TherapywithJon

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The Anatomy of Consciousness - prelude to freedom from suffering Source:https://www.podbean.com/eau/pb-zaup5-169474aI talk through the logical conclusion that language (meaning) requires, consciousness and free choice, the...

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Why Blaming Child Victims is so Common Source:https://www.podbean.com/eau/pb-ctbcg-158f304I talk through the disturbing propensity for society, parents, teachers to assume that an emotionally dist...

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Emotional Expressiveness is Not Empathy - Followup to Episode 38 Source:https://www.podbean.com/eau/pb-e9azy-15db773I was inspired to do episode 38 when a particular thought occurred to me - that people confuse emotional e...

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Women are Not More Empathetic than Men - A Defense of Women as Normal Human Beings Source:https://www.podbean.com/eau/pb-99dpp-15d459fIn this near rant, I start with debunking the idea that women are more empathetic than men, but evolve int...

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Demonizing Narcissists is Narcissistic Source:https://www.podbean.com/eau/pb-kyzsz-1616034I attempt to finally fully explain how someone developes behaviors that justify labeling them as narcissis...

Demonizing Narcissists is Narcissistic - JSWonders I attempt to finally fully explain how someone developes behaviors that justify labeling them as narcissistic personality disorder. I also explain why they

Trauma Bonds - Everything You Need to Know and More - JSWonders I work my way down through trauma bond as shared experience, to trauma coping skill, down to the intricate, elegant manner in which people choose someone

How to Maximize Therapy - Goals, Intentions and Red Flags - JSWonders I talk through some of the simple ways to approach therapy that save you time, pain and money. I finish by describing some reasons people come to therapy that

What I Experience is Mine, Abuse or Not - JSWonders I talk through a metaphysical or existential fact that many of us who have suffered trauma try to make untrue, that whether fair or not, what I experience

Why Blaming Child Victims is so Common - JSWonders I talk through the disturbing propensity for society, parents, teachers to assume that an emotionally disturbed or difficult child is the problem and that

How Role-Based, Ritualized Behaviors Harm & Gaslight Others - JSWonders I go into depth about how people employ or hide behind role based or ritualized behaviors in order to abandon their responsibility for being present and

Consciousness is Love - the End of Judgement, Dysregulation and Delusion - JSWonders A followup to the conversation in Episode 28, where I raised the concept of judgment, dysregulation and separation from truth as all part of one another and

Judgment is an Expression of Dysregulation & Delusion - JSWonders I talk through how core human problems all tend to reduce down to a misunderstanding of self and reality that express in a few ways that are inextricable from

Defining Trauma - What it is and What it isn't - JSWonders Tracing the history of language and definitions around trauma and finally physiologically defining it in a way that accurately encompasses complex, violent,

When People Show You Who They Are . . . - JSWonders With a nod to Maya Angelou, when people show you who they are, believe them the first time. I talk through why people refuse to acknowledge the truth revealed

Intention: To take each situation in which I feel myself generating trauma responses and to consider what reflects the truest and healthiest version of myself, to then translate that into action and to take those actions in a conscious & loving manner.