, mandated counseling for offenders, and criminal charges.

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‼️Stop leaving your kids with them.

‼️Stop leaving your children with your boyfriends you barely know.

‼️Stop letting your family members you don't entirely trust watch them because it's free.

‼️If you have a gut feeling about someone that doesn't sit right with you when it comes to your child, cut all ties with this person.

‼️If your little one comes to you and says I don't want to stay with a particular person .... do me a favor and listen to them.
- Cody Bret

‼️And ALWAYS believe them!! I myself would rather believe them and be wrong, then call them a liar and be wrong
- Tawny M

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Know your worth love,
Never let anyone get comfortable disrespecting you.

Sending virtual hugs.
Remember, it's okay not to be okay, it's okay to take some rest but please reach out. We are here for you, you're not alone.

Stay strong...

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1. Providing support and assistance to victims of domestic violence: This may include offering shelter, counseling, legal advice, and other resources to help victims escape abusive situations and recover from the trauma they have experienced.

2. Raising awareness about domestic violence: The organization may aim to educate the public about the signs of domestic violence, its impact on individuals and families, and strategies for prevention and intervention.

3. Advocating for policy and legal changes: Domestic violence organizations often work to promote laws and policies that protect victims and hold abusers accountable. They may engage in lobbying efforts, coalitions, and public campaigns to create and enforce effective legislation.