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As an adults and educators, this also applies to us. Many of us were taught behaviorism and what we should do to kids to manage our classrooms. Practices, science, and our understanding has changed. We have to begin to examine ourselves and evaluate our own beliefs and operating systems…

That doesn’t mean that you just allow the difficult behaviours but you don’t ignore them either. Remember ignoring the behaviour will only make them feel like they have to turn up the volume to be heard. In giving our kids the attention they need we also want them to learn how to recognise their needs and express them in a more favourable way. Children will only learn this if we teach them.

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🙌Faith over fear.

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You trying to love isn’t the problem…..

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Sending this with the hopes it helps name that confusion around WHAT exactly”healing” is. Everyone’s history and goal is different. No matter what yours is, I hope it includes peace. Long, overdue peace.

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Telling your child that "everything is okay, there is nothing to worry about" or "don't be silly" is not going to help them. They want to listen to you, they wish that they could, but their brain won't let them. When we become anxious our brain and body goes into "fight/flight/freeze" mode. Quite literally the logical thinking part of our brain switches off and the emotional part of our brain takes over. It is trying to keep us alive, so it exaggerates sounds, sights and feelings to make us hyperventilate. That's why we jump at every sound when we are scared, we are ready to do what we need to do to survive. So when we try to talk to our kids about why logically they don't need to be anxious, they can't hear us. They also feel like you don't really understand, so how can they believe you if you don't understand in the first place?

More information in my book

Guidance from The Therapist Parent

Available on

https://www.thetherapistparent.com/ or Amazon

Thank you to My Waffles are Cold - A Man's Guide to Abusive Women.

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Thank you to Time 2 Love Thyself 🌸 Understanding the NARC