Polyamory Geek

Hope you find this one helpful for processing your and your partner(s) communication patterns.

The Complexities Of Compatibility In Communication - Polyamory Geek Have you ever felt like you’re an excellent communicator in some situations and complete garbage in others? I started to wonder how I could feel extremely adept at communicating in some of my relationships but then feel utterly inept in others. How come all the work I’ve done on setting boundari...

I made this meme being silly. But seriously, don't do this. Take 2 seconds to share the topic of discussion. When you don't say what you want to talk about, it just looks like a power play and is manipulative.

https://polyamorygeek.com/2021/07/23/why-are-you-staying/

Why Are You Staying In That Relationship? - Polyamory Geek If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship longer than you should have because you had already invested X amount of time into it, please raise your hand. I did.  I know many of you did.  But why????? Well, we might have found ourselves stuck in the: Sunk Cost Fallacy Before I dive into the Sunk [.....

I feel like this. Every. Single. Time. 😂

*Side note: You're beautiful. ❤️*

https://polyamorygeek.com/2021/07/19/ok-but-what-even-is-a-partner/

Ok, But What Even Is A Partner? - Polyamory Geek “Yes, hi. Excuse me. How many partners do you have?” Wait. What do you mean by partners? Work partners, business partners, class project partners, dance partners, life partners, etc. There’s many kinds of partners!  Partner only has 2 definitions in the dictionary: noun either of a pair of pe...

❤️ A sense of community is one of my favorite things about polyamory. ❤️

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I made a relevant meme to follow up my most recent blog post. 😂😂😂😂

7 Months Later...

Going to try and get some more blog posts out. Get these thoughts out of my brain. That also means more memes, though. Memes are life.

Finding Compatibility In The Dense Forest of NRE - Polyamory Geek Do you remember being a kid and trying to make new friends?  If you met someone and found out you liked the same ice cream flavor or shared a favorite Power Ranger, you decided at that moment you were destined to be friends.  It was almost magical.  Since humans have thrived for thousands of year...

A little polyamory punnery to tag and/or share with your your favorite nerdy metas. 😊

Did a fun little pros and cons list of polyamory. A combination of both thoughtful and fun but definitely not meant to be taken too seriously.

I'll intend to keep adding to this as I know stuff will pop in my head. What do you think we missed?

https://polyamorygeek.com/2021/01/23/the-pros-and-cons-of-polyamory-version-1/

The Pros and Cons of Polyamory - Version 1 - Polyamory Geek Version 1 of some Polyamory Pros and Cons. Thanks to my friends who helped contribute to this. Everyone has a unique experience with polyamory so opinions on something like this will vary. Feel free to share anything you think is definitely missing!

Hey. Mean brain. Stop being mean to my friend.

Where are the facts? - Lucas🌈

I'm lucky to have a lot of hot friends. ♥️♥️♥️

💯 Guilty. 😅

Starting out 2021 with a new re-energized drive to keep my blog and page alive. Here's my first post of 2021.

I apologize in advance if this hits you in the feels.

The Box That Doesn’t Fit - Polyamory Geek Story Time! It’s 11PM and the lights are off. Taylor is laying in bed next to her partner Jordan. Taylor lays there with nothing but the darkness of night and her own thoughts. Taylor rubs her own shoulders and neck hoping to dissolve away the pain from the day. Taylor didn’t do anything differe...

Not sure if you and your partner might be Unicorn Hunters? I made this short little simple quiz to help point you in the right direction. :) Enjoy!

https://polyamorygeek.com/am-i-unicorn-hunting/

Am I Unicorn Hunting? - Polyamory Geek **Please do not refer to people as a “third”

Happy Friday All! I'm making my merch official! 15 different Polyamory inspired designs. Some subtle and some not so much 🤣🤣🤣. Something for everyone!

100% of money earned from sales will be donated to the Know Your Rights Camp - COVID Relief Fund.

TShirts, hoodies, mugs, stickers and all kinds of options.

https://www.teepublic.com/user/polyamory-geek

Also you can check out my blog at www.polyamorygeek.com

Thanks everyone!

New name and website but same content and brain! Enjoy reading about the countless mistakes I've made on my journey!

https://polyamorygeek.com/2020/10/02/giving-away-free-mistakes/

Giving Away Free Mistakes! - Polyamory Geek Since starting on my polyamorous journey I’ve made mistakes. I’ve hurt people. I’ve surely been viewed as toxic by some people. I struggle to always find the perfect balance and I still don’t get it right every time. Sometimes I have to remind myself that I’m human. I think that’s an imp...

Polyamory Geek updated their website address.

Sad truths - Lucas

This one is for all you People Pleasers out there.

Hello. My Name is Lucas. I'm a Recovering People Pleaser. - Polyamory Geek I did something a little different this time. This feels really vulnerable but I like making myself uncomfortable because that’s how we grow. 🙂 Enjoy!

Omg I just realized today how close this page is to 1000 people liking it. It's literally just where I post my memes and write down random thoughts in my blog. I'm pretty sure most of you are just here for the memes 🤣🤣🤣

So I'm at 995. Can 5 of you invite 1 friends or something? 🙈🙈🙈idk why but it feels like an arbitrary milestone that would be cool to hit. 🥳🥳🥳 - Lucas

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I know you're thinking of that giant bed or couch you saw that one time. 🤣🤣🤣 - Lucas

Hey Everyone! No more signing my posts with a rainbow. I'm tired of hiding. My name is Lucas and I appreciate all the support I get from all of you. Employers are what kept me from being open about who I was on this page. Well, no more hiding for me. I know many of you can't be "out" about being polyamorous but I hope someday you can. It's scary but also freeing being able to live authentically.

*whispers to self* please don't get fired. please don't get fired. please don't get fired. 🤢

https://omgpolyamory.com/2020/08/25/dear-current-or-future-employers/

Dear Current or Future Employers Dear Employer, My name is Lucas Weeks, I’m polyamorous and I am in love with more than one person. That’s it, the cat is officially out of the bag.  I started this blog 8 months ago and …

It was a busy week so less writing and more meme making because it takes less spoons. More memes for you all. ♥️ - 🌈

NRE is a drug you all. Be mindful on your polyamory journey because poorly managed NRE can wipe out all the rest of your relationships. Then when the NRE is gone and they leave you'll have nothing. - 🌈

Pretty much. - 🌈

Oops 🤭😬😅 - 🌈

Hey everyone! Here is another blog post that most people won't see because the alg0 only likes memes! LOL - 🌈

https://polyamorygeek.com/2020/08/13/neurodivergent-dating-in-polyamory/

Neurodivergent Dating in Polyamory - Polyamory Geek Patterns are totally my thing. I’m really good at recognizing patterns. In fact, I taught myself to play piano at a young age. Not because I’m musically inclined but because the piano keys are a beautiful pattern of black and white that make pretty sounds. I liked matching the patterns up with t...

Here's a little validation for you all. ♥️♥️♥️♥️ - 🌈

Want to get super nerdy with me for a minute? Read this.

Deprogramming Monogamy - Polyamory Geek I’ve been thinking recently about how I’m 6 years deep into learning about polyamory and living it everyday, yet, I still find myself on monogamous thought tracks. Wwwwhhhhhyyyyy?  I thought I was done with monogamy and had deprogrammed every part out of it out of my brain.  Why is it still th...

Sometimes articulating thoughts can be hard. I've made this to help you come out as polyam. Share this link with someone you want to come out to. Post this link on your social media to come out. Or copy and paste the text to make changes. I'm sharing this with all of you to use as you see fit.

I Need To Tell You Something... - Polyamory Geek Dear Person I Care About Very Much, This letter was sent to you because I need to tell you something that’s very scary to share. While these aren’t my words, this is still very much my truth. Please read this all the way through and reserve judgement until you fully understand what I’m trying ...