ChatwithCharli

Cheers to more living in 2022 🥂🎉🤩

Happy 2022 🥳🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

We made it y’all. Regardless of how you feel you persevered through 2021, and you’re here. A New Year!! I’m proud of you and I’m proud of me.

From 2017 to 2021 I had the same 3 goals for each New Year

1. Focus on my physical health
2. Focus on my professional growth
3. Work on communicating better

Do you know that it took me all those 4 years to reach those 4 goals?? It really did. Each time New Years would roll around, I would always end up back at those same 3 goals. Progress and growth take time. It’s not a one day process.

In 2021 I would say was the height of me accomplishing those goals. I went harder than I’ve ever gone with working out, I spoke my heart consistently with truth and conviction, and I reached a professional peak like never before. I did things on my terms, and I was my own boss. I went super hard, and I don’t regret it. I’m proud of myself.

Now that I have worked for 4 WHOLE years on those 3 goals, I have sensed that it’s time for a NEW set of 3 goals for 2022.

One of them is “making peace with the past”.

Y’all, so much has happened in the past 4 years and much of it was out of my control. So, I’m determined this year to BEGIN the process of making peace with the past. Things that were done to me, things that I said, ways that I reacted, what I think should have happened differently. It really doesn’t matter that much when I think back. What’s done is done!

I’m looking forward ➡️

Consider taking some time today to reflect on what I’m saying and ask yourself

“What baggage am I dragging into 2022, that needs to stay in 2021?”

But, remember it’s a process. Recognizing the mess is just step 1.

I’m going to find a book on it, and my goal is to read that book by Q1.

This goal may take 4 years to conquer, but I’m here for it. I’d rather it take 4 years than the rest of my whole damn life.

We have so much more life to live y’all, so let’s not allow the past to rob us of a great future. Let’s take responsibility for our lives!!

Love y’all so much. Be well good people.

“Never a fantasy, Never a gimmick, always REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

It’s these types of messages that are such a blessing to me…I know I haven’t posted in a while, and that’s not due to not having content that I want to share, I think I just need to get back into the vibe y’all.

I will probably go live soon, and just share a lot of what’s been on my heart and mind.

Thank y’all for continuing to be supportive and showing love. I’ve built some great relationships on this app, and I value each of you.

What are y’all plans for the up and coming holidays?

We’ll be laying low and spending time with family. As I mature, and I see people pass away and the toll that death takes on a family, I realize how precious life is.

This year has taught me a lot about dealing with difficult situations, and one of my main goals for 2022, is MAKING PEACE WITH THE PAST.

I was just telling my husband last night that I don’t want to live in the past or the future, I want to live in the NOW!

As always…

“Never a fantasy, Never a gimmick, always REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

It’s still on just at a new location

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****Y’ALL READY????**** 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

Make sure you share 👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾

If you live in Orlando, or anywhere near it, you’re gonna wanna be at this event next Saturday 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Afrobeat explosion 🎵🎵🎵🎵🎵
Bangin food vendors 🌽 🍗 🥘
Black Owned Vendors 💰
Games (co****le to be exact) 👾🏀🏐
Fun area for the kids 👶🏾
Giveaways 🛍

It’s been organized by some of Orlando’s best, and it’s going to be one for the books!!!

Come out and bring a family member, friend, co-workers, and be ready to have some real fun with authentic people!!

See y’all in Eatonville next Sat, Oct 23rd ‼️‼️

*****DONT FORGET TO SHARE IT*****



X, c 💋

Happy Saturday loved ones ❤️❤️❤️

Whatchu thought??? I was gone? Naw baby, I’m still here. Just a little more active in my stories these days, because…well…wife, mom, entrepreneur, all the things 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

How y’all been though, I really wanna know. I talk to a lot of you regularly in DM, but for y’all quiet ones…..what y’all been up to.??

Me, we’ll… 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

I’ve been doing a lot of soul searching and I’ve learned a lot about myself. 🥳🥳🥳🥳

Lessons I’ve been learning 🖊🖊🖊

💎 Break some 🤬ing rules!!! Like now! If you’re like me you be in your head too much! Break a rule a day to keep the negative thoughts at bay!!! Y’all I care so much less about…a LOT 😂😂😂😂 I think the old lady phase of not caring has hit ya girl early. Stop caring, stop wondering, stop thinking 🤔😜😜😜 Just stop! It’s not worth your time to be living in your head with other people expectations and your own self limitations. Break those invisible rules and set yourself free baby 💯

💎 Your personal growth should not offend the people who “love you” periodt!!! You growing, changing, thriving, trying, etc should not make no body mad at you! And if they are, that is THEIR problem, not yours 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 People who got lives, don’t sit around getting offended by people who are trying to make progress. They figure out how they can partner with that person. So, stop wasting time on these lames, and move on ✌🏾🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

💎 You are going to be the only one disappointed later because you chose to wait around for someone to save you! Ain’t no body coming baby. Your momma, daddy, brother, sister, or friend is not ultimately going to save you! They can HELP but YOU need to show up for yourself. Don’t complain, getcho 🍑 up, and start doing something. Don’t get mad at no body! Pray, be grateful, talk to wise people….and….Get ⬆️ and move 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

I love y’all so much…posting on IG has always been about saving you time and stress so you can learn from my mistakes.

Y’all keep pressing, we are in it together

“Never a fantasy, Never a gimmick, always REAL LIFE!”

X, c💋

Hey y’all hey 👋🏾

What y’all been up to?? 👀👀👀

As for me and mines we been rippin and running. Summer is over for the kids and their back at school 📕📕📕📕📕📕

And hubby and I have had our heads down grinding trying to work on business and building a legacy.

Here’s some relationship gems that I’m learning:

*our childhood will always come up in our marriages and relationships. We can’t hid or get rid of our past! We even sometimes make our spouses pay for the wrong that our parents did! Get in touch with you, so that you’re healing rather than just recycling the same mess over and over again!

*you either take people as they are or you need to move on. No point in trying to convince someone to change SO that you’re ideal relationship can exist. If they aren’t who you want them to be…cut them loose so they can be with someone who appreciates them as they are. If you’re married, then you need to have those hard conversations and figure out how you two can grow in respect for one another and co-exist together.

What are y’all learning in your relationships?

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

I used to hate regrets! 😭😭😭😭

Trying to make calculated decisions that had very little risk and a high reward. I used to get so caught up in every little detail. Am I making the right choice? What will happen if I make a bad decision? Etc

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Now, I have grace with myself. I understand that I’m human and every mistake teaches me an important lesson about life, and an important lesson about myself.

Resist the urge to look back and say “what if?” It’s a waste of time.
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Live in the present! Use those lessons to keep going. Give bae and the other people you love the same grace.
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We’re all learning 📕

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

Let me take a moment to address something that I’m noticing….

A lot of people are getting divorced.

I personally know 9 people who are starting, in the process of, or just completed a divorce. 😢😢😢😢

9!!! To me that is a lot because I personally know all of them, and many of them are very close to me so I know of the pain and in some cases joy that this process brings.

As someone who discusses marriage a lot…you may wonder…what are my thoughts???

Well, I have a lot to say…so stay tuned. Cause I’ll be chatting about a whole lot!!!

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

Fellas, how y’all feeling? Ladies, y’all alright? 👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾

Well, I have to say this week….I wasn’t alright. Life got super real for Charli. It was one thing after another! Life just would not let me be great. 😩😩😩

I had to rush to ATL to handle a situation, and after several missed flights, Uber rides, last minute changes, misunderstandings, and frustrations…I’m sitting here like. “This can’t be life”. 🤢

But, that’s just it…this is life. So, let me share some things I learned this week

📍Lesson 1

It always seems crazy, until it happens. If “prepare for the worst was a person”!!!! When it comes to relationships things can change in an instant. Hold your plans loosely because you never know what’s around the corner. Life comes at your fast. When you are emotionally strong your better able to deal with the unexpected

📍Lesson 2

Consider the people that you are around and ask yourself “if there was an emergency would I trust them with my life”? That will tell you everything you need to know about how you really feel about them. Regardless of what we say, deep down inside we know if someone is trustworthy or not. Surround yourself with authentic people, because when 💩 gets real you don’t wanna have to second guess someone’s motives

📍Lesson 3

Do what you can until you get more information and resources. We don’t always know what to do. But, you can use what you have in the moment to make something happen. At the end of the day, the journey won’t be perfect. But, if you do your best you can walk away proud 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

📍Lesson 4

Check on your people!!! People be struggling sometimes and they just don’t know how to ask for help. Check on people, tell them you care, and if you can…offer to help. You will be surprised at what you find out when you sit, listen, and ask questions. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

“Never a fantasy, Never a gimmick, always REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

Find you a doer 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Somebody who (for the most part) do what they know is right. Trust me, it’s rare 🤦🏾‍♀️ 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

It’s so much 🧢 on the internet and in these streets. At what point do we stop talking and start living what we claim to believe? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

Most people know the road to success, how to lead a successful relationship, and what they COULD do to solve an argument. But, do we do it ??????

Unto thyself be true. Are you practicing what you preach 👀👀👀👀👀👀

Click my bio to learn more ✔️✔️✔️

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

Join us tonight on clubhouse
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We’ll be discussing vulnerability and transparency in relationships. It’s Black Mental Health Awareness month and we wanted to shed light on the impact that our mental well-being has on our relationships.

I’m so happy to be having this discussion because it’s so needed.
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Be sure to check us out tonight at 7pm EST on clubhouse 🎤🎤🎤

We’ll be opening up and dropping all kinds of gems. 💎💎💎💎💎

Shot out and special thanks to for having me.

See y’all tonight 😍

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

Hey y’all Hey👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾

Sometimes when I’m interacting with y’all I don’t have enough time to express everything I want to say, or walk you through everything that I think you need in order to have a healthy relationship. So earlier this year I challenged myself to pour my heart out into a course.

I wanted to create something that was authentic, and real, and relatable. So….

If you are

* struggling with trust issues in your relationship
* trying to build up your confidence so that you can have better relationships
* Or, just really needing some guidance because you keep running into the same issues in your relationships

I created a course for that called “Master Your Messy”

I teach for 2+ hours on the process I went through to recognize my trust issues and to overcome low self confidence in order to thrive in my marriage.

You know what to do 👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾

Link in bio

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

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When we talk about self love and personal growth often times we focus on people in toxic relationships. Honestly, even people who are in healthy relationships and marriages should practice self care and work on personal growth!

Don’t live your life always reacting to what is going on around you. If you’re in a healthy relationship, don’t get lazy because “everything is good”. Challenge yourself to grow 🌱🌱🌱🌱

*journal and process your feelings
*find a counselor that you feel comfortable with
*build relationships with mature people, and create as much distance as you can with toxic individuals

The healthier you are the healthier your relationships will be 👀👀👀👀

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

Ladies how y’all feelin? Fells y’all alright? 👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾

Life is crazy! Summer is here and our family is all over the place.

I got my hands in like 10 million projects, the kids are busy tryna stay busy, and hubby is busy a man on a mission trying to make his every breath on this earth count.

But, even with all the competing demands on our time and attention we are fighting to stay present. Last week I talked about being “grounded”. Being present is important too!

What is one thing that you want to slow down and enjoy in life right now?

For me, it’s my littles. I want to slow down this week and just listen to what they say and enjoy life with them. Because every time I turn around they get like 3 inches taller.

Comment below and let me know what you need to slow down and enjoy about your life.

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

Boys, especially melanated princes need dope dads, authentic dads, and confident dads. ✔️✔️✔️✔️

You, my love are all of those and much more! Our boys have been graced to have witnessed a real man. I know that with you as an example their future success is secured. 👌🏾💯

With my deepest love and appreciate. Happy Pappy Day!!! 🖤🖤🖤🖤

The definition of grounded is “well balanced and sensible “.

In relationships it’s important that YOU stay grounded! Having control of your emotions, thinking before you speak, and listening carefully to what bae is saying are ways that you can be grounded in your relationship.

I think back to some grey days in my marriage when I was so taken over by emotions that I did not know what to do. I was in my feelings and offended. Those times will come! It’s happens to men and women, marriage does not discriminate.

However, after resorting to immaturity (silent treatment, holding back my feelings, etc). I realized that I was going no where, and I was lost in a cloud of darkness. God helped me to see that it’s up to me to prioritize my emotional well being and break out of that shell.

I began to realize that I have control over my happiness and it’s up to me to communicate clearly what I want and need in my relationship. It’s up to me to choose to either live in the moment or live in the past, it’s up to me to either be mature or act like a child.

I chose health, peace, maturity, and to be GROUNDED.

I got my head out of the clouds of my emotions and I started to prioritize my well being. And today, here I am healthier, smarter, and stronger than I’ve ever been.

I have taken responsibility for ME, and my marriage is blessed as a result.

Click the link above in my bio to get more resources that will help you do the same.

“Never a fantasy, Never a gimmick, always REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

Happy Friday Family 🎊🎊🎊

We made it. Let’s start the weekend off with some good communication with bae.

Remember that you are responsible for every word that you say. Chose wisely, be mature, abs grow 🌱🌱

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE !”

X, c 💋

If you are in Orlando stop by and see me at

534 W. Church st

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Stop by and check us out, and grab you an authentic piece of jewelry

and win 💪🏾

Love,

Charli 💋

Unto thyself be true!! 💯 💯💯💯

Be careful of the decisions you make when you’re vulnerable. Take your time making decisions about love and life.

When you’re super emotional or coming out of a traumatic situation take time to reset. 🌱🌱🌱🌱🌱🌱🌱

If not, you can end up making a decision that you’ll have to pay for long term. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Click the link in my bio to learn how I can help you master your messy, so your past doesn’t ruin your future relationships
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“ No fantasies, No Gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

It’s a different vibe, it’s a different rhythm. It’s not for everybody.

Like Nip said “Circle got smaller, everybody can't go”

In life and relationships you have to start by understanding your value. This will position you to respect other people, have proper boundaries, and have healthier relationships.

Check out my bio link to learn more.

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

Did ya’ll know one of the definitions of mature is “fully grown”...so...if someone isn’t mature then...essentially their a child!
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So, some of us have been around here acting like children in relationships and we’ve also been in relationships with children! 😃😃😃👶🏾👶🏾👶🏾

If you:

*keep having the same problems in your romantic relationships because you struggle to trust men/women

*you can’t find the words to say to communicate and get on the same page with bae

*your confidence is low, and you don’t see your purpose or value in relationships

Click the link in my bio to access some free resources and also my new course I dropped “Master Your Messy” to get all up in my business and learn how I overcame living in my past, and worked through my trust issues to have a healthy relationship. You are not alone, allow me to help you 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X,c 💋

Happy Monday! ☀️☀️☀️☀️

This has crossed my mind a few times lately. I want our sons to be able to look at their mother as an example of the type of wife they would want to marry. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

If you are married, do you think you are giving your children a good example of what it means to be a husband or wife?

If you want to be married, are you doing things that will make you an example of a great husband or wife one day? ✅✅✅

At some point we must look at ourselves and decide are we really the person that we think we are??? If not, you need to take a step to change that. The goal is not perfection. The goal is to start moving in the right direction so that one day you can be proud of how far you’ve come.
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Hit me up, info is above in my bio to see how I can help 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

“Never a fantasy, Never a gimmick, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

I’m happy! Tomorrow is the day!!! ☀️

I will be dropping my first E-COURSE “Master your Messy”‼️‼️‼️‼️

It’s the realist most authentic marriage/relationship course you’ll ever take!! 💯

I’ve been working for months to put this together for y’all to be able to have a resource that will help you conquer trust issues and low self confidence so you can truly win in your relationship!! 🖤🖤🖤

I’ll be posting a video soon with a little more details. 💻💻💻💻💻

Can’t wait for y’all to take this course and start “mastering your messy” 🤗🤗🤗🤗

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

See, once you get through the “messy” and you learn how to be mature, and you ACTUALLY start being mature, you can build something special and beautiful with your partner. 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

That is when we begin setting up the real foundation for a rich legacy of black excellence. 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

What happens when you put a man, and a woman together, and they are both mature, focused, and about their business ❓❓❓❓

They take their rightful place as King and Queen, and begin to do exactly what God placed us on this planet to do...and that is build, produce, help people, and grow!

Click the link in my bio to tap into all the resources that I’ve created to help you do that!! 💻💻💻💻💻💻💻💻

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

***SHARE THIS WITH SOMEONE***
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I post this about once a month now, because I really do care about y’all and I am an advocate for counseling!

Please look into it, and do whatever you can to sit down with someone and start processing your issues, so you can see a brighter day! ☀️☀️☀️☀️

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

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I’d love to know what area of relationships/marriage are the most challenging. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

I would say expectations, and navigating a relationship with children have been the most challenging for my marriage. 👶🏾👶🏾👶🏾👶🏾👶🏾👶🏾👶🏾👶🏾

I know for a fact that I went into marriage with a lot of expectations that I got from TV shows and movies, and unhealthy relationships that I saw growing up. 🙉🙉🙉🙉🙉🙉🙉🙉

So it has been a process to try and unlearn all of those “fantasies” and begin learning my relationship with my husband for what it is. 💯💯💯💯💯💯

But, let me know your thoughts below, and it to others, because I’m curious to see what others have to say. Thanks family!

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

Did you see my last post?? 👀👀

After posting it, I started thinking to myself 🤔 🤔🤔

If I’m not growing, what am I doing?

Ultimately if a change is going to happen, we are the ones that have to do it. We are the ones that are going to stop this immature, foolish behavior that leads to broken people, broken families, broken homes, and broken communities.

We are responsible for us! So, consider your life, consider your actions, take responsibility and start the process of change! 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

*Find a counselor and book a session ☎️ ‼️

*Call a friend who you know is mature and get their perspective on some things. Learn from them, abs grow!! 🌱🌱🌱🌱

*Click the link in my bio and take advantage of the resources I’ve created to help you in your journey of personal growth and building healthy relationships ✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️

“Never a fantasy, Never a gimmick, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 💋

That’s really all i need to say. It’s in the image above. 👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾

If you need help getting to that point of even extending the trust, then you need my course “Master Your Messy” to get all up in my business and learn how I overcame living in my past, and worked through my trust issues. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

Dropping in a few days. I can’t wait 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 😘

Can I be real? 💯💯💯💯

What Bey and Jay have accomplished is very attractive. I don’t know them personally, but I admire a few things about them

✔️their focus and determination 🎧🎧🎧

✔️Bey seems very confident in who SHE is, and didn’t allow Jays infidelity to mess with that confidence 💃🏾 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

✔️they’re both working towards ownership and generational wealth 💰💰💰

Again, I don’t know they business, nor do I want to, but I do admire those aspects of their union.

So, many of us want the success of a thriving business and a peaceful relationship. Well, there are levels to this thang. A successful relationship starts with the basics...communication, trust, and taking OWNERSHIP of the 💩 you bring into the situation.

Stay tuned for when I drop my new course “Master Your Messy” where I’ll be breaking down 📺 📺📺📺📺

👉🏾How I’ve learned to communicate my fears, pain, anger, etc. to my husband in a calm clear way 🗣🗣🗣🗣

👉🏾How I’ve dealt with my past and trust issues so it doesn’t ruin my marriage

👉🏾How I’ve addressed low confidence in my own mind so that I can see my true worth, and bring my ALL to my marriage and family 💍 ❤️❤️❤️

It’s been a LOT of growing pains over the years, but I’m determined to use my pain for y’all’s gain. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🥳🥳🥳

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X,c 😘

When you’ve been hurt and grew up seeing other people get hurt, you carry that...trauma...with you. You get into defense mode, and you become comfortable with either being hurt, or being so suspicious of people, that you never allow anyone to hurt you again.

But, if you don’t properly process your past, you’ll just keep bringing that 💩 into each new relationship.

But, what happens when you finally get with someone who is healthy, mature, and ready to really build something with you?

Will you be ready?

Many of us want a healthy relationship, but have no clue how to build one, or what to do when we see the potential of having one. Trust me I know, because I was there.

Before I got married, I had all the right answers in my head on how to build a healthy relationship. Then, I got married, and was confronted with...ME!!!! I realized at that point, there was a lot of work I needed to do, if I wanted my marriage to look different than the ones that I had seen growing up.

I created a course specifically to help people who are like I was! Lost, but wanting better. If you are
not as confident as you know you should be, and it’s impacting your relationship Struggling to trust your spouse because of hurt that you’ve experienced save this post, because in a few days I’ll be dropping my course “Master Your Messy” the MOST authentic marriage/relationship course you’ll ever take!

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X,c 😘

The struggle is so real‼️‼️‼️‼️

It’s like...how do you expect me to know what I’m supposed to do?? You ever ask yourself that question❓❓❓

Much love to our parents generation, but I don’t think that they realized how their actions, or in some cases a lack there of we’re going to impact us. Many of our parents were in survival mode, so you can’t really blame them. Check out an IG live interview that I did with my friend Jenn where we spoke about generational trauma in the black community.

But, never the less the effects are still here. Many of us really don’t know what we’re doing in life and relationships. I honestly didn’t know what I was getting myself into when I got married. I liked him, he liked me. We were both solid people, so we did what we knew to do. But, in terms of how my past would impact our marriage and how our unhealed trauma would make it difficult for us to find a way to show our love to each other...I had no idea. Because you don’t know what you don’t know, right? 🤷🏾‍♀️ 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

This is the reason I started this platform and chose to be vulnerable with y’all about my experiences. Remember to stay tuned because I will be announcing when my new course “master your messy“ will be dropping.

We deserve more as a people!!!

“No fantasies, no gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X, c 😘

Just a real question for you to consider on a Tuesday...are the things that you do day in and day out creating a better future for you, your spouse, your children, your loved ones❓❓❓❓❓

Or are you just going with the flow of life, living sloppy, and continuing toxic cycles? 🤷🏾‍♀️ 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

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I mentioned yesterday that I’m dropping a course soon, where I’ll be sharing some more personal stories about how I went from a hot mess to being in the process of mastering my mess!

Stay tuned!

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X,c 😘

Y’all ready?? 👀👀👀👀

For what you ask?? Well, it’s about that time that I provide some more focused and personal material for you all.

As I been out here in these IG streets, one thing is clear. There are people who not only see what I’m doing, but want more.

So, I’m doing my part to bring you the best of the best. The most authentic/ real life course on overcoming trust issues and a lack of confidence in relationships.
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Stay tuned because it’s dropping in just a few days. 🗓🗓🗓🗓

Thanks for each and every follower who likes, shares, and comments!! 👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾

I’ve always said my goal is healthy people, building healthy families, and healthy communities. We can only accomplish that goal one step at a time. 🪜🪜🪜

Our relationships play a HUGE role in every aspect of our lives. So, it’s time we get control of the mess in our lives, and start growing up!

This is just the beginning Fam. Lots more goods to come.

I love us for real!! ❤️❤️❤️

“No fantasies, No gimmicks, just REAL LIFE!”

X,c 😘