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When some good or bad happens ask this key question "WHY?" You may find the answer. 😉

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What do you think about Sri Swami Satchidananda thought? Is anyone out there?... I expect that I will have people's comments on this post. (I don't want much - just an opinion). Is this creates a problem? Should I accept that there was no one who will comment on this? If I accept, I have nothing to do. BUT I can solve the problem (which comes from my expectation to have your opinion). I can find people, I can share this post, I can pay for adverisement etc...If I do this - there will be one outcome. If I accept (instead of expecting) - will be a different outcome.
Think about this - if you accept whatever comes - you will go in one direction (in Life). If you decide to meet your expectations/create a problem and solve this problem - you will go in a different direction in Life...
Which one is right?! - My answer is - everyone is right. Your Life largely is in your hands and it depends on your decisions, which can lead you to your future life.
Anyway, sometimes you can leave it to your fate, accepting what ever it comes. And watch what will happen without expectations.

Which kind of person you are? Do you believe in good fate and in your good luck? Or do you want to control and direct your Life by solving problems and reaching your expectations?...

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DAILY MOTIVATION
Reclaim responsibility of your emotions, and you'll regain your ability to regulate them.

Within last 2 years, loneliness is a massive systemic social problem due to our disconnected lives.We’re hyper connected digitally but lack true belonging and genuine human connection.
People have been lonely in the office and many will be lonelier working from home, but it’s an individual problem and solution.
'Some people are desperately lonely because of factors like their family situation, their personal beliefs or values not being “politically correct” hence they have to “hide” who they really are, geography, financial situation, type of job, level of social status, role & culture fit, fulfilment levels etc.'

How YOU feel about that today? Please, share your opinion.

Loneliness loves company | LinkedIn More than a third of Australian workers admit to feeling lonely from time to time. Is WFH giving workers a bit too much 'me' time? LinkedIn members are sharing their thoughts.

Whether we like it or not, our lives are often full of tension and stress. We try to deal with this and look for our own ways to relax, relieve stress and tension. Do you know the inner state of anxiety and worry "for no reason"? Has anyone ever educated you in this way: to be able to take care of yourself, to be filled with new energy, to get rid of stress ...Leaders, bosses, even the media in the 'modern' society/es are brought up to think and decide for others. Have you thought about this? Do we think and check for the rightness of what we are given as a norm? ... Think about it. Doesn't performing constantly without thinking lead to stress? If you want to talk about this and how we can get rid of unhealthy stress - please, contact me - by email or just call. :-)

READING FOR PARENTS
I'm trying to collect the child's scattered cubes today...

"My son is almost 19, one head taller than me, self-reliant and confident. Which allows me to talk about my mistakes in his upbringing. These revelations will not harm him, and some parents may even help.
It is generally believed that the father is the main character in the boy's upbringing. You know that's not quite the case. The mother is not at all less important, but the basic male values must be laid down by the father. I will not mention them, but the first and most important value is the attitude towards women-that is, with mom. What the boy sees first, it will form his miniature cozy universe.
Scandals
Dozens of times, my wife and I agreed not to fight in front of Timothy. It never worked. And this is a man's task, no matter who caused the quarrel. It is the man who must either avoid the quarrel, or reduce it to a slight quarrel, or postpone it by peaceful means to a place and time when the child will not see or hear the battle scenes.
But, alas. The role of a neurotic dictator is too sweet, once you start, you can't stop. At the height of the scandal, at the moment of the heady military euphoria, you don't care if there's a kid around or not. My son observed such episodes quite often, and they did not in any way alleviate his already troubled perception of the world.
He never told us anything, he's an introvert, but the model of a family in his mind took on the outlines of a stupid endless soap opera that you watch without even the TV on.
The wrong approaches
Sometimes on weekends we would go skiing with Timofey. Tima was not a sports guy at all, his legs were stuck in skis and poles, he would fall to the ground and yell at me, "Tateeeeeeeee, wait for me!“.
I threw him some snide remarks and kept going. Who knows why it seemed to me that (as I have seen in Soviet films), the boy will now shake off my contempt, in him will awaken the sports malice, he will jump and overtake me impetuous almost before the final tape. Bu****it. Nothing wakes up in today's City boys, they lie in the snow and freeze hurt and sad. And the brutal father trick only provokes hatred.
If I could go back in time and be back on the skis that day, I would go back to the fallen boy, help him up, shake him off the snow and tell him, "Don't worry, let's go slow, the important thing is that we are together...“.
Insults
A failure to tie his shoelaces caused him despair and often – a roar. I got very nervous and shouted that I didn't want anything to do with this crybaby and brawler. Sometimes my wife would reconcile us. But the joy of the day off and the walk ahead had already evaporated.
It was hard to learn the multiplication table. Very difficult. The nerves of both parents broke down, and the poor child had to listen to heavy accusations and prophecies that a job was waiting for him as a bus driver. When Tima grew up, to comments about low grades and threats that he would only be good at "spinning a pretzel," he would reply through his teeth: "yes, I really want to be a bus driver! Leave me alone!“.
I think both parents should not play accusers at the same time. Even if the child almost burned down the House experimenting with pyroeffects. This is not a multiplication table. One must be a lawyer. "Calm down, both of you. He didn't want to set the house on fire, he just studied the features of the fire, right, son?“.
For a child, the world is all insults and fears, and when the two people closest to him are hanging over him like executioners, he has nowhere to hide, panics and feels bad.
Loud and constant reproof
He often changed his passions and gave in to other people's passions. For example, someone in the class is collecting strollers – come on, and ours starts too. Or someone draws graffiti-immediately and he decides to do it. Each such infatuation lasted no more than 6 months.
For me, it was an occasion for at least a hundred years to groan that he could not concentrate on anything, that he changed his interests and flew here and there like a butterfly without keeping his attention long on one thing. That he should finally choose one thing and dedicate his life to it...
In short-a terribly annoying paternal whine, which leads to only one thing – the child is either afraid to give his preference to something new, or he hides his new passion from the parents.
And Tim was getting more and more closed. "Let me see what you're doing?"I asked when I saw him painting. "Nothing!"Tima answered resolutely, covering first the white sheet of paper and then the computer monitor. And no kind words could force him to share his boyish secrets.
Drunkenness
And here's my main problem, and grief, and pain, and a heavy memory. When Timka was growing up, I drank a lot. At least twice a week I overdid it and fell into my cheerful States of endless intoxication. I played the music to hell. When he was little, I thought that the child did not understand anything, that he did not hear, and probably was already asleep. Nothing like that!
He saw everything, understood everything. You told me that when I grew up. My daughter confirmed that she woke up to the noise I made in a drunken state and admitted that she had nightmares afterwards. And in the morning, a hungover father is not the most attractive sight... Another wasted day, missed, wasted.
Repentance
But these are vain reflections, which may be useful for justification and psychological comfort: behold, I have already repented! But by the time I was on my way to repentance and my ridiculous pedagogical discoveries, my son had already grown up.
And it seemed to me that for a long time he would sit on the floor and build towers out of his cubes. And that I would have time to recover, to get better, to get out of the hangover, to sit next to him on the floor and lift up from the cubes.
the tallest tower in the world. The cubes fell apart. It's late.…
And Timothy grew up a good man. He's always ready to help his deluded father. Someone else would say, " You know what? Remember how you got drunk, how you yelled at me for nothing. I don't want to see you at all.“ He forgave me everything... He's enjoying my new life with my second wife and his natural sister Kira.
I look at it and think, something has gone wrong in nature.
He was supposed to be my father, patient and generous.
Tima works in television and his bosses can't praise him for how responsible, serious and reasonable he is. I call him three times a day and ask him where he is and if he is hungry. He's like, " Dad, stop calling me every hour.“
To endure. I won't stop. Because I'm trying to pick up the long-lost and messy cubes...
Source: "Magazine 8" - Aleksei Beliakov /Photo: Pexels.com

Опитвам днес да събера разпилените кубчета на детето… До болка откровено покаяние на един баща, прозрял грешките и потърсил нов път към сина си

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I believe "I believe in the unbearable lightness of life. I believe in love even during cholera. I believe in three comrades. I believe in the meaning of life even after a hundred years of loneliness. I believe that everyone can achieve their dreams, even if they are a lone long-distance runner. I believe in....

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"The need for closeness, warmth and touch is the driving energy of our civilization. Sometimes their absence gives birth to monsters, many times wonderful literature and empathy. The pursuit of them is inherent in every human being from birth and our greatest duty is to give them. always. Nothing is more important than the feeling of being loved. Loving is a duty. And often pain. Giving up our love, closeness and trust, we become vulnerable. But that makes us almost gods. "

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For the last 20 years, time management has been one of the most discussed topics among us, as well as the most dominant for self-help in books, articles, seminars and websites. Many people are frustrated because they feel they don't have enough hours during the day to do the things they really need to do. More and more unimportant things are eating up their time and yet they fail to change that. As a result, they lose or sink into everyday life or the world of trifles more and more.
These people may be lagging behind in their work or investing many more hours because they are unable to meet their goals during the standard workday. The phone rings too much; they are drowning in emails, or give away too much to finish work so that they can sit for a while in front of the TV or home computer.
Of course, there is a solution to this constant carousel that leads to fatigue, exhaustion, dissatisfaction, and sometimes loss of health, and I could help my clients find it.
Find out how you spend your time and what to do to have time for you, your loved ones and children, for rest, for sleep, for work. The first session is free. Email: [email protected] or just call me

The sessions are individual or group (3-7 people).
Prices - negotiable (for group sessions - with a discount from the price).

'The bad news is that time flies. The good thing is that you are the pilot.'(M. Altshuler)