Silent Gays

Silent Gays

Resources and services for LGBT+ survivors of religious abuse, conversion therapy and related practices. Workshops, resources, seminars, mentoring/coaching.

The christian church, and religion in general, has built an extreme doctrine of abhorrence around the the whole issue, based on misconception, misinterpretation, mistranslation, tradition and ignorance, that has expressed itself in dogma, intolerance, bigotry and hatred. The level of pain and torment that gay people in the church have been subjected to is horrific. One of the highest su***de rate

Silent G**s, Auckland (2024) 25/07/2024

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Silent G**s, Auckland (2024) Resources and services for LGBT+ survivors of religious abuse, conversion therapy and related practices. Workshops, resources, seminars, mentoring/coaching.

25/07/2024
Good/Bad Christianity | Its Life Jim... 25/07/2024

I thought I should write something about my understanding and approach to Christians and Christianity, in light of many of my posts over the last year or so.
I DO have a habit of treading on toes lol, so here something that may help (or not 😁)

Good/Bad Christianity | Its Life Jim... Just live life to it's fullest - with love, compassion and empathy, and quietly believe whatever you want

Existential Crisis: 9 Ways to Get Through Life’s Darkest Times 21/07/2024

https://lonerwolf.com/existential-crisis/?goal=0_4b168bb5ac-77f41fe65a-99714267

Existential Crisis: 9 Ways to Get Through Life’s Darkest Times The hardest thing about going through an existential crisis is that you often feel depressed and alienated. Are you experiencing this?

New adultery, blackmail allegations concerning IHOPKC worship leaders 16/07/2024

Back in the 90s, we were really into Kevin Prosch. His worship music was incredible - so passionate and heartfelt, and it aligned with our own heart for worship music. Plus, he's an incredibly creative musician.
Misty Edwards was another worship leader with a similar heart and creativity.

But Prosch had a huge fall from grace in the 90s when it was revealed he had a "girl in every port" as he travelled the world.
And he then went on to do it all again :/

Mike Bickle (from IHOPKC) was also someone we aligned with back in our deluded cult days.

So yeah, none of this surprises me. It's a huge rabbit hole of lies and deceit, broken people pretending to be "holy" while screwing each other over under the "covering" of a cult.

This seems to be a standard formula for Pentecostal mega churches (and even small ones), and probably far more churches than we'd care to think :/

New adultery, blackmail allegations concerning IHOPKC worship leaders New accusations, including blackmail about leadership at the International House of Prayer Kansas Ci...

Lover of Men: The Untold History of Abraham Lincoln 16/07/2024

This is going to be interesting!! :P 🍿

Lover of Men: The Untold History of Abraham Lincoln Lover of Men delves into the intimate life of Abraham Lincoln, revealing his romantic relationships with men through insights from top Lincoln scholars, historical recreations, and rare photographs and letters. The film explores gender roles, s*xual identity, and American intolerance.

21/06/2024

Rules, precepts, guidelines, and commandments are training wheels for beginners. Spiritual maturity, if it can be said to exist, involves learning to accept constant change and behaving spontaneously in the moment. It's like living in freefall, only we never hit the ground.

~Richard Young

Resources for LGBTQ+ Patients With Cancer 19/06/2024

I've just added this Mesothelioma cancer support group to Silent G**s Resource page

Resources for LGBTQ+ Patients With Cancer LGBTQ+ cancer patients often have unique needs when accessing care or support. Find free cancer resources tailored to those in the community.

How Fighting the Gay, nearly Killed Me 17/06/2024

An interview I recently did with David S Ayliffe.
Thanks so much David, for your support and the amazing work you do.
Looking forward to sharing our dreams for a better world

How Fighting the Gay, nearly Killed Me Activist and LGBTIQ supporter, Jim Marjoram shares his journey of coming out as gay and his experience with conversion therapy. He discusses his deconstructi...

Is SpongeBob gay? Exploring 25 years of speculation and LGBTQ+ representation - LGBTQ Nation 03/06/2024

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2024/06/is-spongebob-gay-exploring-25-years-of-speculation-and-lgbtq-representation/

Is SpongeBob gay? Exploring 25 years of speculation and LGBTQ+ representation - LGBTQ Nation Let's explore the debate about SpongeBob's s*xuality, exploring how fans' speculations clash with the creator's original vision.

Dolly Parton - Imagine (Official) 02/06/2024

Go Dolly!

Dolly Parton - Imagine (Official) Music video by Dolly Parton performing Imagine (Official). © 2005 Dolly Recordshttp://vevo.ly/ievwxZ

A Serious Boy - Marshmellow 28/05/2024

Beautiful song from Marshmellow 💖🌈

A Serious Boy - Marshmellow Music performed, written & produced in Aotearoa / New Zealand by Marshmellow Connect and listen here:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/35yy6lXOQrQY3Y...

23/05/2024

Here's a classic Christian apologetics statement carefully deconstructed.

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23/05/2024

Tribalism (whether based on family relationships, ethnic background, religious beliefs, or your favourite sports team) and nationalism belong to earlier eras of human development. They are fear based strategies for survival that now (ironically) threaten our survival.
When will the majority of our brothers and sisters see the truth of our ONENESS, that you cannot do something to someone else without doing it to yourself first? If you can't love and accept the "others" in your life, whoever they may be, then at least do them no harm. We are all children of the same divinity, the same Father/Mother/God/Consciousness.

~Richard Young

Recovering from Religion 20/05/2024

A wonderful resource for anyone deconstructing their beliefs.
They are now also located in Australia and New Zealand!

Support links and numbers on their homepage.

Recovering from Religion Recovering from Religion provides support and resources to people coping with doubt, seeking answers about religion, and living without faith. Programs we offer include the Helpline, Local Support Groups, and The Secular Therapy Project.

06/05/2024

This is why it's time to put down the bible (and most other "holy" writings) and let it fade into the archives of history.

29/04/2024

Hey Aucklanders!
I'm looking for a venue for my Silent G**s "Coming Out of Religion" workshop.
Hopefully a casual atmosphere for around 20 people, coffee and snacks, for about a couple of hours. Reasonably central, and preferably with parking.
I need something cheap (or free 😁). I noticed there's some cafes who do free spaces if you buy their coffee etc, so that's definitely a possibility. I could charge a small fee to cover costs though.
Any suggestions??

23/04/2024

The Gay Agenda!

The Gay Agenda

The Lone Wolf, Toxic Individualism & True Individuality 21/04/2024

"The great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude."
~Waldo Emerson

The Lone Wolf, Toxic Individualism & True Individuality There is a light side to the lone wolf – the spiritual wanderer, outsider, and fringe dweller in society – but there’s also a dark side. Today, I’m going

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