SoulPerspective

People in denial will also be in denial that they’re in denial.
There is no use in debating them or trying to convince them of anything. The only thing you can do is exemplify, by your behavior, that there are other options. Better-feeling choices they can make.

Make the decision that nothing in your partner’s behavior is going to be important enough that would diminish your capacity to love them.

You cannot identify with your own so-called weaknesses and expect to thrive.
Stop calling yourself names.
Pointing out your alleged shortcomings is neither cute nor helpful to you and others.
Self-deprecation, even said in jest, disempowers you. You gain nothing by making yourself less. If anything, you deprive yourself of your strength and you go against your natural inclination.

Tell yourself a different story.
Tell a different story about yourself.
Most of the things you have been taught to believe is true about yourself is crap. It comes from other people’s fears and limiting beliefs: parents, teachers, friends, books, movies, telling you that you have to fit in.
That you have to behave a certain way, their way, in order to survive.
But none of this is true.
Those stories aren’t about you. They’re about them and their fears, you don’t have to keep repeating them. Break the cycle. Have to courage to be yourself.

I am not religious, but I love churches, and sometimes, whenever I feel inspired to, I light a candle to a Saint. I like the idea of bringing one more light into the world. I’ve also done this in Buddhist temples and Hindu shrines.
This is not something I would have done when I was younger because I would let judgement get in the way of my inspiration. Now that I am older, I just follow my instinct and I don’t question it.

A sand mole thought to be extinct was “rediscovered” after 87 years in South Africa.
Humans have a tendency to declare extinct species that they can no longer see where they used to live.

Spiritual channels have long said that many animals humans believe to no longer exist are actually alive and well but have to desire to be found again.

Humans’ vibration, even when they mean well, is often one of worry and fear that wild animals do not like to be around.
Animals and the species they belong to, exist and disappear for their own reasons.
Worrying about them doesn’t help them.
Worrying about the planet doesn’t help it.
Our planet is a conscious, living, eternal, self-regulating entity, not a victim. As I’ve said many times before, you cannot love and worry about someone at the same time. It is vibrationally impossible.
If you love the earth, trust it, take care of it and think about it without worry.

The greatest mesure of change is not about what happens on the outside but how you respond to what happens.
The same challenging situation can present itself to you over and over again but as you have changed yourself, the situation does not appear challenging anymore, because you have giving it a new meaning, a new interpretation.

The gift is you.
Being yourself.
That is your contribution to the world.
That is your purpose.
Just being alive is enough evidence of your worthiness. You have nothing to prove. You just have to be yourself.
That is enough. You are enough.
Your very presence has an impact on this planet. You make a difference just by being yourself. It’s really as simple as that.

Struggling with relationships? Attracting the right partner or conflict in your current one… Please read.

This is by far, the post that resonated the most with my friends and followers. As a coach one of the topics that come up often is relationships. And my first advice is always: go back to yourself, honor your needs first. Stop looking and start attracting.

Next month I’m going to be creating a space for my community if they are struggling with attracting the right relationships or having conflict in their current one. For 30 days I will be coaching you to improve your romantic relationships, helping you remove internal barriers, and getting better about communicating your needs and desires to partners.

If you could use some coaching and connection around this issue. The first step is to join my group where I’ll be coaching you in September. Link to join is in the comments.

This is by far, the post that resonated the most with my friends and followers. As a coach one of the topics that come up often is relationships. And my first advice is always: go back to yourself, honor your needs first. Stop looking and start attracting.

Next month I’m going to be creating a space for my community if they are struggling with attracting the right relationships or having conflict in their current one. For 30 days I will be coaching you to improve your romantic relationships, helping you remove internal barriers, and getting better about communicating your needs and desires to partners.

If you could use some coaching and connection around this issue. The first step is to join my group where I’ll be coaching you in September. Link to join is in the comments.

Think of an unpleasant past as a fire. Stay away from it.
Stop burning your fingers on it.
That was then, this is NOW, and past wounds can only be healed in the NOW.

Truly awakened people do not judge those who sleep.

All your emotions are a product of your beliefs. But because you feel a certain way doesn't necessarily make it true. For instance, there is a big difference between FEELING unworthy and BEING unworthy, which is never, ever the case.
Self-limiting beliefs are just that: mental prison cells from which only YOU can free yourself.